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Archived questions from: November, 2010 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Can upper classman date freshies?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Okay so there is this really awsome, sweet, cute guy that I like alot. But there is one thing...he is a freshman. Im a sophomore. I know this may sound dumb, but when I asked my friends if they would date a freshman they alll said no...But I would, ...

Desperate to have sex with older guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4893 days ago

30 November 2010 (?) - i am dating this 21 year old man. we have been together for about 8 months but it was in secret any ways most people know i am seeing him but there was a point when people called me a liar etc. they also said that he was to good for me. wel...

Married and feeling attracted to the 19-year-old I'm teaching karate to!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4880 days ago

30 November 2010 (M) - I am a 33 year old male.(most people say i look 25). I am married for three years and she is 25. I have just gone back to uni. I recently started teaching a 19 year old woman karate privately. She is absolutely fantastic, and not your average ...

24 years is too big of an age gap for him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

30 November 2010 (F) - Is age gap the real problem? I met someone online and we chatted for a few months and he visited me in my place. We started to date and I decided to stay in his place so I won't have a hard time going to work in the morning. We had great sex an...

Is this normal for a guy to not be able to finish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4894 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - my boyfriend is 36 and im only 24. the other night we kinda hit a bump in our sex life and since i have never dated anyone this much older than me im not sure if what happened is normal and Idk what to think. we were having sex and everything was ...

Crushing on my dentist!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - i went to a dentist, he is very beautiful and i am feeling that i am attracted to him. I am 15 years old, i am too young he is older than me by at least 10 years. But his nurse told me that i am the only one he jokes with . I am telling myself that ...

Is the age difference a problem if neither person acts their age?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

29 November 2010 (F) - if a 15 year old girl is dating a 22 year old wrong if they both are attractive to one another and they both don't look there age and both don't act there age?...

Is he trying to show me he's not spooked?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4896 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - So here I am..on a website asking kind strangers for advice :) I apologize for the length. Even if no one responds, I'll at least be able to see my thoughts in writing. We were smitten with each other right away. After about 3 weeks of constan...

Boyfriend proposed a day after my 16th birthday!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

28 November 2010 (?) - please help i am a 16 year old school girl in the uk so i am in a relationship with my boyfriend of 2 years who is 4 years older that i am. any ways my parents have known about us since the start but for my 16 th birthday he told me he wanted to...

Got a crush on my manager!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4886 days ago

28 November 2010 (F) - First of all, sorry for my bad english. I'm not so good in grammar and vocab. :S Secondly, I need opinion on this. :) I'm 23 and he is 29. He is my manager at work, and I have a crush on him for almost 1 year. He like to tease me, and cal...

Usually my crushes last 2 days, she surpassed the two day mark!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

28 November 2010 (M) - Ok I have known this girl for a little while and we have been best friends for six months(took a lont time to get bff #1). Everyone makes jokes about how where a couple or were siblings because we’re with each other so much. I never considered the ...

What does his sister have against me? She's never even met me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - I met my boyfriend back in August. We are 20 years apart. One night back in the summer when we were supposed to hang out, he was with his sister and I guess told her he had plans and she asked with who and he told her about me and she now hates me. ...

Worried younger guy will put my letter on the internet

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4896 days ago

27 November 2010 (F) - I realise I have been stupid and immature HOWEVER we all make mistakes I went on holiday and fancied this much younger man like mad and stupidly wrote to him and told him so (on the holiday) -I thought nothing ventured nothing gained I KNOW i...

She dropped me like a hot potato!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4808 days ago

27 November 2010 (M) - Well I was in a one year relationship with a woman who was 17 years older than me. she was tring hard to get in a serious relationship with me but I told her we can't have something because the age gap is big. It was a friend with benefit ...

I slept with my dad's best friend!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4888 days ago

26 November 2010 (?) - okay so my dads best friend is 8 years younger than my dad so he is 30. any ways he lives with us in our house with me and my dad . my dad is divorced because my mum is a alcoholic. anyways i came back from school on wednesday and i had stayed b...

How to ask out your older friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

26 November 2010 (M) - Hi, I have a really good friend and she is 4 years older. We both really like each other although we haven't told each other directly. I'm 90% sure that she likes me and I definitely like her. I just don't know how to tell her or ask her out. Please ...

Am I being selfish for not wanting to go round to his mother's house once he moves out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4899 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for two years and a year ago he had to move back in with his mum due to financial difficulty (he's 39 and his mum's 55). it has been a year from hell! when i first met her i was going round for dinner with him twice a ...

He doesn't want to commit! Am I being played?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

26 November 2010 (F) - So I've been seeing this man for about six months. We talk every day, texting back and forth constantly and we see each other about 2-3 days out of the week when he drives me to his home (he lives about 70 miles away and I don't drive). I'm a little ...

I have a crush on the new kid but he is only 15!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - Theres this kid at our school his been here for a few weeks. I kinda see em stares at me when Im walking down the hallways. He started sitting with me and my friends at lunch. He eats all fast to come outside into the courtyard with me.. And waits ...

I'm 17, he's 30, is the age difference too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4897 days ago

25 November 2010 (F) - My family owns some hotels on the beach and i have always been very involved with them.. i plan on taking over when i'm in college. Over the years, i have become pretty close with one of our bartenders. We've always had a ton of fun together and had ...

Why is my chemistry teacher avoiding me?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4874 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - im really confused. i've had a teacher for about a year now, he teaches me chemistry and i really like him! hes so funny, kind and willing to help you to understand even if it means making himself look stupid. i noticed that hes been looking at me ...

Why are young girls interested in much older men?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4828 days ago

24 November 2010 (?) - What is happening? I'm wondering why these young girls about 13 to 15 say they love WAY older than them as much as ten even twenty years older I don't get why these girls would fall everytime I here this story I become sick to my stomach there are ...

Is this substitute professor playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4898 days ago

24 November 2010 (F) - Hello everyone. Well, first let me tell you the background. I met this guy when he came to give a language class as a substitute teacher at the university. (He's 10 years older by the way, but I'm not a minor so it's completely legal) Because t...

Should I try to be friends with my ex again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - Here's some background on the situation. I'm 18. All last summer, I carried on an Internet relationship with a 40-something-year-old man. At that point, I was 17, so obviously we could not do more than talk online. We met in person years earlier, so ...

I don't want to appear a slut but I crave a man! How do I meet older men that would appreciate me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

23 November 2010 (F) - I am in my early 20's and have had sex twice. I think about having sex almost all the time or at least my thoughts stray to it very often. I used to be overweight but lost 80 lbs. I missed my earlier years for the baby steps in sexual contact. I ...

How can I stop liking older women?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4900 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - Hi i am a 16 yo male. i have a strong interest in older woman. Dont get me wrong i still like girls my own age but not as much. Is there anything i can do to change this?...

I am 35 and in love with a girl who is only 18... and I don't know what to do?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4859 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - Hi there, Before I start my story please know I appreciate your honest feedback no matter how harsh it might be. I am a 35 years old man who never been in serious relationship before and I finally met this girl online (I know :( Meeting someon...

I've fallen head over heels for a woman who is 20 years younger than me!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4497 days ago

23 November 2010 (M) - In Love With a Younger Woman? I am hoping someone might give me sound advice. I have fallen head over heals in love with a woman of 39 who is younger than me by 20 years. I have been a happily married man for 35 years with 4 grown up children...

Is it normal for a boyfriend to want to wait to have sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

21 November 2010 (?) - i have been with my boyfriend for a year and i am 16 in the uk he is recently turned 24. i love him etc.I think that this bit is great i asked him if he was ready or if he wanted to have sex /do the deed what ever ..and he said that he didnt wa...

How can I contact him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4895 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - Having just had a fabulous holiday in a smashing Hotel owned by a chain in the UK-I found myself very attracted to a younger man-much younger. He seemed interested although it was apparant he was going out with one of his work colleagues. He w...

I am very tempted to have lots of sex and see what is out there for me. Should I?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

20 November 2010 (F) - I am very tempted to have lots of sex and see what is out there for me. I am in a long distance relationship with an older man who has done it all and been there but I have no experience and I feel like I am missing out on plenty of things. I need ...

Online man I like is same age as my mom!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

19 November 2010 (F) - I have been speaking with a man for five months now. I'm 18 and he lives in North Carolina. I have an aunt there and my mother has been saying she will move there during the next fall. He mentioned he was thinking of going back to college to study ...

Help! I have a crush on my (much older) boss!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

19 November 2010 (F) - Help! I've got a crush on my boss, and if that wasn't bad enough... he is also a lot older than me (I am 20 and he is 40). What should I do? I started working at this new job about two months ago and right from the beginning my boss and I hit it o...

Flirting with my daughter's friend, old enough to be his mom!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4905 days ago

19 November 2010 (F) - My daughters boyfriend is 20... iam 42 and have a son older than him. I really liked him so allowed him to go on vacation with us. A few months later my daughter in a joking manner said that he wanted me..........we laughed it off as a joke. It is ...

I have crush and I think he likes me back. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4086 days ago

19 November 2010 (F) - Let me tell you a little bit about me and him. I'm 16, he's 26. I had him last year, now I have him again my junior year for U.S. History. Last year when I had him I didn't think much about him at all to be honest. Towards the end of the schoo...

Why would a 70 year old married man from the US come to visit my 37 year old friend in the Philipines? Will he just use her for sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4762 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - I would like to ask for some point of views. Do older married man like 65 yrs. old and above seek an affair because his wife cannot give him the sexual desires he needs? I have a friend who falls madly in love with an old married guy almost t...

I lied to him! How can I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

18 November 2010 (F) - Im a 17 year old girl in Califronia.Last summer i went to an indain chatroom. I would chat for fun when i was bored, it was a way to get the stress out from school. I ended up talking to a guy, sent him fake pics like always (not that im ugly, but i ...

Am I involved in some kind of affair?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I think I may be involved in an online affair. He is 40, I am 18. We have been talking for over a year now on the internet. Our conversations were strictly about things other than sex in the beginning, but now they are mainly about sex. When we ...

Christmas gift for my older man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - Okay well I'm usually really good at picking out Christmas gifts for people but I can not figure out what to get my boyfriend. Any ideas would be appreciated. He's 38 by the way. Thank you. :)...

Do single men really think all women want to trap them with a baby?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - ok, so about 6 weeks ago I fooled around with a guy 10 years younger than me. It was just for fun and we did not have sex. I just needed a little something to make me feel alive since my life has been chaos and tragedy since March (husband killed ...

How do I tell my mum I am dating a man 35 years older than me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4906 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for over a year with a man who is 35 years older than me. We have a special connection and love spending time together although it tends to be once a week as we both have very busy demanding jobs. I am 24 years old ...

I'm in love with someone a ton older than me who I can hardly see anymore. What do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4902 days ago

17 November 2010 (F) - I am 14 and I realize that at this age most of us are throwing around the word "love" like nothing and we're highly immature, but I'm willing to bet everything that I am truthfully in love because: I have never been so happy to see someone's smile ...

For all the young mothers, will I be throwing away my life by having kids at a young age?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4909 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend and am madly in love with him as when i first laid eyes on him, it sure was love at first sight for both of us. I never wanted kids but am getting really broody lately - he tells me he wants me to have his baby and it ...

Confused with the older man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4909 days ago

15 November 2010 (F) - Ok so me and this guy have been seeing each for about 3 weeks buy it's weird! I'm 25 and he is 34. He has a 15 year old daughter and is divorced! I don't have any children and have never been married. He and his ex have been divorced for 7 years. O...

How do I work with a relationship with such a big age difference.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4892 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - I am 18...in love with a 48 year old man... We haven't told anyone about it... I'm really confused...I do love him and i wanna be with him more than anything....but i still don't know how it will work out... What should I do?...

Why would a 42 year old man be interested in a 54 year old woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4907 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - I want to know why a 42 old male would have a relationship with a 54 women Do you think he really cares about her or is he just using her. We have had problems in the last 1 and half years. I really do not trust him I do not know what to do...

She's starts 95% of our fights!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4908 days ago

14 November 2010 (M) - Where do I start. I can't believe at my age I'm feeling the way I do. I love my ex girlfriend with everything I have. We were together for 5 yrs. The last three on and off almost 20 times. We have been apart now for two months which I'm afraid may ...

Should I ring him, I don't want to seem needy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4910 days ago

14 November 2010 (F) - ok this is my first real mature relationship, with a guy, yes ive had relationships bfore but not like this, hes older then me by 9 yrs though i feel like hes my age, i dont notice the age difference except that he is very busy in business and work ...

How many red flags can you spot?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4886 days ago

13 November 2010 (F) - Is this a red flag for a relationship? Im getting to know this guy Im 41 hes 43, the odd thing is, he never seems to have had a really significant other in his life ever, only relationships lasting a few weeks maybe. His family told me when he ...

How can you tell if your best friend is attracted to you?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4903 days ago

13 November 2010 (F) - How cant u tell if a guy u have mixed emotions fro is ever thinking bout u ?? i mean when i talk to ppl and the convo doesnt have to be about him and i just say his name when im suppose to say someone elses name its gettin really crazy! and idk if ...