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Archived questions from: July, 2007 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I really fancy this footballer but have never spoken to him. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 845 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - hi i am 14 and i really like this footballer who i recently saw at a football match. i have never spoken to him before and have only seen him twice, but i really fancy him because i think he is very good looking. but i wish i did not feel this way ...

How do the men feel about dating an older woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 845 days ago

31 July 2007 (F) - Men only please! I am a woman in my early fifties and have met a guy in his forties, there is a 8 year gap. He is grey haired and a bit overweight and I am hardly grey at all and trim, fit, and told I look much younger quite often, even in my thirt...

Should I ignore her a little now when I see her or would that just make her think "Good now I'm rid of him"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 847 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - There is this girl (A LOT Younger) I'm chatting to that got pissed because I flirted with her but she didn't mind at first. Later I did it again and then she did not want to talk anymore and was supposed to send me a pic and said she's not going to ...

Should we let our age difference get in the way?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 847 days ago

30 July 2007 (M) - She is 21 and in college and I am 18 and finishing up high school, we are both interested in each other but we are both concerned about how the age differance will play into our relationship, should we let that matter so much?...

I am with someone that is 15 years older than me. How can I keep him interested?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 826 days ago

30 July 2007 (F) - So I am recently dating a guy that is 15 years older then me and I'm wondering if anyone has advice on how to make sure that he stays interested in me. ...

I'm obsessed with a married woman. How do I get over my obsession??

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 543 days ago

29 July 2007 (M) - i am obesessed with a woman of 37..i am 57...we were workamates...nearly had sex..i panicked..now all i do is think about her..every waking minute of my life...i imagine her making love to her husband..my question is..how do i get over an ...

Should I keep seeing my best mates uncle?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 848 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - i have a problem i could use some advice on. i am 18 and i have been best mates with my best mate for 11 years....... we went to her 33 year old uncles house (who i have fancied for a long time) a couple of months ago and we had to stay there cos ...

I'm 17, he's 25 what's the problem?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 791 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - im 17 going on 18 in about a month. im in love with a 25 year old. weve been dating secretly for about a year now, and my parents just found out and wont let me have anything to do with him. how can i make then understand how i feel, its not about ...

My older sister calls him a pervert.. but is he really too old for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 843 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - i know age is just a number but i have a quick question is 16 which ill be 17 in a week and hes 20 is that big of a differnce? because my older sister keeps calling him a prevert but her husban is 29 and she is 23 so is she just trien to get him to ...

I'm 15, and have accidently kissed an older married man in the same room as his wife! Should I feel guilty?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 847 days ago

29 July 2007 (F) - I'm 15, and have accidently kissed an older married man in the same room as his wife. I'm really not the type who does this sort of thing, and I did happen to be extremely drunk. So I'm faced with the problem of whether I should hate myself and feel ...

I'm 14 and dating my 25 year old teacher

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 823 days ago

27 July 2007 (F) - Hi. my names lindsay and im going out with a 25 year old. im only 14... but i love him and he loves me...what do u think? but if anyone finds out like in my school he could like lose everything cause hes a teacher...what do u think?...

I really like him but he doesn't seem interested in me that way; could the age gap be the reason?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 848 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - I have a huge crush on a male friend that I met a few weeks ago. We have spent quite a bit of time hanging out together and we have great conversations, but it's never really flirty. He shows a lot of interested in me as a person, but never in the ...

My daughter was seduced by her female college professor

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 851 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - My 18 year old daughter has been seduced by a 33 year od female member of staff at her college. My daughter denied that anything had gone on between them until she was 18. I do not believe this is true. The college sacked the member of staff but the ...

I like my best friends cousin...what do I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 851 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - AHH. I like this guy but the problem is hes 21.. and im 16 i dont know what to do.. hes always making me laugh.. and we're always flirting...today during quince practice he told me i looked cute since my hair was braided into pig tails and i dont ...

I really like my older cousin and dont know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 851 days ago

26 July 2007 (F) - i have a crush on my 2nd cousin. he is 20 and i am 13. the problem is i really try to forget about him, but i'm constantly thinking about him. and even when i have a crush on other guys i still think about him. it's driving me mad , but on the oth...

Is ten years too big a difference?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 832 days ago

25 July 2007 (M) - There is 10 years difference between myself and my girlfriend. She is 47 and I'm 37. She has been married and divorced but has no kids. I'm not sure if I still want kids. I do care for her and enjoy being with her, but don't know if 10 years is...

17 and 27, is that a problem?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 850 days ago

25 July 2007 (F) - I'm 17 and I've just started to get involved with this guy who is 27, is this wrong?...

I have a mad crush on a customer

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 853 days ago

24 July 2007 (F) - I work and I see frequent customers. There is this one main guy who comes in about every week, and when i see him, i get sooo red. Expecially when i communicate with him. And I'm sure he notices too!! I've seen quite a few attractive guys,...

My boyfriend seems to have control issues; he said he needs time to think. How much time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 853 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, I am in love with a man 12 yrs my senior. We have been dating for close to 11 months now. We have great chemistry have had alot of good times together. On the other hand we have had some drama as he calls it. His pace is a little s...

Is she too young for me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 850 days ago

23 July 2007 (M) - i am 15 and i have recently become good friends with a girl whos 13. i think she wants to be more than just friends and i would too but everyone deems it wrong to go out with someone that much youger. is it right to go out with a girl a couple years ...

I'm 16 and my 23 year old crush knows I like him; he has a girlfriend but he says he doesn't like her anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 851 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - Hi i am 16 and i like this boy/man who is 23 is this wrong? he knows i like him but he has a girlfriend at the minute. He calls her names and says he doesnt like her anymore. I really like him alot though any ideas on how i could get over him? ...

He won't say 'I love you' or include me in his future plans because he doesn't want to feel 'trapped' but I'm just confused about what he really wants

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 854 days ago

23 July 2007 (F) - I have been with a lovely man for just under nine months now and after about 4 months I blurted out I love you which he didnt say back. he treats me very well and is so sweet to me and reliable and says things that he loves about me or loves being ...

I love him very much but he's twice my age; I don't want to end up alone when I'm in my 50s

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 588 days ago

22 July 2007 (F) - hi. i'm with the loveliest bloke i've ever met, but he's just turned 40 and i'm 22... i wish this wasn't a problem but in reality it is. i have no intention of splitting wiv him coz we love each other so much, but how do i overcome the problems yet ...

19 and 14 is that ok?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 845 days ago

22 July 2007 (F) - Is it ok for me to date a guy that is 19 and I am 14?. I really like him and don't want to let him go....

Does he really like me or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 855 days ago

21 July 2007 (F) - Hey, I'm 14 and the guy i like is 16, he flirts with me quite a lot. He is always brushing up against me as if to kiss me and putting is arms round me, he has also fallen asleep on my sholder lots on coach journeys. Do you reacon he really likes me?...

Why does she just want to be friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 855 days ago

21 July 2007 (M) - Well, to start I met this girl and she is 19 and I am 33. We started dating kind of, after around two weeks or so she told me she is having trouble with the age gap. We still like each other but she wants to be friends for now, but I'll miss hol...

I'm almost 18 and she is almost 14; is it Ok to date her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 855 days ago

21 July 2007 (M) - is it alright if i am 17 going on 18 in november and im going out with a 13 going to be 14 in dec. because i think she is worth it but i dont know what to do please i need help. and my parents are telling lies to break up with her and they say that ...

How can I help my friend here?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 857 days ago

19 July 2007 (F) - I'm 21, and my friend's 19. She got married 6 months ago to a 40-year-old man who she's been with since she was 17 - and said that they married for love not money (he was a nice guy who was a builder, and said he wasn't wealthy, just lives a good l...

Am I in love or is this just a crush?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 852 days ago

19 July 2007 (F) - when i am at work i can't stop thinking about one of the team leaders. he dosen't even know i am alive, and i hardley know any thing about him. when i see him i get a funny feeling and i feel so happy. the other thing is that he is married and about ...

Should I tell my best friend's younger sister how I feel about her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 858 days ago

19 July 2007 (M) - Hi, I have had a crush on my best friends younger sister for a very long time. I have been best friends with him since First Grade, and I have been friends with his sister since about Fourth or Fifth Grade. She told me a few years ago that she like...

I love my boyfriend but I am not sure if the love is what it was when we first got together.. and I think, given the option, I would leave for this other guy in an instant, if he wanted me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 859 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - I am in a relationship with an older man, I am 24 he is 52.. We have been together for 3 years and and have been lving together for 2 and a half years.. I moved 320 miles away from my family to be with him.. Things are good for us, we have a good ...

I have recently met somebody double my age on the internet and I really like him and would like to have a relationship with him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 858 days ago

18 July 2007 (F) - I am 18 and have been with my boyfriend for four years. However I have recently met somebody double my age on the internet and I really like him and would like to have a relationship with him. Please help I don't know what to do....

He feels that I have so much more to experience in my life and if I ended up with him I would leave him when I grow older... he feels he is too old for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 860 days ago

17 July 2007 (F) - I have been seeing a guy who is engaged. We met about a year ago, and over time we have become so close, we started off being great friends but it just went too far... now we are so in love, we have everything in common and have not once been sick ...

My boyfriend is 19 years older than me and I am worried about our future

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - Hi I have currently been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we are very happy together. However, i have major concerns about the age gap. I am 22 and he is 19 years older than me. He is divorced with no children. I am worried that this will c...

I just wanted reassurance and now he wont talk to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 839 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - I have been seeing my guy for about 8 months now... im 20 and hes 35 - we get along perfectly and we never see a problem with the age difference... Today we had a great big fight because i told him im starting to think hes treating me like...

I am 15 and dating a 27 year old

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 852 days ago

16 July 2007 (F) - i am turning 15 and i am dating a 27 yr old i dont know how to tell my parents i really love him...

What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s?

This question has 32 answers - newest was posted 802 days ago

15 July 2007 (F) - What do you guys think about a 17 year old with a man in his 40s? Yes, he is married with kids. Miserably so, but so. I do realize he has other priorities, and do not expect anything from him. Although I do feel that way, the flirting and teasing ...

It would be great if anyone could give me advice on possible dates to keep things interactive and interesting.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 862 days ago

15 July 2007 (M) - Hi guys, I’m a bit rusty on the dating scene, as I've not had a proper girlfriend for such a long time now, just over 5 years now! I’m 29, and have recently been on one date with this girl who is quite a bit younger than me, only 21. She replied to ...

What do people think about this age difference?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 863 days ago

15 July 2007 (M) - There is an age gap of about eight years between boyfriend and girlfriend. I am 39 coming on 40 and my girlfriend is 30. What do people think about this age difference? ...

She dumped me for someone else then calls me to say she wants to get back with me, next day I see her withher EX!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 704 days ago

14 July 2007 (M) - Ok so my girlfriend is 24, I'm 16, we were going out for about three weeks and this one night she says I'm going to the club and I have a funny feeling about it, so I wait and I wasn't even looking out a window or nothing there goes her ex boy ...

I'm 19 and I think I'm in love with a woman who is 40, she is married and also happens to be my friend's mum.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 862 days ago

14 July 2007 (M) - I'm 19 and I think I'm in love with a woman who is 40, she is married and also happens to be my friend's mum. Also to make matters worse I work with her. She is always telling me very personal things about her married life, and I get the impression ...

My 20 year old friend just got engaged to a man who's nearly 70; she wants to know about problems the gap could cause

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 861 days ago

13 July 2007 (F) - I am a 23 year old girl and my friend is 20 years old. She told me she has recently got engaged to a 68-year-old man she met in a pub at a karaoke contest - he is the owner of it, and that he is a decent person, was what she told me. She asked me w...

I need to know if the relationship will be inappropriate due to the age difference.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 861 days ago

12 July 2007 (M) - Well I'm a 14 year old freshman and I really like this girl who's two years younger than me. She's in seventh grade, which is the same grade as my brother. I need to know if the relationship will be inappropriate due to the age difference, or I ...

My boyfriend is 15 years older than me with 2 kids and my parents dont approve

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

12 July 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been seeing each other for nearly a year now and we really love each other. The problem is that we havent been honest with my parent in terms of his age and the fact that he has 2 kids. He is 37 and i am 22. ive become very ...

My social worked told me to stay away from my 13 year old girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 867 days ago

10 July 2007 (M) - iam 17 years old and i will be 18 in nov. I met this girl that is 13 years old and we were going out until my social worker found out and told me if i didnt quit seeing her that they would move me to a different home long ways away and register me ...

So why is everyone having such a problem with the age gap?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 868 days ago

9 July 2007 (F) - Right. I'm 17 and my boyfriend's 24. We have a small age difference of 6.5 years, which is nearly always commented on. My beau and I have no problem with it; we are of a similar maturity and we're very close. So why is everyone having such...

I'm 27, he's 22. Is there a problem?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 867 days ago

8 July 2007 (F) - hello, i met a nice young man who is 22 years old he is mentally mature and understands me he tells me that he likes me and wants a future with me.I like him too and we both like the same things .But iam 27 do you think the age difference is a ...

She's has been having a relationship with her bf's father! How do I tell her daughter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 864 days ago

8 July 2007 (F) - Just found out that my daughter is having a relationship with her partners father. How the hell are we going to explain to her two year old daughter that mummies new boyfriend is her Grandad. Just can't get my head around this, has anyone else had ...

How big of an age gap do you think is too big? I'm seeing a guy who's 25 years older.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 869 days ago

7 July 2007 (F) - Just a quick question, How big of an age gap do you think is too big? I am seeing some one 25 years older than me.. is the difference too much?...

Is age really that important?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 870 days ago

6 July 2007 (M) - If you fall in love with someone older than you about 7 yrs older and they're married with a baby but her and her man are seperated and we both like each other...is age really that important ...