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Archived questions from: 10 August, 2009 (see latest in Breaking up category)

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Breaking up: Help and advice

He dumped me because apparently, I didn't communicate enough! Is this a good enough reason?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I'm not quiet sure of what my question is but was hoping some people can shed some light on this scenario so i can understand things better to move on. recently a boyfriend of 3 1/2 months broke it off with me, out of the blue. it has been the best...

Break up after 7 years...will I ever get over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5377 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - ive just finished with the love of my life of 7 years, my question is how do i get over this? will i ever stop thinking about him? should i stop all contact as we still talk online ...

Is there a way to cope with continuous rejection by guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - is there any answer to continuous rejection.guys don't like me no matter what i do .i need help please. can some one anwers my question its really up setting me i never had first boyfriend and let first kiss.guys just continuous hurt me and i...

We broke up and I'm lost without him! Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - i just broke up with my boyfriend yesterday and i truely thought we had something special. he told me we'd be together forever and he even knew when he was gonna propse. im lost without him, i know it sounds stupid but i just really need someone to ...

He's dumped me twice before and now again! How do I get things back on track?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 6 years has just broke up with me due to alot of problems. He's now saying he doesn't have enough feelings to be in the relationship with me. He's done this twice before so how do i get things back on track?...

I have been left heartbroken and I can't funtion! What shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Hey. My boyfriend has recently broke my heart. I started a new job about 6 months ago and there was this guy that worked there that I got on really well with. As the months went by we started gettin really close. Two months after I sta...

What's this guy up to? It's like he wants me to NOT like him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - me and sam were together for six months but then he started to argue with me for me to not to like him no more. i told him how he was carrying on but said he dont know why this happens to him so he decides that he dont want to hurt me. so we become ...

Please tell me how to get over this breakup...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5374 days ago

10 August 2009 (M) - Hello everybody my name is alex and i am 22 years old, and im on here because i seriously need help with my situation i have talked to many people many friends but i feel like i need the outside of this world for help,and i need to get this of my ch...

My married lover went back to his wife when he said he wouldn't!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I'm in love with a married man. he was thrown out of his home on several occasions. 4 out 7 times he came to live with me. so the last time he said to me he wasn't going back. he did!!! I'm so hurt over it but knows I got to move on ! please help me ...

Don't know what to do with myself after this breakup

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - So I recently broke up wit my boyfriend. We were together 2 months. Not a long time but I felt we had a very good connection. I got introduced to his family and he was introduced to mine. I only really seen him twice a week in the end. But one day ...

Stick around? Stop talking? or move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and half and I resently broke up. Neither he nor I have told anyone of the breakup. Is hard for me to believe it happen. He says he wants to take me back but I need to change because I annoy him too much. He is also talking to ...

I have no idea what goes on in my head. Any insight?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - What is wrong with me???? I don't understand it. Ever since me and my ex broke up, which was 3 years ago, I have been wanting someone I can have something special with. To have true and real love and someone who will love me who I can love back....

How do I tell him that I need some more time without hurting him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5363 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - About a week ago I dumped my boyfriend of two years. It was the hardest thing I've ever done and I never want to go through that again. The reason that it was so hard is because I do love him, and I still love him. He is my best friend hands down. I ...

Is it possible to wait for my husband to get over his midlife crisis and create a loving relationship with him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5375 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Is it midlife crisis or narcissism? My now ex husband of 19y had an affair with a coworker, refused to end it, divorced me, left me with our 6 children to move out of state and marry his pregnant gf. He financially supports our children, but for ...

How can I stop wanting him back so much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I was in a relationship for close to a year. It was long distance, but we were making plans to move in with each other and my boyfriend had proposed. I accepted his proposal and we were happy. Being 18 and a senior in high school I could not go down ...

He hasn't seen his "girlfriend" since May last year, but he still wont break up with her!

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10 August 2009 (F) - I have this major problem with a guy at my work. I have never met someone who is so easy to talk to and we have really in depth conversations, he's like my best friend. Of course, naturally I developed a crush on him, although now I would describe ...

I've been left broken hearted... do I stay at his place as 'friends' or leave?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5380 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Hey all from broken heart, Yesterday my boyfriend broke up with me , and he clarified to me that he doesn’t want me anymore, I live in his place since 8 months He told me to move , I am destroyed , exhausted , dying , Today I talked to him ...

How do I stop wishing he would come back to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I graduated high school two months ago, and though we're not going to the same college, we had never really discussed what was going to happen with our relationship this fall. We're both virgins, and recently he started pressuring ...

Should I get involved in a FWB relationship with my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I just broke up with my child's father. The best thing in our relationship was sex. It was awesome. There was never a time when it wasn't good. We've been broken up for a month and have had sex twice. It would have been more than that, but a few ...

Just out of a bad relationship and this other guy wants to date me. How do I tell him...I'm not ready!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - I just got out of a tumultuous relationship with my child's father. I don't want to be in another relationship right away. I just want to hang out, mostly by myself, go back to school, take care of my girls and just get a grip on life. But my ...

Met another guy..how do I tell my current bf I want a break?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I met J online 7 years ago and we became friends. After two years of emails, letters and phone calls, he confessed his feelings for me. I did have feeling for J too at that time. We've been together for 5 years now and have met each ot...

After dating, this younger fellow,he tells me he wants to be with a woman closer to his age! Advise appreciated

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5379 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - 3 months ago I met a lovely man and we had an almost instant connection. We shared the same intellectual level, and revelled in each others company. Our friendship deepened and we became intimate. The big problem was that he is 50 and I am a young ...

Why is my ex bf making contact after five months?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - So I dated this guy I was totally crazy about for three or four months. We broke up because he "wouldn't commit" because he claimed he was too busy and felt like he shouldn't get involved in something serious because he will need to move to complete ...

His ex gf is trying to break us up and I'm upset! Am I wrong to feel this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5382 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year. His best friend is a girl. They dated before, but it didn't work out. She is still in love with him, and she even admits to it. She is always trying to start things and break us up. She is always ...

We get in fights all the time and don't have anything in common. what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5381 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Well.....everytime me n my ex BF Jon break up and we r friends in the beginning of the friendship but then later we'll get in fights a bout somthing stupid and idk why we always get in fights with each other after we break up.....it seems like the ...

How can I put our relationship back on track?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5382 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Hi i split up with my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. we met up for the first time tonight and discussed our relationship. he told me that he deffinatley wants to see me again and that he wants to take it slow. i said to him that i feel like part of ...

Does my ex really love his new girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5271 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Ok, well I'm new here. 6 months ago my heart was broken by a man I loved with all my heart. We had been arguing a bit more than usual, but we always got through it and he was as loving as ever, so it was a real surprise when he left me saying he ...