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Archived questions from: March, 2013 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Is it a good idea to allow my boyfriend to sleep with other girls while I'm away at College?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm eighteen years old and about to go to college. The problem is that my boyfriend doesn't want me to go, because he hasn't finished high school yet. I think it will take him three years to finish, and I don't want to go to a communit...

I just want a boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Alright so I'm almost sixteen, the only serious relationships I've been in have had to be secrets cuz the guys were older than me. I've done everything but have sex. Now I seriously want a real boyfriend! Problem is is that I can't find anyone I...

My wife wants to be alone with another man before I join them for a threesome

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4046 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - I have been married for 4 years, we have 2 kids together. A couple of months ago she wanted to try a threesome (mmf) with one of our friends (a 23 year old guy). it was not that bad, but its like it has been going on every month. Today she aske...

I'm crushing on my older trainer. Could he like me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4048 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Im realizing that I'm starting to really like older men. I'm 16, however i fall for guys in their 20's-30's.. I'm falling in love with a personal trainer at the gym i go to. I try and go everyday, and when hes not there i become upset. I love seeing ...

Help, dating younger guy, and he cheated

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4050 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - I am writing for any thoughts, ideas, or help in what has become the worst thing that has ever happened to me. I started seeing a much younger guy 3.5 years ago, (he is twenty years younger). I knew from the very beginning things could only be betwe...

I want a healthy relationship, so why am I attracted to unattainable or unavailable older or married men? How can I stop doing this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

24 March 2013 (F) - I have a major problem and I have no idea how to fix this. I am only attracted to older men I can't have. For example, people in authority or married men. I don't express this to them and I end up beating myself up about it. I haven't been in a re...

I need this crush to end now before I do something stupid and I don't know how

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - I'm in my early 20's and infatuated by this guy at work who is older than me. (late thirties) He's gorgeous for his age , rough,masculine and he's such a laugh...... I think about him day and night , dream about him. The sexual tension between ...

Please, how do I get my high teacher off my mind?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4057 days ago

23 March 2013 (F) - My old English teacher is in my high school now. Since I was in 7th grade I have liked her, but now in high school, I know I really like her, as a crush. I don’t really recall being gay or bi, but I do have a gay feelings for her. I really do li...

Advice for dating a younger man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - I have the opportunity to date a 26 year old man. The problem is that I'm 41. I've never dated anyone that young before. He is hot, sexy and we get along really well together. I'm very attracted to him. He really wants to date me, but I'm being ...

Should I call off my engagement? He is possesive but my family need his money....

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - Hello all, I would really be grateful if anyone can guide me through this problem I'm facing. Iv met my current fiance 1 year ago, we've started talking and we directly clicked, he's a really really well off business man who is much older than me,...

I love her but I'm emotionally drained, am I wasting my time? Should I put some distance between us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4037 days ago

22 March 2013 (M) - I'm dating a woman 16year younger than me. We get along most of the time but our bad times are or feel extreme. I have trust issues with her due to her deleting texts after snding and having multiple numbers under a contact e.g. she has my number ...

Does anyone else share my fantasy for men that are much older than me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4032 days ago

22 March 2013 (F) - I am a 21 year old female, and I find myself fantasizing about much, much older men. They are normally well over 60, and usually the older or uglier they look, the more the fantasy turns me on. I'm not saying elderly men are ugly by default, but ...

How do I get things back on track with my guy friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4060 days ago

20 March 2013 (F) - I'm a 30yr old female who has been separated for about a year. Last April I met a guy I worked with who is now 22yrs old. Even though he's younger than I am he is actually very mature for his age. We started off as friends but as the months ...

Is this younger guy just messing with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4060 days ago

19 March 2013 (M) - I am a gay guy. I met this guy about an year ago. He is 21 and I am 35. He used to hang out with the girls of his age a lot,and I have seen him talking with the girls without his shirt. He goes to the gym and stays in shape, and although he makes a ...

Guys, would it be selfish to get in touch with him to apologize for the things I'm sorry I did?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4062 days ago

17 March 2013 (F) - I would really be interested if any guys could answer this one, I was seeing a man on and off for a few months, and he made it clear he was unable to commit any further than a casual relationship. I have children, he does not, and he continua...

Is it me or him? I am sick of begging for sex. How can he be 23 and have such a low sex drive?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

17 March 2013 (F) - I’m older than him. He is 23 and I am older. So if you are the kind of person who doesn’t understand the older woman, younger man relationship doesn't respond I’m looking for help and information. Not “advice” that’s not going to help me, at a...

I'm afraid this relationship my daughter is in is bad news -- how do I get her to see the big picture?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

16 March 2013 (F) - aunts and uncles, i have a daughter that is pregnant by a much, much, much older guy, she has a child from another boy. shes living with this guy now and bragging about how she is going to be a stay at home mommy. now most of you are going to s...

Is this age difference too much?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4061 days ago

15 March 2013 (F) - What is the biggest age gap relationship you have known of? I am 26 years old and massively attracted to a 45 year old man. I can't help it it's getting me down, my family wouldn't approve....

I like him but I'm older and in a higher grade. Should I date him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4066 days ago

14 March 2013 (F) - We have known for over 2years and hes 6months younger than i am,unlike other guys i v dated,he is lovely,sweet and caring,though he has asked me to date him i always laughed and waved it off but lately hes serious about it,he wants me to be his ...

I've had feelings for my teacher for so long. Now he's my ex teacher we communicate a lot online. Does he realize I have feelings for him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4065 days ago

10 March 2013 (F) - Hi, so ive been besotted and in love with my teacher for 2 years. He is now my ex-teacher and we have been communicating online, via facebook and other things A LOT! Almost everyday, anything from a few minutes multiple times a day or hours for...

My grandma invited him and he didn't show up. Now he's angry that she didn't invite him this time. He got sarcastic. Does he even have the right to be mad?.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

10 March 2013 (F) - Yesterday I casually told my boyfriend that today I was going to lunch at my grandma's place. He asked me why, so I told him she was going to cook one of my favorite dishes, so she had invited me. His answer: "Well, thank your grandma for th...

Do I leave my b/f because my biological clock is ticking and he's not even close to being ready for children?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

10 March 2013 (F) - My partner is five years younger than me (I'm 33, he's 28). Before we got together, I told him I was worried about the age gap as I don't think I'm willing to leave trying to have children later than 36, as I don't think it's safe. He said he wanted ...

The man I've become friendly with has custody of his traumatized niece. Where do I fit in here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4068 days ago

9 March 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, On the surface this may seem like another question about dating a guy with a kid. This is a bit different, however. I moved into a new place and I'm lucky to have great neighbors. One of my neighbors is a guy who's 7 years...

It's added to my anxiety. My favourite teacher has changed. He's ignoring me. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

8 March 2013 (F) - My favourite teacher is not himself anymore, he used to favour me but now it's getting weird, he used to let me off with things; he still lets me off some things about no as much anymore. But it's weird how one week he's nice to me then the next...

He's younger and a playboy. He flirts with me. And disrespects me. He has a Gf. And maybe he has made another girl pregnant. Should I tell his Gf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

8 March 2013 (F) - Me and this young Guy work together and he is 21 and I am over 10 yrs older than him. I really like him but he sends me mix signals sometimes. I checked out his girlfriend who oworks at the same place we work, but different sections. Ever...

I've always had low self esteem. Do I need counselling to deal with my decision to sleep with a married man 18 years older than me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4069 days ago

8 March 2013 (F) - I already feel bad enough already, without enduring being called nasty names. I slept with a married man who is 18 years older than me. We met on the internet and went out, had drinks and slept together the first time we met. Before we actu...

Is it a red flag that my 33 year old boyfriend likes to hang out with a 21 year old girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

6 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is 33 and I am 27. We have been together for 3+ years and our relationship is pretty strong. But, he befriends people much younger and hangs out with one 21 year girl old in particular. Is this a red flag? He wouldn't cheat, but I ...

How do I impress a man who is 10 years older than I am?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

5 March 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I need some advice. I'm 21 years old, law student, and mature for my age, I've always been. Like a few years ago, a young litigator move into house next to mine and since then, I've got a huge crush on him. He works with my fathe...

I barely know this younger girl but she keeps asking me to go to her play. Should I go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

4 March 2013 (M) - I have recently met a girl. I dont know her very well--in fact i barely know anything about her other than her name and im not sure she even knows my name. We havent swapped numbers or anything and ive never seen her outside of work. However she has ...

My former married lover is also my boss and he is trying to get me transferred to another city!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

4 March 2013 (F) - Here's my story. A rough one. Sorry its long, but I would really appreciate your help. I had an affair with a married man which lasted for 2 years. He is 25 years elder to me. I had just gotten out of a relationship where I was cheated on, when...

How do tell my mother that I'm dating a man 18 years older than me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

4 March 2013 (F) - I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 39. We've been dating for almost two months and very few people in my life know about him. Just my sisters and a few coworkers from my job. (they know him because he stops by every once in a while) My mother has no id...

Out of control crush on my teacher is leaving me depressed. How can I deal with that and the jealousy I feel about anouther girl in the class?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

3 March 2013 (F) - I've been deeply in love with my history teacher ever since he joined my school last fall. He's in his late 20s I think and he's gorgeous with his cute long hair. This seems to be the problem. I have a huge crush on him and it's hurting me. I ...

On average, will a guy 55 or older find it harder to ejaculate a second time, during the same session?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

3 March 2013 (F) - I'm curious to know whether on average, an older guy, 55 years or so, will find it a lot more difficult to ejaculate again, after he's come once? He does get hard very quickly again, but he says there's not much feeling, so even with stimulat...

How do I approach this much older man at work to let him know I am interested in him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

2 March 2013 (F) - Hi, I was hoping to get some help with the situation I'm in. There is a man at the place I work at who I am very interested in. He winks at me every time he sees me and sometimes lightly touches my arm. He almost always comes to where I a...