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Archived questions from: December, 2007 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

16, mature for my age, dating a 25 year old for a year now. His parents approve of our relationship, but I have difficulties with my parents who've only recently found out. Suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

31 December 2007 (F) - ok i am 16.... i'm mature for my age and look like im 19-22.... i hooked up with my friends brother who is 25... when we first hooked up he didn't know how old i was but assumed i was at least 18... i'd known him for awhile but we had never ...

He is really nice and good looking and I am not...so I really doubt he is interested in me...but is it possible??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 208 days ago

30 December 2007 (F) - I am a 17 year old girl, and I have worked in a small cafe for the last 4 months. One of the guys there is 32, and I always thought he disliked me. But over the last couple of weeks we have been a lot more comfortable around each other... he is ...

Should I move on or follow my heart and wait??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 206 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - Hey:) Heres whats up. I'm 15 and im in love with a guy 29, he's not a teacher or nothin either. I met him when I was 12 yrs old but I didnt think much of him I was just starting to get into boys my own age. When I turned 13 I started getting ...

What would you say, how young is too young?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 189 days ago

29 December 2007 (M) - Right then, I'd just like to ask your opinions on "how young is too young"? I'm 22, and have feelings for a younger girl, she's 15. I don't care about sex, I just have loads of feelings at the moment for her, I feel like she's too young, she ...

I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 21. I have been cheating on him with another guy who is 19. I love both but they are very different and now I'm confused, what shall I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 85 days ago

29 December 2007 (F) - ok, im 14 and ive been with my boyfriend for 13 months. i wil call him A. i love him alot, hes 21 btw. i know him well, b4 u ask. i know his bestfrend, and the people who live in his flat. anyways, im kinda cheating on him with this boy who is 19. i ...

I'm starting to think that I'm falling for any guy who gives me attention, why is that, and what do you think about this guy I'm falling for now??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 200 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - i think im getting attached to this new guy. i am starting to think that my cousin is right...i am falling for any guy who gives me attention. well the thing is that he is engaged and yet he is flirtying with me, saying that i always will have a ...

I'm 13 and I'm in love with a 19 year old...what should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted yesterday

28 December 2007 (F) - ok i'm 13 and i'm in love with this 19 year old guy and he really loves me for me. but he is scared to ask me out because of the age different. but he wants no sex or anything. he doesn't even mind people seeing us together. should we go out or not? ...

I'm in love with my old teacher, how do I tell him my feelings?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - Hello my name's Elle and I have a bit of a problem, well it's a huge problem actually. I have fallen in love with my old teacher, not old as in age old but old as in from high school. It started in high school when I was upset once and he just was...

I'm 17 and he is 15, would it be wrong for us to be together considering this age gap?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

28 December 2007 (F) - I am 17 and a senior in high school..and i have this friend that i think i am starting to like but the problem is he is only 15 and a freshman in high school...we go to school and church together and stuff and i am wondering could it be possible for ...

I like my teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 211 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I really like my teacher and i always am thinking about him. He compliments me and it makes me feel good. I want to tell him and show him but, Im not shure if that is the right thing to do. Please commet!!!!!!!...

I'm a teacher and have formed a good online friendship with a quite mature teenager(17). Am I wrong to want to meet her - or even to be talking to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 201 days ago

27 December 2007 (?) - hi there. i am a 28 year old teacher..been working near London for about 5 years.. problem is I met a girl on line about 4 months ago..she is 17 doing 'A' levels in a different school (about 100 miles away) i might add, and is quite mature.....

He still cares about his ex, but why can't he be bothered with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

27 December 2007 (F) - I have been married for 5 months, been together 2.5 yrs and have a 14 month old child. Prior to that, my husband was with a woman for 10 years, they had a kind of friends relationship with on/off sex but he clearly doted on her, she can do no wrong ...

I love him but.......He is 25 and I am 16.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 213 days ago

25 December 2007 (F) - Well I was just going by life (like always). But then I went over to my friends house and her aunt's wife had her best friend down from a different town. And well we just always had a connection with one another. But then I didn't come over for a ...

What should I do about the attached older guy that flirts with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

24 December 2007 (F) - There is this guy who flirts with me but has a girlfriend and is older than me by 3 years. Help!!!! What should i do ?...

Sometimes I feel I should end the relationshop purely because of age difference and people's disapproval... but I'd be so unhappy and miss him. What do you think?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 204 days ago

22 December 2007 (F) - Hi there, I am 23 and my boyfriend is 42.We have been together almost 2 years.He is divorced with no children. When we met we became great friends and gradually got together..we are now living together and things are great. However, when pe...

Confused over whom to choose..my bf or this older boy at school?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

20 December 2007 (F) - alright so i go out with this kid a year older than me. righttt we fight a lot and stuff and he lives in a diff. town. i like him a lot and i've liked him for almost a year now. but there's this senior that started talking to me now. i told him i ...

He got back with his ex for the sake of the kids, but still sees me. I have fallen for him hard!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

20 December 2007 (F) - I met this man on a night out and he was single, so we hit it off right away. He later told me he had 2 children and after a month of seeing him he got back with his ex, i think he only got back with her for the children. Now we are still talking ...

Is a 7 year age diff too much?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 210 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - well i actually want to know if it is wrong to date someone who is like 7years older than i am...

How do I know if it's love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 80 days ago

18 December 2007 (F) - How do u know its love? Im 15 hes 26, he tells me he loves me, but i find it so strange how hes fallen for me (a young person).. I dont know alot about sex etc! But he tells me he loves me, and wants me, but then sometimes i get the feeli...

I think I'm falling in love with a 21 year old, and I'm only 14

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

17 December 2007 (F) - i'm 14... i have these really strong feelings for a 21 year old. he says the sweetest things to me and makes me feel so good. i don't know what to do about this. but i'm not aloud to see him because i got in trouble with the police for being with ...

I feel so depressed and I have feelings for my teacher, and I can't tell my Mum

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 31 days ago

15 December 2007 (F) - hi i have depression and used to hurt myself bit i dont anymore. im on medication for my depression but it still doesnt seem to be getting much better, i think it has made my anxiety worse aswell. my mum knows about it but i cant bring myself to ...

I feel like my teacher is flirting with me, I've had a crush on him for a while now

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 202 days ago

15 December 2007 (F) - I'm a junior in high school and I've had a crush on a teacher since my freshman year. He's always looked at me and been nice to me, but now he seems like he's going out of his way to see me and talk to me. During his prep period and my off period he ...

Our age difference is hurting him and people are calling him "paedo"... should I break this off?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

14 December 2007 (F) - Heyz! i am a 13 year old girl.. dating a.. 18 year old guy. i know there is a big age difference. My problem is that our age difference is hurting him. everyone has been calling him a pedophile, telling him he will go to jail. He fakes a smile ev...

Do some relationships just not work out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 218 days ago

14 December 2007 (F) - is age relevent, im 20 and i dated a 32 yr old with a child. things were grate when we were together and i never had an issue but whenever i thought of introducing him to my friends i couldnt see him fitting in. is it enough for just the 2 of yo...

Could my french teacher fancy me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 211 days ago

13 December 2007 (M) - I'm 15 and I have a crush on my french teacher. A friend of mine told her and she went red in the face. Now she knows everytime I look at her she quickly looks in the opposite direction but she stares at me constantly when I don't look at her. Do ...

There's an age difference between him and I and he 's boring!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 226 days ago

12 December 2007 (F) - there is a age difference of 7 years but been toghether 6 years and have 2 kids im 22 but he wants to be a bore and stay at home constantly and be like a old man and moan all the time, im at my witts end i dont think i love him because of the ...

He says he will brake up with his girlfriend of 7 yrs but want to wait till after the holidays. What do you think, will he be lying to me too? (I'm 21, he's 35)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 223 days ago

12 December 2007 (F) - Im kind of seeing this man whos 14 years older than me, he asked me out and we got drunk and had intercourse, the next day he told me that he wanted to be honest with me, that he has a girlfriend and said he would brake up with her soon, but he ...

Desperate for Answers!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

12 December 2007 (F) - I'm facing huge dilema, although it may not seem so huge to some, but I can't figure out how to get over it. It all started out as innocent fling/crush type of thing. My friends and I were always talking about how great our teacher is, an...

Should I tell him I like as my friends advised me? I'm 13, he's 27. Worried about ruining our relationship.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 217 days ago

11 December 2007 (F) - Well for the last 3 months I've been talking to this guy. He's turning 27 soon and I"m only 13. We talk all the time and about last month I started to have feeelings for him. My friends say it's not wrong, but the age differance conserns me. They ...

Should I dump my teacher even though I'm madly in love with him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 178 days ago

11 December 2007 (F) - ok...here goes...i havnt even told my best mates about this so i cant believe im telling the whole internet...im having an affair with my teacher and its been going on for three years... honestly i cant believe noones found out about it yet and i ...

I got back together with my ex, but I am not sure that was a good idea. I just don't feel the same anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 226 days ago

11 December 2007 (F) - My partner and I split up in February. We didn't live together or anything but we had been seeing each other for just over 4 years when we split. Things hadn't been good for around 6 months before the split and I felt we were at different points ...

Should I have let my older boyfriend fondle me? It made me unconfortable, but was I just being childish?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 61 days ago

11 December 2007 (F) - I'm a female. I have a boyfriend called Ricky (not real name)he is 24 and i am 16 (i know big age gap but he and i get along really good). We ain't made out yet but he wants to. I went to rick's house when his parents were out somewhere and we did...

He asks me to stand up for him, but I don't know how, although I'm fallen in love with him. What shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 229 days ago

9 December 2007 (F) - Hi, well i'm 21 years old and I been talking to this guy that's pretty much older than me (8 years)and we really like each other i'm kinda falling in love with him fareal. It's crazy how it all just happen I'm really not tryin to move fast in a ...

I dreamed about having sex with a much older man. I am afraid this means future promiscous behaviour?!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

8 December 2007 (F) - Oh My God! I am 14 and last night i had a dream. I dreamt i was having sex with someone much older than me, and it was very raunchy. I'm scared that this means i'm going to turn into a slut! why would i have this dream, i've never had a dream like ...

I'm afraid I might scare him off. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 231 days ago

7 December 2007 (F) - I need your help. It's all to do with a 16 yr age gap between me and this guy i really like. Im 19 and he is 35. iv been talkin 2 him for 4 months now and for a while we have been hanging out with each other, he takes me to the cinema or invites me ...

I feel like he is too old for me. Please advise.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 231 days ago

6 December 2007 (F) - I am going out with this man right after my divorce. He is 18 years older than me. I feel wanted and loved which make me feel really good. Two months on I start to feel he is too old for me. He's got false teeth, dozes off on the sofa during the ...

He thought I was 16 turning 17 but in truth I'm only just turning 15!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 222 days ago

6 December 2007 (F) - *Sigh* Do you know anyone who looks/acts older than their age? Well I'm one of those kids. I'm 14 years old about to turn 15 on Saturday. Not to brag, but I'm more mature than people in my age group. I think its because I was abused and shifted from ...

13, Help! I'm in love with a 50 year old!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 168 days ago

5 December 2007 (F) - okay, there have been a lot of questions about this, but i think im in love with my teacher. im not sure if im physically attracted or mentally because he is in his 40-50 and im only 13. i know nothing will ever happen because this has happene...

This older guy is ignoring my texts and emails...I'm so confused!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

5 December 2007 (F) - Hi, i'm struggeling with a guy!!! I'm not with him but i think that he is my soul mate!!!! i love every bone in his body and i want to look after him!He isn't sure if he wants a relationship right now. There is a large age gap between us i'm 20 and ...

Would a 26-year old wait for the girl to reach the consent age?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - Okay, my parents found out that i was goin out with a 25 yr old. we were really really in love but had been having problems just before they found out. They have stopped me from having any contact with him which is understandable they're parents ...

Different libidos, normal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 234 days ago

4 December 2007 (F) - I'm a 20-year-old female with a 29-year-old male. I've always been in long term relationships with very frequent sex that I was normally initiating so i suppose I'm not even sure if this is abnormal. As a little background, we work about 35 a ...

Am I too old for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 237 days ago

2 December 2007 (F) - hi all I met this guy about 4 weeks ago and everything is good between us we get on and have the same interest in music and films. I'm just worried as I'm 26 and he's 22. Do you think I should end it with him although we get on well, I'm just w...