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Archived questions from: June, 2009 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

How do I deal with my girlfriend's interfering family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Im a 33 year old man with a 14 year old son. im gonna get straight to the point. I was single for about a year then I met a beautiful 25 y.o. woman whom now im deeply in love with and she loves me too. now the problem. her parents have such a hold ...

Any advice for a 16yr old dating a 37yr old married man?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I am 16 years old.. and my boyfriends is around 37 years old and he has 2 kids and he is also married.... He is my coach in table tennis when i was in high school, we bond together, we go out together as friends.... yet unfortunately, as the yime...

Should I end it with the older guy and find love with a guy my own age? Opinions please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I've known my boyfriend for 4 yrs and we've been a couple and living together for 3yrs... so here's the Deal...He's twice my age: I'm 21 he's 44. We haven't talked about it with our families yet...but they practically pretty much already know sin...

I feel more for my younger boss than my husband!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - I have been obsessed with another man who happens to be my boss and 12 years younger. He is funny, good looking and sexy. He doesn't feel the same way about me. He is married with 3 children. My husband is disabled and our marriage is having ...

I'm only 14 and he's 19. Should we have sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - hi guys i'm menna,14 years old i like a guy,even some times i feel that i love him ,he's about 19 year bt the problem is he wanna us to have sex he tells me that he likes me bt i feel that he says it to make me have sex with him i never felt that he ...

I'm addicted to him so should I move in with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Iam 16 i have been sleeping wit this 34yr old.hes divorced and have no kids.to me only thing we have good wit eachother is sex but hes talkin bout me moving in wit him oncw i turn 18.mi body is addicted 2 him so i never tell him diffrent.but how can ...

I hate it when he has to go to his wife! It's like he never has time for me...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - Im 18 and hes 40 and where having an affair, i hate it when he has to go to his wife, help? First of all he told me got divorced at christmas and he was 2 kids who are 3 and 7 who live with the mum, then he finally admited he was still married an...

Does anyone know of a support group for people like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - When i was 15 i had intercourse with a person i trusted who was 21 i was oblivious to the camera he was filming it with, 2 years later his ex-girlfriend who had a court case against him thats the only reason she showed it to me brought this tape to ...

My ex the baby daddy, a friend and my current boyfriend.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Hi cupid i recently went on a kinda date with this guy, and his personality attracted me, my little boy came along with us, well it all went well i loved the way he respected me , thing is his 46 and i'm only 27, what if he bores me or so on i've ...

I'm 38 and hes 24. Is this going to work in the long term?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Okay so I'm a young 38 (very active) and my boyfriend is 24 (active as well) honestly, what are the chances of things working out long-term with such a huge age difference? We are exactly the same - we joke about it often, and sometimes if I have ...

I'm 14 and he's in his 40's but I have really strong feelings for him...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - Heyyah Everyone,, I need help i have started ti feel really strong for some 1 in there 40s since i have been talking to him i cant get him of my mind and i find him so amazing id love to just be with him. although he lives quite far away id love...

Should I give her another message to let her know how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - I have a crush on someone, she is so beautiful and every time I see her I get butterflies in my stomach. I don't know if I love her or not because I don't know what love feels like. I added her as a friend on facebook and she added me back but she ...

7 years apart. I didn't know, why did he do that to me?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

25 June 2009 (F) - We're both in college and we liked each other, he found out i was older than him before I found out he is that much younger....so we kinda talked at the end of the quarter, he was not looking at me when he asked me how old i am, then i told him and ...

I am wanting opinions from people! Should our relationship be kept secret?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 139 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - I am 16 and my girlfriend is 13. We've been together for around 4 months but we've known each other for years. She's really mature for her age and I must say she's f*****g Beautiful! I've known that she's liked me quite a lot for a long time but ...

I've Fallen in love with an older man! What is the right decision?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 6 months and am head over heels in love with him, but, he is 18 years older than me, divorced, and has five children. We have very similar beliefs and out looks on life and want the same things in the future. Unlike him ...

My girlfriend hasn't told her kids about our relationship, it's bothering me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - Hi, i have been with my girlfriend for about a year now. We had a long distance relationship and we finally met this past January. She lives in another country, and we have talk about a future together. I love her very much, but it bothers me to kn...

I need your opinions on this one. Am I too old for her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

22 June 2009 (M) - I am new to this site and won't ordinarily ask for advice from strangers, but I need some prospective. I am 39 and I recently met a young woman who I think is very special. She is only 20 but has an intelligence, wit and courage that is far beyond ...

Opinions on age differences

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

22 June 2009 (F) - Is it okay for a 18 year old guy to date a 31 year old woman?...

How would she react if I told her I was younger?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 156 days ago

20 June 2009 (M) - Im 20 years old and i met a girl who is 24. i told her that im 23. she has a boyfriend but we talk everyday and spend all of her free time together. we were just having fun but we just talked and we both realize that we are starting to really like ...

Can I do anything to get her love back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - hello to all hope you can help i just broke up from a 2 year relationship i'm 28 and my ex is 54 where do i start she was in a married relationship with someone she no longer loved and we ran away together we fell in love staight away th...

Is this age gap (13 years) too big?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I am 19, and have recently fallen for a guy who is 32! He really nice and not pressuring me into anything, in fact it's completely the opposite, everything is on my terms and upto me, so theres no pressure on his side. The truth is, I find guys ...

I'm 16, she's 13...is the age gap too big?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - I am 16 and there is a girl who is 13 who really, and I mean really! likes me. I know her best friend and she has explained how much this girl likes me. I know she is only 13 but appears very mature for her age. To begin with I liked her just as a ...

She's overfriendly with other guys on social-network, it's making me insecure

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 158 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - Hello everyone. I have a long distance relationship. She is over 30, divorced, have a child with her and I am 5 years younger. It has been 1 year and we fight a lot. It has been 1 week we didn't contact each other. Out of blue, she called m...

I only seem to like older men. Is this something to worry about?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - hi i am really confuzed i am only 16 an i don't seem to like men my own age when in the street i would rather look at a 40 year old rather than someone my age i don't know what it is but it is really freaking me out i have only ever been out with...

Do you think there was no interest ever on his part... or was he interested but our age difference bothered him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - There's this guy that I really liked..we go to the same college, and from my intuition I thought he seemed pretty interested, he would stare at me a lot, look away smiling, we bumped into each other and he ran ahead to open the door for me, I think ...

How do I break it to my mum that I'm dating a 19 year old guy from a different race?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

17 June 2009 (F) - I've been unofficially dating this guy for around 2 months.. I'm 16 and he is 19, the distance between us is not short either.. I live in North West London and he lives in South East London, so it takes one hour by train to get to each others ...

Attracted to older men!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - So I am 17 and my issue is that I am not into high school boys, I have never been with an older man but I am more attracted to the idea of being with someone older! Most men that i am attracted to are between the age of 25 and 27. Does that make me ...

I want an older boy in my life, is this a good idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - hey x Im in pickle.. i really want a boy in my life. I want a boyfriend. I hate all the boys in my year and want to get to know new boys a bit older. How? I have made friends with a popular girl who knows boys in higher years. Is this a good id...

He's difficult but I know he's worth it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 162 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - okay, I'm insanely attracted to this guy that I work with....but we're having some complications getting together....I've invited him out to a group outing at a bar three times, the first time, we ended up going to a restaurant, and he asked me to ...

I'm falling for this guy hard but he's 8 years younger than me...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - Wow I'm so unlucky i really like this guy and just found out today he's 8yrs younger (I guessed he would just be 5 yrs younger)..I think he already knew I was older cuz I think he asked my so called friend about me, and I think she just told him ...

Have been loving an older man and now he is meeting someone else

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - Hi, He is about 17 years older; he is of another religion (not that I mind but at all, but we will face trouble if we get together). Now, I can't stop thinking about him. He likes me sooooooo much and I know it. He just keeps telling people h...

We had the worse fight, do I break up with him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - I keep telling my boyfriend not grope me in certain place because I don't like it but he won't listen. Well one day I was at his house (he's 22 and I'm 16) and we were making out he started touching my chesty bits. I kept telling him to stop but he ...

I'm 17 and a virgin. Is it true older women are attracted to young men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

11 June 2009 (M) - I'm 17 and a virgin.I'm looking to lose my virginity and heard that MILFs are very suitable for and attracted to the average young man.Is this true? I am overweight and not very socially experienced with women and quite anxious hence my virgini...

Should I pursue a relationship with an older man?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - Hi i'm 21 years old and a 43 year old man is interested in me. I like him because he is the opposite of me. We have nothing in common duh!. We have already kissed and It was nice. I am not naive to the fact that it is just about sex but should I ...

I want a boyfriend, he wants a partnership - how can we find a happy medium?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - I'm in a position now where I am stuck. I really need some help with my situation, so those who can offer some, don't hold back. I am currently dating the most wonderful man I've ever known. We've been talking for more than a year, dating for...

Is he married? Or am I just one of a few?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Ok is he married....or am I just one of a few? My friend and I have been dating for about 2 years or so..and I had questions of him being married and he clearly said no..I took him at his word and enjoyed teh dinner and time we spent togeather ...

My problem is that I am falling in love with my step son!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - my problem is...i recently got married and had a ba y. i'm 22 and my 19 yr old step son recently moved in with his father, myself and his new baby sister. withen the last few weeks i feel that i am falling in love with him. dont get me wrong i love ...

Tell me, why do I only attract older guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

9 June 2009 (F) - I'll try and keep this short...all of the men who have expressed physical interest in me are way older than I am. I just turned 21. Between age 19 and now, the guys who have flirted really persistently with me have been 41, 33, 28, and 36...and ...

Should age matter?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - Should age really matter in a relationship? I personally think, and from experience in my own life, that age shouldn't matter. All it is is a number. No one should be judged on who they love or who they're atracted to. I take into consideration th...

Is cheating wrong with one other person?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - I am on here to ask for advice and comments. I have a child by my man who is 30 years older than me. We have love for each other, however im not in love with him. I have cheated on him twice sexually and don't really regret it because he can't ...

Why do only older boys like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - Hi, i'm a 14 year old girl and i've never had a boyfriend. So now i want my 1st boyfriend cuz i'm starting high school this fall. I'm wondering how i could get a guy to like me. I'm overwieght and i think thats a reason. I'm 5'5'' and 180 lbs. But i ...

Wrong kind of love crisis!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 165 days ago

8 June 2009 (F) - i am in a big dilema here..i have a boyfriens of 6 months today but there is a guy who ive known for alot longer than i have my current boyfriend. i'm starting to have feelings for him again and i don't know what to do. but the only thing is..the ...

Do mature ladies like tall young men and why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

7 June 2009 (M) - I am 22 and quite tall (about 6foot tall.) I keep getting told all the time that I'm quite tall and get called "big man" sometimes. Younger women don't really seem to be attracted to me like the lovely older ladies are. However, I wanted...

Any good positions you recommend for sex with new partner?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

6 June 2009 (F) - I turn 18 tomorrow and have been seeing a 37 yr old man for exactly one month today. We're planning on having sex tomorrow because neither of us want him to get into any legal trouble. Does anyone know of any good positions that we could try out? ...

I am 15, really like a 23 year old man, is he too old for me to date?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

6 June 2009 (F) - hi there, i have a question for you all, well i really like this guy and he is 23 and im 15 some of my friends say he is too old and some say that aslong as he is respectful in my decisions and he doesnt push me into things then its okayy, but i...

Why do I like much older men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

6 June 2009 (F) - I'm a 15 year old girl, and I absolutely can't stand guys around my age. They are immature and annoying to me. I'm attracted to much older guys (35+) and i'm not really sure why. I don't think it's a wanting-a-father-figure thing, because though my ...

There's a difference in age and maturity...what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

5 June 2009 (F) - i like this boy he's 13 and im 16..big age difference.im more womanly and filled out and mature acting and he just seems like a little innocent boy who sits back and listens to his ipod(typical 13 yr old).but he is really attractive to me for some ...

Do her compliments mean she likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 169 days ago

4 June 2009 (M) - Firstly, I'm 22. If an older lady in her 40's who has seen a younger guy in his 20's, and says to her friend that "he is nice and well brought up", does that mean there could be any sexual connotations connected in any way? She smiled at me and...

Why does age difference make less of an impact as you get older?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 172 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - Why is it that when a girl is 16 years old and a guy is 19 years old and they are dating, it seems like a large age gap. However, when the girl is 17/18 and the guy is 20/21 it doesn't really seem like a big deal. Is it because at 17 your ...

Teacher mystery. Please help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

4 June 2009 (F) - I know this is long, but I would really appreciate your help with this. This took place over years and I have to put everything in a few paragraphs... Like many of the cases mentioned on this site, mine also involves a teacher in high school. How...