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Archived questions from: April, 2009 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Our relationship is all one-sided but I'm having trouble letting go!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

30 April 2009 (F) - I really dont know what to do. I have been in a relationship with this guy 9 years my junior, usual story it was great at first, we have had lots of problems to be honest a lot he has caused, i could list a few incidences and in isolation, it doesnt ...

How do I tell him the truth? Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 208 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - I work in a small shop with a male lead sales assistant. We get on well, and ever since I started he made me feel welcome and comfortable. Also, we are both very shy and can be quiet. The problem is I blush when we talk (maiden shyness etc) which he ...

I like my teacher... I just want to say hi to him but I'm too shy!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - hey. i'm 14 and theres a teacher at my school that i really like, he doesnt teach me for any lessons, i just want to say hi to him but i'm really shy. will he think its weird because i havent really spoken to him before. sorry if this seems like ...

I tried to slow down our relationship and now she has moved on to a 60 year old guy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

29 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I met a woman about a month ago - we got along great. I had reservations because her previous boyfriend had left her just 2 months prior and she would talk about him often and how bad he treated her. I did not want to be her rebound guy...

I'm 19, he's 36...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

29 April 2009 (F) - When I meet my current boyfriend i was 17 and he was 34 i am now turning 19 and he is turning 36 i live with him and have for 11 months. He has a 5year old son and its hard because he only has him half the time. whenever his son is over i feel ...

Should I date this older guy who has a girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

28 April 2009 (F) - I just met this guy and i like him so much and he feels the same way but the 2 problems i have with him is that i am 3years older than him and he has girlfiend but in another state and they hardly see each other except to talk on the phone which he ...

In a 3+ year relationship with an older man, but no sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 211 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - I’m 32 and my boyfriend of 3 1/2 yr now 51 but young at heart and very attractive have a good relation but when it comes to sex well its just not there. We have maybe 3 times in the time we have been together and I need any and all help we talk ...

My family is against our relationship.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 192 days ago

26 April 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 16 years old. I have a bf, he is 12. Some people think that it's wrong because I'm 4 years older, but I don't care because we love each other very much but the problem is that my whole family don't like him, so I can't come home to him and ...

I'm in love with my b/f's uncle!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

26 April 2009 (F) - Hi , well here's my situation ... I'm 14 years old, and I'm completely in love with a 24 year old. Believe it or not, I know its not an infatuation. If you, yourself, are in love- then you KNOW you are in love, you don't question it. Now, this...

Does my teacher have feelings for me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 182 days ago

25 April 2009 (F) - Hey guys, I know I've asked this question before but now with a few more leads. I think he has caught onto me used to liking him so he has been giving out the same signs aswell lately. I can't bare to look at him during class anymore because ...

Can anyone tell me what this girl is thinking?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

23 April 2009 (M) - Hi all, I hav this crush with this family friend. She's 17 and i'm 25. Well basically it's her who initiated and sort of pushed me to say my feeling to her. I didn't formally say that i like her (but we both told a story which is pretty obvious ...

I want to work it out; I'm not sure he does.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 215 days ago

23 April 2009 (F) - I am under the age of 18 and my bf is 19 and we been together for 4 months. He told me that he will wait for me and that he loves me. But then he tells me that it's not going to work out and he doesn't know what he feels for me because I'm young ...

How should I act so he won't dislike me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I started my new relationship with a guy who is 11 years older than me 3 days ago. I am 22 and he is 34. I like him but I think I am also paranoid. The days after we got together, he text me to ask me how I was doing. He didn't come to see me during ...

Is it okay to date a guy that's younger than me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 209 days ago

21 April 2009 (F) - I like this guy at school, we're both in college and he is a bit younger than me, I don't know if its okay to date a younger guy? What do you think? and I'm not sure what he would think of it?...

Dating a younger guy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I am a single mother with 2 kids. I haven’t dated in 3 years just because I don’t make time for myself. Now there is this sweet and caring guy who likes me and is very nice to me, but he is 10 years younger then me. Should I date him? ...

What should I do to motivate a proposal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - Hello I'm 29 years old and my partner is 50, we have been shacking up for 2.5 years outside of the few times I kicked him out. We are both attractive and it is not a sugar daddy realtionship I love him deeply and do not want another relationship. We ...

I am attracted to my ex's Mom!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 218 days ago

20 April 2009 (M) - I am 18. My relationship with my girlfriend ended with her leaving me. She said that we could remain friends. This happened over a month ago. My ex-girlfriend and I have remained friends. She has a new boyfriend and she seems happy. I am happy ...

Sometimes comments on our age difference weighs me down, so how should I overcome this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I am in a great relationship with a guy 20 years older. We are both legal adults. Most people around when we are on a date treat us like they would anyone else. Usually once or twice per date we get a rude stare or worse. Once when we were toge...

I just need some honest opinions on age differences.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 199 days ago

20 April 2009 (F) - I just need some honest opinions on age differences. What would you think of a 17 year old girl going out with a 29 year old guy? Right/wrong/doesn't matter? I need some insight to this, thank you....

Longtime boyfriend doesn't propose

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - I am together with my boyfriend for 6 years now. We live together for 5 years and we match well together. We have had hard times, but now we have grown together, have many things in common. The thing is that he claims he is "free bird", never had ...

Love him, but it's against my faith

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 219 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship with a guy who is 5 years older than me for about a year. Due to our age difference we were never verbally intimate. We also indulged in sex about 5 months ago and since then whenever we are together alone we have ...

Can sex with a younger man be a good experience?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - I have been friends and seeing a younger man. We have a good time. I am considering the possibility of sex with him. Can sex with a man that is 10 to 15 years younger be a good idea? Can sex with a younger man be a good experience? What...

The age gap is no big deal to me. Please tell me, from what I have told you, what you honestly think.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 203 days ago

19 April 2009 (F) - Ok guys heres the deal. After reading this you may think I'm being silly and overreacting. But I need some honest, genuine answers. I have recently began driving lessons with a very handsome 30 year old man. I am 17 and have only had 6 lessons with ...

Am I over thinking the age difference? I'm 41 she is 27

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - I recently met a beautiful and wonderful woman who is 27. I am 41 and we met online have gone out the past few weeks. To give you an idea what this is about, I’ll give you the details: As I stated, I am 41. However, if you saw me your jaw would d...

I think my younger g/f's best friend like her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

18 April 2009 (M) - I'm a forty-seven year old male who's been married four times before and has five children (wih only two of the women). I am also currently dating a twenty-one year old woman. We've been together since last Christmas and yes, we have had sex. But ...

19 and 45, what to do... need some help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - I met this guy when I was 10 and I fell deeply in love with this guy sexually emotional and physically. I'm now 19 and he is 45 and I feel it would be wrong but on the other hand I really love him and we are starting a relationship, and I was ...

I'm 13 and we are considering "fingering", does it hurt and how should we do it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

18 April 2009 (F) - Okay, well I'm 13 my boyfriend is 15. He is 22 months older then me. He is very very sweet and always is like, "we are not doing anything that you are not sure about or comfortable with." and he means that, seriously. He gets really really worked up ...

Should I ask him to marry me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Hiya, I've been thinking about asking my bf of 5 months to marry me... I'm very confused, i am 24 and have been with my new (29 yr old) boyfriend for 5 months. We are very close and very much in love and moved in with each other very shortly ...

I think I'm pregnant yet we're not supposed to be around each other.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - Now i'm 16 and his 20. I have no clue what to do i think i'm pregnant by him which cause a problem cuz we're not suppose to be around each other. that's my mother's doing....

Will he come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - I've made out with a guy who is 11 years older than me. He was my graduate student instructor last year but we started hanging out this year in March. in Fed, he met me again and talked to me and also asked for my #. One week later, he asked ...

Is my man just using me for sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

17 April 2009 (F) - i am dating a guy much older then me for 7 months now, but it s not a normal relationship, he lets me see him once maybe twice a month...and it s mostly sex, he is divorced, lives alone, and i believe doesn t want anything serious, but i feel he ...

Where is this relationship going, please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 221 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - I have been dating an older (divorced) man for a year now and we still don't have sex. We are very sexually active in other ways (by masterbating with each other, foreplay...) but he says that sex means alot to him if it's in a relationship. He ...

Is my girlfriend too young for me, do you think?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 215 days ago

16 April 2009 (M) - I have been dating a much younger girl for 6 months now (im coming on 27,she is 17) She is a great girl,she is understanding and caring. My problem is,she has met most of my family and friends on a number of occasions and each time she will ju...

Is he over his wife or are the feelings still lingering

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 221 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - My man and I age difference is 31 years apart. He has 3 grown kids plus my son. I love him and he says he loves me but every time we have a conversation he has to bring up his ex wife who cheated. Does he still love her or miss her. Although he says...

How you would feel about going with a girl 3 or 4 years younger?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 220 days ago

16 April 2009 (F) - okay so im fourteen and i hang about with people 3 years older than me , i dont know why i suppose ive always just got on with older people better. ive only had one boyfriend before.. no boys ever like me, any i like back,. im quite a picky pers...

Does age matter when he's a young adult and I'm a teenager?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - hey well i met this guy over 3 months and he has a girlfriend but he inst spending anytime with her because she lives in another state and they aren't spending time together because he goes t college.. then here i am and i never had feeling for ...

14, he's 18, does that makehim a pedo?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - hi, im a 14, and my boyfriends 18. i know alot of people think its weird, sick, wrong, etc. but i really like him, and we were friends for months before he asked me out. the thing is, one of my friends told me that hes lik a pedo.. i dont thiink its ...

Major crush on much older guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Hey. I was wondering if anyone could help me. I have a crush on this guy who is very much older than me but have a feeling he feels the same way. Here are a few things he does when I was last around him: 1. He keep's asking for hugs and kisses ...

I love him and his daughter, but his ex is saying lies this week. How do I handle the situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

15 April 2009 (F) - Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years, We had got together when i was 16, and have been together ever sense. He is 8 years older then me and has an ex wife and a daughter. Me and his daughter get along great she looks as me as a...

I am attracted to my younger step brother!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Okay.. I am 24 years old. I have a step brother who is 16. I have known him since he was 5. Honestly I never really cared much for him when he was younger.. he was aggravatting. lol. My dad married his mom. anyways it was him and two other siblings...

Mid 20s guys dating late-teen girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Guys opinions plz. What do u think about younger gals. Guys aged 25-27 about girls of 18? To u think of them as a little girl or a girl u could date? Of does it depend on how mature the girl is? ...

Doubts about compatibility

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - Hi, i have a problem that i dont know how to deal with. I have been with my boyfriend on and off for a year now well it will be a year next week, we have been on and off because my family doesnt like him and because he is into the outside life a ...

Have I done anything illegal with that girl ..Please read this xx

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

14 April 2009 (M) - i was dating a girl who is 5 years younger to me ...she was 16 and half when she started seeing each other ...i am a very shy guy and usually wont talk to any girl that is why i never had any girlfriend ... i knew my limits and the age of my girl...

Why would he be putting me off like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

14 April 2009 (F) - My man is 31 years older than me. We used to have great sex before I had our son. Its been 3 months and im always horny. We couldn't when I was preggo cuz of complications. We have has sex once since after the baby. I let him know when I want it and ...

Is it weird to fancy someone so young?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - In a nut shell was with a guy for 3 years, he treated me like shit, you name it he did it!! Met a guy thats 18, I'm 22!! Fancy him like mad but he's four years younger then me, is it weird to fancy someone so young?!...

In love with my boyfriends cousin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Im falling hopelessly in love with my boyfriends cousin. Everything about him is amazing. His 10 years older then me, as in I am 21 and he is turning 31. But I cant stop thinking about him. We meet for coffee and lunch every week, he visits me, we ...

I'm 30 shes 40, and I want to tell her how I feel

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 224 days ago

13 April 2009 (M) - I have been friends with an older lady, she is 39 and i am 30. We met at salsa classes and ever since the moment i saw her we have been talking. Recently, in the past two weeks we have exchanged numbers and started to text each other. She is ...

Is this real? He's my ex high school teacher

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

13 April 2009 (F) - Back in high school I had this crush on one of my teachers. I had him as a teacher for 2 years. I tried not to think to much of it but I became really close with him. I found myself taking 3 periods of his classes just to be with him. I never ...

I'm 15, He's 22 But I want him Bad...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - Im 15 and afew weeks ago one of my aunties friends started talking to me on bebo. He was shocked to find out my real age cause he thought i was older but he chatted away to me anyway. Hes really nice and friendly and i loved talking to him. One day ...

What do I have to do? I love him.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 225 days ago

12 April 2009 (F) - hey i'm 15 and have a boyfriend and he is 20 he is nice,cute,understanding,stupid,and very important to me but my parents knows about this and they really don't like him so what i'm going to do?...