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Archived questions from: February, 2010 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

What should I do about my feelings for this older man that works at my school?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - okay this is going to sound crazy but im 16 about to be 17 and im in love with a 30 year old. and trust me when i say that is not the worst part. he works at my school so i see him every day. he is the first person to give me that gut feeling your ...

I love "IT" he literally hates "IT"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5164 days ago

26 February 2010 (F) - okay i'm 19 and i married a 30 year old.(yea i know i'm crazy). but as a child i was sexually abused for 10 years strait and now i can't go a day with out getting off at least once. now here is the problem my husband has literally told me that he ...

She lied to me about her age...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5172 days ago

26 February 2010 (M) - In September i travelled to Thailand, and met a Thai girl who is 28 (im 22) and the chemistry was there right away i spent the 12 days of my holiday with her and fell in love. A lot of people get perceptions of thai girls who want money and move ...

Should I fight for an older man who has a child on the way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

25 February 2010 (F) - hello...im having a hard time and i need advice..im a 17year old girl and i started meeting this man who is 29 ...he started to really like me and i really like him but i dont know about the age difference...no body knows about me and him because ...

I'm 15 and want to know what will happen now...if I do happen to be pregnant?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

23 February 2010 (F) - i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 21, we have been good mates for about ten years. we have now been going out for 3 months, and i think i am pregnant. what will happen if i keep the baby? please help me ...

I'm really confused. does he like me or is he just flirting to seem cool in front of other people

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5162 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - Heyy, im 16 and there's this 26 yr old on a place i always go on holiday. he always flirts so much with me when people are around and offers sex and all that as a joke, and to be honest i love the attention, in fact ive fallen for him. one night wh...

What else can I do to win her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4845 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Hi everyone, sorry this is a long one ! I recently had an issue with my girlfriend. I came home one night and she asked me to move out as it was her house. We had been together for 9 months and lived together for most of that time as well. I'm 27 ...

What could be the reason for his non-commitment?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

22 February 2010 (F) - i been dating this guy for a few months and we get along great he is a Libra and i am a Gemini, the problem is he claims he been hurt very bad in the past so he wants to take things slow, but he says he wants to be with me and calls me his ...

Any advice on how I might go about this and possibly take this girl out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5163 days ago

22 February 2010 (M) - Alright, so there's this chick that I work with. I'm always talking to her when we work together, and we get along pretty well, but we've never really gotten to a very personal level, it's mostly just small talk. She's 5 or 6 years older than me ...

Strong attraction for a married family friend who is older than 10 years. Please help.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

21 February 2010 (M) - Hello.... Hoping for some genuine suggestions and advice. I am 24 and I live in the UK. One of my very good family friend is in her early 30s. 33-35. She is married and has a daughter of 6. She is very beautiful, attractive, sweet and yes, sometim...

Am I too young for a 17 year old boy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5173 days ago

21 February 2010 (F) - Im 14 year old girl and I like a 17 year old guy and he says he likes me but says I'm too young. Am I too young?...

This man makes me feel useless! Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

20 February 2010 (F) - Ok so this is kinda long winded so bear with me on this. Bout 2wks I put a post on this site az iv been with my boyfriend 7yr living with him for 5yr just got engaged this xmas eve just gone. We have our arguments problems etc just like all ...

Sex has ruined our friendship. Can we ever get back to how it was before?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5181 days ago

19 February 2010 (F) - I began dating a man I've known for 30 years. He is my younger brother's friend and there is a six-year-age difference between us. He was off limits for the first three decades, but I figured what the heck we're in our forties why not give it a ...

My husband and I don't have sex anymore and we can't have kids. Should I leave him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

19 February 2010 (F) - I have been married for two years to a man who is much older than I, (he's 64, I'm 34) and lately, we have been having some issues serious enough for me to question whether or not we made the right decision. My husband has two adult daughters ...

I want to break it off with my 15 year old girlfriend but don't want to hurt her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

18 February 2010 (M) - I am 21 years old and my friend, who is 18, hooked me up with this 15 year old girl. There was and is a connection. However I seem to have become a nervous wreck and rather paranoid. See while our relationship is STRICTLY non-sexual, i just can't ...

I worry a 9 year age difference might be too much

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

18 February 2010 (F) - i'll be 18 soon, and my boyfriend is 27. I don't know what to do, because my friends call him a pedophile for dating someone as young as I am, but the reason we're dating is because we love each other. In the long run, will this seem like a big ...

Is my mum right - should he grow up and provide?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

17 February 2010 (F) - Hi there. My boyfriend is 35 and I am 26. My mother doesn't think he's good enough for me, for very old fashioned reasons. Now I'm beginning to think she's right. Or am I being shallow? My boyfriend worked but kept dead end jobs until he was ...

Does our female teacher have a crush on my male friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - I think a (female) teacher at my school fancies my (male) friend? First, let me make it clear I have no feelings for him except as a friend, so it's not me being paranoid. She often flirts with him a bit, and has said several times how perfect ...

Next time we go away he wants to take his mum with us!!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5163 days ago

16 February 2010 (F) - my partner's 50 and been living with his mother again for the last 5 months due to financial difficulties. the whole situation is really depressing him to say the least. although his mum willingly put him up he doesn't have his own space - 'his roo...

Worried about partner's future ED/low sex drive as he gets older in a significant age gap relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - If you've been in/are in a significant age gap relationship, have you ever worried about this: your significant other experiencing ED or lower sex drive as he gets older? I'm with a man who is 20 years older than me (I'm almost 21) and I sometime...

How can I get her to focus on me more?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

15 February 2010 (M) - Hello, I need some advice about my situation. There is this older woman I am good friends with. We ended up having sex a while back. She told me that she really likes me but the situation is complicated. What she meant was her and her ex-boyfriend...

Why aren't we "Official"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5184 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I've been "seeing" this guy for a few months. There is a slight age gap -I am 20, he is 25- but we get along very well. We hung out very often before it reached this point. From what I've seen, he's kind of shy; I made the first move on him, and it ...

How can I get over him when its so hard because I work with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5183 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - Hey everybody. I've been talking to this guy from my job for two yrs. We are ten yrs apart. It was really Good at the beginning but not its not the same nomore. He saids he doesn't wanna be with me because he doesn't want Another family. But he's...

Too hormone induced for my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5184 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - It's kind of embarrassing but... lol Well, I had my virginity taken a few months back and now all I want/think about is sex mostly and my boyfriend is like 'We need to get you to calm down a bit' and then I get all pouty at him cause he's just ...

How can you say to your boyfriend that you're unhappy and want to leave sometimes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5185 days ago

15 February 2010 (F) - I'm a little confused about how I feel. Im in a long distance relationship with an older guy who I see about 6 months of the year. At first it was amazing. I got very close, very quickly and easily to this guy. I've never felt so much love for ...

We have a baby, I'm pregnant again and we have age difference problems... Should I stay or should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - I am 28, my partner is 17 years older than me. We've been living together for 7 years now, relationship was always up and down, but generally alright. I have never cheated on him and don't have anybody in mind now) Now we have a 2 y.o daughter and...

He's married, but I love him!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

14 February 2010 (F) - He's married, but I love him.... I don't really know what to expect back from everyone but I just need an impersonal sounding board. My frinds all say the same thing, he's married, he cheated on his wife so you can't trust him. But here's the deal...

Is there any way to determine if a much younger woman is attracted to you? What do I look out for?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

14 February 2010 (M) - I am attracted to this younger lady whom I would guess is around 20 years old I am fifty but my question is is there a way to determine if a younger much younger girl is attracted to someone like me who is fit? Are there signs I can watch for th...

I get jealous of the special way he treats his wife but I am very dependent on him! What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - i have a lover who is married for over 20 years. We've been together for almost 3 yrs now. I am 32, he is 50 now. i love him so much and he loves me also but he loves his wife and children. most of the time, i get jealous and hurt because of the ...

I only have friends in their mid twenties (guys) and girls at least two or more years older than me. I'm sixteen. Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5176 days ago

13 February 2010 (F) - It is a relationship question, but not like boyfriend or girlfriend - just friends. I only have friends in their mid twenties (guys) and girls at least two or more years older than me. I'm sixteen. Is this normal? My oldest friend is hmm...in his ...

I feel like I am only staying with my partner because he is my best friend, how can I explain this to him without being too awful?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5187 days ago

12 February 2010 (F) - I have been with my wonderful partner for near on 8 years now. As much as I love spending time with him, I don't think it is in the same way as it once was. What we have feels much more platonic than romantic to me, and not just in the 'we're ...

Is it wise to leave my 28 years old fiance for a 53 years old man?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - It's about 5 years already that I'm just attracted to older men.I can not be with young guys for too long.I find them boring,unreliable,hard to deal with... but because of my mum who is so angry at me for loving an older man that she just saw his ...

What can I say to my mother to give him a chance despite our age differences?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5188 days ago

11 February 2010 (F) - I'll be 16 in 2 months and the guy im talking to, steve, turned 19 yesterday. im a sophomore and he graduated last year. hes soooo sweet and just everything i could ever want in a boyfriend. the thing is, im scared to tell my parents. especially my ...

Why do I always seem to fancy older men?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

10 February 2010 (F) - Hi, My current boyfriend is 54 and I am 30. The thing is i have always fancied older men. I have a stable family life and grew up with both my parents being there, i get on well with my dad. So i dont understand why i fancy older men? and not...

He's 12 years older and I'm scared to move forward.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

9 February 2010 (F) - I am a 25 years old going on 26 and have never before dated anyone more that 4 years older than I am in the past. I recently met a man who is 38. I found out his age after I realized how interesting and intriguing he is. I do enjoy his company but ...

I'm in love with an older married man, and he's a friend of the family!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I cannot beleive I am doing this...but i feel i have no other choice but to ask for help from those not attached in any way to the situation. I am a girl who feel in love with some one i cant have for so many reasons. I am a military dependa...

My boyfriend is a loser and won't leave. And now I'm pregnant!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - I met my ex bf about a year ago while I was home for christmas break from college. My home is about an hour from my school. The relationship moved really fast and he eventually moved to Richmond with me. I think that I was lonely and he has always ...

I feel insecure in this relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - We have been dating for almost three months and are close although we are at different periods of our lives. We have known each other for quite some time and work together very well. I am ten years younger than him and now just settling in conf...

Age gap relationship, good sex but for how long?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

8 February 2010 (F) - i am 32 and i am in relation ship with 52 yr old man . our sexual life is good till now. may i know how long will it be? i love him very much...............

I have more than a crush on a boy older than me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

6 February 2010 (F) - I've known this guy all of my life, he's a friend of the family. Three years ago I realised I had a crush on him and I've been in love with him ever since. We're kind of friends and he's always nice to me, but the thing is he's four years older than ...

I really like a work mate, how we get to know each other better

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5191 days ago

5 February 2010 (M) - Hi everyone. I am 27 and I fall for a colleague who is 35. She hinted that she doesn't want a boyfriend who is 8 years younger than her. She also said she is in a relationship for years. I asked her out few times. She brought her friend ...

Should I try and start a relationship with him despite the age difference making it illegal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

5 February 2010 (F) - This is something I really need help with. I'm only 15 and I'm very interested in a 21 year old. Yes, I completely understand it's illegal but do laws bury my feelings for someone? No. We've yet to begin a relationship but we've already had sex. Now ...

I don't know if I love my husband...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5196 days ago

4 February 2010 (F) - I dont know if i still love my boyfriend cause everyday we argue and am 23 and his 37 we have 3 kids together and one thats not his which is the oldes. I mean he has nowhere to stay if i tell him to leave my house.but he screams and is always in a ...

Would going out with someone as young as 14 be wrong? And how would I approach him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

3 February 2010 (F) - Here is my Dilemma. I am in my first year of sixth form at the moment, and we still mix quite a lot with the lower school kids. About a few months ago I started noticing this boy, first i thought ' hmmm hes nice' and now im thinking ' omg hes gorg...

Will the 4 year age gap make our relationship difficult?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

3 February 2010 (M) - I am in a relationship with a girl that is 4 years younger then me we have been together and plan to be forever i was wondering if things are to serious for a 16 year old girl and do i have to worry about when she starts to want to go to parties and ...

My partner wont name me as a joint tenant on the house we share even when we get married, is he just covering himself in case anything goes wrong in our marriage?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5195 days ago

3 February 2010 (F) - I fell in love with a man 15 yrs older than me, everything was rosey. We got together about 2 yrs ago and he asked me to marry him after 1. It is my first proper relationship, I am in my early 20's. I moved in with him to his house - which he built ...

Considering dating an older woman...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

3 February 2010 (M) - I am a college student and I am really not attracted to any girls I know personally or for that matter my recent and distant past. I have joined an online dating site, and have considered dating an older woman. I have just turned 23. My question...

How do we deal with people who are jealous/envious of us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

2 February 2010 (M) - My partner and I are in an age gapped relationship. I am the older woman, 38 and he is the younger, 21. We have been together for 3 1/2 years now and have never been so much in love! I left my disfunctional marriage to be with him. I have 2 children ...

Fiance just doesn't seem to want sex! Instead watches porn and takes care of himself!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - I am a 25 year old, my fiance really doesn't seem interested in me in bed. He kisses me all the time grabs my butt but just really doesn't seem interested in sex! Just recently I found out that he has been wathcing porn on the computer. He is 38 so ...

I want to keep in contact with my teacher as friends, so how do I approach him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5191 days ago

2 February 2010 (F) - I am graduating from high school this and I want to keep in contact with my former english teacher. I want to keep in contact with him because he was a great help and over the years we have developed a friendship. How do I approach him and what do I ...