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Archived questions from: 13 August, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

At what point should you give up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - Everyone goes through heart breaks-it's part of life. Many recover and move on and each takes their own time and healing process. OK that's the theory but in real life, with each heart break comes another layer of protection. Any new relatio...

I love my boyfriend, but I need to leave him. How do I hurt him as little as possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for three years and we've lived together for most of that time. We've had our ups and downs, but the biggest problems are that he's sterile (which I've known about but I'm starting to really want kids), he can be overly ...

If she wants her ex and has no feelings for me, then why is it complicated

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Heres the low down. Was with my girlfriend for nearly a year, she was moving to australia and we still stayed together long distance. She split up with me around 6 weeks ago, completely out of the blue telling me she didnt love me anymore, then i ...

Pregant with my ex's child. Do I keep my hopes up that he'll eventually come around?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - My ex and I ended the relationship in 5/16, I found out two weeks ago I was 14 1/2 weeks pregnant, I am now 17 weeks. I made him aware and he has only contacted me to offer to pay for the abortion. Hes ben stationed out of town and will be returning ...

He caught me red-handed, cheating, I treated him badly and dumped him, but he still wants me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

13 August 2009 (?) - I had a short lived relationship with this may, who has been a childhood friend. He wanted marriage and i agreed to it, though i wasnt realy sure. I hurt his feelings badly. I cheated on him several times and he cought me with condoms and hotel ...

Will she resent me for my stance on smoking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for nearly a year now. After several weeks of dating she left for winter break. At some point over the break she told me she had a confession - she was a smoker but was trying to quit. I am staunchly opposed to ...

Is she messing around on me or am I just being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5378 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - I've been with this girl for about a year and a half. We have broken up a couple of times and have always gotten back together. She has always seemed just soooo into me, I know she is/was. Well the past few months I have just been suspicio...

I love two guys and it doesn't feel good!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - At the beginning of this year I got into a relationship with a boy i'd liked for ages, we lasted five months and througought that he cheated on me three times and put us on a break for two weeks, i broke up with him in june and the only reason i ...

I'm really upset about our breakup, but my ex doesn't seem to care!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - I recently split up with my girlfriend and whilst I'm really upset about it, she doesn't seem to care. We were together for a year so it was obviously an important relationship. She just goes out partying all the time and hasn't even called me to ...

I was dating a 30 year old and got my heart broken

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5379 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Okay i was dating someone and hes 12 years older then me and before we got together he had a girlfriend but he says he broke up with her for me but because hes a good guy he was taking her back to her home in IL and is gonna stay 6 months to 24 ...

What is wrong with me? I cannot commit to anything, even my amazing girlfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

13 August 2009 (M) - Hi. I'm 19 years old and i'm completely lost with what im doing with my relationship life. I've been dating a woman who is in my eyes a very unique "one-of-a-kind" person that i admire very much. She doesn't believe in hooking up with people unless ...

Problems with my ex bf, he isnt over me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Ok I was going out with this guy for a around 7 months and i was mad about him at the start but things got a little boring near the end. I wanted to move on and I deciding to break up with him and he was heartbroken as I was his first love. But I ...

Fighting my feelings for my ex....I cant seem to let go of him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5377 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Me and my ex broke up about a month ago. i broke up with him because i couldnt take the stress that was constantly going on between us, he agreed that its probably the best thing for us and we decided to remain good friends. lately i've been ...

Am I pathetic for hoping? Or should I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4549 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Hi all, was hoping for some advice or suggestions on my recent break up and whether you think it is completely doomed or whether there's a chance and how i can possibly make the ex b/f come around... Basically i knew this guy for several yrs and ...

Should I have given it more time to regain trust in him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5378 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - I dated this guy for about 2 1/2 years and he broke up with me after a long night of fighting. We had a lot of problems with his drinking and anger. We recently started talking again after 7 months of being apart and we basically started right back ...