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I know its wrong, (shes my teacher!)but I am going to win her back!

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Question - (23 September 2007) 9 Answers - (Newest, 25 September 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *heater writes:

I know we did wrong but please help me get her back, im 16 now!

I cant stop thinking about this teacher.

Me n my teacher got on really well then one day we kissed. From then on we kept seeing each other n planned to meet out of school but that day we got caught kissin by her father also a teacher. He didnt want his daughter in trouble so he split us up n is still doin his best to keep us apart. Since then she has got married in the six weeks grr. I walk by her all the time n we just look at eachother for ages smilin. On Friday she was on dinner duty, she was stood near the door staring at me so i kept lookin up n winkin at her n she kept gigglin. I was so turned on, then she walked by my table lookin into my eyes all the time. I stayed all dinner in the room n wen i was going out her dad came in the room n seen her staring at me n took her aside.

Also wen I was passin her a boy made a joke about her new name MRs... n she went I dont even like it i wish I was still Miss... n looked at me.

I am going to get her back tomorow i need to I cant be without her anymore! But how can i do it without bn caught n wat if i get it wrong n she only wants to mess about n doesnt want nefin serious nemore!?!?!

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (25 September 2007):

rcn agony auntSometimes you just have to accept the ending to allow someone else to live happy. Take care and good luck to you.

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A male reader, wheater United Kingdom +, writes (25 September 2007):

wheater is verified as being by the original poster of the question

wheater agony aunti understand after alot of thought u are all right.

I am going to change and hope she is very happy in her marriage. It was fun while it lasted but its over now.

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (25 September 2007):

Fairy_Lu agony auntYou wanted help and advice and we all gave it to you, i know its not what you want to hear but thats life, do you really want to see her go to jail and her teaching career disapear for life all because of you? Do you really think that would make her happy she would end up hating you for ruining her life, career,marriage,repuatation and most likely everyone she cares about and i know you dont want that,just leave her alone and move on its hard and it sucks but its for the best.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (25 September 2007):

rcn agony auntNo, we do know, it's you who does not. If you had the answers you wouldn't be on here asking the questions in the first place. She's married, she chose to be married and to the person she's married to. No one chose it for her, people marry because they are in love. (or other reasons that are not good reasons.) You don't want to interfere with someone's marriage. I'll tell you, interfere with her marriage, you'll be associating with a girl who more than likely will no longer smile at you.

It's also a huge liability risk. If the school found out a teacher kissed a student, she'd better learn how to say "would you like fried with that" She would loose her position as a teacher. If you really have feelings for her, it's your responsibility to stay out of it. If you interfere with her marriage and she not only losses her job, but in many countries spend jail time, and looses her marriage, than you were thinking of yourself more than the person you care for. That's wrong, and is also a behavior that when you do find someone and get married, it would end the marriage real quick. Think about your actions and who you affect by doing them.

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A male reader, wheater United Kingdom +, writes (24 September 2007):

wheater is verified as being by the original poster of the question

wheater agony auntNo one understands,

yer yu all think im wrong n stuff

but none of yaz no! none of u.

How do u get into writing stuff?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007):

Have you ever tried writing stories for Mayfair magazine or the Sport newspaper?

You could have a journalistic future ahead of you once you've mastered the art of spelling, grammar and punctuation.

Phil

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A female reader, Fairy_Lu United Kingdom +, writes (24 September 2007):

Fairy_Lu agony auntShe is married do you really want to ruin her marriage and she is your teacher she could get into alot of trouble by seeing you, i think you should leave her alone and move on with your life

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (24 September 2007):

rcn agony auntIf she is married now, she's more than likely not looking for anything serious past her marriage.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2007):

Hi,

I'm sorry but as a teacher this sounds more like a teenage fantasy than a real story. You simply have too many inconsistencies in this story to make it believable. I fancied a teacher at my school as well when i was a student and made up all sorts of weird and wonderful fantasies about how she lusted after me.

Try and make it at least believable if you want people's honest opinion otherwise you are wasting people's valuable time.

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