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Archived questions from: March, 2011 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I love my teacher and I can't hide it. I want to tell him.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4773 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - hi. im so confused about my feelings for my teacher and its really hurting me. i cant bear to not go to school especially when i have him for his subject that day, i cry all the time if i haven't scene him in a couple of days. i look out for him...

I know I should, but how do I leave my older lover?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4763 days ago

31 March 2011 (F) - I am 18, I have been with a man since I was 16 (legal in the UK) and he is now 49. Due to this no one else in either of our lives knows about us being together. In the last 6 months we have tried to end it, but neither of us are able to break it ...

Thoughts of her past

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4775 days ago

31 March 2011 (M) - hi ime 59 and have a 35 yr old girlfriend who is just so gorgous, we have been together for 5months, within the last month my mind has gone wild with jealousy and stupid thoughts of her sexual partners before me, ime no virgin, she has had about 6 ...

40 year age gap, is it worth the envitable heartache?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm 27 and dating a man who is 68. We have been together almost a year and some of our friends and family know but I do often question my sanity for dating someone so much older. Before starting this relationship I had a few longer ones with men ...

I always get crushes on older men and I'm tired of it.. how do forget about my crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4775 days ago

30 March 2011 (F) - Ok well I just got a new crush on this guy who, like always, is older than me. I want to stop having crushes on older men but I cant seem to stop. I dont know what to do I am always thinking about him and no matter how hard I try I cant stop ...

My feelings for my teacher are overwhelming. How do I deal with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4759 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - Well, I don't know whether I'm in love with my male English teacher or just having crush on him but I do know that I have feelings for him and it's more than just an admiration or respect.. I've been feeling it for more than one year now... I'm ...

Is it wrong for a 19 year old girl to date a 17 year old guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

29 March 2011 (F) - I have recently started casually seeing a guy, but I don't want to take it further because I am 19, and he is 17. Is this wrong?...

We have a special bond, he stares at me, says I'm beautiful and perfect, he's a teacher, does he like me??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4776 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - There's a young Canadian teacher in school and he's extremely handsome. We get along very well and always have a good laugh and he knows about my health problems. He's even going to let me go to stay in his house when he has to go back to Canada to ...

Is it unacceptable to be with someone this much older?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4775 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I am a 27yrs old woman in a relationship with a 55yrs old man. We've been together for 4yrs. I love him and he loves me very much but the age difference has been bothering me a lot lately. He wants to get married but the problem is I have a large ...

Why he has changed from the incredible man I once spent hours with, to someone who treats me like I'm suddenly beneath them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - Hi there, So I have this lovely relationship question that's bugging me. I realise my sarcasm isn't evident but now you know, I am being sarcastic. It is no way "Lovely." I hope this isn't too repetitive for you as I know there are many,man...

How do I deal with all the issues surrounding dating a man 20 years my senior?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

28 March 2011 (F) - I am in my 20s and have recently started seeing a guy 20yrs my senior. We have been friends for years prior to dating each other. He is stable, but not wealthy, and I have a good job and support myself - I am not looking for a sugar daddy ...

Women in my family have given so much up to be a housewife, why do they?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4769 days ago

26 March 2011 (M) - Dear Ladies or should I say dear ladies only as I want only women to answer this question. I am asking these questions to you all as I quite obviously cannot ask this questions to the ladies who have forced me to ask these questions. All m...

Why is he treating me so badly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

26 March 2011 (F) - I met my boyfriend online......1 year 6 months back... He is older than me I am 16 and he is 27...After 1 year he started ignoring me...started ignoring my calls.....I sent him e-mails....He didn't replied then I decided to move on....But he came ...

I want my parents blessing for dating my much older boyfriend!

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26 March 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is 31 years my senior and I am 20. We truly love each other however my family doesn't approve of us. Their blessing is important to me. Is there anyway to help them accept us or should I just forget it?...

Is this behaviour between my fiance and his 20 year old daughter normal??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4779 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - This is kind long lol. Me and my fiance have been together for 2 years, he has a 20 year old daughter. When I met her the first time we got along then me and my fiance had some issues which he ran to her about no she seems a little cold to me. ...

I like an older man... help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

25 March 2011 (F) - I'm 17 years old, gonna be 18 in a little under two weeks. I'm just gonna be blunt, I like this friend I have, and he's about 36-37 years old, and we met online, of course, we have a lot in common, he knows how to cheer me up, and he's an amazing ...

I'm interested, but he's older and experienced.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

24 March 2011 (F) - -This is lengthy. If I want a full answer, I need to give the full story.- This might sound a little...odd, for some people, because it'd looked down upon, more than likely. [I live in a small town with retirees- if it's not traditional, it'...

He broke up with me because I cheated with the girl we had a threesome with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4772 days ago

22 March 2011 (F) - Hi I'm 21years and been in a relationship with a 38year old man for 4years.we loved each other so much we did everything together,his weakness is with women,he likes girls so much but I over looked all of that and still stayed in the relationship ...

I fantasize about older men and am no longer happy with our sex life!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

22 March 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 5 years, married for 2. Throughout our relationship we have had our share of ups and downs. When we first got together we were both in our teens (18-19) the sex was amazing, but after kids and doing a little ...

I'm in love with him but not sure where he stands, since I always initiate!

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22 March 2011 (M) - I'm gay, and I'm 27. I'm in love with a younger guy who has feelings towards me. We've not discussed if he's in love with me and I haven't told him that I am in love with him. I know I am in love, but, for now, he calls me "bro", friend, and etc. ...

I have destroyed my own marriage, my life is a mess...all for my lover who refuses to leave her husband. How do I get her to come to me?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4777 days ago

22 March 2011 (M) - All, I have been reading this post for about 6 months now and can see that what I have been involved with is Wrong! However, I found my soulmate in a younger woman and If circumstances were right she would be my wife. Nearly 2 years ago, I met...

Should I accept his invite to visit his home? he's 23 years older than me. I'm a virgin.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4781 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - What do you think about this ?. I recently started meeting up with a much older man ( he's 23 years older than me ) . I cant exactly say that we are dating yet, as we have only met up a few times for a drink. Recently, some of his friends, who are ...

My colleague tried to kiss me during an office party - now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4547 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - Hi there, For the past few months I have been working with somebody on a project. He isn't my usual type and there is about a ten year age gap, (hes 40) and he is senior to me, but we started to get on really well. I enjoyed his company and will...

Does he have feelings for me or am I more of a booty call?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4784 days ago

21 March 2011 (F) - I've known this guy since i was 17, we met in a club and kissed, he's ten years older than me but neither of us knew until the next day. In the next 6 months we bumped into eachother a couple of times during social events/parties and became good ...

Why do men in their twenties date teenagers!?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4399 days ago

20 March 2011 (F) - In all honesty to men between the age of 22-26. Why would you date a girl who's 18 or 19? Surely at that age you would rather be looking to date someone who you might want a long term relationship with. Is their an ulterior motive here, do ...

Age gap? Would you date me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4782 days ago

19 March 2011 (F) - Hi, ive been talking to this, guy he is 19, 20 in august, and im 16, 17 in november. I was wondering guys, and girls, would you think it was strange an age gap like this dating. And guys if you were 19 would you date me? Thanks...

Is there an age gap problem if girl 18 dates 25 yr old guy? Or are they about the same?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4780 days ago

19 March 2011 (F) - What is your view on an 18 year old dating a 24 or 25 year old, if their maturity level is fairly the same?...

I'm really stuck on how to handle my nightmare of a girlfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

19 March 2011 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am 22 and have a girlfriend of who is 16 years older. The relationship started very well and i was also just starting a new job with exellent pay and had bought my favourite car. My girlfriend worked full time as did I and I could on...

He's three years older and might be my first kiss

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

19 March 2011 (F) - Hey everyone! So I really like this guy and I liked him a whole lot at the start 4 months ago but now I like him but I don't get so nervous everytime I see him. I've never been kissed and I told him that a couple of nights ago. He said that he would ...

She's 59 and I'm 18 so how can I tell her I love her? Also she's with someone.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

18 March 2011 (F) - Help i am in love with my mums friend and i think she likes me too. But she is with some one and she has two kids. I am 18. i really want to tell her but i am not sure because she is with this other person and she is 59 and she doesn't act nor look...

She used to be happy, now she's acting strangely

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

18 March 2011 (M) - I m 21 yrs old man inlove wit a 29 yrs old woman. we use to b happy until now.Shes 7months pregnant now and shes acting a little bit strange lately and i dont no why. Sometimes i think of leaving her.my shes too old for me ? M i tinking strait? ...

Is it wrong to date her before she is 16?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

18 March 2011 (M) - Hi, I'm a 17 year old male and I met this 15 year old girl who lives in the west of London (I live in the east). I'm going to be 18 in May, she will be 16 in August, would I be a prevert if I dated her before she is 16?...

My parents have a problem with me dating younger guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4786 days ago

18 March 2011 (F) - Dear cupid, I've always went out with guys older than me because I find guys younger very immature and childish.I've had many boyfriends in the past, all of them were at least a year older than I am. But now I'm a senior and I broke up with my...

Girlfriend keeping relationship secret, odd situation...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

18 March 2011 (M) - Hello, I'm 31, I've been renting a room in a house share (7 rooms in total, 3 on the ground floor where I am) for over 9 years. Last September a new girl moved in to the room next to me, she's now 21. Her (female) first cousin (also 21) moved ...

Back with my ex, but during our time apart I started to have feelings for another guy....now I feel so guilty!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4787 days ago

17 March 2011 (F) - So recently ( 3 weeks ago) my boyfriend of 7 months broke up with me. He said he didn't have the time for me and that we should go separate ways and told me to find a new boyfriend. He's 34 I'm 19. I'm deeply inlove with him, I was devastated when ...

I'm 14 and have fallen in love with a guy three years older

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4789 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - i've fallen in love with a boy that is 3 years older than me, i'm only 14 but we've talked for so long about wanting to be with each other and we've talked about our future together but my family doesn't want me talking to him and they dont know ...

Is he leading me on just until his girl comes to this state? Or do you think he wants to make sure I'm worth breaking up with this other girl for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4789 days ago

16 March 2011 (F) - Alright. I've been talking to this guy for a week. We both kind gave eachother these kind of vibes and so I finally got the nerve to ask him out. He has a girlfriend that he's been seeing for 3 weeks. She lives in a different state and is not coming ...

Should I stop talking to my older co-worker?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4790 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - I think I'm falling for a work colleague whose quite a bit older but I dont know if I am. When we were genrally talking he said he had a baby but never mentioned if he was still with the mother. We get on really well and we always have a laugh and ...

Two years too old?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4786 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - im 16 and the boy that i like is 18 is he too old for me? ...

Should I let him go, so he can be with someone closer to his age?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4787 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - I'm a mature beautiful woman. I've met a man 14 years younger than me. We have been together for almost 2 years. I have had many relationships. He has not. He is the first man that I feel is my match, my love. He knows I would do anything for him. ...

I'm worried about the age gap with a married man

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

15 March 2011 (F) - I am a 23 year old girl on the verge of commencing marital relationship with a 32 year old man. I have known him for around a year but I love him a lot. He has great family values and I love that about him. Nevertheless I am worried about the age ...

Does age really matter? It bothers me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

14 March 2011 (F) - I know, it's a very common question. But does age really matter? I am a woman dating a men a few years younger than me. He obviously doesn't mind me being older, but it always bothers me! I hate thinking about his age, for awhile I didn't want peo...

How can I make this one in a million woman interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4790 days ago

14 March 2011 (M) - Hello, I am 20 years old and I am in love with a woman about five years older than me that I work with. However, there are several factors that stand as obstacles and I am not sure if they can be conquered. She is of Jewish faith, and I recently ...

Is writing an anonymous love letter a good way to test the waters?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4783 days ago

13 March 2011 (M) - Is writing an anonymous love note a good way to approach my crush who is one year younger than I am? We stay really close everyday since we study in the same school. I can't live like I'm not going to die someday so I thought this idea was fun and ...

How and should I ask this younger girl out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4792 days ago

13 March 2011 (M) - I'm 15, and there's this freshman girl who likes me. I sorta like her a little, but I'm a sophomore. Also, I know her older brother pretty well who is a junior (so thats kinda awkward). Should I ask this girl out?...

I feel like she's treating me pretty cruelly and has no faith in me whatsoever. Am I wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4794 days ago

11 March 2011 (F) - I'm a 23 year old female, and currently living at home with my mother and my brother who is nearly three years younger. I have a boyfriend who I've been with heading for four years now, only he lives 150 miles away so we see each other every couple ...

Long distance relationship and huge age gap... can this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4791 days ago

11 March 2011 (F) - Hi, my name is Alexia I am 19 year old. I live in Canada and I am head over heels for a man who lives in romania, he is 36 year old...divorced and father of a little girl. I met him on vacation down in mexico only hours before my departure. We ha...

How do I talk to this girl? I get so nervous.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

11 March 2011 (M) - There is this girl i had a class with. We talked all the time in it but now that class is over and i never find time to talk to her during school. I feel nervous and dont know what to say to her. She is a year older than me. I feel nervous to go up ...

Do you think it can work out between a 17 yr old boy and a 20 yr old girl?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4794 days ago

11 March 2011 (F) - Do you think it can work out between a 17 year old boy and a 20 year old girl?...

My much younger wife cheated, left me remarried and I still can't get over her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4795 days ago

10 March 2011 (M) - I'm well established businessman and very well off . 11 year ago I got involved with a young girl 16 years younger to me. First it was like an affair as I was married but then she was openly known to everybody as my wife. 5 years ago I married her ...