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Archived questions from: August, 2007 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

He is not text-book attractive, however has a fantastic personality. Should I pursue a relationship with him, against the will of my friends?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6046 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I need help!! Ive recently become intensely attracted to someone ive known for several years, but this is not where my problem lies. The issue is that this man is not text-book attractive. He's in his 30's, roughly five-ten, incredibly thin,...

I work for an older man, he is on the verge of divorce and I feel we have become close. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6074 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Hey guys, i am 20 yrs old and i work for a 40 yr old man (he is married with two kids and his daughter is only 2 yrs younger then me!!) Him and his wife are seperating and may even be getting a divorce. When i first started working with him i ...

I've recently got together with my uncles best friend! But he is 40, I am 23 and he now wants to cool it a bit. I dont want to lose him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi Everyone, I am after a bit of advice regarding a new relationship i have started with an older man. I am 23 and my partner is 40, we met a while ago and have seen each other on occasion at my relative's house(he is my uncle's best friend!)I h...

We got on great, then she went back to her ex. Would our age difference of been a problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6072 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - I'm 34, single male, no kids. Through my workplace, I met a wonderful, caring, attractive, 21 year old woman. She'd been dating her boyfriend for two years, but recently stopped their relationship after she discovered he had cheated on her. Her ...

Is it too young for a sixteen year old and a twenty year old to hook up and start dating?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - Is it too young for a sixteen year old and a twenty year old to hook up and start dating? Its only four years. Just look at my parents they're six years apart and they love each other and my friend's parents are fifteen years apart. But when young ...

Do you think I should bother with her or do you think she doesn't want to know? I'm 44 she's 22.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - Please help I've been with my girlfriend for 4 months now, I do have a past, people have been telling her things about me. Lately she's always busy or she says she has a lot on, do you think I should bother with her or do you think she doesn'...

I want a friend to tell my teacher I love him

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5016 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hiya, i have a real bad problem. For about 8 months now ive really really fancied my teacher, and its beyond a crush, i kind of love him. Hes all im thinking about to be honest. Lately its getting so bad, that when i start college, im gonig to go ...

I am 14 and fancy my 48 year old married uncle

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5794 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I am 14 and i fancy my uncle who is 48 and has a wife and two children. everytime i see him i have to wait before i go out otherwise it makes me nervous and i dont know what to do! please help me. thank you Carla ...

Will this marriage be successful given the age gap and me becoming a step-mom?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6083 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I am 27 yrs. old and in love with widowed 40 yrs. (lost his wife on 25th April 07) having a son 11 yrs. old and daughter 6 yrs. old. He also loves me a lot. We know each other from a year. I feel very secure and complete with him and he also cannot ...

I would never have sex with someone under 16, but is it ok, (or legal) for me to go out with her, or do some of the things she is talking about.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

30 August 2007 (M) - Hi, I'm 18 and have been mates with this girl who is 14 (nearly 15) for a while now. She has just revealed that she likes me, and has been giving me some vivid messages about what she wants me to do to her. I do like her, but am worried about th...

Woman, started to develop intimate feelings for a younger girl, what can I do to help that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm a 26 year old female going onto 27, recently I've started to have intimate feelings about a 17, nearly 18 year old girl... Do you think this is disgusting? She's like the total opposite of me, but she makes me laugh with such ease. She's ...

I think this is wrong but I'm not sure...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Hi my boyfriend is 16 im turning 13 in december is this wrong? I think it is but im not sure....

We have an age gap and his children dont approve. What to do???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5889 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I am 24 and my boyfriend is 51 with two teenage boys. This past weekend we both had said to eachother that we are 'forever'. Well last night his sons had sat him down and expressed how they do not approve of the age gap. Now for him and myself, we ...

Would it be wrong to have a gay relationship with my ex-teacher?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Hi everyone. I'm a 16-year-old bisexual female, turning 17 in November. Anyway, I've become very attracted to a 28-year-old female friend of mine. She's actually one of my ex-teachers, but we get along great and have loads in common. I geniun...

We slept together and I like him, now. He's a lot older..can anything come of this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - ok, i slept with a guy i really should not have, never thought anything of him before, but now i think i like him. nothing can come of it, but i dont know if i should talk to him about our encounter. He is alot older than me, and can be quite ...

We have an age gap. He's got children. He wants to marry me. What should i do???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - I am 26 yrs old unmarried girl and I will be 27 yrs in Jan 08. A 40 yrs old married man with 2 kids (wife no more) loves me a lot and even I also like him ) he wants to marry me. But I m afraid whether this mrrg will be successful or not as there is ...

I'm 13 and he's 18 and has a girlfriend, should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Well I like this guy named Jesse. He is going into the US coast guard next month and I'll be here alone. I want to tell him how I feel, but he is 18 and I'm 13 plus he has a girlfriend. But he always seems to like me. In church he always gives ...

Is he flirting with me or what?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6075 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Alright I'm not exactly sure if one of my co-workers is interested in me or not. There are some signs that I believe he is. Such as in one aspect of my job I put products back on the shelves when they are not wanted. Once he threw a pack of pads ...

I like this guy at work but there is an age gap and I dont know how how to approach him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Ok, so ive been stewing on this issue for quite some time, but now i think its time to ask for advice. I know this guy through the company i work for, we know of eachother's existence but refrain from speaking to one another. Now ive liked this guy ...

I'm nearly 16, He's nearly 14. I like him. Is this wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6086 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Hey i just want to know if this is wrong!! i am 15 years old and my birthday is in feb when i turn 16. but i really like a lad who i hang out with and he is only 13 and he is 14 in june! plz tell me if it is ok or if it is wrong to like hi...

I'm 21 and want to ask out a 17 year old boy, is there anything wrong with this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - I'm a 21 year old female and have a crush on a 17 year old boy. He acts very mature for his age and he has made it quite clear that he wants to hook up with me. Is there a problem with going for him?...

How can i let him know our age gap doesnt matter????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6085 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I recently turned 18 and not long after I found myself liking a guy that is a bit older than me. We first met at work and he thought I was older. But then he found out I'm only 18. I have no problem with the age gap and at first I thought he ...

I love my guy but i want to cheat on him with an older man.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6083 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - I love my man but i love to cheat with an older greyer greeneyed man. He is well endowed and my guy isnt. Why am i attracted to older men? Im in my 30's He is in his mid forties-fifties ....

I was seeing a married man for 3 years but he loves his family so i ended it. But i'm missing him. What can i do???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - I was a girl fallen in love with a married man.I was 20 that time and he was 43 when we had an affair.i love him so much i even sacrifice all for him but nothing i can do. He loves his family thats why now i broke up with him. For 3 years of relation...

I'm 28, he's 16. He says we're just mates, can i change his mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4831 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - Im a 28yr old woman in love wit a 16 yr old guy. Is it wrong? we are great mates an have been intimate for a few months now but he says we just mates but tells me he loves me. can i change his mind if i play it cool?...

How can I please him in bed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6077 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - How can I please my 27 yr old bf of almost 7 months in the bedroom department?...

I'm 15 and have fallen for a 17 year old girl, could it ever happen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

24 August 2007 (M) - i'm fifteen and i've fallen for a 17 year old girl. shes the only one definatley! i see her a couple of times a week if i'm lucky. shes really nice to me and hugs me quite a bit. we can talk for ages, shes just amazing! i'm in year 11 and shes in ...

My 14 years old friend is dating a 23 year old woman

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

24 August 2007 (M) - My best friend is dating a 23 year old and he is 14 but he is very mature for his age and he is a very very big 14 do you think that they will wrk out...

I accidentally had sex with a 14 year old girl

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

23 August 2007 (M) - ok I have a (hypothetical) question. I am a male in my mid 30's. My wife my 2 daughters (3 and 7) and my niece (15) and her friend (14) went on a road trip to Florida. We stopped halfway there and got a hotel room, my wife and I in one room the...

I'm 20, my boyfriend is 42, and now the bedroom department is starting to slow

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

23 August 2007 (F) - hi, im in a relationship with a 42 year old man (im 20yrs) ive been with him for 4yrs now and for about 3 months now the bedroom department has been slow and over in a couple of minuets, what can i do to spice it up i dont want to loose him....

I am 23 and want to ask out a girl who is 17, is that okay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

23 August 2007 (M) - I'm 23 years old and I've liked this younger girl since I was 20. I found her on Myspace and she's 17 now, and I want to ask her out. I live in the US so the age of consent is 18, but I would have no problem waiting, I just want to be with her. Is ...

Could my tutor fancy me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

23 August 2007 (?) - Does my tutor fancy me? Right now I'm in school, one of my subjects is tech design. I have this male teacher whos like 25 26ish. I spend loads of time in the tech rooms in my free lessons so i spend loads of time with him. A week or tw...

We never realized there was such an age-gap between us because we get on so well

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6090 days ago

23 August 2007 (F) - Alrighty.. sorry about the long message!! Well im 19 and I find myself quite crazy about a 38yr old! we work together and for the first year of working together we never actually knew eachothers age!! only recently have we found out how old eachothe...

What are your thoughts on a 15 year age gap online relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - Anyone can tell me their opinion about a 15 yr old age difference relationship i.e 17, 32 (older male) views from the male side are appreciated (even female), and what if the meeting was from internet that started as a joke and then became a serious ...

He is only a child but I am nearly an adult. What do I do??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6089 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm a 17 year old girl, almost 18. My problem is that I have fallen in love with a guy who is 15 (who will turn 16 two months after I turn 18.) I feel really bad about the age gap but he said he doesnt care what age I am because he loves...

How can I get aquainted with a girl at work

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

21 August 2007 (M) - I am a 40 year old male and work with a 30 year old Asian female. She began being friendly but I was not sure how to respond because other co-workers were getting nosey. How can I reacquaint my self with this female? Row...

My 30 year old boyfriend can sometimes be immature... any tips?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6087 days ago

21 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is 30 and I am 35. We have been together about 18 months. I am concerned because he is a very different person around his friends than he is with me. I know that we are all slightly different but he seems to use different language ...

Is there a problem if hes honest with me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

20 August 2007 (F) - Hi im 17 and a half years old. I have met this bloke of the internet. He told me everything about himself kids partner the whole lot even the trouble with the law. I trust him, ive met him. Hes so nice loving all the good things. I got so wound up ...

Could he go to jail for getting me pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

19 August 2007 (F) - I am 15 almost 16 and I'm pregnant but will be 16 before the babies born and my boyfriend is 21 will he go to jail even though I'll be 16 before the babies born? And say I didnt put his name on the birth certificate and later on I do, can they still ...

I'm attracted to older women.... why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

19 August 2007 (M) - i am 26 year and i like older woman then me i dont understand why this is happneing to me. i am more attracted to them in all manner. what is your advice how to come out of this. i dont have any girlfriend....

I had sex with him, but now he says I am too young

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6092 days ago

18 August 2007 (F) - I got Invited over a guys house that im seeing hes 19 and im 15...i met his mum and dad and their great they loved me and didnt seem to mind the age gap...we went upstairs 2 his room and 1 thing led 2 another...we ended up having sex and in the ...

Some people say the age gap is perverted.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

18 August 2007 (M) - Well basically i turned 15 late may and i really like this girl who is 12 atm and she will turn 13 in earlier febuary. Is it wrong for me to go out with someone 2 years and 8 months younger than myself? Like loads of people say its ok but then loads ...

My 16 year old daughter is dating a 48 year old man!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6010 days ago

17 August 2007 (F) - This problem worries me A LOT and I really need your help, so please help! Apologies for the length... sorry! I'm a mother of two, been married to my husband for 20 years - my son's 19 and in university (living away from home), my daughter's 1...

I'm 15 and in love with a 25 year old footballer... is this age gap too big?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6088 days ago

17 August 2007 (F) - Hi, Im 15 years old and have recently fallen for a 25 yr old footballer. He appears to have feelings for me as well, i would like to get involved with this guy if he feels the same way about me, is the age gap to big? I turn 16 in 5 months and ...

I'm 14, he's 18. He wants to go out, but I've never dated before!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

17 August 2007 (F) - I am 14 and I have a crush on this 18 years old guy. He is major cute and hot. I've known him since kindergarten. My parents know him well, too. Last week, he told me he really really likes me and want to go out with me. I want to go out but I'm not ...

I'm 16 and I just want to ask if it's okay to have a crush with an 11 year old?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4249 days ago

16 August 2007 (M) - Hi, I'm 16 and I just want to ask if it's okay to have a crush with an 11 year old... I'm not sexually attracted to her... maybe it's something else I'm infatuated about... maybe her attitude, happy disposition or whatever... anyway if this i...

We have so much in common and get along so well but neither of us have a tendancy to date people with more than a 6 or so year difference!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6097 days ago

16 August 2007 (F) - Hi everyone!! I'm in a bit of a dilemma! I'm 19 and I have been working with a guy who I now find out is 38 (OMG) who I thought was a lot younger at first haha!! I have been working with him for a fair while now and have developed feelings for him...

I always swore to myself that I'd never be a victim, and just writing this, I feel like one...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

14 August 2007 (F) - I have a boyfriend whom I love very much.. He's a nice guy, usually. And he treats me well. He'd never hit me, and he doesn't hurt me on purpose.. He's a little older than me, and sometimes I don't understand things, or I don't know things, and I'm ...

Is it okay that my 32 year old boyfriend said some thirteen year olds "look good?"

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6093 days ago

14 August 2007 (F) - Is it okay that my 32 year old boyfriend said some thirteen year olds "look good?" We were talking about teenagers for some reason and he said that but didn't go into their body parts or saying anything sexual about them. He babysits his 8 year ...

My fiance is 33 and I am 24. He has some friends his age and he also has some friends that are girls that are 13 and 15.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6096 days ago

14 August 2007 (F) - My fiance is 33 and I am 24. He has some friends his age and he also has some friends that are girls that are 13 and 15. He knows I think it's weird that they are young, so he never takes me out with them. They sit on his lap. Is that weird?...