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Archived questions from: August, 2011 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I am 18 seeing a man double my age. Do I tell my mom or let things ride?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4606 days ago

31 August 2011 (F) - Hi guys i really need your opinion on what to do. I have been seeing this guy who's going to be turning 37 this October, i am 18 turning to 19 next year February. I don't care about the age difference because we talked about it and we are cool with ...

I've been talking online with a 30 year old woman who wants to go out with me!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4622 days ago

30 August 2011 (M) - Hello there everyone i could use some advice. Ive been talking online with this woman she is 30 years old. We have been talking for about a month or so and do not live far away from each other. I have talked to her on webcam so i know she is who ...

Family pressures made my boyfriend end our relationshp.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4330 days ago

29 August 2011 (F) - can anyone tell me why in lebanon and the middle east there is a bad attitude towards an older woman with a younger man. is it the same throughout all of the middle east or mainly in lebanese society. my relationship of 2 yrs has ended because my ...

My boss and I text each other, now his wife is furious at me. Did I do something wrong?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4231 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - This is a strange one I'm having mixed opinions about. Basically my boss is 20 years older than me, and married... and male also! However we text back and forth just silly jokes, general day to day stuff, and sometimes just to see how each other are ...

Are we both too proud? Why am I like this? I never wanted to hurt him or to get hurt so easily

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4619 days ago

28 August 2011 (F) - I am 19. Seeing a now 35yr old man. We have been seeing each other for nearly two years. I secretly love him, and he has told me he loves me. But, he has gone away on bussiness and I miss him. We spoke to each other on Skype every morning and nigh...

I am dating an older woman,what issues could come up due to the age gap?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

26 August 2011 (M) - I'm 25 and my girlfriend is 37. Why is it that I get criticism over the age gap from people who I see? I was in a local pizza takeaway joint when the guy behind the counter said "here's the pizza for you and your mum!" I've also had criticism...

Spring V Autumn. Does she like me? she's 19.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4627 days ago

26 August 2011 (M) - There is this girl, she's 19 i'm 57. she always calls me sweetie when she sees me. The other day at the gas station she called out at me to get my attention. Does she like me or am i just thinking this?...

I'm 17. My family have banned me from seeing my 29 year old boyfriend

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - Hey I'm 17 years old and live in England with my parents, brother and sister. I don't really get on with my family, my parents have said on numerous occasions that i'm a disappointment to them, and they favour the other two children over me. I ...

Is it wrong to have a relationship with a much older man?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4620 days ago

22 August 2011 (F) - An older man contacted me. He is older by a lot but likes me and wants to have a relationship. I like him but he is old! and i am waaaay younger. He wants me sexually but is it wrong to like someone with a 50 year difference? Is something wrong with ...

I really want a Mexican guy to marry but I don't know if I can!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

21 August 2011 (F) - Every day on Dearcupid, there are multiple posts from students in love with their teachers, and now the tables have turned. I'm from Florida, and a TEFL teacher in Mexico, and I have feelings for a student. Before you freak out, it's NOT...

I'm 22, she's 15 is it best to stop before things get started?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4621 days ago

19 August 2011 (M) - I started talking to this girl recently, she seemed really nice, really pretty. Then one day we find out how old each other is, she thought I was 17, I'm 22, and I thought she was 18, the girl is 15. Nothing has happened for it to be a legal matte...

What does it mean when an older man tells you to get a boyfriend your age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4631 days ago

19 August 2011 (F) - An older man I was very fond of (and who also liked me very much)suggested I should find myself a boyfriend my age. Does this mean he doesn't like me anymore or just that he cannot handle me? How do I put him behind me if he appears in my mind every ...

What would be the best way to ask her out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4634 days ago

18 August 2011 (M) - i am in love with this girl. i am 38 years old and she is 24 years old. she does not know how i really feel about her. we have a few things in common. how would be the best way for me to ask her out? ...

I'm gay and I have a crush on my female trainer. I think she might feel the same

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4632 days ago

18 August 2011 (F) - eed some advice! I've just recently been employed, and currently in training. My trainer is really really good looking, and I took a fancy to her straight away. But I am 21 and she is 35 and has a daughter and a partner. And I have a gf at the...

Could the age difference get in the way of this being a successful relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4635 days ago

18 August 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, Just a quick question about age differences. I'm 19 (lesbian, if that changes stuff) and I've just met someone who is 28. I've never had to think about this before and was just wondering what people's perspectives are on the situa...

Completely infatuated by an older married man!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4636 days ago

17 August 2011 (F) - I met Craig* almost 6 months ago. He's in his mid 40's and as the title states, he's married. He also has children who're close to my age (I'm 21). We're in a band together and meet once a week for band practice so, I see him fairly often. I ...

I love older women .i want to have sex with one but HOW do I interest one?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4639 days ago

13 August 2011 (M) - I'm attracted to older women.. ok so i'm 19 yrs old and i love older women..like i think they are so hot..my friends make fun of me but i tell them the truth ..i just love them like i want to have sex with one..but I don't know how to get one inte...

I'm willing to try a relationship despite distance and the age difference

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

10 August 2011 (F) - I met this guy the first day of my freshman year and he was a senior.. I was interested right away, but my friend told me he had a gf so I eventually just gave up. His gf and him broke up before graduation. Later that summer we started talking ...

My sister's ex is coming on to me -- hard -- and I don't want anything to do with him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

10 August 2011 (F) - I don't know how to explain this situation. I just know that it's the worst thing that could have possibly happened. Basically, my sister and her ex had been together for almost 14 years and they have two children. They only split up a few months ...

Is it legal for a 24 year old to date a 17 year old?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4624 days ago

9 August 2011 (M) - Hi to all I've just found out that a friend of mine (24 years old male) is dating a (17 year old female) and just would like know is this legal or illegal and is this right or wrong as i really dont know myself what to say to them both....

Why do guys get more attractive as they get older?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4645 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - How come it seems that guys who didn't used to be so great looking back when they were younger, most the time end up looking really attractive when they get older? Because my brother turned 23 and celebrated with a party and all his friends he h...

Am I going to end up hurt by my older man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4641 days ago

8 August 2011 (F) - I've been dating a 39 year old man (I'm 24) for 2 weeks now and last night we had our first little discussion about 'us'. Nothing too major as its too soon for that, but a few things he said concerned me and now my question is am I going to end up ...

Why doesn't my older boyfriend help with the bills?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4626 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - I am 26, and am/was dating a 43 year old. I normally tend to date guys younger than me or my same age, but figured I'd try something different this time. Anyways, he has basically been living with me the past 2 months and has never offered anything ...

How do I stop my passionate crush on my teacher, who is 20 years older than me and married??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4647 days ago

7 August 2011 (F) - Ok, well I think I'm in love with my teacher. He's about 20 years older, married, and his wife's pregnant. I always seem to think of him all the time, no matter what I'm doing. I also lust after him, and most recently I've been having fantasies of ...

Is the age gap really a problem? What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

6 August 2011 (F) - Basically me and my best friend are very very close and we spend a lot of time with eachother and eachother's familes and friends. For about a year or so now i have known this guy who lives next door to her, we get on really really well and from day ...

I'm 28 and she is 18, can we overcome the age gap?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4644 days ago

6 August 2011 (M) - This is very weird for me to talk about because I know this is not commonly accepted (especially since I would not normally accept this). I am 28, just moved to the states, and I have become involved with an 18 year old. I have never dated someone ...

Everything points to success except for the age difference, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4647 days ago

Should I end this relationship with the older man? I'm not sure if he's been truthful!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4648 days ago

5 August 2011 (F) - I am 18 and have pretty much fallen in love with a man 31 years older then me. He is all I think of all the time. I really need some help getting him off my mind as due to the fact that my parents (understandably) do not agree with me having casual ...

Does this young woman just like to tease and torment me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4643 days ago

5 August 2011 (M) - Ok, so theres this girl, she 22 and im 41, huge age gap I know, but then again I dont look 41 more like 28 and I kinda act like im 28 to. And now it gets even stranger, her family and mine are very close, 30 years close, I didnt grow up with her but ...

Lonely in love.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4650 days ago

3 August 2011 (F) - hi all. ive been with my partner for 14 years on and off and we have 2 children together. i love him to bits and i can't imagine life without him but my biggest fear just lately is that he doesnt love me. we very rarely have sex as hes not ...

Three years together, then we have sex and he breaks up with me the next day!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

2 August 2011 (F) - My partner (who is 37) left me (mid twenties) after having sex with me. I had been with my partnr for three years and last week, we finally had sex. At first I wanted to wait, as I had never had sex before and was afraid it would hurt and I wasn't ...

Unhappy in my marriage. Should I leave for a 70yr old man or is he too old?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4651 days ago

1 August 2011 (F) - Should I stay or go? I'm soon really soon to be 50. August 12th. I've been married to a man a was very much in love with for 8 years. He has always looked at porn said that what he does when I'm not home is none of my business. He stopped touching ...