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Archived questions from: August, 2005 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

What can I do to stop thinking about a family friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6809 days ago

31 August 2005 (F) - I am 16 and have just realized that I have always had feelings for someone. The problem is he is about 30, married, and a family friend. I know I am not in love with him but I can't stop thinking about him and I am finding it hard to talk to him ...

My boyfriend can't decide whether to be friends or lovers!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6809 days ago

31 August 2005 (?) - My boyfriend and I have problems now for a while. A couple of weeks ago I got the impression he doesn't want me around and that im in the way. He says I'm causing him to be depressed and that he just wants to be friends. However when w...

Should I consider a relationship with my friend's older brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6491 days ago

28 August 2005 (F) - I am a 15 year old female that acts a lot older than my actual age. I am often drinking alcohol and I smoke up to 30 fags a day. My mate who is the same age as me has a brother of 19. Recently I have heard he really likes me. Trouble is we live in ...

Our relationship is nothing more than sex, or planning to have sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6752 days ago

28 August 2005 (F) - Ok..I know I am a little old to be this stupid..BUT, I am in a "relationship" with someone 10 yrs younger. The sex is incredible but it also all we have. My question is how do I let go of somethng that has become addictive to me? I want him all the ...

He's married and 44, while I'm 18. But we have so much in common that we're falling for each other...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6779 days ago

27 August 2005 (F) - Hi, I've got a problem that has been developing over the past year. I met a man almost exactly a year ago who I 'clicked' with like I haven't done with anybody before. We have the same taste in music, art, everything really. There are a few p...

Oral sex with a condom? How do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6805 days ago

25 August 2005 (F) - I'm 18 and I've recently started dating an older guy (27) after breaking up with my boyfriend, John*. Me and John had a great sexual relationship and I felt really comfortable with him. I was sexually abused when I was younger and he made me feel ...

My folks like my 17-year-old boyfriend, but they won't let us date!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6110 days ago

24 August 2005 (F) - I'm a 14 year old girl with a 17 year old bf. I have never met someone quite like him and I really know I love him and hope this relationship will work out. My parents have met him and said they liked him but won't ever let me see him because ...

My parents don't approve of my boyfriend...

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 4942 days ago

23 August 2005 (F) - I am going to be 14 in December and my boyfriend is 19. I really like him and I feel he is the one for me. My parents don't approve. How can I be with him without him getting in trouble and get jail time? He says he don't want to go to jail but...

I get nothing but criticism and accusations from my boyfriend. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6807 days ago

22 August 2005 (M) - Hi, I am a 19 year old male and I'm in a relationship with a 40yr old male. We have been having problems now for months. He spends more time with everybody else with me. He's nasty to me, he puts me down, he tries to stop me talking to my family and ...

Forbidden by my mum to see a co-worker who I'm very interested in...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6820 days ago

21 August 2005 (F) - I am currently a 17 year old female, graduating from high school this May. I am very comfortable with myself and confident in who I am, and it is maybe for this reason that people always mistake me as many years older then I actually am. I work...

My daughter is involved with a man 36 years older than her!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4821 days ago

21 August 2005 (F) - Hi there, I have a 16-year-old daughter and have recently found out that she is dating a 52-year-old man. She is talking about marriage and children with this man; personally I don't understand why she wants to marry someone so much older than...

Can't pay the rent, and my husband takes out his frustration on the apartment. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

21 August 2005 (F) - I don't think I love my husband any more. We have great financial stress, which I seem to take more on board than him. He is 32yrs and I am 19yrs. We have been married for 2 yrs. He can't hold a job down, and doesn't seem to care. All the money st...

There's 14 years between us. Are we likely to have problems in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6820 days ago

20 August 2005 (M) - Hi there I'm 19 and fancy a 33-year-old woman. Are there likely to be any problems with this age-gap relationship? JC x P.S. I live in the UK....

It's not the age difference... it's the fact that he's 36 and isn't ready to settle down yet!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6826 days ago

17 August 2005 (F) - Hey agony aunts! Cut to the chase I guess. I have just started seeing a guy who is 11 years older than me, I am 25. I am worried about the age difference and us wanting different things. I am stupid but worried what is wrong with him and why he h...

Things aren't good with my boyfriend, but do I take a chance on the new guy..?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6827 days ago

17 August 2005 (F) - My bf does not know how to show affection or how to recieve it. I have spent 9 months trying to show him how, but nothing has come of it. Now I've met a 28 yr old who seems so perfect, and I'm so attracted to him but I'm 17. Is the age gap too big,...

Is the age gap too big?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6776 days ago

16 August 2005 (F) - I am an 18 year old female and I am kind of seeing a 27 year old guy. Is this age gap too big? And how do I tell my parents...they would kill me! Is he only after sex?...

I'm 14 and falling for a 21-year-old!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

16 August 2005 (F) - I'm 14 years old and I've recently become involved with a guy who is 21. I know this is quite a big age gap but I think I'm falling for him. He's told me that he likes me and we get on really well and talk all the time, but revently he's been ...

Falling for my boss... but I'm only thirteen!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6198 days ago

15 August 2005 (F) - Hi I am only 13 years old, which is young. Recently I have found myself falling for my part-time boss. I dont know whether this is love or lust. He is about 36 and I know it probably won't be serious. I am getting mixed messages from him. ...

Shying away from the chance to have sex with a friend, because she's had more experience than me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6828 days ago

14 August 2005 (M) - I am 19 years old and lately a friend of mine has been hinting to me about having sex together. I really like her and find her attractive but she is 25 years old and I am worried because I have had little sexual experience and I don't want to make a ...

I like a boy who's still a minor!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6826 days ago

13 August 2005 (F) - I really like this guy at school but the problem is that I'm 18 and he's 15, which makes him under the age of consent. I think I'm in love with him- or at least really obsessed. I know he likes me too but I don't know whether to act on it or not. ...

Nothing serious is going to come of this... but maybe I should leave before things get complicated.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6829 days ago

13 August 2005 (M) - Hi, I'm a teenage guy who is seeing this woman who is a few years older then me. We are not going out or in a relationship as such, but we meet up and go on dates and when we meet up it is usually great fun. She lives in my county, not far away, but ...

Would I seem like a stalker if I asked his friend for his email address?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6832 days ago

12 August 2005 (F) - Hi, About 3 months ago I worked with a guy who is about 10 years older than me. We saw each other enough times so that we would stop to chat in the corridor but after 3 weeks he left to move to another job. I thought nothing more about it un...

Don't know which guy to hang out with... I like them both!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6764 days ago

11 August 2005 (?) - I'm a 15 yr old girl, and this guy I like (he's 18) asked me for my phone number so I gave it to him. The next day we kissed. The day after we kissed this guy (21) that I have liked for ages asked me to meet up with him because I hadn't seen him for ...

He might be married, and he's older than me, but I just click with a manager at work!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6833 days ago

10 August 2005 (F) - I have a real issue with a manager guy who is based in another department at work. I never get to see him that much but when I do, I really get the impression that he quite enjoys engaging in quite intense conversation. The fact we seem to clic...

My friend said our bond was "sick". He's 90 and I'm his carer.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6830 days ago

9 August 2005 (F) - I work as a carer for a 90 year old man in his home. We have, over time, formed a special bond and are in love. He wants to get married but I can't face telling my family as I recently confided in a friend who said the relationship was 'sick' and ...

Is the 5-years gap too much between us? Is it too soon for us to have sex?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6432 days ago

7 August 2005 (F) - I am a 15 year old teenage girl who is in a loving relationship with a guy who is 20. I will be 16 in 3 months and he will be 21 next month. We really want to have sex but I don't know if it's too soon and if he is too old for me? ...

He's very secretive when he talks to his ex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6836 days ago

5 August 2005 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am seeing a guy that is 13 years older than I am. I am 21 and he is 34. We have been together for a year and a half. I love this man more than anything in the world. But lately I have been questioning his level of commitment. He ...

There's an age difference and he has a fiancee. Even so, should I tell him how I feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6839 days ago

3 August 2005 (F) - I'm 15 and I'm in love with my ex-music teacher! He's 25 and has a fiancee (she hates me)! I recently moved schools but we were really close! We'd talk for hours about his life and mine, our views on politics, which kinds of music we like, what our...

We accept the age difference between us, but I think my family won't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6839 days ago

2 August 2005 (F) - I'm a 25 single mum of 2 and always dated men no older than 32. I have now met a 38 year old man who I've fallen in love with, and him me. But the problem I have is I don't think my family will accept the age difference and don't know what to do fo...

Should I forget about dating him and just go back to university?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6836 days ago

1 August 2005 (F) - Hey, I had been with my boyfriend, Lee* for almost 18 months when I got a new job and met someone else. Me and Lee* are only 18 and Carl is 27*. I really fell for him and we spent a lot of time together. It came to the point where I never saw Lee* ...

Do we need a break so that we can see our situation more clearly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6843 days ago

1 August 2005 (F) - Help :( I have been with my bf for 7 very happy months. He got cheated on twice before he met me and was very in love with his last gf and was broken to bits when they split. We have a great relationship but he has put walls up and is finding it ...