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Archived questions from: July, 2010 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

I think I just maybe losing my mind in this whole situtaion please help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

31 July 2010 (F) - What do you do in a situation when you have a boyfriend at home that is older than you and you started out as best friends, eventually moved into a deeper relationship, have a hansome child together and are still good friends, but due to past issues ...

In dire need of advice!! Is he too weird?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - Been dating a man 10 yrs older than me (never married, no kids, engaged a few times) for 3 months now. I thought I was in love with him after a month or so, but now when I say it...I just don't feel it. I think it's because he's a bit odd. He's in ...

My boyfriend needs to hide from me because I'm always jumping on him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5019 days ago

30 July 2010 (F) - My boyfriend needs to hide from me- I'm always at him! lol He obliges me when I do want to um...toss the sheets or whatever :p but then, right after, I feel like jumping him again and have to hold myself back. In the car, I'm always kissing his neck ...

I'm terrified of what might happen next after the police caught us talking to 2 underage girls, but all we did was talk!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

30 July 2010 (M) - This is probably the worse place to ask for advice on this topic (No offense I appreciate all the help I've received over the years) but I don't know where else to turn. My best friend and I have two female friends (ONLY friends) that are 13 and 14. ...

She's 13, I'm 16 and we like each other but her mom wont let us see each other!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

29 July 2010 (M) - i am 16 and there is a girl that is 13 and we both like each other one day i told her she was pretty and her mom wont let her hang out with me!!! wat should i do???? i need some help...

Hooking up with a guy 10 years older for a FWB relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

28 July 2010 (F) - Hey, So I was considering hooking up with one of my friend's brothers. I've known him for about two years and we've been discussing it for some time now and we both want the same thing, no-strings sex. The only thing is, he's ALOT older than m...

How do I tell him I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5020 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - Hi I am 35 and my bf is 46. I was married before but no children and he was with someone for 15 years and no children either. They separated because he wanted children and she could not have. I think I forgot to take my pill and now I am pregnant...

Can a leopard really change its spots?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

27 July 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have a very honest relationship. She is several years younger than I, she is 38. She was married for 10 years, cheated on her hubby and they divorced. She carried on with her lover for 7 years until his divorce was final, t...

My boyfriend slept with his brother's wife before he met me?? Please help?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

27 July 2010 (F) - Ok, so before my boyfriend and I started dating, he slept with his brothers wife supposedly just once. We started dating maybe about 5 months after this happened and he told me about 7 months into our relationship out of guilt. At first, I was ...

Where and how should I meet up with the older man I'm falling for?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4938 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - Hi. I'm a 17 year old girl from the uk. I have been online dating since o was 16 because I felt like no one who actually knew me would ever want to get with me. I lost my virginity at 15 to a boy who was 19 and I haven't had sex since. About ...

He wants to go on a break!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5023 days ago

26 July 2010 (F) - i have been going out with my boyfriend for over a year. he is 6 years older than me. iam 20. he lives on his own with a housemate while i live with my parents and study full time. this is my final year and because of that, i have a curfew during ...

Is it because she's younger than me she has such a high libido?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5019 days ago

25 July 2010 (M) - ok I started dating a much younger girl 6 months ago, the sex is unbelieveable. Its wild, fun, kinky and man its daily. Is it her age (she is 22 I am 40), my age, just because our relationship or is the chemistry just that good between us. I cant ...

My boyfriend's parents think I'm too old!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

25 July 2010 (F) - I met a guy back in march and hit it off instantly. A few months after I found out that he is only 18 and I'm 23. At the time I was upset but fell in love with him and realized that age is just a number.....right!?! U has a bit of a hard time with ...

I told my 33 year old teacher that I love him and he doesn't believe me!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 July 2010 (F) - Im just 18.im in love with my teacher.hes 33 i dont care about the age gap.hes married and devoced. His wife has left him because he cant make kids.i told him dat i love him.I think that he cant belive it.How can i tell him that im dead sirious on ...

Is it wrong to be upset that he never included me in his birthday plans?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

24 July 2010 (F) - I would very much to strangle my boyfriend, is that legal? lol jkjk Seriously, I sorta want some revenge. We've been dating for five months and its his birthday tommorow, his friends always try and get him clubbing so I joke , "I'm probably not ...

He stopped molesting me, but is he about to do it again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

23 July 2010 (F) - ok, im going to try be to the point here. im 17yrs old now and from the age of 12 to about 4months ago, i have been sexually molested by my moms boyfriend (lets call him joe). so joe has stopped abusing me now, but a few nights ago i was working on ...

She's 7 years old than me--could there be problems involved??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

23 July 2010 (M) - Hey Guys, i sorta need help.. I am an 18 year old male. I have experienced life, since the age of fourteen i help a multitude of jobs, most of which were three at a time when i was 16 to support my girlfriend who was a little younger than me, but ...

I'm 16 but she thinks I'm older. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4840 days ago

23 July 2010 (M) - hi everyone I met this girl and we really like eachother but im 16 male and she is about to turn 20 so i mean she does not know im 16 either she thinks im 19 like her please i need a soultion besides leaveing her....

Lied to a woman about my age. - 16 dating a 24 year old.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

22 July 2010 (M) - I feel like an idiot. I'm 16 years old and I'm dating someone who's 24. Though, when we met.. I lied about my age and said I was 20. She believes it too because I look and sound 20. We haven't been going out very long, a month at the mos...

I'm 17 and my mom's 42 year old friend has the hots for me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5022 days ago

22 July 2010 (M) - I'm 17 and my mothers best friend is a teacher she tough me as a privet tutor for some of my studies I took at school. She is always popping round to our house to see my mum however she confessed to me the other day that since I was 13 and she ...

Dating questions that need answers!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) - I know this is stupid, but I have a few little questions need answering. 1.If you meet up with a guy for the first time, and he saids hes not disapointed, is that a sign that he might like you? 2.If a guy saids "Hello stranger.", does that mea...

Should I come clean about my real age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5028 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) - hi met my boyfriend in class i'm 32 he's 21 we hit off right away studing for test and hangin out at school over spring break i noticed he liked me and he said he did and we started dating. i have already met his family including grandmom and have ...

Could it work between myself and a much older man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) - To make a long story short (or try to) I've known "Will" for maybe six or seven months, he lives five hours away, owns a business and is always busy. We communicated via phone for the first few months after meeting by chance and then, I went to ...

I want to move in with my boyfriend, but my parents don't approve of us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

21 July 2010 (F) - Hi i am currently 17 almost 18 years old and i have secretly been dating by boyfriend for about 10 months now and in a few months i turn 18, and i want to move in with him but my parents dont want us to be together. i have tried talking to them but ...

I want to be more than his mid life crisis...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5011 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - I'm not sure what to do. I am very seriously considering getting involved with a much older man. He is in his mid-40s and I am turning 18 in the fall. Obviously we have to wait to see each other; we are currently just talking online. The age thing ...

My mom hates the age gap...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5025 days ago

20 July 2010 (F) - Okay, so I'm in love with a nineteen year old.. I'm 15.. he is the best thing that has ever happened to me and my mother completely disapproves.. I can't go on with her prodding me to break up with him. He is very nice, and smart, and absolutley ...

Should I go out with my uncle's friend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - Ok, this is kind of a strange situation. I know this guy who is friends with my uncle, and this guy is married to my uncle's ex. Lately, my uncle has been said that this guy has been asking him to ask me to come along when they go out for a drink. I ...

I have a crush on my headmaster!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - hi I'm 17 and i have a huge crush on my headmaster i want to tell him i like him but I'm afraid of many things happening plus i have panic attacks a lot. i stare at him a lot, can't help it i think he has noticed. every time i see him i smile i ...

I'm 18 and attracted to older men. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

19 July 2010 (F) - [OP original title] Well i am 18 years old. I'm not attracted to guys my own age. I'm finding that i'm attracted to guys in their late 20's to mid 40's. the one guy who impacted me tremendously is 41 years old. he made me feel like no one has ever...

She's 20, I'm 40. Am I weird for feeling like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4848 days ago

18 July 2010 (M) - There’s a young lady that I have an interest in. It’s not a sexual thing, really. I can’t explain it, there’s just something about her that makes me want to get to know her. The first issue is I’m forty and she’s twenty. Although I’m a young at h...

Can I just put it down to our relationship becoming stale...? Urgent help needed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5031 days ago

18 July 2010 (M) - I have seen and read many hints and tips regarding relationship issues but as we all know, all circumstances are different, this one is a real head f*ck. I've been with a girl for 4 years, I'm 12 years her senior at 38 and she is 26. She comes fr...

Why is this happening to me? I am very pretty, successful, smart - what am I doing wrong?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5021 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - I was married for 13 years to a man 17 years older than me - we have 3 children together. Few months ago I found out that he was having affairs with multiple women and filed for divorce. Shortly after that, I met a man, in his 50-s and started ...

Age differences and what is acceptable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4890 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - Hay I am just wondering, how big an age difference do you think is still acceptable? I know the whole "love has no boundries" thing but I can't help thinking that a 20 year age gap is just a little weird, it's like a 1 year old going out with a 21 y...

This new girl is getting in the way. Does my friend love her more than me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - I'm a girl, 15. my best friend is a guy, 19. We've been friends since Jan. '10. He is seriously like a brother to me. i can never ever imagine him anything more then that. and he can't either. He wouldn't do absolutely anything for me. For a while ...

Should I call him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5032 days ago

17 July 2010 (F) - Okay, so I met this guy (let's call him Seth) this summer. We met in this out of town class that I went to. It lasted an entire week, so we saw each other a lot. I would frequently catch Seth looking at me instead of paying attention to the lessons. ...

I'm 15, he's 20, and my parents hate him...but we are in love! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5031 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - hi im fifteen and im living with a tweenty year old my familly hates him but we are in love what do i do?...

Why does my daughter hate her family and side with a much older man that mistreats her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5034 days ago

16 July 2010 (F) - I am at my wit's end trying to understand my 21 year old daughter. We both took a chemistry class (when she was 18) together in college (at my daughter's request), and met a 40 year old professor who had, just 1 month prior to taking the class, ...

Although I fancy him... his best friend fancies me!!!?? What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5034 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - here goes can anyone help? iv recently realized im falling in love with one of my friends. he is 6 years older than me and i know its quite a bit ,but we have so much in common and we both love being in each others company but im not sure if he fe...

My older lover is very sick, should I marry him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5017 days ago

15 July 2010 (?) - I'm a successful, almost 22-year-old woman. The love of my life is 61. Please, no gasping. I met him when I was a child, in passing, when he was only 46, and I a mere seven or so. He quietly watched me grow and change through my childhood. He was ...

Is it too late to call off the wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

15 July 2010 (F) - i'm 28 years old. i think i got myself into a situation. the person i married isn't very loving, very selfish and complains when he actually has to do something for someone that is sick, me. i am so mad at myself for putting myself into this ...

I'm in love with my teacher and I think he loves me as well!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5026 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - I am 15 years old and i am in love with my English teacher and i am certain he is into me. When i first meet him i thought he was a weird guy but as i got to now him i flirted. 1:on my birthday he got jealous when another guy said his birthday...

I'm 14 and like a 17 year old boy, but my parents think he's too old for me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5030 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - Okay, well i met this boy he just turned 17 and i really like him, im only 14 and my parents say hes to old. my mom has met him, but they dont know that i like him, i have no idea how to tell them. They just wont understand because they think all we ...

Everyone says he's too old for me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5018 days ago

14 July 2010 (F) - I'am 22.MY man is 35.they tell me that he is too old for mei have been dateing him for two yr.how do i tell him how i feel?...

Why did he flirt with me then all of a sudden leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5037 days ago

12 July 2010 (F) - i'm really confused and my heart has been really broken please help.my sister told me about a guy that was into me and that wanted to get to know me i saw him at a club once i thought he knew who i was thinking my sister showed him pictures of me i ...

He's 19 years older than me, could he like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

10 July 2010 (F) - I dont know if this guy likes me or not. we have a 19 year age gap. i am 26 and he is 45. My name is Beth and he calls me Bethy. His name is Malc, and i call him Malcy. I guess it would seem like we are flirting with each other when we call each ...

Big age difference, he has left wife with five kids, can this relationshio survive??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5033 days ago

10 July 2010 (F) - What should one do when they have met a guy who is a lot older than themselves and married with five children but the marriage is not good. That guy then askes you out and this then causes major upset for their family. I mean real upset, parents ...

Too old for me??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5039 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - Ok, so I just need some opinions on this. I am really interested in this guy, and he is interested in me. He is 26 and I am 17. Is this too much of an age difference?...

Is there REALLY an age limit on love???

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4793 days ago

8 July 2010 (F) - Hi! My boyfriend of almost six months is 19 turning 20 in August and I`m 15 turning 16 in September, I look older for my age and I`m also more mature than most 15 year old girls. I know a lot of teenagers say that, but, no, I REALLY am. I`m going to ...

Is 8 years too big of a difference?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5040 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - Hello, all I want to know is if anyone thinks that 8 years is a big difference? I honestly don't think it is. But I'm 18 and I like a 26 year old who likes me back. I just wanna know if you think 8 years is too much....

My 18 year old son is dating someone my age!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5038 days ago

7 July 2010 (F) - My 18 year old son has started dating a 35 year old woman, which is my age, I am having alot of different feeings, from near break down to breaking her in half. I don't want to do the wrong thing and push him closer to her. I can't imagine dating ...