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Archived questions from: October, 2014 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

He's 14 to my 15. He had a Gf but broke up. Should I keep talking online to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

29 October 2014 (F - There’s this guy at my school in the year below me and I've had my eye on him for a while (just thinking he's cute and what not), but when i found out my friend knew him i made a move and found out he had a girlfriend. We talked for a while an...

Trying to process my 60 year old mother's cavallier attitude to taking a married lover. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

27 October 2014 (F - I'm having some issues with my mother right now. She called me tonight to get my opinion on if I would be okay with her sleeping with a man a few years older than me. I told her I didn't care about the age factor. Then I commented that a...

Unhappily married. Is this younger man interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

26 October 2014 (F - Is this younger man interested in me? I am an unhappily married woman who is re-considering her options. One of the main reasons I am still married is for my 2 young children. My husband suffers from a mood disorder, depression and anxiety. In ...

Why has he turned off sex, with me, yet initially he was enthusiastic?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

26 October 2014 (F - Good day everyone!! Im in need of some advice. Im a healthy 36 yr old woman who is engaged to a 32 yr old man that I of course love to death. We have been together for just over 2 years now. And sad to say already having problems in the bedroom. W...

I'm a compulsive cheater and I suffer depressed. What help do I need to stop this cheating? I do love my older Bf

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

25 October 2014 (F - I'm a 30 year old woman in a committed, loving relationship with a man who is nearly 50. I'm a compulsive cheater. I can't help myself and I hate myself so very much. I've had numerous one-night stands with various men. It is hard for anyone to ...

I really like this boy but I'm 14 and he's 12. I'm worried what people will think

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

25 October 2014 (F - I have recently meet a boy a couple months ago and I really like him. The moment we started taking we instantly clicked and I feel like I've know him my whole life, I've never meet anyone like him and I feel as though I could tell him anything. The ...

I'm worried my lack of sexual experience will drive my boyfriend away

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

25 October 2014 (F - I am 43 and have had a few boyfrineds but it never lasted so am a virgin at 43 and all my life i was a carer for my parents and never went out, since they died i have tried to meet new people but find it hard until i met somebody that is 15 years ...

My family kept asking my much older boyfriend how old he was and now he's not responding to me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

25 October 2014 (F - My boyfriend is 14 years older than me and has 2 children of 24 and 26, he is 58 and i am 44 and have no children and the age gap has never been a problem to either of us until i took him to meet my family last week who no joke asked him how old he ...

Things he's told me about his past make me question whether I want to be with him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

23 October 2014 (F - I am upset because of my boyfriend's past. He is much older than I am. I am 30 and he is 51. We have been together for three years. We have had completely different lives. It makes me wonder why we are together. I already knew that he had been with ...

Can someone explain to me what goes through his mind when he decides to go speak to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3444 days ago

23 October 2014 (F - Hello dear Aunts and Uncles, I hope I can keep my question short, simple and to the point. I've been in a happy relationship for quite some time and so is this other guy (presumably) I've known for many years. before any of us were into our...

He's like drug, I can't help myself, so does this mean he is the one using me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3441 days ago

22 October 2014 (F - What's wrong with me? Iv been seeing this guy for 2 years now. Hes 21 and I'm 25. Everything has been great moved in.together its good. Recently a old friend with benefits got in contact, saying he really wanted/needed to see me. I have known him ...

I can't stop thinking about her! I know it's unfair on my boyfriend, so what do I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3446 days ago

22 October 2014 (F - I have posted something like this before but here it goes.. I'm 20, a girl, and have been going out with my Boyf for 3 years. We recently went on holiday with his family and his cousin took a friend who is also a girl with her.. She is 29 and ...

I think my professor has a crush on me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3448 days ago

19 October 2014 (F - My proffessor likes me.he is 28yrs older to me.he pays more attentoon to me than any other student,caught him staring at me many times, he touches things that are closer to me but never physically came closer and also doesnt give me extra advantage ...

Huge crush, but now she has resigned. Why!?! What the hell is wrong with me? Have I let my lunatic ego take control?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3450 days ago

17 October 2014 (M - Turning 50 is not fun. My loving wife after 25 years of marriage tells me time has been kind to me and she still calls me sexy. I adore her. She is as lovely as the day I first saw her. I have always been somewhat shy. I never considered mysel...

I want to end our 3 year long LDR and get married but unsure If we should marry or end things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3451 days ago

16 October 2014 (M - Hi, ive been with my long distance girlfriend for almost 3 years now and i think is time to close the distance. Its time to pop the question. However... We live in continents apart and we are citizens of diferent countries.we have a 13 years ag...

I haven't met my LD boyfriend yet but I'm not sure if I should!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3453 days ago

14 October 2014 (F - Hello! My LD boyfriend wants me to visit him but I don't know if I should and to even have the guts to tell my family about what he's planning? When he was in the same state as I am currently in now, he had plenty of chances to meet me, sometime...

Torn between my ex husband and the other guy. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

13 October 2014 (F - I am torn between my ex husband and my new guy. Here is the story, My life overal was not too bad but I have been unhappy from some issues which my ex wouldn't do anything about it. The main issue was him being over passive and his family over ...

Should I initiate some subtle moves to let my 41 year of Professor know I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3455 days ago

12 October 2014 (F - Its kind of a winding story but I just feel I need objective opinions from people I dont know. I am a foreign graduate student at a very prestigious university in country A. I was fortunate enough to receive a scholarship to come and study here...

Really fancy this guy 31. Don't want to lose him. So what can I do? Because I'm not in the right place for a relationship right now.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3225 days ago

12 October 2014 (F - An acquaintance of mine introduced me to his little brother (who's 31; I'm 21) last month, and I've seen his brother around a couple of times since then and chatted to him. Long story short, I really fancy his brother - he's got an amazingly nic...

I miss her. She was my closest friend. How do I move on from the sadness I feel now that our affair is over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

12 October 2014 (M - I had an affair with another woman that lasted a very long time. Our affair lasted 12 years. It was the right thing to do for both of us. She is considerably younger than me and neither of us thought it would go on so long...but it just never ended ...

Should I have called him out on what I was told was a lie? Or should I let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

11 October 2014 (F - I like this guy. He's a lot older then me we never talk face to face. He's a bus driver i see ever day why he goes by and when we talk on the phone he tells me he's married and has kids. But then i find out he's not married, nor does he have any...

Would like to find some genuine age-gap dating sites but don't want any scam sites. How do I attract women 10-15 years younger than myself?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

5 October 2014 (M - Dear Cupid, I am a 35 year old male who lives in the UK. I prefer younger women aged between 20 and 30 and would like some suggestions for genuine age gap dating sites. Before anyone asks: no, I am not looking for a notch on my bedpost or '...

He's 17 and he said he would wait, if I did, or we could sneak it? What should we do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3449 days ago

5 October 2014 (F - Well, I'm 13 and My best friend has a brother named Jack. Jack is turning 17, and i started seeing him more often and began to realize i had strong feelings for him. I told him I liked him. That night i slept in his room with him we didn't have s...

He's 5 years younger. Do I make the first move? Because I can't tell if he likes me too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3226 days ago

5 October 2014 (F - I have a crush on a guy I work with. We work together only once or twice a week. He's quiet. He rarely talks to anyone. We didn't even introduce ourselves the first day we met. The next 2 times we met at work, he winked at me to say hi. I talked...

Should I change my style of dress for my boyfriend who says I'm too old to wear certain things ???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3461 days ago

3 October 2014 (F - I just recently found out that I am the oldest women my boyfriend has ever dated minus his ex wife who was 5 years older than me. I have been dating my boyfriend 6 months and he has already said he loves me and I don't doubt that he dose , but I ...

Has he hurt his back in some way, or is his back problem due to deeper psychological issues affecting my Bf?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3463 days ago

3 October 2014 (F - My boyfriend is 18 years older than me. We both love sex very much and whenever we're together we do it more than once. However, he recently started to complain that his back is hurting very much after sex. He keeps writhing in bed, telling me ...

He broke up with the real me, but not before agreeing to a date with the fake profile I made on a dating site! Should I cancel in advance or just stand him up?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3464 days ago

2 October 2014 (F - I was seeing a guy from work for about 4 months but nothing was too serious as I had just come out of a long term relationship. One night as we was snuggled on the sofa, his phone went off and it was a notification from a dating website. I didn'...

The girl I met online asked about my sexual past. I answered truthfully and now she's gone quiet!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

2 October 2014 (M - I met this girl online, really like her n she's 18 n im 23 almost 24. she says she's a virgin although I did not expect that i was really happy. she seemed shy to ask questions so i told her to ask anything on her mind n i won't lie. which i didn't. ...

I'm 19 and like a 15 year old from a different city

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3465 days ago

1 October 2014 (M - So I met this girl while I was away for a weekend. I straight away liked her and we hung out a little and I seemed to think got along. The issue is at the time I thought she was 16 or 17 to then find out a few days later when I got home 15. W...

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