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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Is it love... or the wrong signs?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - Hi I'm 16 and i have a crisis I guess you could say. I feel very attracted to a 27 year old man. the thing is he used to work at my school as hall patrol. he plays football for a county team and i feel obligated to go to his games to cheer him on. ...

How can I tastefully approach this young woman?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

28 November 2008 (M) - Hello everyone! I have known a young lady, Vivian(22) in September who works in the same field as I do(we met at a trade exhibition). I recommended her to some students for lessons(she tutors privately), and we see each other on a weekly basis ...

I'm 16 he's 22...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I'll start with some background information. I'm a 17 year old from NY. I will be 17 in January. My parents, as well as many other people have told me that I am very mature for my age. I'm pretty set in my ways, I'm happy with who I am. However, I ...

Why won't he walk away from me and save his current relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - hello aunts...i know what im doing isn't right...ive been seeing a guy who has a gf for almost six months...and have made 3 attempts to cut him off and obviously have been unsuccessful... i truely don't know what to do...he seems to be kind of we...

I'm starting to fall for him, but he is so young - what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5616 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I have problem, I starting to fall for this dude, but he is young, its a 3 years differents n age. I know for sure that he liks me as well. But Im payin hard to get, b/c his so young. What should I do? ...

I'm in love with my brother's 24 year old friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5619 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Im 15 Yrs Old And Im In Love With My Brothers Best Mate Whos 24 Yrs Old. Isit Wrong That Im In Love With Him. I Really Want A Future With Him And He Wants To Be With Me But His Worried People Will Say Something About The Age Gap. Iv Told My Broth...

Is it okay to feel contempt for the man that is dating my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - Is it okay that I feel great contempt for the man that is now dating my ex-girlfriend? They had been together before she met me, but had separated because he had 'a lot of baggage' (her words). We started dating and then he comes crawling back 'a ...

What do his texts mean? Is he flirting big time? He's married!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - So I have been texting this married man, who is 9 years older then me. I am 17, I will be 18 next October. I texted him because I needed advice. He told me what to do, tell the kid I like him as a friend. I told him that I told him that, and im in ...

How do I get older women to take me seriously?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5523 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Why are older women so reluctant do date young guys? I've been trying to get an older women for two months now I've gotten NOWHERE. I've never had problems getting girlfriends my own age, but whenever I hit on a woman in her 30's or 40's she doesn't ...

My boyfriend's brother and I have become really close - what would you do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - ok i have a 23 year old bf and i'm 18, my bf has a 19yr old brother. The brother and I have become quite close ever since we were introduced, we spend a lot of time just talking But now i really feel something between us, like a spark or somethin...

Is he TOO nice or just looking out for me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I love tony*. he is so amazing! An when we had sex, it hurt so i said "tony that really hurts!!" and he replied oh im sorry Ellie*, i didn't mean to hurt you. I bled a little. he keep saying sorry. i said it's okay. is he TOO nice or is he just ...

He's 24, I'm 17. Is this wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - He is 24 and I'm 17. I know he's not a sleaze because when we met, he thougt I was at least 21 and I thought he was 20 ish. We became really good friends, and after 3 months of just friendship we found out the actual ages. About a month after that ...

I'm 14 and he's 19, is this wrong? Should I stop seeing him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - hi dear cupid. so i started talking to this guy, hes 19 and im 14. we get along fine and we went out one night. The farthest we'ver gone is making out...but we're not in a relationship. My parents are most likely to find out if i start going out ...

I've lied to him about my real age...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

23 November 2008 (F) - Hi, I've been going out with this guy for 4 months now but we have liked each other for a year now he loves me so much and we have been through so much together, I can't imagine my life without him. I love him so much I've sort of pushed my friends ...

Is it illegal to get fellatio from an underage girl?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5533 days ago

23 November 2008 (M) - my neighbor is 16 yrs old and im 21, and shes really into me and wants to have sex but i told her that i wouldnt cuz of i didnt wanna go to jail... so she said that she would give me a blowjob but idk if thats consider illegal???...

Is it wrong for a 13 yr old to date a 19 yr old?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

23 November 2008 (?) - Is it wrong for a 13yo girl to be dating a 19yo guy that lives over seas? I love him to death, but i want other peoples point of view. No my parents dont know about him-im not supposed to date. I have been with some one that was 14....it didnt work ...

I'm getting mixed signals from my teacher!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5611 days ago

22 November 2008 (F) - Alright well..I really need an opinion on something that happen just this week. I get so many mixed signals from a former teacher of mine... I recently saw him after classes and we were just talking and then I had him help me with Math..I told, Ohh ...

Is there any chance for us in the future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5627 days ago

21 November 2008 (F) - I am a girl of 17 and I have a brother in law who is 8 years elder to me, he really likes me and I too like him, is the age difference between us too big. By the time he finishes medicine and settles down as a doctor he would be around 30 and I ...

I really want to make it work this time, do you have any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

19 November 2008 (M) - Hi everybody, My girlfriend and I fell out over a week ago because I was stupid enough to doubt our relationship and my commitment etc, we have spoken though and have decided to go back out and give it another go because we still love each other et...

Because of our age difference he won't date me, but I'm so into him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

19 November 2008 (F) - Okay so i like this guy who's 18 and im a 15 yr old female. i have such strong feelings for him we've met and have hung out and text 24/7 non stop and we know each other and have good times, when were together. i love this boy alot and when i told ...

Dating an older man

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5614 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - I am 20 years old and I'm dating a man who is 25 years old than me. I always ask him if he has a problem with our age difference. He says he doesn't. So am I the one with the problem? Sometimes I feel like our relationship is only sexual and I feel ...

He's got a GF and resisting my offers to meet up. Is he just messing with me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

18 November 2008 (F) - What is up? Ok - I'm a good looking older woman with a good figure and personality! - I have recently got involved with a younger guy who I would do ANYTHING for and he knows I really like him (but unfortunately he has a girlfriend who he says ...

She accepted me back after I doubted my commitment, how do I make the best of it this time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5629 days ago

18 November 2008 (M) - Hi everybody, My girlfriend and I fell out over a week ago because I was stupid enough to doubt our relationship and my commitment etc, we have spoken though and have decided to go back out and give it another go because we still love eac...

I always go for guys that are 5 to 10 years older than me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

15 November 2008 (F) - I'm a teenager, and it seems like the only males i'm attracted to, is one that are either 5-10 years older than me, or men that are married. Of course i wont risk acting on my feelings, but i can't seem to be attracted to guys my age. They are so ...

My Mom says he looks at me. Does this mean he likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

15 November 2008 (?) - okay. my problem is that i really like this one guy named Brian, who is eighteen. well, the thing is that i myself am only fifteen. my mom says whenever we are at the store, me and her will be in the video department and she will be looking for a ...

Do you think I still have a chance with him? Or have I messed up big time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

15 November 2008 (M) - dear, whoever wishes to help me im a 18 year old guy and i have been speaking to a 22 year old guy for 3 weeks now, we get on really well. we arranged to meet up yesterday and we did, he was really great a bit shy but great. we watched tel...

Should I express myself to my teacher, I want to know if he likes me, as I think he does?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4901 days ago

15 November 2008 (F) - I'm 16, and i have a crush on my teacher. But it feels like so much more than that. It started last april, when we went on a school trip. We were all in one area in the hotel, and he was sitting down. I was standing not too far from him and i just ...

Why are some age differences okay in dating, but not others?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5634 days ago

14 November 2008 (M) - Why is it ok for a 50 yo man to date a 30 yo woman, being 20 years apart? but yet a 21 yo man can not date a 16 yo girl, when that is only five years. Or even a 18 yo man and 16 yo girl. If they got caught the guy would go to jail...Why is that?...

Should I proceed with this relationship, or is the age difference going to mess us up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

13 November 2008 (F) - So, I'm 15, turning 16 in like, two and a half months or something. I like this guy who's 21. He's really sweet, smart, funny and terribly caring My parents won't let me see him, but I've been telling them I'm with someone else. My question is, ...

My much older girlfriend is pregnant and moving away. should I marry her?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5515 days ago

13 November 2008 (M) - My brain says its wrong but my heart says its right: I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 43. I have only had one girlfriend before her and this relationship is way better. We have been going out 15 months. The last month she was offered a new job ...

What is with men and older women?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5618 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - Guys:- Are men really attracted to older woman? (For example women in their 30s or 40s?) Why do some men date older women - is it because they get bored with younger girls or does age really not matter? Also what age gap between younger men and...

Should I let the age gap affect my decision?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5635 days ago

12 November 2008 (M) - I am 52 years old and the girl I love is 30. We have been seeing each other on and off for 4 years. The time has come where she wants to get married and have a family, this both excites me and scares, is this a natural feeling given the ...

I want my dad out of my life because of the way he treated me and my partner!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

12 November 2008 (F) - i keep worrying about the future. when my father first found out about me and my partners big age gap he was furious with me and told me i was never to see him again. i wasn't happy with this at all as my father has hardly ever been in my life so i ...

Are there any laws that state about age gap dating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

12 November 2008 (M) - Are there any laws that state about age gap dating? person A is 16 person B is 37 can you help?...

He's my teacher and I've fallen pregnant to him!!!!! HELP!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Ok.. here's the thing.. I've been seeing this guy for all of nine and half months now and only recently we both decided we would consumate our relationship. It was my first time and I'm glad it was with him. It was very special and so is he. He...

I can't stop thinking of this older man.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - Hi there I am 19 years old and I am in love with a man that is 40 years older than me, he is married and has children. I don't know what to do, I have a boyfriend that I also love, I want to be with them both, but I know I can't. I can't stop ...

I'm scared to tell my friends about my "older" boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5624 days ago

11 November 2008 (F) - I'm 17 and I'm dating a man 20 years older than me. Although when I first met this man he thought I was 18. I don't think that it's immoral as I am mature for my age and it is never an issue between us, I enjoy our mature conversations and he makes ...

How do I let my girlfriend know I appreciate her gifts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

10 November 2008 (M) - I have an amazing girlfriend who looks attractive and can hold interesting conversations. And she loves to spoil me! I'm 19 and she is a self titled "older broad." (I'm guessing 42-44 but I've never asked her.) I don't know if she's feeling se...

Get together with this older woman and risk breaking my ex girlfriend's heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

10 November 2008 (M) - I went away in May with my girlfriend and her Dad. I'm 18 and so is my girlfriend. Her Dad invited a 42 year old friend and her son and she brought along a 31 year old friend and her two kids. The friend with two kids is very attractive and talked ...

She is 19 and I am 57. I think she wants to go out with me. Is this wrong ?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5636 days ago

9 November 2008 (M) - Hi Dear Cupid; I'am a sigle man with no attachments. About 2 months ago a young lady at the job would say hi every morning in a very appealing sexy kind Away, well in the begining I didn't put to much mind to it, she continue with her sexy hello and ...

How do I convince my older girlfriend that age does not matter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

8 November 2008 (M) - I am a 19 year old guy who has been dating a 27 year old girl for 8 months. She has recently been concerned about the age difference because she believes we are in different parts of our lives even though we have talked about or future and agree on ...

Can a person 20 or 30 years older fancy someone who is 16-20 years old?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - Hey guys, I have one question for you. Do you think it's possible that somebody who is much older than you (20 or 30 years) fancys a girl who is 16-20 years old? Especially if that somebody is in position of power (like for example boss, teacher,...

Should I stay and possibly make him lose custody or should I walk out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5641 days ago

7 November 2008 (F) - so its a long story and this may be a long question but here it goes.... i got married to a man who is 33 years old. im 17 mind you. and our marriage is great. we get along very well and are very in love so please dont comment on the age gap and ...

Do I go after girls my own age or girls the same age as I look?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

7 November 2008 (M) - I'm 24 years old but I look like I'm 15. Never had a serious relationship. My question is, who am I supposed to be targeting as a potential partner here? Girls my own age aren't interested because I look like a kid. Girls who are my age but ...

I am 18 and want to date a 23 year old girl that I work with

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5642 days ago

6 November 2008 (M) - Ive been working in virgin megastores for over a year now, started when I was 17 and am now 18. Ive also worked with a girl for that year as well...at first there was no attraction physically, but as ive gotten to know her ive become mad about her! ...

Have had a crush on my teacher for 7 years now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5634 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - dear readers, here is my problem when i am still in grade school. i have a crush on our contractual teacher when i am still in my grade 5 year. but when i first saw him, i felt nothing. my feeling was just like my friends. i was a journal...

Should I keep "pretending" to be her friend so she gets back with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5642 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - ok so i am 19 yrs old and was seeing a 26 yr old. she recently broke things off because of the age, i have been horrible ever since! she totally broke my heart! when we first started dating it was great we got along all the time! she even once told ...

I have feelings for an older guy...he's 46...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5638 days ago

6 November 2008 (F) - Well i have feelings for this older guy he's 46 and i am 21. But him and my boyfriend are friends and live together. I have no idea what to do i find the older man very interesting. I enjoy talking to him i always smile when he's around. We've ...

I'm in a secret relationship with this guy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5609 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - hi, my name is Isabella. I'm between 16 and 19 and the guy I have a secret relationship with is between 20 and 23. So, we were good friends for a couple of years, having long conversations and enjoying each other's company. Then, we started ...

Should I quickly reveal that I lied about my appearance and let him see the real me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

4 November 2008 (F) - I've recently met a guy over the internet, who I've developed feelings for and he's also developed them for me. We've only known each other for about a month, but we are having a long distance relationship. The problem is, I was worried about sexual ...