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writes:HiRecently met a guy who is 27. I am 19. He asked for my number and did text me in the first week, nearly every day (I let him text me first). After talking to a friend, she suggested that I text him first for once or he will think I'm not interested. Up to this point, me and this guy had been talking on MSN and texting each other. He always started the conversations or texting first. Then this tuesday, I texted him as I couldnt get online to go on MSN (he seems to prefer talking to me on there, but WILL reply to texts). I texted him about 9.30pm. He replied the next morning. He said he would speak to me later and to take care. He did put a kiss at the end. I assumed he meant talk to me on MSN, but I already knew I wouldnt be able to get on MSN as i was going out with the girls that night.I didnt text back. Since he sent that text, I have been left wondering if I shouldnt have sent that tezt and let him chase me some more, but then I would worry he might think im not really interested cos i would never text him. He has not texted me again, is this because I have not replied to his text or is this because I suddenly started chasing him and so he lost interest?He also has not been available to speak to on MSN. Could this just genuinely be because he is busy?Please can someone help me out and suggest what I should do now? Should I text him again and see what he says ? Any ideas for the text?Only met the guy two saturdays ago by the way, so dont want to seem over-keen.
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (21 September 2007):
I don't think you tried too hard. Send him another text and ask him to text you at MSN. The patiently wait for his reply. You should know soon what he thinks of you.
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reader, leanne.od +, writes (20 September 2007):
 he asked you for your number so he is interested!
sometimes when its new, it's nice to find a girl who plays hard to get but when does playing hard to get become ignorance?
i think you did the right thing in texting him, you showed you were interested but in a way that didn't seem desperate. you need to be patient now, and let him contact you, he will. i suggest giving him about a week, if no contact by then, give him a call and ask why no contact so you know where you stand.
good luck
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