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Archived questions from: February, 2012 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Should I dump this guy and get on with my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

28 February 2012 (F) - Ive being in a relationship for the last 15 month. He is 7 years older than me not that you would think it as he quite immature for his age. He told me he has being in a relationship and lived with someone and that he got hurt. I have no evidence...

I feel like I should go farther with my 18 y.o. b/f

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4441 days ago

26 February 2012 (F) - I just started dating this guy I've liked for a really long time. He's 17 turning 18 next month and I'm 14 turning 15 in July. I know it's a huge age difference but I do really like him and according to his friends (who are also my friends), he ...

Two housemates are interested in me- I have no interested in either perhaps because of my condition...What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4432 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - Hi, I have a couple of problems I would like some help with. The first is this: I'm currently group house sharing with 4 people, two girls/two guys. My problem is that I think one of my housemates, an older man (he's 40, I'm 23) likes me. I'm no...

I'm 17 and he's 27, plus I lied to him about being a virgin....how do I approach the sex situation?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4435 days ago

24 February 2012 (F) - So i've been seeing this guy for a few weeks - we've met up about 3 times and i really like him, he seems decent and nice - baring in mind i usually have terrible luck with guys. The only issue is that hes just turned 27 and im 18 in a couple of ...

Dating a sexually suggestive woman, how do I turn her on without scaring her off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4444 days ago

23 February 2012 (M) - I recently started somewhat seeing a slightly older woman and yesterday she was fairly sexually suggestive with her texts, but not sexting. Instead, I played along and made her laugh a lot with my sexual humor. Of course this tells me she is more ...

I love him but I'm not ready for marriage or a baby, how do I tell him this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

22 February 2012 (F) - I have been dating an older guy for almost a year now, when it first started it was just two people hooking up in the bedroom. I know that it was wrong but we were both having fun and I never thought it would last long or amount to anything. After a ...

Seriously ! I do have the biggest crush on a guy four years older than me. What do you suggest I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4448 days ago

20 February 2012 (F) - Ok so I'm almost 17 and very shy person. I have the biggest crush on this guy from work who is like four years older than me. I have really talked to him, like have an actual conversation with him. I really don't know what to do. Everytime ...

My deceased ex-bf's son wants to date me--and he looks just like his dad!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4446 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - My exboyfriend died in 1993, when he died he had a little son by someone else. Now the son is 23 years old and wants to date me. I like him to but I don't know if this is right, the thing that is nagging at me is he looks just like his dad.What ...

Complicated situation I got myself in! Two guys now - but which or how do I pick?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4443 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - I am 33yrs old. My boyfriend is 20yrs old. When we first met, he thought I was younger (I look 23) and I thought he was older. When I found out his age I told him he was too young. But he was convinced I was "The One" and he followed me all over the ...

My parents want to press charges if I keep contact with this older boy! I'm depressed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4449 days ago

19 February 2012 (F) - I'm 15 and have been talking to a 19 year old guy for about 3 months. (yes I really do know him). My mom and dad found out, and their making me stop talking to him, or they'll file a police report, since he's over aged. What do I do? I'm really ...

I have major problems with my boyfriend's personal choices!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

17 February 2012 (F) - So I'm 21 and my boyfriend is 40. I know it seems like a big age gap but it has worked for us and we get along so well... Until recently. Basically he is a self employed builder and hasn't had work for a gd few months, he has been able to hav...

I don't know if I should be in a relationship with him, or just be his friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

17 February 2012 (F) - I'm feeling anxious over a new relationship. I even feel like crying. I'm seeing a man who is 21 years older than me. Obviously, he has much more of a past than i have. He was married for three years when he was in his twenties, and has a son who is ...

After being close friends for a while, he's now blanking me. Any idea why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

16 February 2012 (F) - I need help on a situation with a friend.. So i've been really close friends with a guy that i've known for about a year and a half. It's not really a normal situation though i guess, he's 37 and he used to be a neighbour of mine..i'm 17, an...

I want to go out with a girl my own age. Should I? Feels gut wrenching to do this to my LDR older Gf

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

16 February 2012 (M) - Right here goes. I have been in a long distance relationship for about 3 years. My girlfriend is Thai so she lives in Thailand and I live in Australia. I visit her quite frequently and when I can and we speak at least 3 times a day. The probl...

One For Love & One For Money....

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4450 days ago

16 February 2012 (F) - Okay......In a pickle. I have been dating a guy for 8 months and he's great...but...we have very different approaches to life. He is just getting back on his feet and really can't afford much of anything! I have financially been carrying our ...

I am 15, and just found girl I really like is 13. Is this appropriate?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

16 February 2012 (M) - Hi. uhhm well, where do I start? You see, it all started out with a random friend request from a frape [EDITOR'S NOTE: frape: When a person leaves their laptop/PC unattended whilst signed into Facebook and other people change various parts of their ...

I feel that my association with this girl is just screaming 'pedophile' even though it's legal

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

15 February 2012 (M) - Hey, In a weird situation right now regarding a girl's age. So the backstory is, I was out at a club with my friends, ended up talking and dancing with a few girls. As standard, try the whole 'are you coming back to mine thing' haha to whic...

I messed around with a jock at a party 4 days ago, and haven't heard from him since. I have feeling for him, but am afraid he was just playing with me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - My friend asked me to go to a party with her.. I went. I met this guy. He was really cute. A real stud.. graduated and was a popular football player. We did a lot of stuff together and he seemed like he cared. Which i'm stupid to think he would, ...

I am 29, she is 18! But we each like each other very much. Should I continue this relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

14 February 2012 (M) - Hey Everyone.....! Please help! I’m a 29 year old man and I’m in love with an 18 years old girl! She is 11 years younger than me!!!!! It was she that liked me at first and always very nice with me. She used to say, "Everything to do for you is a ...

Man is 13 years my senior and shows a bit impatience to meet again. Is this cause for doubt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4454 days ago

14 February 2012 (F) - I'm Irish moved to Germany 2 years ago , and i'm 29 . I met this guy in a pub a German over here in Germany. He is a lovely guy-- very, very nice guy . Have a small few issues. Met him two weeks ago. Then last weekend i met him for beer and i'm...

How can I explain to my parents that I am planning to move interstate with my 26 year old boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

13 February 2012 (F) - My boyfriend (26yrs old) and I have been living together for a year and are planning to move interstate within the next couple of months. I have not told my parents yet. The problem is my boyfriend works with my father. I cannot tell my father ...

Why does he get an erection every time we kiss? He says it's not usual for him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

13 February 2012 (F) - What does it mean when the guy I'm dating, who is 29 and I'm 19, gets and erection every time we kiss? And he says this has only happened to him once before in his past long term relationship....

Is my ex jealous that I have met someone else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

12 February 2012 (F) - Is my ex boyfriend jealous that i have met someone else?. The guy i am currently dating is a lot older than me, but me ex is a bit younger than me. My ex sent me a text message saying " The old dirty b*****d can have you. I wash my hands of you ", ...

My sister-in-law is a cougar and I think it's unwise

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

12 February 2012 (M) - My sister-in-law is a 43 year old single mom to an autistic son. He is now 15 years old. Now that he is getting older she is getting back into the dating scene. She has been divorced for more than 10 years now. Good for her, I think. The p...

Is this dating? every time we meet we end up in bed together

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

11 February 2012 (F) - I have been dating this guy who is 16 years older than me. I say dating loosely, it seems like every time we meet we end up in bed together. He is a nice guy in general, but as time goes on I feel like he likes to spend more time with his fami...

He's 26, I'm 18. Do you think he's thinking about asking me out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4457 days ago

11 February 2012 (F) - hey! so i like this guy, he's 8 yrs older than me. it's a love at first sight kinda thing, cause i only met him once... I was walking in a corridor with my sister and he passed by and said hi to her (she knew him), then looked at me and smiled. Lat...

A man 20 years older than me asked me out, how do I handle it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4455 days ago

10 February 2012 (F) - So I've been telling everyone on this (amazing) site about the situation I am in with an understanding, respectful, attractive, laid back 42 yr old gentleman who is in the middle of a divorce from his wife of 18 years. There has been an attracti...

He says he doesn't find me sexually attractive. But I still love him so much. What should I do?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4453 days ago

10 February 2012 (F) - I am 13 years older than my boyfriend we have been togeather for 6 months, he moved in with me in December of last year and we barley have sex, he said he has no desire, blaming it on himself like he has sexual problems, the times we have done it ...

I'm married and she has a boyfriend but I cannot ignore my attraction to her, how do I ask her out?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4357 days ago

9 February 2012 (M) - There is a new lady in office. She is 38 and I am 26. She is really very cute and hot at the same time...rare combination but yes she is. I have been wondering how to ask her out and what subjects could I talk to her on to attract her towards me. ...

I don't see a very strong connection between us, but am I reading too much into this at an early stage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

9 February 2012 (F) - I've become quite skeptical as far as relationships go. I recently just met a guy. I've actually known him for years but we never connected before. He's about 5 years older than me, I'm not used to dating older men. He's extremely kind a...

He's twice my age, has children and has asked me out. I've accepted but where do I go from here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4458 days ago

9 February 2012 (F) - Oh my gosh. So today at work I was talking to the man who is twice my age and who I am interested in and he has admitted to being attracted to me as well...., and he asked me on a date!! (Reminder: he has been married for 18 years and currentl...

Useful advice needed on this age difference!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4456 days ago

8 February 2012 (F) - okay so this is confusing some people may think its absurd others may think its okay, but basically in 2009 i was in year eleven and i was going out with a year eight BUT his birthday was right by the dead line of the year thing, i cant remember ...

Why does my boyfriend like to choke me? How "rough" is normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

8 February 2012 (F) - Hey there, So my guy and I have been together for two months or so now, and things seem pretty great. We see each other about once or twice a week, and usually we go out to dinner or to a movie. We have moved very fast emotionally and sexually...

My 27 year old schoolmate is dating a 79 year old billionaire. Isn't this a sign of complete materialism? Or am I an idealistic idiot?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

7 February 2012 (F) - I saw a question posted here the other day that got me thinking about a schoolmate of mine who is a lovely looking lass of 27, an aspiring actress, dating a 79-year-old billionaire. ok im not a complete moron i know that money makes the world ...

The guy I like is 2 years younger to me. Can it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4461 days ago

7 February 2012 (F) - Ok so I am a 24 year old female and I really like a guy friend of mine. I want to pursue a relationship with him. The problem is that he is only 22. Most people have told me that I'm a ridiculous for even worrying about an age difference that ...

Twice my age but interested, curious but nervous

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

6 February 2012 (F) - So to make a long story short, I am 22 and my boyfriend for 3 years and I broke up just before the new year (2012). Shortly there after, one the regular customers at the restaurant I work at, whom I talk to on a daily basis and have gotten to know ...

Is he serious or he is not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

5 February 2012 (F) - Dear all I need to get some good advise from you guys here. First of all, I get to know this guy online. He is 30, myanmar, Virgo and I am 34, Chinese, libra. We met each other after chatting online for 10 days then we decide to meet up. Aft...

I want to spend time with my new boyfriend at school but I don't know if he wants to!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

5 February 2012 (F) - hey i have know this guy for like 4 yrs and we started dating 2 weeks ago, but we havent actually spent time together at school :/ and i want to but i dont know if he does and im a yr 2 mouths older then him, could it be because of that? or is he ...

Huge age difference, and now I'm starting to wonder if he even loves me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

4 February 2012 (F) - I am female,28...3 months living with 63 year old american guy,i am confused now because he is no longer treating me the same like before,it was clear before whats my future with him but now seems like i am hanging,i feel like not being love,i ...

How will it impact on a relationship if the man is a year or two younger than the woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

3 February 2012 (F) - hey please help there is this guy i like a lot and he likes me and i know he is about to ask me if we should start a relationship but am afraid he is younger than me he is 19yrs old,am 20yrs old what do i do? he hasn't told me his age yet but am a...

My mind is set to leave him, but I have a suspicion that I'm pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

3 February 2012 (F) - Hello everyone... I'm in a stressful situation and I don't think I'm thinking clearly at all. I need some insight please...You see, I have been with a 35yr old man for two years, (I am 20) and he was the first and all that...I regret that so much ...

I just need this man to do something for me that makes me feel special, at least on one occasion. Am I merely his landlady and not his partner?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

1 February 2012 (F) - I will be with my partner of seven years in March and I have started to ask myself where the relationship is actually going and am feeling slightly insecure. He is a high earner but all his money is put into finance and he is forever on his ipad ...

We cant ever get married because he is 5 years younger than me, should I give up on the relationship now or carry on with him until I meet a more suitable partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

1 February 2012 (F) - Dear cupid, I thank you for your enormous help that you've been rendering to us, I hope that you'll also see to my problem. I have a boyfriend whom I love so much and he loves me too, but my problem now is that I'm 5 years older than him. So I'm so ...

Is it normal to have a relationship with a man 22 years younger than me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

1 February 2012 (F) - I am in my fifties and had a boyfriend of 38 .he just dropped contact 3months ago. We saw each other occasionally.I loved him but he borriwed money and never gave it back. Is it biologically normal to have a relationship with a guy 22years younger ...

My B/f couldn't get enough of me and now I have to beg him for sex even once a week. Is he bored of me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

1 February 2012 (F) - I started going out with my boyfriend 8 months ago And we've been living together for 4. I'm 25 and he's 35. At first he couldn't get enough of me, even waking me Up several times during the night for sex most nights. Now if I get it even once a ...