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Archived questions from: August, 2008 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

How much longer do I stick with this? I've sacrificed so much already for him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

31 August 2008 (F) - I'm 24, I've never been married, lived with a boyfriend, or had a child. My boyfriend is 42, has been married twice and has a 4 year old daughter. His last marriage ended 2.5 years ago and neither one of his marriages were long-lasting. We have been ...

My teacher wrote in my year book that I am a very inquisitive and stylish young lady. Does this mean he likes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 426 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - Im a 17 year old highschool female senior. i have had a crush on this italian male teacher since i met him last year. he tutored me in math and sometimes we would be alone in his classroom alone with his door closed and i would ask him questions ...

How can I get more info on this teacher to aid in my fantasies?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 446 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - How can I find out information about my TAFE teacher in order to better enjoy my sexual fantasies? I am studying part-time at TAFE (Technical and Further Education - look it up if you don't understand) and working full-time. I am 22 years o...

I'm depressed! Does he have a penchant for older women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 451 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - I get very depressed sometimes and alot of the time I have no idea how to express what I'm feeling to my partner for fear of feeling insecure. I have a very loving relationship but at times we fight - and when we do it's absolutely awful. His last ...

This text would be a window of opportunity if he is still holding on to me, should I do it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

30 August 2008 (F) - i was with someone for over 3 years and he was my first serious boyfriend, the first guy i loved, first guy i was with. And he was about 10 years older too. I know he loved me. But i think i was young with some things didn't know how to be in a r...

I'm finally with a nice man but I'm not sexually attracted to him, why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - I was a single mom of two boys when I met "Bob". My previous relationship lasted 8 years and was very violent ending in CPS taking one of my children because of the abuse. It was either my ex or my boys and I picked my boys and currently have sole ...

He is 30 and I am only 17, his ex has tried to split us up and once she succeded, any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 451 days ago

29 August 2008 (F) - Im a bit wooried about my boyfreind he seems to be very getting very freindly with his ex they have a daughter together but she has stopped him seeing her before and has not been nice to him at all since they split up surely he should hate her? but ...

She's my friend's sister, how can I tell if she likes me back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 450 days ago

28 August 2008 (M) - i like my best friend's sister but she's 4 years younger than me how can i tell if she likes me back ...

Does this mean he only wants me for fun?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 452 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - hi i jst wonderd if u could give me some advice, i split up with my ex due to the age im 15 n hes 17 he said he will wait till im 16 im 16 in june but the problem is, he chatted 2 a girl mate till 4am last night and he has never done this for me d...

I cant get over the fact that my older boyfriend has been with so many other women before me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 452 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - There is a 5 year age gap between my boyfriend and I, I am 16 and he is 21. We've been together for 7 months and his past has never bothered me until recently; ofcourse he was going to be more experienced than me etc but he's slept with 20 maybe ...

He has secretly been looking at porn! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

28 August 2008 (F) - Here's my story. I have been with my bf for about 3years, living with him for about two. I'm 30 he's 25.The thing is I truly adore him, but we are not on the same level obviously due to age difference.I just don't feel he's ready for an adult ...

How can I stop my obsession with her? I want to move on!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I'm still obsessed with a girl I dated months ago. Things really didn't work out between us, there was an age difference and we had almost nothing in common but for reasons I can't understand I was devastated when it ended. She's moved on now but ...

Does the age difference matter?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - im 14 years old and my sisters best mate keeps flirting with me and tries cuddling me but shes 11 nearly 12, i do have some feelings for her but is the age diffrence a problem?...

How can I find senior women and make them attracted to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - I'm 19 I am attracted almost exclusively to older women. And by older, I mean at least 55 and up. But I'm scared to talk to them cause why would they want to date someone younger? How can I find senior women and make them attracted to me?...

What is this going to look like to people when he comes back to me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 453 days ago

27 August 2008 (?) - A few years back I had a relationship with an ex teacher of mine, which eventually we called off. we still talk to each other at least twice a week, and sometimes meet up. Anyway, today he visited me, and one thing led to another, and we had sex. ...

I don't feel "that" special person is my ex, as she has emotional baggage and I am not ready for an exlusive relationship just yet. What do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 421 days ago

27 August 2008 (M) - Okay, I'm seeing this woman who's a bit older than me (I'm 24 she's 31) and she's also my ex. Things seemed to be going well enough, until she revealed to me that she's looking for an exclusive (as well as sexual) relationship with me, something ...

Is this Turkish man trying to con me or is he for real?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I met a Turkish man (A bar owner 20 years younger than me on holiday) He tried it on sexually with me but i told him i do not sleep with some one i do not know. Next day he told me he wanted a future with me and wants me to move to Turkey. He said ...

I lied about my age for 3 years! Now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 454 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - Hey every1...so I kinda have a problem you see I met this guy 3 years ago n I didn't think we would be messin around for this much time but he really likes me and cares the thing is when I met him I told him I was 15 when really im 14 He was 17 at ...

He says he misses me when I'm not there, but when I am, his kids give him a hard time.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 454 days ago

26 August 2008 (F) - I was in a relationship with a man 20 years older than me, his kids didnt aprove. So I moved out and stopped seeing him. now a couple months ago we started seeing eachother again. I found out Im pregnant. I thought about it for 5 days, finally told...

Is it because of a midlife crisis that my ex is with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 455 days ago

25 August 2008 (F) - I posted a previous question on 8/19/2008 about me going out with a 40 yr old guy I am 29yrs old...we went out for 1.5 years and then we broke up he went back to his ex. He actually said he was confused about what he wanted and that he did not want ...

How do I fight this silly crush that I have for a close friend of my son's?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 449 days ago

25 August 2008 (F) - My current partner and i are just in the process of seperating, he is looking to transfer his job and in the meantime we continue to share the house, he is busy texting another girl and has arranged to spend 2 weeks with her very soon. my problem ...

I will accept her invitation, so how can I tell her that I want to have sex with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 456 days ago

24 August 2008 (M) - Not too long ago after graduating from college I went to spend a vacation at a resort. It was planned to be a trip that a few of us were going to do together. In the end none of the others made it. I went alone to the resort. I thought ...

I am debating as to whether or not it would be ok to have sex with this younger man-any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

24 August 2008 (F) - Some background may help. I am a woman in my early 40’s. My former husband and I were high school sweethearts and married. He and I had one son. About six years ago just before my husband died unexpectedly we adopted two children. After the death of ...

"Love" your teacher?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 23 days ago

23 August 2008 (F) - There are so many posts on the issue of teacher and student relationships. These questions are anything from "Doe's he love me" "I can't forget him" "I love him" "Is it the teachers fault" "I want to tell him" I think that the real quest...

If a guy doesn't introduce you to his family does it mean he's not serious about you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 457 days ago

23 August 2008 (F) - I would like to know if the guy doesn't introduce you to his family,does it mean that he doesn't want have future with you?I am a mature woman(42) and the person i am involved is 56 years old.I am a bit confused.Give me some advice please....

Are there "better" ways to express an interest in sex with an older woman? How should the sex be so that she enjoys it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 457 days ago

23 August 2008 (M) - I am 22 and I have been friends with a beautiful woman who is 38. I think it is time to take our relationship to the next level. We have been friends for a few years. We have done many things together including hiking, cooking, movies, dinners,...

My older boyfriend thinks I'm too young to settle down with, but I wasn't too young for sex. Is that just an excuse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 430 days ago

22 August 2008 (F) - I've always dated older guys but now my family think i should date guys my age. They usually are 10 years older than me. Do you really think age ain't nothing but a number? I'm currently dating a guy that has a girlfriend but now i want more but he ...

Should I stay with a good thing or would it be wise to move on because of the age difference?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 458 days ago

22 August 2008 (M) - I could really use some good advice. I'm a 24 yr old college student. I've bounced around in a few relationships over the past few years, none of which lasted very long. About a year ago, I hooked up with an older woman (she's 43). I basically did ...

Is it wrong for a 15 year old to like a 18 year old guy who likes her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 458 days ago

22 August 2008 (F) - sorry its really long..but this has been going on for about 3 years now.. so help me please! hi i'm a 15 year old girl and I go to a christian school, my best friend is a guy and is 18 i've liked him basically for 3 years and we jut now cam...

Can I succeed in life even if I don't totally complete school?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

22 August 2008 (F) - iM A graduating at the end of the year and most likly wont get all my senoir point on my certificate. Im stressing so much that i will never be anything or wont get anywhere. Has anyone else failed grade twelve but still become something great? I am ...

Can I have a relationship with my father's step brother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 455 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - hi i know my question is stupid but i can't tell anyone. can i have a relationship with my father's step brother? he's not from our family he's just the son of my grandmother's new husband. we're so attracted to eachother but i don't know.. is he...

I want to be a boy toy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 459 days ago

21 August 2008 (M) - I've dreamed about a mature older women taking me in as her boy toy for, like, forever. She doesn't have to be rich, per se, but I want her to wear the pants. (I find being dominated totatally sexy) How can I find a woman like this and signal ...

I've never broken up with anyone so how should I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 414 days ago

21 August 2008 (M) - It has been the hardest choice I've ever had to make in my life but have decided for my own happiness I need to break up with my boyfriend of four years. We have a great relationship but there have been intimacy issues for three years and I just...

Should I try to interest an instructor 13 years older than me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 460 days ago

21 August 2008 (F) - I have really fallen for a friend of a few friends, and also just recently my current private lesson instructor. I don't know what to do, I don't think I should make any moves at all since I am still underage for another year. I know he is single, ...

He told me months ago that he liked me, could I have upset him now during our msn talk?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 460 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - im really confused, and this is kinda botherin me alot, me and this guy have been mates for like 3 years or so, hes 20 now and im 16, we have liked each other, well ive liked him for probably all three years, and he told me about 10 months ago that ...

My older boyfriend doesn't know if he wants a relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 448 days ago

20 August 2008 (F) - Ok so im 21 years old and have been seeing this guy who is actually alot older then me he is 38, it started out just hanging out and having alot of fun well now we are sleeping together and i stay at his house alot. Well i really really like him now ...

We broke up and he went back to his drama queen, although he says he loves me... what do you think?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (F) - I have been dating a guy for 1 1/2 yrs.He is 40 I am 29.I knew him from having our horses at the same farm,never paid any attention to him as we were both in serious relationships when he moved out there. After some time I broke up with my boyfriend ...

He doesn’t appear to want sex and I am no longer attracted to him. Is my marriage of 13 years over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 457 days ago

19 August 2008 (F) - I am thinking about my leaving my husband of 13 years. I am 42 and he is 52. I met him 2 years after I divorced my violent first husband. My current husband is not violent, but I think he is controlling; I had no self-confidence when I met him and ...

Can anything come from this after all these years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

19 August 2008 (?) - I am to scared to get excited. My boyfriend when I was 16 to 19 is coming to visit. We both have been married and lived and enjoyed life. However, we stayed in contact over the years. The odd phone call for a birthday or if something happened...

I'm older than the girl I met, is that bad?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 462 days ago

18 August 2008 (M) - I am a 29 year old male from the UK. Two months ago, I met this lovely 21 year old young lady. I have fallen head over heels for her; we are very much in love. But, the age gap bothers me. Does it really matter that my girlfriend is many years yo...

I'll never be able to have her out of my life, but to date her would be too inappropriate. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 460 days ago

17 August 2008 (M) - im 17, there's a friend of mine who's 14 and she admitted she liked me, i like her too, but i keep lying to her and say, dont, because i know it would never work, and i would feel like i'm taking advantage of her and it would be too innapropriate. ...

What should I say when my friend introduces us??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 463 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - hi guys and girls, well i need help on chatting up a guy theres an age difference of about 6 years im 18 and hes 24, im going to a party and my friend said she would introduce us, so when i meet him i dont know what to say? i think he has a job but ...

He's says he's willing to wait for me until I'm 16-but will he?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 463 days ago

17 August 2008 (F) - well me and my boyfreind broke up due to the age but he says he still likes me and is willing 2 wait until im 16 hes 18 but i dont know wat 2 do? he fancys his girl mate and has been saying its normal 2 find other girls attrative is it??? hes going ...

Do you think my ex is trying to get back in mine and my daughter life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 464 days ago

16 August 2008 (F) - I was wondering if anyone can help me, what is my baby father up to. cut a long sorry short i had a baby with him 19months ago, his 46 i'm 30, he left to be with a 22yr girl 14months ago now the girl is haveing his baby. after me and my ex b...

Should I lie about my age to this older woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

16 August 2008 (M) - i met this AMAZING girl about a week ago but theres a little problem,actually it's pretty big see i found out she was 20 and i know that somewhere along the line she's gonna ask my age im only 13(i know it's bad but i mean im very tall and i got a...

I am 20 and he is 16 is this ok???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 460 days ago

16 August 2008 (F) - Ok, so im nearly 20 and i was wondering if it was wrong for me to date a guy that is 16 who will be turning 17 in december?(i live in california)....

He's 19 years older! I know I've "my whole life ahead of me" and someone else could come along but I love this man! What to do???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 461 days ago

16 August 2008 (F) - Im in love with an older man,we have recently decided to split as we want different things at the moment but one evening a few weeks ago he said i was the one for him,he wants a future with me,wanted to make me his wife and is "waiting for the kids ...

My friend says he does not want to be boyfriend/girlfriend yet., but we're intimate. I'm confused.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 464 days ago

16 August 2008 (F) - he does not want to be boyfriend/girlfriend yet, wants to get to know each other. i dont know if the problem is that i'm (almost)29 and he is 22. he is very affectionate towards me, he introduced me to his friends. he brought me to his new house. h...

He is 39 and I am 19... the problem is that I don't know how to tell my family and friends about us.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 464 days ago

16 August 2008 (M) - It's a long story really, and its really getting me down because i dont know what route to take or how to approach the problem and just kind of want other peoples point of views. So basically I'm a guy and I met a really nice guy.. one night ...

Is this older man just after sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 465 days ago

15 August 2008 (F) - One year ago I met an older man at a wedding - he's 47, I'm 31 now. He pursued me and we went for coffee...nothing else happened at the time. Two months ago he contacted me and asked me to come to a party he was having (he's quite wealthy, owns ...