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Archived questions from: February, 2007 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

My mum doesn't like our age gap but I want to spend the rest of my life with this man!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 501 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I'm in a bit of a pickle! I'm 21 and my fiance is 35. My mum dosent like it because of the age difference. What can i do or say to help her change her mind? I love him and plan on spending the rest of my life with him. I've been with him since i ...

He's 27, I'm 18! What do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 504 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I've fallen for someone older then me. I'm not yet sure if he feels the same but I will know soon...he's 27 and i'm 18..do you think this is too much of an age gap?...

I Absolutely Adore Older Women

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 166 days ago

28 February 2007 (M) - Hi, this is going to be very short, I am so attacted to mature womens, (aged 45-55), I am only 37, is this normal? should I be worry? I am not saying I don't like the younger age, but they just don't do it for me the same. please advice Thank...

Im 18 and attracted to my former teacher, he said he wants to be with me, would it be ok to keep it a secret until schools out!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 483 days ago

28 February 2007 (F) - I asked this question on my previous question but didn't get any feedback...so I'm going to ask again. I'm 18 and a senior in HS and attracted to my former teacher (soph year). He's attracted to me as well. I was staying after school and we ended ...

Is this the beginning of the end for our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 516 days ago

27 February 2007 (M) - Having recently seperated after 21 years of marriage I met an amazing young lady on the internet during December last year. She is eleven years younger than me - I have three kids two living with me - and she has not been married nor has any kids. ...

I told my work colleague I couldn't keep seeing him because of age differences, one month later he's getting married and I'm shocked!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 515 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - All my life.... i have met guys that have not treated me right. They said they wanted to be my friend but in the end they really want the sex. I am very shy, compassionate person and i am also naive when it comes to things like that b/c i want ...

Why do I seem attracted to older guys?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

26 February 2007 (F) - i have a problem...i'm only attracted to older guys! i'm 17 and it seems like people that are 23 and older grab my attention...the oldest crush i had was 38. i have no idea what to do because im in high school and i want to have a relationship ...

My boyfriend of a few weeks is moving way too fast talking about marriage and kids already and it scares the shit out of me, Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 512 days ago

25 February 2007 (F) - hey im 14 and my boyfriend is 17 we ve been seeing each other for a few weeks and he doesnt live very near me and hes already talkin about marrige and having kids with me he also keeps sayin he wants me t be his last relationship and it really ...

I think he's interested in me but I'm not 100 per cent sure, there's 20 years between us, what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 516 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - I'm a 20 year old female who works at a grocery store and attends college full time. Over the last four years or so, I've developed a friendship with an older man who is a customer. We've talked about everything from cars(we both love muscle/classic ...

Can a relationship with a young person with hardly any baggage and a man ten years older with a lot of baggage be healthy and equal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 518 days ago

24 February 2007 (F) - I am 22 years old and work as a substance abuse/mental health case manager. I have been drawn to the helping profession not because I have a history of abuse/mental illness/addiction/abandonment, but rather because I am passionate about helping ...

I'm 20-she's 16. I want to date her but am wondering if the age gap is too much? What do you all think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 503 days ago

23 February 2007 (M) - Im a 20 year old college student (second year) and I have a huge crush on 16 year old (sophomore in high school), who is good friends with my sister. We are both Catholic and don't believe in pre-marital sex. I dont drink or do drugs, and I am a ...

My boyfriend told he's moving! We're so in love with each other! What am I going to doooo???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 517 days ago

21 February 2007 (F) - Me and My Boyfriend Love Each other Hes 17 And Im 14 Nearly 15. I know people will say that we cant love at this age but your wrong. I Love Him And He Loves Me. But Yesterday He Told Me He Is Moving To Cornwall To Live With His Mum Insted Of His Dad ...

I'm 15 dating a 19 year old guy. Is anything wrong with that?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 481 days ago

21 February 2007 (F) - i am 15 dating a 19 year old guy is somthing wrong with that?...

I like a guy who is 17 years older than I am, would this ever work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 513 days ago

21 February 2007 (F) - I like a guy who is 17 years older than I am. What do I do about this? Should I act on it or let it pass? I really like him, I'm infatuated. . . But, I'm not sure it could ever work because of the huge age difference. I need some input on this one!!...

There's a 5 year age gap between us, did I do the right thing by breaking up with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 493 days ago

21 February 2007 (F) - I am 23yr old dating a boy for a few weeks, he says he wants to marry me but in 2yrs time. Recently I found out that he is only 18yrs old. When I asked him he aplogised and says that he still loves me and wants to get married but I told him that I ...

What do guys in their mid-30s want in a girl??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 522 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - I really like this older guy a lot. I think I know he digs me too, but I do not know how to make a move. He is like 7-10 years my senior and we don’t have too much stuff in common. What do early to mid 30 year old guys want in a girl? What do the ...

In love with my best mates brother!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 522 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - Heyah This is weird but Im in love with my best mates brother! He is dead cute and sexy But the problem is that Im 13 and Hes 9! Its Sick . I know but I cant help it. I have a Boyfriend Already but When i go to my mates House , I cant help but flirt ...

My fiancee was caught kissing and cuddling another women!!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 520 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - Hi Dear, My fiancee was caught with another woman cuddling and kissing each other by my friend and her husband in a night club,she alerted me immediately and when i confronted him he denied and decided to stop communicating with me.He only called m...

How do I give my experienced guy one he will never forget??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 522 days ago

20 February 2007 (F) - Ok here's the deal I'm 18 and goin out with a guy that's a bit older than me. Thing is he has had loadsa experience with gals but I ain't had that much experience with guys. He gave me manual the other night and I climaxed but when I rubbed him he ...

Are there any younger girls in the UK of the age of 20-22 who would have a relationship with an old man of 27?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 517 days ago

19 February 2007 (M) - Dear Cupid. I am a 27 male who has never had any sexual relationships or girlfriends, probably due to a medical problem called hypogonadism. I am not getting any younger, and I am very depressed due to my situation. I am an undergraduate ma...

I'm 18 - how do I tell my mum about my 36 year old divoriced boyfriend?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 508 days ago

18 February 2007 (F) - I am in a very sticky situation, i am nearly 18, and i really fancied this older person who is 36, he had a wife, and they were happily married until December, when she dumped him for a 56 yr old! Me and her husband went out for a work do, and got ...

I'm 86 and very in love but she still has contact with her ex-lover...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 523 days ago

18 February 2007 (M) - I am 86 years of age and desperately in love with a lady of 50. She attended a college for the disabled in her youth and made a large circle of friends there who still meet regularly for a social get together. One member of this group is a male with ...

Would it be bad if i started something with my teacher??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 517 days ago

18 February 2007 (F) - Alright so I'm 17 and I have a HUGE crush on my teacher at school...he was my bio teacher when i was a sophomore, and now I'm a senior. He always talks to me still and he makes it obvious that he goes out of his way to do it. When we walk down the...

He's 16, I'm 18. Is it okay to have a relationship with him even although he's my best friend's brother?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 480 days ago

18 February 2007 (F) - I've liked this guy for a while now and I finally told my best friend about it. She thought it would be a good idea to get my crush and me some time together. So we went out and we came out to each other saying that we liked each other. We kissed, ...

I've been with a guy 22 years older than me for 7 months but he's living with someone and I seem to be his little secret. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 523 days ago

17 February 2007 (F) - Well hear goes, I am 19 years old nearly 20 and i have been with my over half now for 7 months. He is 42, i have never minded about the age difference, he also has a little boy who is 2 which i also get along with, but the thing that is really ...

I think I am losing her big time! Does anyone have any ideas how I can prove I love and want to be with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 523 days ago

16 February 2007 (M) - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for just over a year, i am 20 nearing 21 and she is 25 nearing 26. We met on a work night out and we wheve been in love ever since. From the start she has always asked about my ex girlfriends, what i did ...

I fancy my teacher at school and heard she's leaving soon. I'm devestated! How can I get over this feeling?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 288 days ago

14 February 2007 (F) - I really don't know what to do. I really fancy a female teacher at my school and I have for around 2 years now. She is leaving my school now and when I found out I cried and cried because I didn't want her to go, I need advice to get over it, beca...

I really like this guy at work. Should I go for it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

14 February 2007 (F) - I am working very closely with a male collegue and what started out to be a bit of fun seems to have gone further than that. There is a 11 year age gap and i am finding myself thinking about him all the time, i am the older one i keep telling mys...

I like this guy and have been talking to him online for 2 years, but it's the age gap.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

14 February 2007 (F) - Hi there, ok so I am 15 and have been talking to a guy over the net for around 2 years. we have so much in common and have got on really well as friends but recently we have got really strong feelings for each other. he is a really down to earth guy ...

My stage "husband" has a crush on me, what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 528 days ago

14 February 2007 (F) - I do a lot of community theatre but my current show has thrown me for a loop. The thing is, my "stage husband" has a crush on me. He's a great guy and we have a lot in common...problem? He's 19 I'm 26...what do I do??...

Fallen for my driving instuctor... But he's 30 and I'm a virgin!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

13 February 2007 (F) - Hi During my time learning to drive i got on really well with my instructor. Since passing my test we have been texting flirty/dirty messages. i want to take things futher but he is only up for fun and i am a virgin. he make me feel so good and...

I feel the age gap is just too much. I want to go out and do things, he seems content to stay at home. I'm thinking of calling it a day... Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

13 February 2007 (F) - Hi, I have been seeing my bf now for neally 2 years. I live with him in his house and have been doing so for about a year now. Thing is he is 19 years older than me, I'm 20 he's 38. He has his career, his house, lived his life etc etc so when he ...

Should I lighten up or is he picking on me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

13 February 2007 (F) - I have been with my b/f for 2 years. I love him but he isnt the best at expressing himself..he will say i love you but i had to tell him i need to hear it more often. He doesnt compliment me..BUT his actions are pretty good. The thing is i dont ...

I am a male, 22 dating a female, 32. Some family and friends approve..some don't. What are your thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

12 February 2007 (M) - hey, im a male 22yrs old dating some a female who 32 yrs old. some of my friends and family approves of this and some dont...wat ya people think...?...

My Mum has joined my disaster Dad is dissapproving and its making me ill!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 530 days ago

12 February 2007 (F) - Hello, a little while ago I wrote in and got advice ("Should I let my bf meet my disasterous Dad??") It's the first problem on the "age differences" page. Anyway my problem seems to be getting worse now. I was very upset that my Dad was respondi...

Should I let my bf meet my disasterous Dad??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 531 days ago

11 February 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm 18 and dating a guy who's a bit older than me (he's in his mid 20s). So far everything's been fantastic. My family and friends approve so there aren't problems there. The one person who doesn't approve is my dad. When he found out about ...

I like this guy, he's 20 and I'm 15. Is this too big an age gap?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 531 days ago

11 February 2007 (F) - I have been talking to my mates cousin quite a lot recently online and bumping into him every now and again in town. He has been quite flirty with me, he has a girlfriend but said: things arent going too well i dunno how long its gonna last... your ...

My friends tease me because my boyfriend's so young, should I dump him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 79 days ago

11 February 2007 (F) - Hey, This Sounds Weird But Im 13 Years Old and I have a 10 Year Old Boyfriend.. I Know its Wrong But I really love Him! Everyone is Picking On me at School Because Hes Still at Primary School.. But I dont See Why its Sick cause We havent Kissed or...

Trapped between two people i want but i can only have one!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 531 days ago

11 February 2007 (M) - I'm 24 years old, nearly 25 i've been dateing this 16 year old girl who really likes me. I really like her so much. The problem: I've fallin for another girl. When i first arranged to meet this 16 year old girl it went a bit wrong and i didn't tur...

Is she still to young for me to have a non sexual relationship with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

10 February 2007 (M) - Hi I am an 18 year old christian male and have been great friends with a 14 year old christian female. She has liked me from the beginning however i told her we couldnt be together due to the age difference at this stage of her life. However we...

I met him on the internet and I liked him but he sent me a reccent picture and now I don't find him attractive! How do I break it off with him?!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 527 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - Dear cupid I am in a very difficult situation right now. He lives in Chicago and I live in England and I'm 18 and he's 27. Ok well basically I've been talking to this guy on the internet and we've agreed to meet up and everything, I've seen his ...

I like a man 22 years older than me, is the age gap too much or do we have a chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 532 days ago

9 February 2007 (F) - Hi! It is bizarre to ask for some advice but maybe you girls can provide some useful tips... I adore this man much older than me, divorced with a 13-year-old son (I am 29 and he will soon turn 52 years old). He has felt attracted to me for 5 y...

Becoming more than friends with an older lady... but scared because she's said in the past she likes guys who are well hung!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 535 days ago

7 February 2007 (M) - I've been friends with this older lady friend of mine for three years. Even though the age gap is about seventeen years is doesnt matter as we get on so well. I've started to like her more than a mate and I'm getting signs that she's starting to be ...

I said no because of our age difference but now I'm wondering if I should have said yes!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

7 February 2007 (F) - I am a 34 year who honestly does not look my age and have a 20 year old who wants to date me. He not only has spoken to me but when he told me his age I thought no way and then on different occasions he spoke to two of my friends asking them to ...

I'm 16 and female and I'm in love with a 14 year old boy! Is this normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 529 days ago

6 February 2007 (F) - I am 16 and i am falling in love with a 14 year old boy when i am usually into men from 19 up to about 22 years old. He says he is in love with me, and he wants to start a relationship with me, the age gap is holding me bk? do you think its kinda ...

More 30+ teacher and 17 yr old student problems!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 531 days ago

4 February 2007 (F) - UPDATE: "Worried about this teacher and my friend. What would a 30 plus year old man, see in a 17 year old girl anyway?" I posted a situation on here the other week: http://www.dearc...

I fancy a guy 20-years older than me. I can't stop thinking about him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 537 days ago

4 February 2007 (F) - Hi I am a woman of 33 who works in a bar part-time. I have been divorced after an 8 year marriage for a few months now. My ex-husband turned out to be gay. So these past few months have been about re-discovering myself. I am ready for a relationship ...

He doesnt seem interested anymore but I dont want to lose him!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 531 days ago

4 February 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a week and already having problems. I am 17 and he is 22 and i think the age gap is making him have second thoughts. His friends are the same age as him and all have younger partners. He just doesn't seem inte...

Should I meet this 16 year old girl who says I am a stunner, even though I know I'm not! What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 498 days ago

2 February 2007 (M) - i'm very worried about the girl i'm about to meet. i'm 24 year old i've just come out of a 15 months r-ship and now i'm bored and want a new r-ship. i went on this website called " faceparty " and this girl aged 16 has gotten my msn and is now ...

This guy's remarks are confusing me! Is he trying to use reverse psychology or what??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 540 days ago

2 February 2007 (F) - What did his comment "No, I won't go out on a date with you" mean when I answered him, well, I didn't ask and I am too old for you, I am old enough to be your mother, so I would not consider dating you ....He then answered, "you are not old enough ...