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Archived questions from: October, 2008 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Is it irrational to think this way about my therapist?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Over the past 3 years I've gone through a lot of shit. about 2 years ago I met my therapist, he was one of the best people I would ever meet in my (then) so far 15 years. I most definitely thought of him as more than just my therapist... I thought ...

We should be close to the same stage in life now, right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5654 days ago

30 October 2008 (M) - I never saw it as a problem but everytime we have an argument my gf says it is because or ages are different and we are in a different stage in our life as i am looking to settle down whereas she is not yet ready to settle down, we have been ...

He liked me when I was underage... now I'm 24 and he wants to go out with me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have a question. I met this guy when I was 14 and he was 25, just once and he said he liked me then. Obviously,nothing happened then since i was underage. I never saw him again till last year, I'm 24 now and he likes me now too. Obviously the age ...

Has the age gap finally caught up with us? I'm so discontent!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Where do i start????...ok so im 31 and my partner of 15 years is 41, we have 2 children, and here is the BUT i dont really know if I'm happy any more, we separated about 2 years ago for a year, then got back together when we got back together things ...

What should I do about this guy??? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Okay so i really like this guy, and i think he likes me too. see we met in this teen leadership class, which is a class where you pretty much spend time with new people and make new friends, and he sat by me all midterm. we are really close now, and ...

I really need some help with the age gap!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - right I need help quick! I have just turned 18 and I started to talk to this girl on msn and on the phone she lives 10 minutes away from me and I started to really like her but I forgot to ask her age and I just asked her and found out..... s...

I feel as if I'm being used and want to end this AGAIN. What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

28 October 2008 (M) - I'm engaged to a woman from Eastern Europe who is over 20 years younger than me. (That's a bad sign, I know). I live in North America, so our relationship is pretty unusual and we hardly ever see each other. I have known her for almost three years. ...

Should I meet him at Easter when I'm 18?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Hi all... I cant believe I am even thinking about this nor asking for peoples advice, it's totally not like me. I was wondering what I should do... On msn, I recently starting chatting to a man the age of 44, he seemed decent enough, funny and...

Why am I the secret girlfriend??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - I'm in my early 20s and dating a guy in his late 40s for about 3 months. We're both successful and have a great time together. There's one problem though, he tries to hide me from everyone in his life. There are very few mutual friends that know ...

My girlfriend wants to move in with me and so do I, but her mom doesn't approve. What shall I do to make this happen in the best way?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - Hi, I seriously need ur help and advice on my love life and will appreciate every bit of it. I am seriously in love with a girl of 17, just 17 and she is seriously in love wit me. She is ready to do anything to make me happy and im also ready to...

I liked my teacher in school but of course nothing could happen then. Now I'm 19, should I take a chance on going back to see him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - So there is a teacher who is 8 years older than me which is not that bad and i like older guys anyway...hes a special ed teacher and he was NEVER my teacher when i went to high school. When I was in school we flirted and I felt like he payed more ...

My chiropractor and I always flirt, I'm worried I'm starting to like him too much, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - ok.. i have a question, i have been going to my chiropractor for about 2 weeks now, he is only 29 yrs old and i am a very mature 18 year old, when i go to visit him we flirt. laugh, and hold interesting conversations, i am really starting to like ...

Does his behaviour mean he's afraid of me knowing how he really feels?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5661 days ago

24 October 2008 (?) - Okay, so I have a problem. I really like this guy, he's a bit older, he's married, and I know that I never, ever have a chance with him, just let's get that straight, I'm not looking to be with him AT ALL. The problem is that he has flirted in the p...

My husband physically and emotionally abuses me all the time.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I need to make this quick because I'm not "allowed" to be on the internet right now. My husband is thirteen years my senior and we've known each other for two and a half years, been together that long, and married for two years. We have a ...

My boyfriend says he is in love with an older woman.

This question has 27 answers - newest was posted 5650 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I have a problem and I don't understand what I can do. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years and I truly believe that he is my true love. I want to marry him, and spend the rest of my life with him and I've known this every since ...

My 60 year old teacher crush that I can't get over, someone please help?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - I've had this problem for a very long time, and I've tried asking for advice from many people, but no one has cheered me up about this. When I was in 7th grade, I somehow developed a crush on my PE teacher, even though he had white hair, wrinkles...

Is it legal to have sex with him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5653 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Hi, I am a 17 year old girl and seriously in love with a 27 year old. Is it legal if I have sex with him as I love him so much and hes been saying no to me. Pls help. anonymous....

I'm 23 and I'm meeting my new date who is 42, tonight. Any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - Hi guys a bit of help hear, My ex bf just rang me to say that one of his and his new partners mates wants to meet me, ive said yes and agreed to meet me on my own in a public place, m ex is 28 and the guy im meeting 2nite is 42 where im 23 is there...

How can I help my cousin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

22 October 2008 (F) - my cousin is just 16, but she is dating a 24 businessman, the problem is she wants to know wether this guy really loves her or he is just playing around with her , she is not really in love with him but she is getting to like him too much that she ...

Should I date him to find out if I like him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - I am 19 and a thirty year old graduate student at my school went with me to the movies. I wasn't sure it was a date but he paid and kissed me on the cheek afterwards. He acted like a perfect gentleman and suggested another movie we could see and ...

Could he get in trouble for dating me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

21 October 2008 (?) - hi. um, my problem is that i really like this guy who lives next door to me. well that part's not the problem. the problem is that i am only turning fifteen this saturday and that he is turning eighteen in three months. i have no idea what to do, ...

I'm a 25 year old girl and have the hots for a 60 year old guy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

21 October 2008 (F) - Hello. I am a 25 year old girl who is completely infatuated with a 60 year old man. Why? He is just so adorable, charming, and very attractive. I work with him, and at first did not care to be in his company because he is so uptight, anal, and ...

Help...jealous daughters!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Okay, I am a 37 year old woman who is engaged to a 47 year old man. We both have been divorced 2wice, so If we marry, it will be our 3rd time. He has 2 daughters, by 2 different mothers. One is 28 and lives far away, married with kids, the other is ...

Why am I feeling this way about my teacher being away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5656 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Today my teacher, who I was always very fond of, went away witht the year 8s on a school trip and they'll be gone til Thursday. When i first learned this last week i thought, oh, i'm gonna miss him loads, but until this morning i didn't realise how ...

I am 38 years old, a widow, and a 19 year old, who knows my age, wants to date me, is this proper?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

20 October 2008 (F) - Hello all I work for a travel firm, i am 38 and a widow, a work collegue has asked me out, the trouble is that he is 19, i do like him and he knows how old i am, his reply to the age gap is that he wants to go out with a older woman because th...

What do older men see in younger women?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - What do older men see in younger women? Why would a man want to pursue a relationship with a younger woman? I would genuinely like insight from those with experience in the matter. I'm a young female interested in a man 15 years older than me, w...

Is it wrong for me to want a sugar daddy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5666 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I'm 25 and not interested in men my age or a few years older- I have dated them but it's just not a turn on. I keep falling for men in their 40's. I want a sugar-daddy and I'm so attracted to divorced men with children who have a high powered job ...

My teacher liked me and is now being prosecuted! How can I help him save his job?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5643 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - hi i have just been reading all the student teacher relationship questions and answers...and i really need help one of my teachers has told me he really cares about me and that he could imagine us spending the rest of our lives together i ...

Am I too old to go to graduate school and persue a career, and if I do will it mean giving up on marriage and kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

19 October 2008 (F) - I'm 29 years old and really want badly to have a career, and I would like to go to graduate school, but I am so scared that it's too late. I realize that technically a graduate school might accept someone of my age, but that at 29 I would be in a ...

He slept with her during our break up to get back at me (I had cheated), now she's pregnant, how do I cope and move on with him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5667 days ago

18 October 2008 (F) - Ok. I am 24 and my boyfriend is 40. We have been together for 3 years now. Recently we broke up because he was pushing me away and I ended up sleeping with someone. No excuse I know. Anyways. We broke up and he was introduced to this girl who is 2 ...

Does she have an ulterior motive in wanting to marry me???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - I have girl 8 years older than me and we are planning getting married but I don't know if she truly loves me because too many times she is only polite only when we are having sex and after she is just being much of herself and not doing the things ...

My boyfriend has many young friends at the age of 36 and it's a bit frustrating for me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5668 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - I met this guy when id worked through my own past issues, I have a five year old girl, and him a ten year old. We had both looked to god for the right kind of love, and when we met it felt very meant to be for us both. We even saw a shooting star on ...

Mom won't let me date a 30 year old guy!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5503 days ago

17 October 2008 (F) - my mom wont let me date a 30year old. I am 16 years old...

I''m 38 and have an 18 year old admirer..what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5669 days ago

17 October 2008 (M) - I work in a super market and two of the other staff have told me that I have an admirer. It is said that she is only 18 and I'm 38 and work with her mum who knows about it as she has told me hersself. I dont know what i shoud do. ...

What's your opinion on dating a much older guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5670 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - your opinion on dating a guy 19yrs older then me. hes never been married has no kids. im 27 hes 46. im lonely so is he and i like him.i dont want to be alone for the rest of my life havent had a bf for 8yrs. ...

Would it be wrong to sleep with a guy twice my age, even when I'm 18?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

16 October 2008 (F) - hello so..i would ask that no one be super rude when they answer this..so im almost 18 and i met this man whose in his mid thirtys online...i know he could be a pedophile and all that 60 minute stuff...my friends arent very happy with it and i know. ...

After a strange encounter with girls who asked him if he was seeing me, he stopped answering my calls!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5670 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - im really confused! this lad asked me for my number about two mounth ago. i said no although i did like him. anyway he didnt give up so i gave in. hes 19 and im 25. we called and txt most days an got on really well when we met up. i thought we could ...

What to do when you're on the verge of a breakdown?? I feel my husband is not interested in intimacy with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5671 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I don't really know where to begin other than the fact that I am seeking advice,...help. I am married to man who is 23 years older than me, we have 1 child together. The reason I am writing is to get an outside look and maybe some good advice as to ...

He's 18. I'm 15. Does anyone think this is bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5041 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - Hi I really like this guy but he's 18 and I am only 15. He is 19 in December, which makes it worse, but he doesn't want anything to happen until I'm 16, but I am not going to be16 until April. Does anyone think this bad ?...

Am I obsessed or is it just a crush?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5671 days ago

14 October 2008 (F) - I'm in desperate need of help. I really like this guy, but he's too old for me (legally). I'm fifteen years old and I just want to know if I'm obsessed, have a crush, or am I a stalker? You see, this guy isn't like other guys. He's nice and ...

I love my teacher and he love's me too, but I don't know what to do!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5439 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - Hi all,, uhmm... I've confused now,, im really love my english teacher... well,,its start when im in 10grade,,,i've falling in love with my new english teacher!!he's only 23y.o,, man,he was so handsome..,,at first...i dont mind he's ...

She terminated our long distance, online relationship. Should I still call her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5664 days ago

13 October 2008 (M) - I am having a long distance relationship for about 8 months. She is 3x years, divorced and I am 2x. Some of her emails meant a lot to me. When she asked for my email password, I told her if we fight in future, never delete those emails because I...

How do I make sure I don't scare this guy off?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I'm feeling tired of my marriage after 16 years. My husband and I are sleeping in separate rooms - I can't stand him touching me. We do not quarrel/argue that much - in fact, we hardly communicate. Right now, I have a crush on my young hairstyl...

Age difference - I need your advice please!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

13 October 2008 (F) - I'm 13, And I'm in love with a 21 year old guy. I know it sounds really stupid, but please hold off the lecture until what I'm writing is comepletely read. I KNOW the guy, He's been my best friend (We're gamer geeks) For two years, and just ...

My partner gives me love bites! I don't know why he does this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

12 October 2008 (F) - i keep getting love bites off my partner. hes 2 years older but i dont get why he still gives love bites as hes 17. i know that its not a goth thing as hes very into the jeans and hoodys. but he really bruised up my neck and i dnt kno why he likes...

What is the age limit to be able to legally date a 15 year old? No sex involved.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5356 days ago

11 October 2008 (M) - There a girl who 14 who going to be 15 in 4 months what is the highest age a guy should be, to be able to go out with her of course nothing sexual, just maybe a kiss on the lips and hugs...

Is it weird that I still think about my old high school teacher?...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5667 days ago

11 October 2008 (F) - Ok to put it as simple as I can. I graduated high school May of 2007. My junior year I had this teacher all year long for both 4th and 6th period. He was my favorite teacher. He was young, straight out of college, and really good looking. I mean how ...

How do I find out how she feels?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - Hi Readers. This is not my first time to ask for advice on dearcupid, but the last time I didn't really get any advice that helped me and my problem... Basically, I'm a woman in my early 20's and am, and have been in love with another female...

Does this teacher like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - ok. so i'm gonna start from the beginning because it's easier. this teacher started at my school, and i fancied him, i didn't say anything to him or anyone else because lets just say he's not the most attractive person going. so then when i fins...

Does he even care about me at all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

10 October 2008 (F) - we had been together just over 2 years, he is now 46 and im 26 now, he ended it , but he texts me through the week when he aint got anyone else, then from thursday till monday/tuesday i dont hear from him at all he dont answer ma calls or ...