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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I'm scared to go against Indian society and marry a white man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

24 November 2009 (F) - hi, im 25 yrs old indian female. i was in a livin relation with a white man who is 17 years older than me for about 8 months and we didnt have any fights or arguments during that period of time. this was in USA and after completion of my studies i ...

Family or Lover? Torn between both.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

23 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I have fallen in love with a married men. He isn't happy with his marriage and wants to end it but it's complicated. We want to be together more than anything, but our relationship wouldn't be accepted by most people, I'm 22 and he's 60. Oth...

Why would an attractive woman like that want such an older guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted yesterday

23 November 2009 (M) - A very pretty 37-year-old divorced woman with a 12-year-old daughter has indicated interest in me. However, I think that she is much more economically blessed, based on her home, and I'm a 62-year-old man, like 25-years her senior. Why would an...

How do inform my friends and family I'm living with a new man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - Hi, I am 27 yrs old and I ended my 5 yr marriage 8 months ago. My family loved my ex husband and were upset that we're getting a divorce. We have 2 children a 4 yr old and a 2 yr old who live with me but he sees on weekends. We decided to end our ...

Is my teacher flirting with me? Could my crush be something more? Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Warning: This question is kind of long. I appreciate all opinions. Thank you for reading! I have a problem and desperately need some advice and help. I know I’m like the majority of teenage girls out there, who have experienced this at one poin...

In love with my best friend and can't live without him...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I've been in love with my best friend for 4 years now. He's only 19 and I am 35. I love him so much and I think I can't live without him. Please advise me on what to do....

He's 22. I'm 13. How do I tell him I love him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - why did i ever have to fall in love with him? hes 22 and im just 13 its cuz his so cute so nice and is always there when i need help, so nice and polite. i dont know how 2 tell him i need him to know but im afraid he will hate me. what c...

Is there a problem with falling in love with a girl who is older than you?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - Hi cupid, i have serious question about my relationship with a girl who i met on the internet. am 22 and she's 23. she senior me with a year. she knows that. we have dated about two months now and we also shared pictures and web cam.she's very happy ...

Are there any signs I can look out for to see if he still has feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

19 November 2009 (F) - Ok, long story short, my sister met this bloke and him and his son came to live with her about a year or so ago. me and the son hit it off and ended up getting really close emotionally (amongst other things) no details. especially after...

I hate having doubts... and she seems to be full of them!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5 days ago

19 November 2009 (M) - Uhggg I hoped I wasn't in need to come back and ask a question again :S... I'll start off saying I am in a sort of long distance relationship, I see her on weekends and am at school from Tues - Friday morning. At the beginning of our relatio...

Did the father of my baby give me Gardnerella Bacterial Vaginalis?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I want to know what people think are the signs of a cheating man. I am currently pregnant - about the half way mark...and the father of baby has been on and off with me for most of this pregnancy which I finally told him point blank am fed up of the ...

I was MIA for 6 weeks, but she broke up with me for an older rich man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - So I've been seeing this girl for over a year. The status of our relationship has varied from lovers,to close friends, to 'just friends' to 'seeing each other.'. Around 6 months ago we broke off our relationship to become just friends. After ...

My girlfriend's mum is a pain in the bum!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - ok i recently posted about my gf and her mum well her mum has used her brains to get her daughter to think she was ok so she could text me. The following thing: I am warning you... dont ever contact my daughter again... she is 19 and does not ...

Is being attracted to older men normal?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - my name is dan and i am seeing a guy who is 49 and im only 20 he is worried bout the age difference i am too but dnt tell him im worried about wat people will think of us also ive always been into older guys is that normal please help xxxxxxxx ...

Where do I go from here? I'm 30, she's 19 and her mum hates me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 8 days ago

17 November 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm 30 and I've just started to go out with a lovely 19 year old, we both have spoken for three weeks online and before we met we both had our nerves, we finished off the first night with a kiss and since then our love for each other has ...

How do teachers (especially in the UK) deal with student crushes?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - How do teachers deal with student crushes? In the UK if a teacher found out a student has a crush on her/him, do they reported immediately or do something maybe tell other teachers about it? etc or do they just keep it to themselvves?? Just wo...

He acts like he is not interested, but his eyes say something different.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - How can I make him confess instead of using his boddy language although he knows that I am 9 yr elder than him.I know that he loves me too much but he avoids me and he tries to show to public that he even doesn't see me.He looks at me secretly and ...

I prefer older guys! Should I hold off on dating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - this may sound bad but im 16 and i've noticed lately that im more atracted to guys in like there late late teens or like 22, so like 18-22... i just ind guys my age anoying and inmucher....i just want to find some one to cuddle with and feel safe ...

Age difference a problem after 5 years :(

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 17 years my senior - I am 27 and he is 44. For most of our relationship this was never a problem, I never saw his age, only the person he is, but lately it has started to really bother me. It has nothing to do with our differe...

My teacher wants me to spend time alone with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - my teacher whom i had a great respect on is now trying to get close to me he made me sit after classes alone with him and told me that he enjoyed a girl and he told me to stay after classes and talk freely. he doesn't do this to other girls and he i...

Can a teacher tell when a student fancies them?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

15 November 2009 (M) - Do teachers realise if one of their student has a crush on them?? Just wondering.... And how would they know?????...

He says he wants me, but then acts weird

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - I am confused. I am getting very mixed signals from someone I have known for a while but only a few weeks ago started sleeping with. It started with flirting, a kiss, a drive and then sex, more texting and ending up spending an amazing night in a ...

Should I have a child with a man 30 years my senior?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 30 years older than me. His daughter is 10 years older than me.He has grand children. Should. I have a baby with him, or its too weird?...

I keep dreaming of a man 23 years my senior!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - how much do dreams mean when it comes to terms of love? I keep dreaming that me and this guy are really close, like, cuddled up, I can feel his skin and his warmth in my dreams and I'm always dissapointed when I wake up. I do have sex dreams and I'm ...

Should I end my hook up arrangement with a much younger man to save myself from being hurt?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - hi, i am secretly seeing a guy who is only 22 and im 37. iv known of him for a lot of yrs as hes quite friendly with my daughter. We have fantastic sex, but we both agreed that it was just for the sex. We have only been seein each other fo about a ...

She had sex a week after our break up, two years later I still feel betrayed! Please help.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted yesterday

14 November 2009 (M) - I have been dating this girl for a little over 2 years now. Everything is great in our relationship and we both have sex regularly. There is one thing that came up and keeps coming up. When we first started dating, I had a jealous friend on the side...

I feel insecure about not being his first. Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Heya, I've been with this guy for awhile. He's my first everything. He's a few years older than me, and has more experience. He's my first relationship and love, while I'm not his. And this makes me feel insecure, does anyone have any e...

I'm married but want my old friend back..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 11 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - i m married .we have 12 yrs age gap.i find difficult to communicate with my husband as a friend as well as a sex partner (my husband is good person gave me all freedom in term of finance and all).long time ago i find a person who is family friend ...

I need help on how to initiate sex and make him to want me more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - hi im a 22year old female, im going out with a 34 year old male, iv always gone for older blokes, im a confident person, im a big girl, i always have been, problem is i dont have alot of confidence in the bedroom department. i dont 'dare' make the ...

My teacher keeps looking at me. What does this mean?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 12 days ago

13 November 2009 (F) - I have this algebra teacher tht i rlly like. I feel shy around her. During the day, I always see her looking at me with this worried look on her face and when shes talking to me. Today i was the only one who stayed for extra help. While i ...

When I leave school should I tell my teacher I'm in love with her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Now, im going to aplogise for poor spelling firstly (its late at night for me!!) and secondly I am sorry this is another teacher/student crappy topic!! Ok so lets set you the picture. I am over 18, and still stuck in sixth form (3rd year) I am ...

How do I get over an intense crush on my teacher?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

12 November 2009 (F) - Hey everyone I'm 18 years old and am in my final year at school. My problem is that I have feelings for one of my teachers who is 28. He has been teaching me since I was 16 and I have always liked him but I knew I only had a crush on him so I ...

How do I convince my older co-worker that the age difference isn't a big deal?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 13 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - I prefer the companionship of older women. I firmly believe an older woman and a younger man can have a true lasting relationship. I'm 22 i fell in love with a 46 year old coworker. The woman is an angel. I have strong feelings for her and she for ...

How do I make it work given this huge age difference?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 13 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I have just met a young man who is 23 years my junior in age, but very much equal in compassion, commitment, intelligence, support, sensuality and character. I admit, I am very leery, but it is as if it is beyond either of our control. We look ...

My girlfriend's texts to her ex-boyfriend confuse me. Is she cheating?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

11 November 2009 (M) - My girlfriend of 10 months and I have go through some serious issues - her manipulative ex disrupting things to begin with, big age gap, medical problem meaning no sex for months, meeting my kids. We've joked about how the things we've go through ...

After 8 years I have finally decided to end it, but I'm afraid to move on!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I had been with my boyfriend for 81/2 years. Recently, he so-called proposed (without a ring). He had planned a simple wedding with the Justice of the Peace for January 05, 2010. We have never lived together, in fact, I don't even know where he ...

I no longer feel the same way for him, how could I leave without destroying him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. he is 7 year older, our relationship started fast within a month he moved in and after 6 months bought a house. We have been through a lot, his divorce, custody battle (his previous marriage) and him ...

Dating an older man who won't come to visit me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - Hi guys! I'm in a long distance relationship of 1 and a half years now, with a wonderful man I really adore. He's 40 and I'm 24, big gap but we get on great and he makes me laugh all the time. Basically, I have to go away to uni for approx 6 mon...

Should I reassure my teacher it was just a small crush and nothing more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 13 days ago

11 November 2009 (F) - This isn't like a teacher crush thing, because I know i'll lose half the people with just that sentence. There's this teacher at my school that I have spoken to a few times but we don't really know each other. I am attracted to him, but nothing ...

Our age difference doesn't bother us, but my father is not speaking to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Im 19 and I've fallen in love with robert, a 36 year old. We've been getting to know eachother quite intensively last six months and last week we've had the most amazing sex, every aspect of 'us' is amazing and I can't stop thinking about him. I d...

Is it work or age difference that is really keeping him away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 14 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - Why does age difference have to be an issue after you turn 18? Say I'm 19 and he's 39? Why does work have to be an issue when your both single and its only a seasonal job so you only see the other in the summer or winter? If I were to work a s...

Age difference has become a problem - after 5 years!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 14 days ago

10 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is 17 years my senior. For most of our relationship, this was never a problem, but lately it has started to really bother me. It has nothing to do with our different interests or anything like that, and he certainly doesn't act his ...

He's the most amazing man I've ever met... but is the age difference just too much?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I've been great friends with the most amazing guy for 9 months now, and just this past month, we acknowledged the mutual attraction and got past the age difference: he's 22 and I'm 53. I've been involved with a lot of younger men (my ex-husband was ...

My boyfriend is 25, my son is 27!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I am 47. My gorgeous boyfriend is 25.. my son is 27, I initially could not believe a guy younger than my son would be interested in me... but I have looked after my figure. We have a mind blowing relationship and both his and my parents have no ...

Older women? Should I date one?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - I'm 30, I had a woman give me her friend's phone number (the friend had liked me for some time). This was in the supermarket where I worked at the time. This woman was 35. I was also asked out by a 39 year old woman. What should I do? Is it ok to go ...

Advice needed! Can our marriage be saved?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 15 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I met and fell in love with a man 15 years younger, I was married at that time, but unhappy, i also had 6 children under the age of 21. I eventually divorced and lived and ended up marrying my much younger man. We have been together for 20 years, he ...

Is there too much going against us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - I am 25 dating a 36 year old woman. The attraction is always there, but I am slowly getting past all the other factors. She had a kid, the age difference of course, and the social stigma of "cradle robbing". Do you think it’s ok? Do you think it can ...

Do I take a chance with this man even although I'm 10 years older than him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I have been with a man 10 years younger than I am for nearly two years now. We were living together and made plans to get married, but I ended up backing out because I was too concerned about the age difference. Neither of us has children (I'm 39, ...

Should I continue with the 22 year old or with the 15 year old?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

9 November 2009 (M) - Hi cupid, am a young guy of 22.am very grateful to been with you here. my question is just relationship question. i met this girl on the internet about three months ago, she's from Philippine and am from Nigeria. she's the same age with me. i love ...

Did he just hook up with me to boost my self-esteem or does he really have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 15 days ago

9 November 2009 (F) - I started working at a nearby resort when I was 16 and instantly started to crush on one single manager.. We have always been able to talk and get along great. He is twice my age though and has a kid half my age. I am now 19 and he 39 and I've b...