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Archived questions from: October, 2009 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I really love her but I'm bored and she really gets on my nerves. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5288 days ago

30 October 2009 (F) - So im an agony aunt new to this website and i need some advice. Ive been in a relationship with my girl for almost four months now and I feel like im bored. I know its not because we spend to much time together because i go to school and work and ...

I enjoy his company but the passion is gone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5291 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - Im a 49 year old divorcee. I've been going out with this man 18 years my senior for 4 years right after my divorce. I enjoy his company as he fills the empty place in my heart. Four years on, the passion has gone I feel like he is my dad more than ...

Do you think my driving instructor likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5293 days ago

28 October 2009 (F) - i think my driving insructor fancies me and told me he loved me by text. he is a joker and a few of my mates go to him. he slaps my leg when he gives me orders but also does this to my freinds. when he texts me about my driving lessons he sends me...

Would a baby be good for our relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5294 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - I'm 19, and my boyfriend's 45, and he wants a baby now. I've told him no, but he's insistent again and again that I have one with him. He says he doesn't want a baby to "trap" me, but because he feels it will be good for our relationship. I'v...

My boyfriend is embarrassed to be dating me because of my age!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5290 days ago

27 October 2009 (F) - Im a 14 year old and i´m currently dating a 19 year old, but he wont tell anyone because he´s embarrassed of dating some one so young. Do you think the age difference is a problem ? ...

Do you think he'll be interested if I call him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5281 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - I recently met a man at a party. We were chatting for a while and I found him really interesting company- he seemed like an intelligent, unassuming and basically nice guy and we had quite a lot in common and, on first impressions, similar outlook on ...

How do I let her down without hurting her too much? I don't want to start a relationship when I am moving away!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

26 October 2009 (M) - okay, well i'l just get straight into it. i'm a 17 year old guy and she is a 15 year old girl. we both go to the same college, she is 2 years below me in school and has a brother in my year. i honestly don't remember how we met but i have been ...

Should I have a relationship with a man 22 years older than me? What will happen in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5293 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - Just as the saying goes " love is blind",I am in love with a man who is 22 years older than me (i'm 28), he divorced couple of months ago, he loves me so much, making me feel I am having the whole world. This kind of beloved feeling never happens to ...

Advice on having sex with an older man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

26 October 2009 (F) - i always enjoyed hav sex but now am married with really old guy an we dont have sex for a year now and i also dont want to cheat on him,we love each other very much,we enjoy each others company but i really want to have sex any advice...

How should I handle her being upset with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

25 October 2009 (M) - Hey ive been seeing this woman for a little less than 2 months now and i am really into her. she has a kid and is 3 years older than i am. We are not official yet because she basically wants to make sure i am the right guy. we work togeth...

Is he moving too fast again or am I just paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5296 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - Im 18 and my BF is just older than me. He has had relationships before but I am still a virgin. I went out with him a few years ago, but broke up with him because I am highly insecure (depressive, not open with people touching me) and he was moving ...

Is my professor interested in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5297 days ago

25 October 2009 (F) - So I'm pretty sure that my professor is interested in me, but he doesn't want to make moves because like any professor with an once of brains, they realize the consequences if their passes are rejected. However, I'm completely interested and I...

Do you think the situation is unsolvable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - I have big crush on somebody, who is almost impossible to be or just to start conversation with. One year ago we ended on a sofa kissing in the house of his neightboor. But it was extreme situation, that can never happen again (because of a bit ...

His parents call me a predator!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5297 days ago

24 October 2009 (F) - Hi all ty for reading this and please your comments will be so welcome.. I met this guy will be 2 years soon .. We were instant friends and started off talking every day it was crazy how natural it was and innocent. He loves with his parents who I ...

What make her so protective of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5298 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I hope I can get some insight because right now I am feeling a bit confused. So here goes. I met this teacher when I was 15. We are both females. Very quick, we became close. At the time I was going through some rough patch...

Do you think I'm the problem with his climax?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5298 days ago

23 October 2009 (F) - Hi, my man used to cum in me, using condoms, all the time. For the past 2 months this has not been happening - hes been blaming this on his night work, hes tired, if we argue this is the problem, its the dog etc. I have tried my best, but only ...

He's younger and has a gf, but he won't stop hanging with me! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - i am a 34 year old divorce mom to a 6 year old girl. a couple of months ago, I met a guy at a bar with my friends. Turns out we live down the street from each other and were hanging out often watching football games on sunday. ect.ect. We have a...

I am 22 he is 35, what do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

22 October 2009 (F) - Hey there it is me again, so being 22 i am thinking about dating a guy that is 35, do u think the age difference is to much? i am just tired of all the immature jerks that i have dated in the pass, they have cheated on me, lied and used me ...

I cant get enough...Has anyone felt this before?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5295 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - im 18 and i really like this guy who is 33 years old he likes me too , we know it's wrong ,but just can't gt enough of each other has anyone ever felt this before?what to do?...

I know it won't work but he won't let me leave.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - I need help! This is my situation. I've been dating an older man for about a month and a half now. He's thirty three and im only nineteen. A short time before we started seeing each other he had just broken up with his girlfriend of three or more ...

How can I spend time with her in my own home before I leave for active duty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5300 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - I am 18 years old and enlisted in the United States Airforce. I have a girlfriend well ex now girlfriend who is 16 years old. I have been dating her since i was 14 years old and I lost my virginity to this girl. My first true love and basically only ...

I cum too fast and it's ruining my relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

21 October 2009 (M) - hello here is a little background.. I'm 26 years old, and I live with my 19 years old GF, we now eachother for 1 year and been in relationship for about 5 months, she is by far the most pretty woman I ever had, she is just gorgeous with a ...

Can any males or male teachers tell me what you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Okay guys, tell me what you think There is this awesome male teacher that used to be my band director in 6-8 grade, but now he is my freshman ELA teacher. We go to church together, and (i play the flute and he plays pretty much everything) perf...

I'm afraid of running him off by requesting things for myself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

21 October 2009 (F) - Dear cupid, I recently being three months ago started dating a guy 9 years younger than me I am 29 he is 20. I lost my father on fathers day and then my husband left me 2 weeks after his passing. I was freinds with the guy I am dating now for a...

I'm 15, he is 26. Is this bad?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - right well im 15 .. and ive been going out with this lad who is 26 ... but ive been with him for nearly a year .. and where so happy .. he treats me like a princess and buys me what i want and loves me loads ... and evryone says im a very mature 15 ...

My family is convinced he just wants me for sex! What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5301 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Im im 15 years an a sophomore in high school. and i recently have been seeing this guy that is out of high school graduate. He is 18. He is really sweet an cares about me. But.. its my parents. Like they think all the guys want me for sex. But ...

Is this how "Grown Up" relationships work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - Hi :) i'm Trixie and im 16 (17 in a few days!!) Basically I have started this "relationship" with a really great guy who is 20. The thing is we have been acting like boyfriend and girlfriend for about... 5 weeks now, although were not going out. No...

I think the age difference is immoral. Is my intution right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - i am a 20 year old college junior and i have no problem with getting men's attention. however, i like a 17 year old high school senior. is this wrong? we met through mutual friends, which are all 19-21 years old except for him. at the time, we had...

Should I compromise and give him a call or ignore him forever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5291 days ago

20 October 2009 (F) - I've been sort of seeing this man for the past 5 or so months...we never slept together but the chemistry was so there-it was on a mental level maybe the most intense relationship I've ever had. Part of the reason is he's 15 years older than me ...

How can I make this marriage work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

19 October 2009 (M) - I hope to get a female perspective on my wife's ideas. Our relationship has been very stormy for a few months. Such as: she stopped wearing her ring, says she doesn't want to be married, wants to talk to guy's on the phone in total privacy, is ...

Does this man have any feelings for me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - Hi everyone. I am new to this so please be nice. ;) There is a divorced, older man (in his 30's somewhere) with kids I am interested in and have been before I even knew him. But I have known him for a few weeks already and I am not sure if he i...

I am in love with my manager who is 12 years older than me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

19 October 2009 (F) - I really need big time help. I am in love with my manager who is 12 years older than me. When I first got the job this june i thought he was around 19 or 20 and he showed great interest in me thinking that i was at least 18 years old although i was ...

The girl I love is my best friends daughter. What do we do now?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5299 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - I am 42 yrs old and have been best freidns with my co worker Dan since high school. I was even his best man at his wedding. I was in a long term relationship that ended 10 months ago, Dan was awlways trying to set me up with different people but ...

Will we ever have sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5303 days ago

18 October 2009 (F) - hey there, well i am 16 and have sort of just got into a relationship with a guy named matt who is 20 years old (so a bit older then me) now i just want to state for the record we are both not together for the sex or anything like that we both are...

I'm afraid she's upset and I don't know what to do!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5304 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - Hey all, This isn't really my kind of thing, but I found this site on Google, and it looked like the kind of site that I'd get a good answer from, so here's my question/problem. I've met this woman on the internet who's older than me, and it wa...

What is likelyhood of a committed relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5301 days ago

17 October 2009 (M) - I'm a 30 year old male and I've met this hot woman off the internet. She is 20 years old and a virgin. No religious ties. She's never even had a bf. She just moved out of her parents home (very controlling/mentally abusive father) and is l...

Deep, passionate crush on older guy with kids!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5306 days ago

16 October 2009 (F) - Hi all! I am new to this but not a registered user. Let me get straight to the point. There is an older guy I have a deep, passionate crush on and I cannot tell if he likes me back. I have been chasing him since earlier this Summer and never co...

What can I do, my boyfriend raped me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - help Im 16 and my boyfriend is 25 andw when we were in his car he drove far away and raped me and he keeps sayind and texting he'll do it agian when hes not busy.It hurts and hes mates say and have tried too have sex with me help!...

Its over so why cant I let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5305 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - im so confused about my feelings please help. im 40 my ex is 30 and that was never an issue just a fact..anyway we were together two and a half years and broke up two weeks ago. we have broken up many times before - always my choice - but hes always ...

He had sex with me even though I asked him to stop, was I in the wrong in any way? Did I lead him on? And should I forgive him and meet up with him again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5302 days ago

15 October 2009 (F) - i know i was stupid so please dont have a go :( but i really dont know where else to go! i posted a question here before and got about 9 very good answers which i am greatful for! so i hope you dont mind me asking about this! about a year b...

Was I taken for a ride by a younger woman I met online? I'm heartbroken..

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

15 October 2009 (M) - I am a male approaching mid 30s and I met this young woman (early 20s) on an asian e-dating site about 5 months ago. We were just chatting and talking on/off until about 2 months ago, and that's when I started having some sexual relation with ...

What's the biggest age difference that won't make society feel awkward?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5289 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - i'm almost 18. there's a guy i like right now who's 23. we have decent banter and tend to stare at each other, but that isn't going to work out because he just got engaged. there's another guy who's 30 and we have terrific banter and i alway...

What is the maximum age I can go for?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5307 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - Right i am 16 years old and a girl and i want to know what is the maximum age limit i can go for before people think its weird. Because i know this guy who is 22 nothing has happened but he is soooooo nice (: But i also had an emotional affair...

Is this LDR for real or will it pass?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5307 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - So basiclly i'm 14 and hes 19 and hes my bf hes a dj and stuff quite rich has his own house 5 bedrooms big garden pool ect..Hes living in another country atm and i'll be seeing him soo i've spoken 2 his aunt , uncle one of his brothers and their a ...

Is he hiding or trying to avoid something?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

14 October 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for a little over 5 months now. He is in his late 30's and I am in my early 20's. I can say that I have matured faster than other women my age. When he approached me, I had the assumption that he "grew that side of the ...

Am I selfish for not wanting to settle down just yet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

14 October 2009 (M) - hi to all. been a long time since i last checked my dearcupid. i just want your honest opinions and/or comments. im in a gay relationship right now. he's 43 and im 19. we are going for 1 year in december. yes, i am happy with him. we are exclus...

I'm in love with her so should I tell her how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5268 days ago

13 October 2009 (M) - I need some help! I'm a 37 year old man who has only had one relationship which only lasted about a year about 10 years ago. This is due to low self confidence, also as I got older, it was harder to start a relationship. Last year, I met thi...

Is it psychologically normal to have feelings for an older man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - Hi, was just wondering.. I'm 20 years old, and am currently seeing a man 11 years older then me, is there anything wrong with dating older men? I know each person is different and so but from a psychological point of view is it normal to have ...

I feel like he is using my lies as a way out of our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5308 days ago

13 October 2009 (F) - So i met this guy online. and he and I have talked for over a year now. we got to the point where I loved him and he loved me, and we never hid that. we'd say "i love you" quite often. Im from the states and he from Canada. Im 20 and he's 33. the ...

Is it possible for us to take things to the next level in spite of our differences?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5309 days ago

12 October 2009 (F) - There is a man that I like, but there is one problem: he is the teaching assistant for my college philosophy class and therefore is responsible for grading my work. I am 23 and he is 28. I am a senior and he is a Ph.d candidate. Had we met in ...