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writes:I just moved away from home to go to university: first year student. I am 18 and have started recently going on dates with a man who is 27.. I have always dated older guys, however, not with this much of a difference. I do not have an issue, but socially I am finding it difficult; people tend to express their negative opinions. So that leads me to ask for yours.. Is that too much of a difference in age. I dont seem to think so, but Im in need of additional views.. thanks and hoping for great advice:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 September 2007): No dont worry. Its not too old. Ive dated guys older than that. They are more mature. And I think it is a good thing that they are in a different stage in life than you. They have been through most of the things that you will be going through. They can teach you life lessons. When you think about it, 27 isnt that old. Even if he was older it wouldnt matter. The only thing that matters is what you think and youre feelings and whether or not you are happy. And it seems like you are happy. So dont worry what anyone else says. They are just trying to bring you down and say negative things to make themselves seem like they know what theyre talking about, when they dont. Do whatever you want. Its your life. No one has a say youre life but you. Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2007): I;m 18 and my age limit is 25. I once was freinds with an 27yr old guy and we got so many looks, this one taxi driver stared at me and him in horror, he obviously has an daughter. It's up too you but I personally wouldn't. Too old as well as their in a diffrent stage in your life, my male freind wouldn't date me as he said I was too young, he was a very decent guy in that way.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (28 September 2007):
 Hi
Dont worry about peope, if you do you would be unhappy your entire life. If you really love this guy and he make you happy then dont worry about anyone else. What does your parents have to say? I am 19 and my bf is 30. We are happy together and i love him so much. When people heard about our realtionship, they never had much positive things to say either. What matters is you and your bf.Dont worry about people. Age is nothing but a number and i think it is only a problem if you make it one.At the ned of the days, it is your choice who you wanna be with.
Regards, mail me if you wanna talk. I know excatly what you are going through!
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