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Archived questions from: December, 2005 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Is it illegal for me (aged 18) to go out with a 15-year-old girl?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 596 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - I am an 18 year old male and I have been friends with a 15 year old girl. We now have relationship feelings for each other. Is this illegal if we did go out? Or would it be illegal only if we had sexual contact?...

When they're sober, my gf's folks are OK with us dating, but when they're drunk, they want me locked up!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1016 days ago

31 December 2005 (M) - Hello, I'm 22 and have been dating a 15 year old girl for about 9 months now. Our relationship is very good and understanding. We haven't had sex and don't plan to till she is old enough. Her parents do drugs and drink a lot so their permissi...

Girls my age think I look too young, but will I be asking for trouble to go out with a 15-year-old?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1011 days ago

30 December 2005 (M) - I'm 19 and I've became good friends with a girl who is 15. I know she fancies me. I really like her back and we have so much in common. We are perfect for each other. The only thing is the age difference is holding me back from asking her out. I'm ...

I lied about my age to the woman of my dreams. She thinks I'm 20, but I'm actually 26!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1017 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - I have been dating the woman of my dreams for 10 months. Everything has been going great... but I've kept one big secret from her. I lied about my age. I told her I was 20 years old when in fact I am 26. She is 19 and I feared that if I told her ...

I really like her but how do I convince her not to worry about the age gap?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1013 days ago

29 December 2005 (M) - ok so im an 18 year old male and I really really like an older girl. In fact shes 23.....I can't seem to think that there is this chemistry between us but this age thing seems a "taboo" to her. WE get along great we are the best of friends and I ...

I despair... My Xmas present from my younger boyfriend was a 2nd hand book about rabbits!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1017 days ago

29 December 2005 (F) - Iv'e been having a relationship on and off for more than 3 years now with a man who is 9 years younger. I am 42 and have 2 grown up children, I'm educated and have just become a grandmother on xmas day,(which he made a sarcastic remark about me...

My mate's brother is 24 and I'm 17. Is it too much for us to overcome?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1019 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - I have a problem. I fancy my best mate's brother loads... He's all I can think about, day and night. Problem is he's 24, and I'm 17. Am I too young for him? Thing is, we share similar interests and when I sleep over my mate's house I fantasise about ...

I'm 17, he's 37..I want him but he keeps pushing me away! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1011 days ago

27 December 2005 (F) - oh my gos i cant belive im doin this ...... ok iv bin best friends with this guy for ages well just over a year and i can tell him every thing you no all of my girly probs and every body at first thort something was goin on just coss hes a man a...

He seems perfect and our ages aren't an issue to us. Should they be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 646 days ago

26 December 2005 (F) - I am 15 and my boyfriend is 21. We started going out and we really didn't ask the whole age question. We got really close and that's when I asked him how old he was. We had sex but I told him I would rather wait because it is safer. He respects that ...

Slept with my boss at a Xmas do. I'm not sorry, but I think he might be...

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

26 December 2005 (F) - Hi merry xmas! Here's another question you have probo heard before. Basically I'm 21, had my works xmas do and slept with one of my bosses. There was pure chemistry there. He's a lot lot older than me but now I'm really worried about going back...

There's an age gap, but should that matter? We get on together so well!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1020 days ago

25 December 2005 (M) - Hi..people are in the same situation as me-it is good to see. I have stumbled upon a great younger woman (a bit younger-15 years) in the restaurant/bar I go to. The best vibe/silliness goes on between us every time I go in the place and it has led ...

Dating someone older???

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

23 December 2005 (F) - hi i was wonderin what everyone thought about datin older ppl??? im 14 and datin a 28 year old man. what u fink??...

I'm 18 and in my last year of school, so can anything happen with the teacher I know?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 975 days ago

22 December 2005 (F) - Ok, I am 18, and in the last year of sixth form. I am very very very good friends with one of the teachers at our school, he has never taught me and I know him through helping with school productions, he is 29. I really think Ive fallen for him. ...

Broke up with my gf of 3 years..now I want to date a girl 4 years younger. Is the age gap a problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

21 December 2005 (M) - I really need help! I'm 18 and i've fallen in love with a girl 4 years younger than me (A), i finished with my girlfriend (b) of 3 years about a month ago coz i realised i wasn't in love with her anymore. I kissed the girl (A) a couple days before ...

We weren't that close when he was in high school, but I want him to know how strongly I feel now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1025 days ago

20 December 2005 (F) - I don't know if you will be able to answer my question, but I thought I needed an outside opinion and nobody else seems to want to try to answer my question. Here's my "story"... I have Loved this Guy for almost three years now. I met him when ...

He's 46 and ogles the teen girls! How do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 437 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - My boyfriend is 46 years old. I am the same age. Whenever, we are out shopping, he really looks (I mean really staring and ogling) at teen girls about the age of 13-16 years old. I feel rather disgusted with this behaviour and I feel sorry for the ...

What are the chances that our relationship will work with a 17 year age difference?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 593 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - What are possible difficulties that could arise from having a 17 year age difference in a relationship? I'm 27 and the guy I like is 44. I really love him and he loves me, but already we've had comments that I looked like his daughter. I've a...

I'm 16 and he's 30, but we really connect. I want him to know it will work!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 984 days ago

19 December 2005 (F) - I've been talking to a guy who I've known since May and it's starting to get more serious. He's great and I like him a lot, but the problem is that he's 14 years older than me. I know it seems like a lot, expecially since I'm 16, but we connect on ...

Is eight years between us too much to make "us" work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1028 days ago

17 December 2005 (F) - Hi, I'm a girl and 17 years old. I have been talking to a 26 year old guy on the phone and online every day for the past month and 1/2. He is very sweet and we know each other through a family member. We are starting to like each other but we feel ...

Dating an 18-year girl old as a 26-year old guy... What am I letting myself in for?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

11 December 2005 (M) - I am attracted to an 18 year old girl (and she is attracted back) but I feel I shouldn't be as I am 26. Surely people of these ages are in a different place in their lives and it wouldn't work. Despite all of that I am probably going to unable ...

He's my landlord, he's married and he's 30 years older that me-but I had sex with him...now he's ignoring me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1039 days ago

6 December 2005 (F) - i had sex with a married older man, try 30 years older and he's my landlord, now it seems like he's pulling away from me. he was supossed to call on saturday and well now it's monday. i called him today twice one time i left a message about he ...

My chatroom romance is turning out to be a chatroom dud! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1040 days ago

5 December 2005 (F) - hi, my problem starts when i met this guy in a chatroom which i frequent often, however after chatting a couple of times,things were starting to change, and we started to connect, of course he told me these feelings will get more serious,which it ...

He's got no time for me any more! Should I just put up with it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1042 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - I need help. I've been dating this guy for almost 4 years and he is 11 years older than I am. Now before this year everything was good between us; we did things together and we always showed we loved each other. Now he has no time for me at al...

How can I fix my relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1020 days ago

4 December 2005 (F) - i am 16 years of age and im trying the best i can to fix my relationship. my partner is 28 years older then me and i love him too bits my friends and family have funally approved of him and we have been going out for 5 months. but we just cant seem ...

His possessiveness and the age gap are driving a wedge between us. Is it over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1043 days ago

3 December 2005 (F) - Hey, I'm a college student and am in a relationship with a man 7 years older than me. We have been seeing each other for about 6 months, however I feel trapped in our relationship, he is extremely possessive and this is pushing me further and ...

My son wants a mature girlfriend...what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 358 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - I am worried about my son. He is 16 and wants an elderly girlfriend... what do I do? A Worried Mom...

I'm attracted to man even younger than my current bf...what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1017 days ago

2 December 2005 (F) - I am so confused I am in a relationship of five years that I am not happy with (that is another story) I have been unhappy for a while now I met a man that I am very interested in but the only problem is that he is 22 years old and I am 42 my ...

My 16 year old bf is sleeping with my grandmother! What do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 1028 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 16 too. Recently I found out that he has been sleeping with my grandmother and has been having an affair with her for 3 months - and I didn't know until now! I feel sick, disgusted, jaded.... what do I do? Katrina...

Should a 40 year old man want to date a 19 year old woman and then get her pregnant?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

1 December 2005 (F) - Is it normal for a forty year old man to want a relationship with a nineteen year old girl and then get her pregnant?...