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Archived questions from: January, 2013 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

He's 24. I told him I was 18. How can I tell him the truth that I'm 17 and not lose him when I do tell?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

29 January 2013 (F - Hello, I'm 17 years old and iv met a guy and we have been seeing each other for about a month and we really like each other. However, I told him I was 18 as we met in a bar that I got into. He's 24. I want to tell him that I'm actually 17,...

My 19 year old daughter wants to marry a 51 year old man. He's 3 years older than her father!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4064 days ago

28 January 2013 (F - My 19-year-old daughter told me she's dating a 51-year-old man, and wants to marry him and have his children, and he agrees.... She told us he wanted to meet us, and we did, 2 months after they first started dating. [it had been secret until no...

Why is it online men in their 50's only want young women?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3990 days ago

27 January 2013 (F - I have been online dating + looking at online personals and I cannot believe how much most men online suck about age. I will be 25 in a couple of months + was shocked to see that there are tons of men in their 50s who specify they want women 18-25! ...

He said he'll start seeing me again if I'll do a threesome

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

27 January 2013 (F - From the beginning he was already involved with this older lady. And there was one more other girl staying at his place for a week just to travel around. And there was me. So it was more of a friends with benefit thing. And I know it was immature or ...

Are my parents right to be worried and should I worry a bit more about my crush on this 49 year old salesman?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4063 days ago

27 January 2013 (F - I am a 19 year old apprentice hairdresser, I have fallen for a 49 year old salesman who delivers product to our salon. I have always fancied older men and have had a few affairs and slept with them. My parents are worried that he his using me and...

Why has my older LDR friend started being distant? I feel like he is giving me the "cold treatment"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4080 days ago

26 January 2013 (F - I am just very confused right now. I met a guy few months ago who is a bit older than I am and he seemed to be really interested to me. Initially, I was not into him but after going out with him and I got to know him a bit, I started to like ...

I met one of my students at a bar and now I can't talk to her

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4078 days ago

25 January 2013 (M - Hi i'm 24 years old and just got a job as a history teacher. Over the summer, I met this amazing girl. I met her in a bar so I just assumed that she was over 21 so I never bothered to ask for her age. She's beautiful, smart, funny. The most gorgeous ...

I really like this girl but it doesn't seem right to ask her out. I'm 4 years older. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4081 days ago

24 January 2013 (M - Recently a girl joined my college..she is 4 years younger than me..we know each other because her brother was my school buddy. From the first day of her college, I really liked her. Now here comes the problem.. I don't want to tell her that I like h...

How do I find out if this older guy is interested without really asking him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4082 days ago

23 January 2013 (F - Hello, I'm an 18 year old female and I am lusting over a 26 year old guy. He is so sweet and good looking. But how do I tell if he's interested without fully asking? I've never been interested in an older guy before so I'm sure it might be a little ...

My lecturer has been flirting, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4084 days ago

22 January 2013 (F - Hello. Im 17 and I go to a college and recently one of my lecturers has been acting weird towards me. I mean weird as in flirting with me. Firstly he is 28. He is in nearly every one of my lessons and because college is so relaxed we sit around a ...

He wants me to give up my dream of children because he already has 4 kids

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

20 January 2013 (F - i am desperately in.love with an.older man. i met him 2years ago however i have learned that he has 4 kids to his ex gf. i know he has been.hurt in.the past but he.wants me to give up my chances of having children because he already has them. i dont ...

What are the risks of falling for older men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

20 January 2013 (F - What are the risks of falling for older men? I keep falling for older men, some are married and some are single. I have slept with a few of them and had intercourse. I hate being alone and I think older men know how to treat a woman, am I right ...

I am my husband's punching bag! I'm very lonely in this marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

19 January 2013 (F - My husband is 12 years older then I. We dated for 1.5. Then married. I feel so lonely in this marriage. He complains about everything. Talks about everyone behind their backs. But will not confort them. So i become the punching bag. He allows people ...

My 19 year old stepdaughter is having an affair with a man 30 years her senior. We can't make her see reason!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

19 January 2013 (M - My 19 yr old step daughter is having an affair with a 49 yr old rep that delivers hair products to the salon where she works. Her dad knows but doesn't care and her mother and I are worried sick he is only after one thing. He takes her away for ...

My BF blocked my Facebook since I posted and blamed on a sexy photo of an entertaining girl whom he often visits her page. Am I nothing to him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

17 January 2013 (F - Hi everyone. My long distance BF often visits a Facebook page of a sexy young girl working as an entertainer by showing body in bikini in sexy ways. I've known there are some sexy young girls on his page so far, they are working for a small Asian ...

My husband is significantly older than me and has no interest in sex anymore. I'm really struggling to cope. Can anyone offer advise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4089 days ago

16 January 2013 (F - I'm sad. Very, very sad because my husband seems don't want any sex now. Yes, he is far older than me. I'm 41 and he is 67. I know some of you will criticise that age, but yes I love him so please, don't think negative about our age. He is sti...

Should I tell my husband to evict him? And that I've been flirting with the younger cute male student we sub-let a room to?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4091 days ago

14 January 2013 (F - Times have been hard lately for my husband and I so we got a room mate to help split the rent of our 3 bedroom 3 bathroom home.I'm 27 and my husband is 29 our new room mate is a 20 year old college student, pretty quit and geeky. I'm a stay at home ...

Met a great guy but he's 20 years older and a "happy single". What should I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4083 days ago

13 January 2013 (F - Hi. I met this man online. I knew he was older than me (51yrs old, I'm 31) but and we became friends, we met up yesterday the first time and we went for a meal and I had a great time, and something else happened I realised I liked him more than ...

Troubled relationship: What's the best way to handle my guy and this immature guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

13 January 2013 (F - PLEASE HELP!!!! It will be four years this year that I'm with my current bf...in distance relationship. We've been madly in love since we met last fall I was supposed to move to his country and continue university there but since we didn’t mana...

Why does he only phone me from work? Why doesn't he answer when I call him? Could he be playing me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

13 January 2013 (F - Okay PLEASE HELP. So I am 19. Keep in mind I have always had a very old soul and countless people have told me this. I am not your average teenager I should probably be older I act like it... Anyways. I have always liked older guys. Recently, ...

One of my husband's employees kissed me at a party at a party. Could I be sending the wrong signals to this man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

12 January 2013 (F - My husband and I run a small tour company...we have 10 employees. One of our employees lives pretty far away so when he has to work weekends he sometimes stays at our house. Last night we had a party and he agreed to help out with the cleanin...

He's older, but his financial issues make it difficult. Is this a fair enough reason to finish this relationship with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

11 January 2013 (F - I dated a man much older for almost two years. I was a student going to school full-time. He paid for many things and I pitched in when I could. I gave him my education checks that came in monthly to buy food, rent, etc. During the last few mon...

He's 39. Is he likely to lose interest in me, now that he's found out that I'm a virgin?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4093 days ago

11 January 2013 (F - I'm 22. I've been seeing an older guy for some time now. He's 39. Despite the age difference, we connect on various levels. He's an amazing guy and I want to get to know him more and more. But here's the thing. I'm a virgin and I'm pretty sure ...

Should I tell my parents my boyfriend is older?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4095 days ago

10 January 2013 (F - My boyfriend is a few years older then me and i don't know if i should tell my parents about him because they might not let me see him anymore, what do i do?...

We've been dating for 7 months and no sex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

10 January 2013 (M - I am dating the guy for seven months now.. and we didn't have any sex! he didn't tell me I love you.. he is 23 years old and I am 40.. I feel his love but he didn't want to admit it! should I continue?...

Am I thinking too far ahead? Would Western parents accept a large age gap if their daughter married a man 10 years older?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4097 days ago

9 January 2013 (M - I am in Australia but am not a westerner. I like a girl 10 years younger than me,she is 18 years old. I think she also likes me. But I am not sure.Is it possible because of age different she might be thinking the less possibility of marriage. Does w...

Was I too quiet at a work dinner party? I'm older than them and the're cliquey. Or were they mean asking me to sit alone at a table, as I'm vegetarian?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

9 January 2013 (F - We had our work post Christmas party last week, at a restaurant. I arrived slightly late but a few people came after me. I'm older than 80%-90% of my colleagues, didn't bring a partner, (as I have none) and I have a little bit of social anxie...

He thinks of me as his little sister but I love him. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

7 January 2013 (F - This summer I met a guy at a camp (he was one of the staff) and we really get on well. I'm 15 and he's 22. We lived together in a residence with some other few people. He calls me his little sister, so I call him by big brother. I know he cares ...

What do you think about the age gap and races, or have any of you been through this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4101 days ago

5 January 2013 (F - Hello. I met someone one month ago. He's 31 and from California, and I'm 21 from Malaysia. The thing is, we are still in a friend zone of course, but he believe in me so much. Well I trust him too without any doubt. He said he like me so much and me ...

Together for 2 yrs, and split up 4 yrs ago... Why can't I let go and stop thinking about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4102 days ago

4 January 2013 (F - I remember coming on this to post a question about forbidden love with an ex teacher and breaking my virginity. Well 6 years on I am back as an older, wiser 20 something about the same guy but different problem. We split mutually after two years to...

To everyone on this site, and especially the person responsible for this website: Thank you

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4090 days ago

4 January 2013 (F - This is for every single person on this website: I am glad to see that there are still caring people out in this cruel world. All of you are so caring of people you don't even know. People that may be miles and miles away from you. People that...

What does our star alignment say about us?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

2 January 2013 (F - A few months ago a man asked me out. I originally said yes but when I found out how old he was I said we could be friends. I am ten years older than he is. We have since started dating and the relationship is going well. I still worry about the age ...

He's 30 and my parents hate him. How do I tell my parents I want to marry him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4094 days ago

2 January 2013 (F - Please dont judge. all i want is advice and hear what you think. First of all I am 18 years old, and i am going out with a guy that is 12 years older than me. We have been dateing for about 9 months. you should know that My parents HATE this g...

Does he love me for me or for my future career?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4104 days ago

1 January 2013 (F - I am in my mid 20s and my boyfriend is in his early 40s. He is retired but i am student.he spends most of his free time with me and understands all my academic requirements.i am on my senior year college and i plan on going to medical school.i told ...

Is she genuinely interested in me or desperate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4105 days ago

1 January 2013 (M - I am writing this letter to seek your valuable advise. There is this woman working in the same building as me but in a different office. When she joined her office, she was introduced to me by the HR who is common to both of us. It has been alm...

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