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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Is my guy who's 12 yrs younger than me not ready to settle down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - I feel too jealous and it bothers me. My bf is 12 yrs younger than me, im 33. he has a cute face and there are always girls come to him and he enjoys that feeling being liked by others,he usually doesnt tell them in the first place that he has a ...

Legal in England for a 17 yr old girl to live with her bf, aged 21?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 226 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - HIYA, IS IT LEGAL IN ENGLAND FOR A 17 YEAR OLD GIRL TO LIVE WITH HER 21 YEAR OLD BOYFRIEND WITHOUT HER PARENTAL permission? [Note: caps off pls]...

I'm 60, he's 35! Can it work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - I am a 60 years old womam (seems much younger than my real age). Six or severn months age, I came across a 35 years old man on a agegap dating site, agelessfriends.com . we are very much in love after one-month's close commnunication. He's a lovely ...

Will his girlfriends think I'm immature?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm in an age gap relationship. I am 18, and my boyfriend is in his 20s. Everything is wonderful so far, we've been dating for about 7 months. I've met his family, he's met mine, he's met my friends, everyone gets along, wo...

23 years age gap. I don't care about me, but of my boyfriend's reputation. Please advise.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I'm having a relationship with an older man, there is a 23 year age gap but we are both very comfortable with each other and we're very happy together. My problem is that im worried that people may think bad of us, not many people know of our rela...

I have a crush on my Music Producer. Is it worth pursuing him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I am a small-time musician and I have a seriously intense crush on my producer, who is in a (very) long distance relationship. He's 31 and I'm 19. Are there too many reasons not to pursue him, or should I just go for it? He sends obvious vibes ...

Big Age Gap

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - I have feelings for a female at work,but I am 52 and she is 29.Is this too much of an age difference? How would I tell if there is any interest on her part?...

Is this too much of a difference... ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I just moved away from home to go to university: first year student. I am 18 and have started recently going on dates with a man who is 27.. I have always dated older guys, however, not with this much of a difference. I do not have an issue, but ...

He's the best bf I've dated, but I can't get over our 2 year age gap!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid i have a boyfriend who is 2 years younger then me. im not really comfortable with that age gap but he always make sure we don't let that come between us. out of all the guys i'v dated, he tops them all and he always remains me of his...

I cry b/c I know I can't have him; if love is so great, then why do I feel pain and suffering?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

28 September 2007 (F) - I know this might seem strange, but I think I'm in love, even though I'm 15. The guy that I love just turned 18. I like him for who he is, not because he's Mr. Whatever. I would take care of him; I would do whatever I could to help him. Every night, ...

I want to make sure my teacher doesn't get into trouble before I make steps towards a relationship?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Will my teacher get into trouble if we have a relationship? I'm 18 and my teacher is right out of university he's 23. I'v always dated older men but this is different. He is a teacher at my school. I really like but i don't know how he feels I c...

How can I tell my family of my relationship with an older man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - Im in love with an older man but know my family would disagree with the relationship, how can i tell them?...

I am 17 and have been cheating on my boyfriend with a 31 year old

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - i am 17 and have been with my boyfriend also 17 for 3years, my feelings have changed and i love someone else. i have recently been seeing a man of 31, he is lovely and doesnt seem his age. i work with him and have stayed over his house 6 times ...

I am kind of seeing my married, older boss and want to take it further, sexually

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 22 days ago

27 September 2007 (F) - My boss at work flirts with me a lot and I know he likes me and I like him. But hes married with a kid. He is not married to the mother of his daughter tho, but he is married. We have made out and fooled around a little. I know that if we went any ...

Should we have a baby? I'm 19, he's 28

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 September 2007 (F) - I think I want a baby, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. we get on well some of the time and we have discussed it before. how do I know if its right or not? Im nearly 19 and he is 28. ...

Joined a guitar class, does this guy like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

25 September 2007 (F) - recently, i joined a guitar class. there is this guy i think i like. he is 4 years older than me (17 yrs old this yr) and in polytecnic. he likes the clerk at the centre. i dont want to tell him i like him because i am scared he will not like me and ...

Could my son be gay? He has an odd friendship with a (much) older man...

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

25 September 2007 (M) - My 17 year old son has befriended a 58 year old man. He visits him every week and stays all day says he has a bbq and a few drinks. He says he finds he can talk to the man easier than talking to me or his mother. He receives a lot of gifts some exp...

I know its wrong, (shes my teacher!)but I am going to win her back!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

23 September 2007 (M) - I know we did wrong but please help me get her back, im 16 now! I cant stop thinking about this teacher. Me n my teacher got on really well then one day we kissed. From then on we kept seeing each other n planned to meet out of school but that ...

I'm interested in a man unsure about the age difference between us. He's nearly 21 and I'm 17.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - I have been interested with this 20 yr old guy for a while, and when we were talking the other day he said he liked me but he was unsure about the age difference. hes turning 21 3 months before i turn 18 and he thinks its weird. i told him i have no ...

My bf has had a vasectomy and I want a baby, what should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - my boyfriend has had a vasectomy and i want a baby we've been together 3 years and have talked about marriage, etc, what should i do? he is 41 i am 31...

Is he in it for sex, as his words when he was drunk made me believe/doubt?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 286 days ago

21 September 2007 (F) - I am 19 years old and the guy I started seeing is 24. We come from completely different sides of the 'spectrum', so to speak. He is the sweetest most beautiful person I've met, inside and out. We connected like puzzle pieces and have the same ...

I am 18, she is 15. Is it ok to date her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 185 days ago

20 September 2007 (M) - I've recently left my old job of which I got quite close to another person who worked there. I'm 18 but she is still 15, is it wrong if I try to make something happen- not having sex; but just having a good time together?...

My friends don't approve of my older boyfriend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - ok so im 15 and going out with a 21 year old. everythings fine except my friends are being really annoying about how its wrong. what bothers me the most is my best friend is getting pissed off and hes always like dont even mention your bf anymore ...

I initiated a text and now worry he lost interest as he didnt have to chase me as much

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - Hi Recently met a guy who is 27. I am 19. He asked for my number and did text me in the first week, nearly every day (I let him text me first). After talking to a friend, she suggested that I text him first for once or he will think I'm not in...

I am so confused as the whether I want a commitment and children or I just want to have fun

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - I am a 26-year old female who has been with her boyfriend for nearly 3 years.We met through work and he is 11 years older than me. Although I love him very much I don't know whether he is the 'one'. We don't have a connection or 'spark' that people ...

He's older than me, when do men lose their sex drive? And what does he mean by 'not putting all his eggs in one baske't?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - what age do men loose there sex drives. I'm worryed this, and his age may affect us in the furture..And do men become impotant has they got older? When im 25 he will be 50.He looks about 25, but in the end the body and its funcations will slow down ...

What could I do to get him to open up to me and feel more comfortable with the age difference?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - I'm a seventeen year old girl and I have a major crush on a 23 year old guy. He's shy and is a very private person, and I've been trying to slowly get him out of his shell and talk to him. I have him as one of my friends on myspace, and I've...

Is he a cheater, should I dump him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 57 days ago

20 September 2007 (F) - Is he a cheater, should i dump him? i want to first start out by saying i have been cheated on in the past and i think the cheating may be my problem now..?? so this is my problem, my boyfriend and i have been togther for 6 months, before...

Is there any way that I can help my friend, who is dating someone much older?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 282 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - Am worried bout my friend shes 16 and has been spending alot of time with an older man hes 48 - thts older thn my dad!! few months ago her parents found out - she was still 15 then anyways they contacted the police n he was gunna b done for b...

My step father pushed me into having sex, should I tell my mother? It could give her the strength to leave him.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - I have a serious question that needs your opinion. Was I raped or sexualy abused by my step father? It started when I was 15. He and my mother were dating for just a few months at the time and he sorta slept over alot. One day It snowed so much ...

I thought that pleasing him was the only way to make him love me, but now I want out because he used me. Could he change?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 283 days ago

19 September 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, I recently turned 18 and i have a big problem and i am looking for some advice. i have been having sex with this 24year old guy since i am 15years old. I recently got pregnant and my mom forced me to have an abortion...

Do I leave for a couple weeks, a month, permanetly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

18 September 2007 (F) - Good day. I am in a committed, generally speaking, good working relationship, going on 3 years-living together for 2 1/2 years. We share a dog, I have 2 cats, he has a bird (we cannot have human children). We are both recovering addicts for 4 ...

My only problem with him is that he is Hindu, while I'm Muslim

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - i am 15 and will be 16 in oct but he is 22 and will turn 23 in nov and i love him but we have many differences age differnce, religion differnce, country, lifestyle and time i cant hurt my parents but i cant hurt him either i am muslim and he is a ...

I'm 18 and he's 28, am I wasting my time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - I'm 18, and he's 28. What would you think of dating an 18 year old if you were 28? Im from England and he's from america, so we have a real cultural difference in that we have more freedom at 18 in england than over here. I think he likes me but in ...

My best friend is 17 and her guy is 53! Do I support her?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - one of my best friends is 17, 18really soon and shes been seeing this guy for about five months, they're havingsex and everything, theyve said "i love you" and when shes told her parents theyre moving in together. He's a really nice guy and hes not ...

My family are against mine and my man's age difference... How can I talk to them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 260 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - how do I talk to my family? I'm 19 (almost 20) and have been seeing a man who is 36 on and off for about a year now. He has an ex-wife and a 5-year-old son who is the most adorable child in the world who both live in another state. About 5 m...

How do I talk to my family about mine and my boyfriends age difference?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 285 days ago

17 September 2007 (F) - Age gap relationships - how do I talk to my family? I'm 19 (almost 20) and have been seeing a man who is 36 on and off for about a year now. He has an ex-wife and a 5-year-old son who is the most adorable child in the world who both live in ano...

He's older, messes around with me and looks out for me. Should I date him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - Hi, i really need some advice. i really like this guy i work with. hes much older than me (15 years), and i need help finding out if he likes me too. he always messes around with me ang plays little games. He looks out for me too. what do you think?...

I'm in love with the new teacher, he dropped loads of hints and kissed me at lunch. What if the school finds out?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 177 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - a new teacher started working at my school about 1 year ago. even since he first spoke to me, i have fallen for him. (i know i must sound crazy but i really do like him!) the thing is, he has started liking me back! he has dropped loads of hint...

I like older guys. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 292 days ago

16 September 2007 (F) - Should I give one of my guy friends a chance? Earlier today I recieved a call from a friend of mine asking if i liked anyone at school. I said no. I'm into older guys in their 20's most of the time, and she knows that. (I'm 17, 18 in Feb) Appar...

I like this guy, he says he likes me... But we have SO many problems revolving around our relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 291 days ago

15 September 2007 (F) - i am 15 and will be 16 in oct but he is 22 and will turn 23 in nov and i love him but we have many differences age differnce, religion differnce, country, lifestyle and time i cant hurt my parents but i cant hurt him either i am muslim and he is a ...

I'm a complete wreck here and don't know what to do for the best.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

13 September 2007 (M) - Hello again Dear Cupid and all of the Agony Aunts (and uncles I guess) =D I'm sure that the last relationship problem I had was the last time I was on here. We broke up because I walked in on my own home and found her in bed with another 1 year a...

I lied about my age and our relationship is getting really serious! What do I do??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 287 days ago

13 September 2007 (F) - okay let me start like this amd my boyfriend started dateing 5 months ago and i lied about my age and he is about to be 17 and im 3 years younger then him but we are like really serious about our realtionship and i dont know what to do ...

I'm 15, he's 18. I'm nt making any moves on him, but I like him so much that it's killing me! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

12 September 2007 (F) - okay well my problem is iv recently fallen in love with this guy of 18 (im 15) iv known him all my life but iv recently developed strong feelings towards him, more than iv ever had for anyone before. i know there is a big age gap, so am not making a...

I'm in a sexual relationship and I feel like an amateure compared to him. Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 294 days ago

12 September 2007 (F) - i am in a sexual relationship and although the age difference isn't that big he has been in more relationships wich make him more experianced im not saying its a bad thing the sex is amazing but i feel inadequate to him and ive asked him what he ...

I'm 24, she's 53. Most of her children are older than me and they accept me, but will this really work?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 260 days ago

12 September 2007 (M) - Can an age gap relationship work? I am 24 and she 53. I lover her very much and have fantastic sex together. The thing is I sometimes worry that the relationship will not last, even though we are living together and talking about marriage. The re...

I am really falling for this guy and its messing up my schoolwork.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 296 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - well my prob is: iv known this guy really well for quite a long time now and we've always been really close, i tell him everything and he always helps me and is there for me. the problem is i am now starting to fall for him really bad, i cant get ...

He has no self control when in comes to "checking out" other women, although says he loves me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 297 days ago

11 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is allways checking out other women mostly ones with large breasts and butts when he is with me. ( i wounder what he does when i;m not there). there is looking and then there is pathetic constant gawking! I fell emberraced and also ...

He talks about marriage but hes older than me and doesn't have any money?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 298 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - i am a women who is 24, and i am single. but there is the man who is busy telling me he loves me. sometimes i think i love him too, but there is only one problem with him. he doesnt have money. not that im looking for his money but his is so old, he ...

He is also a dancer on cruise ships but I am thinking of going back to school, I'm 20, while he wants to start a business in mexico and take me with him! Should we stay together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 298 days ago

10 September 2007 (F) - I have a problem. i am in a relatinship with a very nice kind and genuine guy. we've already been together for a year! the trouble is he is 38yrs and i am 20yrs. i love being with him, he's everything i ever wanted in a guy! but it gets deeper. ...