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Archived questions from: August, 2009 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I want to go out with him, but I feel that the age difference is holding me back! What do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - Ok so Ive met this one guy online a few months. We live close and I actually found that we go to the same college. Well we met one day and hit it off. He is a sweetheart and I really like him. I think he has serious boyfriend potential. He is pretty ...

Should I have sex with him or just keep it at oral?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

31 August 2009 (F) - im thinking about having sex with this guy who is older than me. he is like 26 and im almost 16. we have been planning on getting together soon. should i really go for it or jus keep our relationship at oral?...

He's nearly 14, I'm nearly 16, should I to wait until he's 16 too before we have sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 66 days ago

30 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is two years younger than me at 13 years old. In a few months I will be 16 and he will be 14 and a bit. He knows that I think it's important to be the legal age before you have sex and him being so much younger means that we've ne...

Will age decide for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

29 August 2009 (F) - i am 16 years old and i am curently in a relationship with a 23 year old. most of my friends tell me to leav him becouse of the age differance, but him and i get along very well, our relationship isnt sexual but becouse of his age we bouth runn risk ...

Do you think it's a waste of time for me to hope and wait on this girl? I really hope not!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 86 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - So... I'm a very active person, and have been looking for a woman who can keep up with me and that has similar interests as me. Well, during one of the sand volleyball leagues I played in this summer, I met a girl who was cute, and also very co...

I'm 38, she's 19 and she wants a relationship.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 26 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - I am 38 years old and have recently been getting quite close with a very very beautiful 19 year old work colleague ( I am not her boss ).She is very mature, and works part time as a fashion model. She has told me she wants a relationship. We haven't ...

I love her, but she's a bit younger, more than a bit.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 86 days ago

27 August 2009 (M) - Hello, I've known this gal for some time, she's a cutie pie, very lovable and all, and I'm sure I have feelings, I think she has for me, she shows it, but my problem is, I'm very worries about age difference, there's like 13 and a half years of ...

We want to make the most of the years we have left, but I'm worried I'm too old for her!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 86 days ago

26 August 2009 (M) - I have a very difficult situation: I am dating a woman 18 years younger than myself she is 43 and I am 61 although I am very fit go to the gym every day and look a lot younger! We are both married although both of our partners are badly brain ...

My daughter is dating a much older man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 58 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I need advice from people I don't know. My daughter is 19, and will be 20 in March. She dated a guy more her age, but he didn't treat her like a man should. She met another guy that is 31, will be 32 in September. This guy has teated her so good. ...

Will this older man take me seriously in the future?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

26 August 2009 (F) - I'm almost 17 years old and he's almost 35. This Fall will mark the third year of my feelings for him. After I was no longer his student he was okay w/ seeing me/chatting for a few hours online/public places, and I always had 1 friend w/ me, when ...

I'm 15, he's 20, is this ok?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - ok i am 15 going to be 16 in 2 weeks and i have been dating a guy who is 20 we have been together 4 2 months now is that ok ??? cause sometimes it doesn't feel right when we first met we didn't talk much but we liked each other a lot from the moment ...

17 year old girl and 15 year old boy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - I am 17 going on 18 in December. My boyfriend is 15. I live in Michigan and he lives in Wisconsin. When I turn 18, am I considered a pedophile? We love each other very much and would like to keep dating, but he's a little worried I might get in t...

How do I get over being in love and get on with my life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 86 days ago

25 August 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Hey. So I'm fifteen years young and crazy in love with this guy.. let's call him Bob. The thing is my parents made me break up with him (he's in college) and I havn't seen him for months or heard from him. I missed him so much. Then pu...

In love with my teacher and nervous about going back to school!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - I know I know I have already put a comment up about my love for a certain teacher, but we have been off for 6 weeks, we go back in a week I'm nervous as hell, I have been counting down the days til we go back and now I'm like scared. Can anyone give ...

How will a younger man react to seeing an older woman naked?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 82 days ago

24 August 2009 (F) - I have been seeing a younger man and we are considering getting intimate. He wants to. How will I know that he as a younger man will enjoy seeing me as an older woman naked? Ladies, do you have any experience with this? Any ideas for finding out if ...

I've been in love for five years.. how do I make it go away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 91 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - I am so completely and utterly stuck, I do not know what to do. I'm trying to move on from the woman I fell in love with and I just can't. I'm just back at school now - I had an eight week summer and I thought I would have moved on from ...

A senior that I like didn't give me a straight yes or no, so I gave him the cold shoulder. Now I think I made a mistake and want to make amends before he goes off to college! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 92 days ago

22 August 2009 (F) - I really liked this guy for about a year. I'm not a very outgoing girl but I made a huge effort to talk to him. He didn't know me that well so he didn't realize the type of effort it was for me to go up to him the way I did. Over the year he ended ...

I am attracted to a 16 year old! How do I stop thinking about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 92 days ago

21 August 2009 (F) - My little brother has a friend that he grew up. I watched both of them grow up. Now my little brother is on his way to becoming a career criminal. Always in and out of jail. While my brother has been away, I've been spending a lot of time with his ...

Big age gap & it seems he doesn't love me like I love him..

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

20 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm a 39 yr old female and I've been seeing a 22 yr old guy! I have fallen in love with him, but have been trying to hide it!! I'm crying as I write this, because last night, we talked, and we've decided to stop the intimate part of our ...

I want to be with him but I think things just started going too fast and he got scared.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - I guess I will start with a little background first....me and my ex had met 9 years ago. We were both young and he was in the military (still active duty). We dated for over a year (6months of that long distanance I had to travel for work) when we ...

Is it normal for a 22 year old man to only want a friendship with a 40 year old woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - Hi I'm 40 and have been divorced with 2 children for 6 years. I have always been on my own, have a good circle of friends, but not dated in that time. I'm friends with a guy at work whose only 22 (and single) he comes out with me and the children...

I find myself sexually attracted to him! But he's 7 years younger!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

19 August 2009 (F) - I'll try to keep this quick and simple. There's this boy I watched grow up.I'm 7 years his senior. We lived in the same building for a few years. His family and my family are very close. And i dated his older brother a few years back. Now time as ...

My mother dissapproves because I'm 20 and want to date someone who's 46. Is this really such a bad thing?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - So, I'm a 20 year old lesbian. I just recently met a 46 year old woman and we get along great. Most girls my age don't work, don't want to attend college and believe in anything but lies. We share what seems like a million a 10 things in common, we ...

Do I just move on? He doesn't want to lose me he says

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 95 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - I am dating a guy who is 10 years younger than me. He's never been married he has no kids. I am divorced with three kids. I look amazing for my age, not that I'm old, but whenever I go out I get carded and everyone thinks I'm in my early 20's when ...

Women my age pay me no attention! I only get young girls liking me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 96 days ago

18 August 2009 (M) - My problem is young girls like me, women my age pay me no attention.Hs age girls flirt with me all the time they tell me im cute, This girl was probably six was just staring at me one day i looked at her and she said i was pretty seriously. ...

My worries of loving a younger man.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 95 days ago

18 August 2009 (F) - I'm 47 and I happen to be in love with a 28 year man and we are married now for 2yrs. My conscience bothers me all the time, because I have a son who is 24. I never intended on finding a much younger man to settle down with. Is matter of fact I was ...

I need help to cast off these feelings I have for my friend's daughter!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

18 August 2009 (M) - I am 35yrs old and I am scared that I am falling in love with my girlfriends 15yr old daughter. I adore her so much and I have no sexual intention towards her at all. I am so confused by these feelings because although it seems so wrong it does not ...

He's 7 years older, is it worth pursuing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 94 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - Let's just get straight to the point here. I'm 15, like to think i'm considerably much more mature than the usual for my age, and I'm in like with a 22 year old. See. I notice this huge age gap here, and I do realize it's stupid to hope/wish/thi...

I want to know how to stop thinking about this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 96 days ago

17 August 2009 (F) - 2 years ago I met a foreign guy who was on a short holiday in my country. We stayed in touch by email (always as friends only) and he invited me to visit him in his country. I visited him and during my short stay he was very friendly with me. I ...

I think we are at a different stage of life and I'm not sure she is the one I want to settle down with

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 96 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - I fell head over heels for my girlfriend a year ago, I'm late 20's she's early 20's. I thought I had never met anyone as mature and as suited to me as she was but in hindsight I was blinded by my love for her. In four months we were certain we ...

Would there be a problem with a 19 year old going out with a 15 year old?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 88 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - Well, I met this girl at a party I recently went to. We had a good laugh and joke plus a nice talk together, cuddle and kiss. Last night I took her to the cinema to watch a film she wanted to see, paid for her and everything including picking her up ...

He is starting to be more honest about his sexuality but he still wont introduce me as his boyfriend

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 91 days ago

17 August 2009 (M) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half. He is a few years older than I am. Since I was 16 I have been out of the closet. I have fully embraced my gayness. I am in the military and most of the people who know me know about my ...

He says the age difference bugs him, but why doesn't he even try?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 96 days ago

16 August 2009 (F) - Okay I grew up and I am a lot more mature and smarter when it comes to relationships and guys. And yet, I have a question and it has been bugging me for so long. I REALLY like this guy, he is smart and sweet and funny, all I want. I can talk to him ...

She's 16, I'm 25, and I fear that the changes she'll go through in the next few years will cause us to break up. What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

16 August 2009 (M) - Im 25 and my girl friend is 16.I love her more then anything in life and she admits i am her first love and I believe it for the fact that i known some of her exs that sh dated for awhile and never had sex with them.we dated one month before she ...

Crushing on guy 10 years old than me and want to get over him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 98 days ago

15 August 2009 (F) - I'm 15 and crushing really hard on this guy, he is about 10 years older than me so we obv can't date. I'd appreciate all your tips, even the little ones, on getting over him. thanks :)...

I'm 24, she's 14 but she loves me and I don't want to hurt her

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

15 August 2009 (M) - Hi i was looking for advice and found this site, I wrote my whole question out and it got deleted some how. So I have to write again, Basically this girl who is a close family friend came onto me while i was at a Summer BBQ at her house, asked...

Should I tell him how I feel before he goes back to college?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 100 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - hey guys so i have this situation with my housemate i was renting my house for summer with other students and one of them is a guy who is 19 and im 21. I thought he was cute but i was like no way because of the age difference. Anyhow we got to be ...

Seeing a younger guy who I want to be exclusive with but I think he's confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Hia, Im 23 I got been seeing this guy on the quiet for over a month now. He is 20. He apprached me on facebook to meet up. I knew him from a club i am a member of and we just hit it off rly. But what i wasnt aware of is he has a girlfriend 300 m...

I was dating a 30 year old and got my heart broken

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

13 August 2009 (F) - Okay i was dating someone and hes 12 years older then me and before we got together he had a girlfriend but he says he broke up with her for me but because hes a good guy he was taking her back to her home in IL and is gonna stay 6 months to 24 ...

He's 30 years older and now he's starting to give me the creeps.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 33 days ago

11 August 2009 (F) - I DON'T love my husband any more. He’s 30 years older than I am, he’s impotent, wrinkly and gives me the creeps. [Despite this, I won't cheat on him as that would be totally unfair.] He loves me but I can’t bring myself to give him even a peck ...

I want to be in a relationship with an older man but I'm unsure...what do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

10 August 2009 (F) - Ok so Im 17 going on 18 next year and I like an older guy and hes 26 years old going on 27 in september. Were friends and hes really nice. I know just because guys are nice doesnt mean theyll be like that all the time. And because of our age ...

I fear he may leave me for someone younger, should I marry him anyway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - I am with a man who is 17 years my senior. This has no so far been a problem for us but as the relationship gets more serious (we are going to get married next year) I keep thinking that he will leave me for a younger woman when I get a little ...

A man 20 years my junior is interested, what to do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

9 August 2009 (F) - i am 40 and a guy of 21 is interested in me, what should i do...

I'm 16, my parents want me to marry this much older man (49) and have children with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 105 days ago

8 August 2009 (F) - I'm 16, and my parents want me to marry this much older man and have children with him. He's 49, has had 2 heart attacks and has no children, and is very wealthy. They tell me he's very wealthy from working in the business world and runs a lorry...

Would you consider my boyfriend a paedophile because of the age difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

8 August 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is about ten years older than me. The thing is, he and his parents are good friends of my mother and father. I've known him my whole life. Would you consider this a violation of trust? Many of my friends have called him a pedoph...

Hes 20, I'm 15 and parents are against it...heeelppp!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 99 days ago

6 August 2009 (F) - im going out with a 20 year old and im 15. we both like each other a lot. my parents found out and wont let me go out anywhere or talk to anyone. what do i do? me and him have been talkin for a year. been together 6 months ago and broke up because ...

I'm 13, I want this 20-year-old to like me, is this OK??

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 81 days ago

5 August 2009 (?) - So im 13 going to be 14 and theres this guy that i like but hes 20 and he always come over or we always text my uncle knows that i like him and he says im not supposed to but i seriously like this dude and we he always listens to my problems and ...

Is it too hard to raise a child with an older man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm in a big dilemma here, my boyfriend is 30 years older,and we are very good couple, but I'm pregnant, and I don't know, if it is too hard for raise a child with an older man, and I'm not sure he wants it, maybe he would just do it , because ...

Where are the best places to to meet older women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

4 August 2009 (?) - This is partially a relationship issue and partially a life issues/opinion on life issues question. Why does society like to poke fun at men who date older women (even slightly older than them, not huge age gaps)? If a man dates a much younger ...

I'm 28, He's 66. Do you think the age difference is too great?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 86 days ago

4 August 2009 (F) - I need to know other peoples opinion about my current relationship. I am 28 year old female and dating a 66 year old male. Nobody in my family knows about it because I am quite sure they are not going to approve. I really love this man and some...