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Archived questions from: 19 August, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

I've lost my bestfriend and boyfriend. How do I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - my best friend dated this guy for 6 months and I don't know how they lasted that long because she didn't treat him the way he shouldve. when they broke up they both got over it within a week. he late told me that he had liked me all year even when ...

My ex got back in contact now hes backed off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - I'm really confused:( My ex finished with me last month and I cut off all contact because I heard it was the best thing to do if I really wanted him back. Last week he initiated contact with me again and was telling me he loved me, missed me, etc ...

Is she still in mourning, or is it over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5368 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - My girl has been acting differently for the past two weeks or so. She's 30, I'm 28. We met in church years ago, she was dating a guy I went to high school with back then (he's actually getting married in three weeks). We've been dating for 10 months ...

How can I convince her to forgive me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5338 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - hi all, got an issue , if you could drop in a suggestion. I have broken the trust of a close one a close friend.for namesake its friendship , but i love her and its not the other way round. she was into a relationship but had broken up and ...

How do I cope with this break from my boyfriend? Does this mean we're over?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5369 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - Ok my boyfriend just asked for a break! it sucks!! It came up all of a sudden for me. We arent seeing other people which im really really happy about but this hurts!! He wants No communication between us. he decided to have this break and when it ...

What do you do when you feel all alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - ok so basically i broke up with my partner because i wanted to be single,this was 2 weeks ago. at first it was good because i was out with mates and having fun. now they have all found gfs and now im all alone. i guess the saying be careful what ...

Should I follow my instincts or should I stay with him for our kids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - Hi I'm 22 yrs old and I'm married I have two little boys. I'm not happy in my marriage, my husband has disappoint me a lot. We've bee together for 4 yrs and we jump into getting married. When I got pregnant with our first baby he said he would ...

I've decided to end our marriage but I'm concerned about the effect it will have on our children, should I wait until they are older?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5365 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - I posted a letter last week saying that my wife finally confessed to her affair after i had a mental breakdown. I want to thank you all for your advise in particular to the lady that said i should have a reality check. I know in my heart that ...

Should I move on or should I wait for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - Hey, Well I was going out withh my girlfriend for around 19 months. Things were good, except at the end I guess it got kinda bland ? Aruge over shit things. Anyway, we / she decided we should break up and stay friends for a bit. Problem is howev...

Was he just testing the waters to see if he still wanted me in his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me last month and it became very messy. I have been devastated but I cut contact with him because I heard it was the best thing to do if I ever wanted him back. Last week he got in contact with me and was telling me that ...

I feel like I am always the bad guy in our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (M) - hey guys its been awhile. my girlfriend just recently dumped me just cuz i told her there was a few things that made me uncomfortable. like when i was teasing with her she uses a knife on me as a joke, personally i think she went too far, but she ...

Is it love or passion? I am confused!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5365 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - well i dated a guy for a year and he broke up with me because i cheated on him with a cousin, i found another guy that i tend to love as well but am not too sure of whether he really want me as a long term material. the thing is ,my ex boyfriend was ...

How do I cope with these mixed feelings? He was abusive towards me but I still hate the idea of him being with someone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5359 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - Hi. I just got out of an abusive relationship and I am consumed with lots of mixed emotions and I'm just looking for some guidance and advice. Above all I want to understand why I still have feelings for him. He is acting so nonchalant about the ...

He broke up with me and yet he still treats me like his girlfriend!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5371 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - My bf and I just broke up. He is the one who ended it. He said it wouldnt work because we are too different- fair enough, I understand that. Mind you though, I think it has more to do with the fact that he wasnt willing to wait for sex any longer. I ...

Do you think my ex still has feelings for me?

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19 August 2009 (F) - i have been broke up with my ex for about two years now my heart is still heavy when i see him my heart beat fast but i cant understand why? he always say you still crazy with a big smile? and when he see me from afar he look at me real hard ? do ...

In love with my friend for 10 years, but he's attached and I don't know what to do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5372 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - I am in love, and I don't know what to do about it. Now, this might seem like a bit of a lovey dovey statement, and I am sure, you think I've got some silly crush - I'm 26 years old, I know what they are and this certainly isn't it. I have known...

I don't know what to do. I love him, I think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - I'm so confused. After 4 years of staying true to one person it seems pointless. I have been in love with one person for the past four years and I just recently told him. He said I kinda like you and I have thought about you a lot. I do feel ...