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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I'm 15 and infatuated with a thirtysomething guy. What should I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - For years now there is this guy who i have loved and every time i see him i love him but (theres always a but) i personally don't know him and he is older (much older) than me. I am 15 years old and he is i would say 30+...He works in this sh...

This love just happened. How do I get over it? Why do I have to get over it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - How do I get over this. I am falling deeper and deeper in love with a women 26 years younger than I am. We met in graduate school and worked together for 10 months before she left for a fulltime position. The last day we worked together, just the...

I'm falling deeper in love with a woman 26 years my junior

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

He think's I'm older than I really am! Do I tell him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hey, okay this has proved to be tricky for me. I met this lad and it all started off as innocent fun, you know, talking, texting etc. Well I have been telling him the truth, except for one wee white lie... I live in Ireland and he lives in England,...

I love (?) my best friends older brother. There, I said it. With a 5 year difference, I don't stand a chance with him, do I?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - So I've lived next door to the "smiths" for 5 years (summer before 5th grade) and the two daughters Hannah (15) and Lydia (17) are my best friends ever and their younger brother Eli (13 but pretty mature) is also a good friend of mine too, anyways, ...

I've fallen hard for someone who doesn't want me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - i feel so stupid, i need a good kick up the bum! ive fallen hard for someone that doesnt want me. he is 10yrs younger than me and sees me as a mate only. we used to be neighbours and i moved, i thought that would cure the problem. unfortunatly he ...

I am only attracted to older men

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Hi. I am only attracted to older men and that's not an exaggeration. For an attraction to be there there has to be a mature age (40-50). I have tried going out with guys my own age and I just was never turned on or excited by them. If I am with an ...

Older boyfriend doesn't call me when he's away

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - Am 22years old my boyfriend iz twice my age he iz 48 despite differents of ages I love him regardleSs and we been living together for about ayear now but what worries me is that he doesn't believe if I love him and when him travels he doesn't call ...

My boyfriend (who is also my ex teacher) has started questioning our future together. Is there anything I can say to persuade him that things will work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and I are going through a very rough patch now. Basically our situation is special in the sense that he was my ex-teacher (but we started after I graduated) and that there's a 17 year gap between us. We've been together for 4 y...

Please help me get my lover back!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - I am married with 2 teenage children. For the last 3 years I have been having an affair with. Beautiful woman 20 years younger - I'm 44. This woman is the most amazing person Ive ever met. She turns heads were ever she goes, her personality shines ...

I feel like telling this older woman I work with that I like her, just to get it off my chest!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - Hi Im 23 and have a girlfriend that I've had for the past 5 years. Now there is a new older woman (who is single) at work who i get along with great with, now i can't sleep at night or concentrate on anything because i keep thinking about t...

Should I tell my family his real age or wait until they get to know him better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - I've been with my bf for a couple weeks and we've been talking for about a month and a half. But theres a big age diffrence and it doesn't bother me but my family is having a get together in a couple weeks and I invited him to come. He's 18 and I'm ...

How do I let go of the anger at the woman who was responsible for my leaving my last job?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4718 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I left my management job paying over £40,000 a year due to institutional bullying and due to one very insecure member of staff I was managing nearly a year ago. After nearly a year I have only JUST got another job at 1/3 of what I was earning ...

How can I convince her I'm not too young?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4719 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - I'm 17 nearly 18, and about 3 months ago I met a girl who is amazing, she looks young for her age so I thought she was about 19 but she is 23 which doesn't bother me but she says i'm too young. The frustrating thing is that I know she likes me and I ...

My married manager and I are invovled in an affair, and I want out--but I don't want lose my job!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Need some advice please. My married manager who I for the last year have seen more as an uncle and he's a great deal older than me, i'm only 20. He's met my parents several times and I always saw him more like a caring uncle than my manager. However ...

Why is he hard in the morning? Soft during sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - Im 18 my partner is 41 and I notice that he has very hard morning erections but quite soft ones when we try to have sex. Is he not attracted to me? Is it age? Is it stress?...

Is it ok to have sex with my professor?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4721 days ago

24 May 2011 (F) - hi, so my problem is that I'm in a relationship with my professor at college I'm only 20 and he is 42...we meet up 3 times a week in this apartment .However, we didn't have sex until now although that we have been together for 4 months because ...

I'm a 40 yr old female in love with a 20 yr old

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

23 May 2011 (F) - I'm a 40 yr old female in love with a 20 yr old. I struggle with our age difference and it doesn't bother him at all. He wants to marry me and loves my kids as his own. I've discussed with him that someday he would like to have his own children ...

He lied about his age...Turns out he is 18!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - Hmmm so the guy I am dating is away for a month,visiting his family....and today I found out he lied to me about his age. he's a professional soccer player so I looked up his name and found his age. How we met : We were on the same bus on our...

20 years older than me, is he just being friendly?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I know a man who is much older than me, and he winks at me every time he sees me, and he always says i am special, and he said that if he was 20 years younger, he would go after me. He also knew about this guy who treated me badly once, and he said ...

Older men equals fetish?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - Is it a fetish to be attracted to older men? I only seem to like men 45+ ...

My boyfriend is going into the army!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4724 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - my boyfriend went into the army for some days agoo, and im really sad, because i live in spain, and he's going to manchester .. im really upset, because i dont know anything about the army, can somebody please help me? ...

Why do my co workers want to pry into when I will have children? To me it's rude, and I'm single.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - My co workers always ask me when am I going to have children, even though they know that I'm single. I find this extremely rude. My co workers are all older and most married with children. Married people really annoy me as they don't remember what ...

I am 33 and he turns 24. He can't handle the age difference, is there anything I can do or say to keep him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - Hi...I feel so sad and heartbroken that I have no clue where to turn and who to revert to...something someone who can maybe help what I thought would be my long lasting relationship not be lost. I met this guy who is 9 and a half years younger than ...

I've put up with this for nearly 3 years, have I really been that unreasonable?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - my partner and I have been together 2 and a half years. there is a big age difference but everyone has accepted our relationship... everyone except his daughter who is out to destroy us and has been since day one. I appreciate the fact she is a year ...

Why would this 28 year old want to date me? And if he just wants sex, why would he bother asking me out to dinner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - Hey there, Agony Aunts. (: Just a few things I'm wondering about... I am recently single and an attractive 19 year old. The other night while I was clubbing, a guy bought me a drink and we ended up spending most of the evening dancing and hang...

About these teacher/student sex scandals...do you think that there is a double standard for the punishments?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

17 May 2011 (?) - About these teacher/student sex scandals - do you think that there is a double standard for the punishments? do you think male teachers have it worse than female teachers? do male students get lucky? do female students get abused?...

Help me make a decision about this guy!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I need all the answers I can get here as this going to be make or break for me. Ive asked a couple of questions about this guy but now ive got to make my mind up once and for all and need an outside opinion. I met this guy over a social network ...

Too young for me? Is it wrong to be in a relationship with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4728 days ago

15 May 2011 (F) - I am 23 and am quite shy and not very good with guys, and I look young for my age and quite often getting mistaken for an 18-19 year old, but my questions is I have recently started to get to know this guy who is so lovely and so good looking but ...

He's too old for me, and he's leaving for college...but I can't get him off my mind! How can I move on??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4688 days ago

15 May 2011 (F) - Okay so I like this boy a lot and i'm 15 and hes 19, and according to some people he'll be leaving town for college soon, and me and this boy haven't spoke in for about three weeks and i miss him so much. I wanna see him, and be with him but..i ...

I feel like my older bf is headed towards a crisis. What do I do? How can I really be there for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4731 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - I'm nervous. Last week, my boyfriend was telling me he was a little depressed. Things were not going well at work and he felt he needed to change his life. He said he only spent time with me (which was nice) but maybe he needed to see his friends ...

How can I best show support for this girl? I love her to bits. What can I do to get her to trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4731 days ago

14 May 2011 (F) - Hello, my friend who is 18 comes from a very broken home. She is pretty stressed out about her life. It started when she told the police what her step father did to her in 2007. Her mom does not believe that she is telling the truth and thinks that ...

My boyfriend spends a lot of time with a woman in her 60's. I think he should spend more time with me. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - Can someone help me with this question? I don't know of anybody being in this situation ever. My boyfriend of nearly 7 months chooses to spend his time with a lady in her 60's rather than with me. He goes to her house every night and through ...

If your ex is trying to make you jealous, does it mean they want you back

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - If your ex is trying to make oy jealous, does it mean they want you back? He up with me after an interferring relative made him believe I was bad-mouthing him behind his back to her. He never confronted me about it he just ended the relations...

He puzzles me. Why Can't he show love for me? I miss his smiles. He doesn't listen and ignores me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - Hi I have been married for 3 years, blessed with a son. The only problem is my husband.. he rarely smiles at me now, doesn't talk a lot with me, never spends his precious time listening to my "evening chat". When I married him 3 years ago, he wa...

I have the hots for my older Land Lady! Does this relationship have a chance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - I feel confused by my land lord. Shes 64 years old and not married. I'm 36 years old. I feel something for her; she likes it when I buy her gifts sometimes she lets me kiss her on her lips but that's it, nothing more. I feel I want more than that. ...

What does he want and what should I do? I'm confused...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4733 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - I have a few questions. It's this guy, he's a few years older, we know each other from football practise and he has never ever shown any sign of intrest utill like a month ago. He asked if i wanted to go eat pizza after practise since both of us...

I'm dating my professor, aged 40, should I tell my parents?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4738 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - Okay, so I'm an 18 year old college student who has always been attracted to older men. It was not really a problem, but now, I've started dating my professor. He's divorced, so it's not like he's cheating on his wife, and it's completely ...

I find guys over 17 years are more attractive to me than guys my own age. Why? Is this usual?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4732 days ago

7 May 2011 (?) - I'm always attracted to older guys. I'm 14 but i find guys over 17 years and beyond very attractive is there something wrong with me in not being able to like a guy my age? ...

I have strong feelings for my boss. Please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

6 May 2011 (M) - OK so after some major soul searching for the past few years I realize that the strong close feeling I have for my straight boss is love. My heart says stay clear and not say anything but my heart tells me otherwise. I cant eat or sleep and its ...

I'm attracted to much older, married men!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - I feel like I'm in dangerous and confusing territory here. I don't even know where to begin. Long story short I've been talking to a man online for 2 years. He is significantly older than me, about 24 years older ("he could be your father!" Yeah, I ...

Should I tell my teacher the truth or continue a painful lie?

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - for the past year i have had really strong feelings for my old teacher it started off as a stupid crush but its grown and it feels like love, i have told him my life stories like my personal family life and he knows i am in love and he has been very ...

He's ten years older. When I wrote "hahaha" he didn't joke back. What do you think this means?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - I was chatting with the guy I like (he's ten years older) on facebook the other day. I was talking about how I got hit on by an older guy again (I got hit on before and i tried to get this guy that I like to help me out but he was busy at the time). ...

Will the age issue be there like a sore that will not heal and eventually destroy the relationship? Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4717 days ago

5 May 2011 (?) - Hello, i am a 43 year old man and for the last year i have been in a relationship with a wonderful, beautiful, mature acting 22 year old woman. I am very happy with her, i've hit the jackpot at last.....but there are problems and i would appreciate ...

I'm in love with him, but he seems to be using me as a business arrangement

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - It's been hard for me. I have been in a relationship for nearly 2 years with a man who's much older than me and never married. I was so attached to him and loved him. He cared a lot about me too. He's been good to me when we are together. We talk,...

I love my English teacher so much.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - I'm only 15 years old and he is 26. Seriously i can't stop thinking about him. I miss him so much. I'm pretty confused as to how to make him love me. I always wear short skirt and tiny clothes in dress up when i come to his class. please help me?...

My mother doesn't approve of my relationship with a 34 year old

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

2 May 2011 (F) - I am 19, dating a 34yr old. My mother hates me for it. She says if my dad were still alive, he'd be dissapointed. She shuts me out doesn't want to listen to anything I say. I try and try but nothing. She compares me to a whore and says she'd rather ...

Can he go to prison for being with me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4743 days ago

1 May 2011 (F) - Im 15 years old and my boyfriends 20, we are in love no doubt about it, but can he go too prison for being with me?...

Should I tell my best friend I am in love with her, even though she is in a serious relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4744 days ago

1 May 2011 (M) - i need some advice. i fell in love with my best friend. it's slowly progressed over the years i've known her. as we've grown closer and closer, my feelings have deepened and deepened. we don't have your typical relationship. we never have. acqu...