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Archived questions from: March, 2009 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Shows interest in other women..disappears for an hour at a time..cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 236 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - Hi, i am a 25 year old dating a 43 year old man, the relationship is comfortable, but i cannot tell if it is too comfortable. Me and me husband have sex every night and we both say we enjoy it, but i am starting to think my husband is getting ...

Boyfriend doesn't last long in bed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 52 and I am 20. The sex between us is good for as long as it lasts. Foreplay like 30 minutes ans sex like 2minutes. We been together for a year and made a son together. The other day I was putting desensitizing gel on his penis and ...

He keeps a picture of his dead wife and we are in a relationship.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 52 and I am 20. We have a newborn together but our relationship is unstable. Partly because I want us to live together, he lives on his own with his 2 sons one 26 and other 21. He said he told them that they had to leave when I was ...

Do I just see where this goes or try to resist the chemistry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 235 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - So I've gotten myself into a mess, I've fallen for an older guy, I'm 22 and he's 37. We work together in a job that requires close teamwork and having to have each other's backs. That is difficult when we're going the physical training side of the ...

I want him to want me, I don't want pity sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 233 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I have been with a man for over 3 and a half years. I am about 14 years younger than he is and that has always seemed to be a good thing. We have one child together and I have two from a previous marriage who consider him their father... Here's my ...

My family doesn't approve of the big age gap between me and my guy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Dear agony aunt, i recently posted a qeustion regarding the same situation but just need a bit more advice Ive been dating a 56 year old man and im 18, weve been together 7months and i have never been happier. At work we dont tell anyone about our...

I want to have sex with my friend’s mum

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) - I want to have sex with my friend’s mum. we are both single. I have a thing for my friend’s mum since I was in high school. She is in her 40s and I am 22. I know friend’s mum thinks I am cute as she has said so and has kissed/made out with me at ...

I'm not attracted to my older boyfriend anymore... why am I feeling this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 232 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - Ok please help me based on these facts........... * I am 28 years old * I have been with my 45 year old boyfriend for 5 years * We haven't slept together in over 2 months because I don't feel attracted to him in that way anymore - I could kiss ...

In love, 22 age gap..is it bad?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I'm 18 and dating a 40 year old man.. we have been together for 7 months now and I'm completely in love with him! he has a little girl who i love being with.. is it wrong that i'm in love with a 40 year old man?? i hate being away from him at any ...

He wants to get more serious, meeting parents etc and I am terrified of commitment!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

30 March 2009 (F) - I've been seeing my guy for 5 months now and we were friends for a while before that too. We got together through playing music together. Turns out we've got a lot in common in terms of what we read, how we spend our time, what we laugh about. ...

Is being in your 30s young or old in society

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

29 March 2009 (F) - is 30 ,31,32,33 yaer old is old or young. to some one in there 26+ old to some one who is there early 30s...

I want my son to have his father in his life full time, but his dad has two other sons that wont leave home!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

28 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 52 and I am 20. We have been together for a year and we have a 2.5 month son together. We don't live together because he has a 21 year old son and a 26 year old son that live with him. He says that he wants to buy a house for us but ...

17 and no girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) - I am just 17 years old and i have not gotten a girlfriend before, i am not desperate. I do have female friends and i have fallen in love with one of them but the problem is that she is older than me(20 years). I dont know if she loves me, she tells ...

Is there a good reason for people to find out you've had sex?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

27 March 2009 (F) - is there a good reason that people have to find out u've had sex? because i want to have sex with my bf, he wants to have sex with me, but we r concerned about getting caught and him going to jail since he is 18 and im 15. but i thinks its impossib...

Why has she left it this long to tell me that? Could she be lying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I'm having the time of my life romancing an older woman. I'm 26 and she's 46. You have to see her to believe her. She's gorgeous and got a great personality. We met at a party, she's a friend's friend's friend's friend's Mum or something like that...

In love with older woman but we kinda screwed things up

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

26 March 2009 (M) - I've been seeing this woman who about 11 years older than me for about 15 months now. She been divorced for a year now. When started are relationship everything was great. On weekends when she didn't have her kids she would stay about the whole ...

I'm worried about my husband being an older father

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 241 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - hello, i hope someone out there can help me. i am almost 30 and my husband of three years is 12 years older than me. the age difference was never an issue because i loved him and i still do, but now i find that i worry about his age. this is mai...

Sex in an elevator????

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is about 10 years older than me. I really like sex a lot and the fact that I'm young he loves the fact that I love to have sex all the time. I want to try having sex with him in an elevator but I think he's too scared to do it, how do I ...

Dazed and really confused. Really need to figure out what I'm going to do

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I am in a very interesting and complicated relationship. I have been dating a guy for about 6 months and we both love each other very much. Now here comes the complications. He's 32 and I'm 21. He has 2 very young kids (A 1 year old and an 8 month ...

Is it okay to meet him and show the real me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

25 March 2009 (F) - I'am female just call me simplegal. I'm already 18,but I never had experience relationship with a guy since birth... Now I'm here, because I want you to give me some advices and your help this serious problem with my feelings to this men. this was ...

Teacher Love?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 235 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - ok...do i hear anybody? *tests mic* ok...good. Listen please, i really need help. My teacher said i'm sexy and i'm only 13, he's 29. i love him, and i know all the risks i'm taking if i do love him. (The whole teacher can loose his job thing) Yea...

Trouble in Paradise?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 10 years younger than me. We have been together for 7 months. We used to snuggle all night long, have sex twice a day everyday but as of late he does not snuggle at all. He was also not too interested in sex the other day. Has...

She wiped her wet hand on my leg - is it flirting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

24 March 2009 (M) - Hello Last night when I was at an older woman's house I've been seeing (she's in her 40's and I'm in my 20's), she was washing her hands in the kitchen and I was sat on a seat there too. When she finished washing her hands, she came over...

What do I do to make her leave him and me alone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - ok im 17 and i'm pregnant. my boyfriend of 2 years who got me pregnant is 28 and there is a huge problem and it's not the age gap its his ex girlfriend. he has a 3 year old daughter by his ex girlfriend and his 3 year old daughter looks nothing ...

Should I tell ex of 3 year relationship that I may be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 243 days ago

24 March 2009 (F) - Hello everyone, I'm currently nineteen, and have just gotten out of a three year relationship with someone twelve years my senior. He and I met on the internet, and when we did he lived nine hundred miles away. He moved to me a year into our re...

13 year age difference an acceptable age gap?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 244 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Once both parties are legal, is 13 years an acceptable age gap? Some people say it's gross or awkward, but my parents had an age difference of 14 years (they ended up getting divorced, but not because of that...). WHat do you think?...

He's not a teacher, just a trainee teacher and not that much older than me. I think this is more than just a crush.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 240 days ago

23 March 2009 (F) - Hi, everyone :) Here goes... For a while now, I have had feelings for a male member of staff at my school. He's not a teacher, but a trainee teacher who takes classes as a supply teacher from time to time. He looks to me in his early twenties...

What should I do to stop feeling crushed by the fact the love of my life will never be mines??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I'm in love with this guy that I know and I have been for about 4 years now. There's a big age difference between us but I don't care he's so nice looking and amazing. I know nothing will ever happen because he's got a girlfriend and there madly in ...

Can I walk up and say "I've been thinking of you"?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - I'm in love with an older guy I never met. (I'm 18, which is the age of consent so there are no legal issues to my knowledge.) I've talked to him a few times, but only passing comments, if that makes sense. I think he might like me too but I have no ...

My sister has told me to get rid of my boyfriend and called him a scumbag!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 114 days ago

21 March 2009 (F) - Here goes, I'm 22 years old and have been in an on off relationship for a year and half. My boyfriend is ten years older and has a child, none of this bothers me but I have not yet told my parents about him because they come from a well to do ...

If she is 7 months older is that a big difference ???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

20 March 2009 (M) - hi .. she is 7 months older than me .. is that a problem ???? ..i like her very much and i think she likes me too ... ...

Too shy to ask me out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 247 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) - If a guy likes you and he is a few years younge than you. say you are 23 and he is 19, would he be too shy to ask you out?...

Why is my mom so strict all of a sudden?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - There's this guy (Yeah, really original). Any ways, he's ten years older than me, he's 26. His parents are really good friends with mine. The biggest secret I have kept from my parents was not telling them I had started dating him when I was 1...

How can I explain to him I love him but slow down without hurting him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 245 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - Im in a relationship with an older man who I love but I think things are moving too fast. How can I explain to him I love him but slow down without hurting him. I'm 23 he is 42....

Is the age difference too much here?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 15 well 14 but going be 15 in a couple of months or so. Anyway I really like this girl, her name is Bethand, she's my best friend's sister but he wouldn't care if we went out. A lot of other people would: my ex would start rumours about ...

Would you be jealous if your partner was going out to dinner with other pretty girls? Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

19 March 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years but for two years we were on and off quite a lot. He is over ten years older than me and lives about 100 miles away. I see him every fortnight. He is a lawyer and has lots of female friends, some ...

I'm a 20 year old male, and have fallen in love with a 14 year old female.

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

19 March 2009 (M) - Ok, the short end of the story is that I'm a 20 year old male, and have fallen in love with a 14 year old female. I didn't realise she was 14 when I met her, I honestly thought she was 18 because she could easily have passed for a university stu...

I want my mom to accept my older boyfriend!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

18 March 2009 (F) - I am a 16 year old dating a 24 year old and we are deeeply in love with one another. I cannot get him out of my head, he makes me so happy, the only problem is my mom doesn't know anything about him. How can I talk to her and get her to let me ...

How long should I wait for this 16 year old girl to grow up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

17 March 2009 (M) - I have fallen in love with a 16 year old girl.I love her very much.Yet I is it correct for me to think of settling down with her after say 6 years....

Dumped suddenly by my boyfriend..don't know why

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

17 March 2009 (F) - Hey guys need some sound advice here..going mad - thanks First - have had no period am 3 days late - 3 negative pee tests, went to doctor today got her to take my blood so playing the waiting game on that one. Doc also got a negative on the ...

I'm 14, want to date an 18 year old. How to tell my mom?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

16 March 2009 (F) - hey guys. thing is there is this guy I like, he's 18 and I'm 14, he sed he likes me and I like him too and he asked me if i'd go out with him. I said yes, he also said that he would push me into anything and would respect me, (I would let him pu...

I'm 15, she's 22 and I'm wondering what she feels for me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 251 days ago

16 March 2009 (M) - hi there, i'm a 16 year old lad and i feel as though i'm in love with my friend. she somehow makes me feel alive and more happy, something that i've never felt like for other girls i've got to know. but the thing is she's coming up for 22 and i have ...

Do you think a relationship with him is worth pursuing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I've been best friends with this girl for 2 years and I've recently just met one of her brothers (he's in University and he's never home), he's 26, 9 years older than me. The last month or so, the three of us hang out and we always have a great ...

My online guy wants me to fly out to his state and met him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I have been talking to this guy online for almost a year now. We talk daily and seems like a great guy. He wants me to fly out to his state and meet him. I really want to but im a little nervous. I'm 21 and he is a bit older he is 30 and is divor...

Never calls me..wonder if he's cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 242 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - Im in love with a guy who is 4 years younger then me. Im 25 and his 21. Its just 5 months since we met. His in another state schooling and im staying home. Its four months now we haven't met. He hardly calls me. Its me who always calls and reminds ...

Girlfriend older than boyfriend? Wasting my time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - my boyfriends 17 and im 22 weve been dating almost a year now were pretty happy and planning on moving in together soon his family knows my age and doesnt mind at all however my parents and freinds do not know Im just wondering should i tell them ...

What kind of moves do guys use if they want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - This guy invited me to his house the next time I'll be home (which will be around Easter). He hasn't said what we'd be doing; he just said perhaps the next time I'm home we can just meet at his house. I'm hoping we watch a movie or have dinner or ...

He's younger and I worry this is an issue for him - do I ask him out anyway?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

14 March 2009 (M) - I recently met someone on a course during the course we seemed to just click. I felt really attracted to this guy but at the time he had just started dating someone, so thought ah well he's taken so kind of backed off. 2 weeks later though they ...

How do I put my daughter on birth control without looking as if I'm OK with underage sex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - I am I single father of a 16 year old daughter. Last week she had her "boy"friend over and they were watching a movie, she calls him her boyfriend but I never seen them as a couple because she is so young. I left to do some work outside and when...

Can't fit in

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

12 March 2009 (F) - Some may think I’m exaggerating but I’m being totally honest I’m 14 and I’ve been very confused cause I feel a little out of place at my age. I have lots of friends but that’s exactly why I can’t fit in any social group. Everybody thinks I’m 17 sinc...