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He's older, messes around with me and looks out for me. Should I date him?

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Question - (16 September 2007) 8 Answers - (Newest, 22 September 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, *nonymous21 writes:

Hi, i really need some advice. i really like this guy i work with. hes much older than me (15 years), and i need help finding out if he likes me too. he always messes around with me ang plays little games. He looks out for me too. what do you think?

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (22 September 2007):

Continue to play his games. Sooner rather than later he will ask you out.

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A female reader, Anonymous21 United Kingdom +, writes (22 September 2007):

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to them would determine whether it was true or not. are these good signs of him liking me or still just signs of friendship.

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A female reader, Anonymous21 United Kingdom +, writes (22 September 2007):

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Just giving you the latest info to see if it gives you anymore of an idea of whether he likes me or not. he made some rather pathetic excuses to hang around n chat to me for awhile earlier after finding out i was on my own. he also did the same bt about coming to see me on monday. n my mates told him yesterday that i liked him n he came in asking me jokey n subtle questions that the answers i gave

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A female reader, Anonymous21 United Kingdom +, writes (17 September 2007):

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Yeah i guess that makes sense.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (17 September 2007):

rcn agony auntIt's not that he doesn't like. It's fear of change. He likes the role he has with you. If something is that good, and you hear all the horror stories about relationships, why change something that is all ready a good relationship, for the possibility of becoming another one of the stories.

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A female reader, Anonymous21 United Kingdom +, writes (17 September 2007):

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So he could like but doesnt want to change the way things are between us?

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (17 September 2007):

rcn agony auntHe may like you, but still feels the need of taking care of you. Those are separate rolls. He may not be trying to get too close to you to interrupt the need of taking care of you.

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (17 September 2007):

He may act like a father to you, which is fine. Wait and see if he asks you out on a date. Do you enjoy hanging out with him?

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