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Archived questions from: June, 2011 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Crushing on a guy 4 years younger than my father! WHY?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4677 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Ok,This is really complecated,I'm having a crush on a guy who's like 20 years older than me.I don't know why? I had like 100 crushes and all were of My age.But this is new. I never had a relationship and My father and mother got devorced and he left ...

Emotionally abusive, untrusting, 10 year older boyfriend wants kids with me NOW, or else he's gone.

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4680 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - Hello everyone. Some background info for my question: I'm 22, my boyfriend is 32. We've been living together about 2 years. We have had some problems in the past due to his emotional unstability. He has been jealous and paranoid, he has been emo...

Is it possible that he likes me but is bothered by the age gap?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4683 days ago

30 June 2011 (F) - I have an attractive, single friend (we worked together last summer and have kept in touch) who I get on with like a house on fire. I'm pretty smitten and I get the vibe that he's attracted to me too. Only problem is I'm 23 and he's 38, and we're ...

I'm 14, he's 21. Can we take this relationship any further?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4682 days ago

29 June 2011 (F) - so i met this guy on the spot (a dating site on the ipod touch) and we've been talking,video chatting, and texting for 2 months now. well, 2 weeks after we started talking, he told me that he was 21 and in the airforce. the problem is, im 14. he ...

Please helppp! should I try to save my relationship or ended?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4684 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now. He is 36 years old and I'm 20. At the Beginning of our relationship everything was perfect, we used to go out to dinner, watch movies, go for walks at the park. We had our issues along in the ...

What should I do? My boyfriend's sister is always bitchy towards me no matter how I try to make it work with her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4686 days ago

28 June 2011 (F) - I am sick and tired of my boyfriends sister! She's a complete bitch! She is the youngest one and it just drives me crazy that we argue about her because she is constantly complaining about me and I dont know what to do anymore!? She never talks to ...

In love with someone 30 years older.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4685 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - For just over 2 years now I have had feelings for a woman about 30 years older than me. At no time over these two years have i at all understood these feelings, she is like a best friend and a second mother to me. I dont want to feel anything other ...

My boyfriend never says he loves me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

26 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and have been living together for year and he has never told me that he loves me. He never shares that much stories and sometimes tells me as a joke to go out with a guy who is ur age coz he is 26 years older then me. For me I don't ...

How do I address his unjust accusation that I was cheating. I was not.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

24 June 2011 (F) - hi everybody. my problem is i met a man in march he lives 2 mins away from me he asked me out i said yes he came round mine after a couple of weeks we had sex we carried on like this for 7 weeks i went out for a night out with my friends first time ...

Should I just risk it and kiss him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - There's this guy that over the past 2 weeks that I've become really close too and I really like him and I think he likes me. We've gotten to know each other really well and I think that we are really compatible, but the problem is he's just turned ...

Is he a bit too old?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - hi guys :) Im 14 and I really like this guy, and I have a feeling he may like me as my friend tells me he looks at me and when i look at him he smiles :) He talks to me alot when he is around etc. The problem is that he is 17/18 years old. Is th...

Why am I into older men?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - Why am I into older men.? I'm 16 and ever since I was a little girl, I never really liked the people my age. I would always have crushes on older men. I even had a crush on Jackie Chan... yeah.. Right now I'm dating a man 5 years older than me and ...

After breaking up with me, my ex responded to an ad for a cougar party, which has fat, ugly women!! How do I get past this and come out on the other end? Do I email him or call him to see if he is ok, as I feel he has gone off the rails!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

23 June 2011 (F) - I am hurt. Very hurt. After breaking up with someone 2 months ago after 3 years and 3 months of an on/off relationship (with no one else for either of us in the off time - the off's did not last long with him wanting to make things right each time) ...

I feel awful for dating and being dumped by such an young guy!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

22 June 2011 (F) - I am with a guy 8 years younger to me for the past few months. Initially everything went well, but lately he started hanging out with his friends more and his freinds are not happy about us cause of the age diff. For the past two days he didnt call ...

Am I delusional and overreacting, or is my boyfriend treating me badly? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

22 June 2011 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. We have an 8 year age gap and sometimes I feel like that makes me behave childishly. We met at work and clicked straight away. We have so much in common. We started dating and I had family problems...

Is dating a younger guy difficult? Would this explain why he broke up with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

22 June 2011 (F) - Hi I am dating a guy 6 years younger to me for the past 2 months. At first i was reluctant and he was the one keep on insisting and then we went for a date and it went well and we started seeing each other. Suddenly 2 days back he starte...

My best friend told me I should avoid him because of the age difference, but my other friend said I should go after him if I want him. What do I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4691 days ago

21 June 2011 (F) - I've been doing work experience for a month and today was my last day. The 18 year old guy (he just turned 18 a week ago) is my boss/ supervisor (he's not head boss, just of our section). I do really like him in both ways, and I knew him a little ...

Almost ended up having sex with an 18 year old guy. Some of my friends tell me that I shouldn't go near him or talk to him again while others say I need to talk to him. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4692 days ago

20 June 2011 (F) - Last night I went to a party and there were quite a few people I knew there, and yes this was your typical teenage party with drink but I and the person in question weren't drinking. My friends brother was at the party (he just turned 18 a week ago ...

My partner broke up with me after his mum passed away, and because of his daughter's unreasonable demands. Will he come back to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4693 days ago

20 June 2011 (F) - my partner finished with me (well said he needed space three weeks ago to apparently find his identity- there is a big age gap but that's not the issue). I couldn't accept that so he changed his locks and email passwords etc. I went round 8 days a...

Why am I only attracted to much older men?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4351 days ago

19 June 2011 (F) - Okay, so heres the thing, I'm young (19), and basically I'm pretty much only attracted to men who are, on average, about thirty years older than myself (pretty much between the ages of 45-60). I've only ever been with guys my own age though.....

I hate feeling clingy and needy and I am struggling with confidence issues

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

18 June 2011 (M) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for 4.5 months. To begin with, he's 19, and I'm 28, but the age difference has never really been something that got in the way. For the first 3-4 months, things were amazing and we were texting 20-40 times a day, see...

If he doesn't want me after so many years, why doesn't he just let me go?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

18 June 2011 (F) - I am 46,divorced with grown up kids. I have been single for 6 years and I live on my own. 4 years ago I met a man online who was 6 years younger than me. We talked almost every night and he told me he was leaving his wife. The years rolled by,...

Could this man 33 years older than me be interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

17 June 2011 (F) - Do you think i should give this man a chance, if he wants to go out with me , despite the age difference ?. I am 27, and he is 60. He is a very kind person. I was seeing another man recently, and he didn't treat me very well sometimes. This man, who ...

Can I have a lasting relationship with this girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4695 days ago

15 June 2011 (M) - Is it possible to have a lasting relationship with a lady who is one year younger than you. My situation is, I met this girl about 5-6 months ago we get along well and have healthy relationship upto now. I made it clear that I really love her and I ...

How can I get my younger boyfriends mum to trust me?How can I get my younger boyfriends mum to trust me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4698 days ago

15 June 2011 (F) - I am 25 and have been seeing my 19 year old boyfriend for nearly 6 months, we kept it quiet for a while just to get to know each other but about a month ago we I met his parents. His dad was lovely and welcoming but his mum acted strange towards me ...

My girlfriend's daughter despises the fact that I moved in without consultation by her mother!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4699 days ago

14 June 2011 (M) - I am 34 years old and my girlfriend is 48. She has 15 year old daughter that despises the fact that I moved in before my girlfriend consulted her daughter. Any advice to lighten the load?...

Is there really an issue with age difference if I am over 18?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

13 June 2011 (?) - is it wrong for me to like older men i am 18 and i am wondering what people think the right age of older men i being 18 should go for 18-20 21-23 24-26 27-29 30+ which do you think would be the oldest older man suitable if you where concerned...

Keeping up appearances with my older fella.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - I'd really like some advice about my fella - firstly, he is older than me; I am 23 and he is almost 30. This to me is not a problem until we do things like have 'dinner parties' or meet with his brothers etc - and whilst they can talk about all ...

I doubt whether he really loves me because of our age difference.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - i dated a 50 year old man with a different religion, i am chrsitian and he is muslim..i will be 22 this july..he said that he loves me but i am doubtful about it because of the age difference and of the culture differences,,but i feel being special ...

He prefers computer games over me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4676 days ago

13 June 2011 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend (whom I live with) for about a year and a half now. He is seven years my senior. We used to have sex on a regular basis; at least once a day, sometimes more. We also did a lot of couple-y things like going for w...

I am interested in him as more than a friend. How do I let him know and should I?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

12 June 2011 (F) - Lately I've become quite close to a guy who is almost 11 years older than me (I'm 19, he's 30). We started out as acquaintances but after knowing him for almost 5 years we're now very good friends. We have long conversations about anything at all ...

Why is he being unreliable? He's 40. Why can't he be honest?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

11 June 2011 (F) - Okay so I met a guy quite a few months ago he chased me for a long time but I had other stuff going on and wasn't ready to date anybody so although I talked to him I made it clear what my situation was yet he persisted. Finally in February of t...

Is this relationship just too full of problems? Or should I continue trying?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4702 days ago

11 June 2011 (M) - Ive been seeing a girl for about 6 months who is some way younger than me. I am 30 and she is 19. We met through mutual friends of which there is a broad age range. I was cautious at first about anything happening as i was concerned about the age ...

What do you think of teachers dating former students?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4690 days ago

11 June 2011 (M) - Alright, here's my situation... I'm a 30 year old male teacher, and I've fallen completely in love with a 17 year old female student. She has no idea how I feel as I have never, and would never, under any circumstance, act on it while she is sti...

Is this age gap we have really that much out of line?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4685 days ago

10 June 2011 (F) - Im a 40 year old divorced mother of 2. Recently I have begun dating a very nice guy who just turned 32. We seem to have a real connection to each other and have alot of fun, our sex life is great. The only problem is alot of my friends seem to ...

Can a 20 year age difference really make him feel that insecure?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

9 June 2011 (F) - I have had a friend for over 8 years now. There has always been an attraction between us we have never acted on it. We never really discussed age etc it was never an issue. I knew he was older than me (he is a young looking active attractive man)but ...

He breaks up with me every summer, and this year is no different! How do I get him back?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

9 June 2011 (F) - my partner have been together 3 years on and off. we seem to have a routine of us getting together September/ October time and him finishing with me in June (this is now the third summmer- he always finishes it). at first we fall in love all over ...

Relationships with ex-teachers - how does society view them?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4694 days ago

9 June 2011 (F) - Do you know of anyone who got together with their ex teachers? If so, do you know how they deal with pressure from society in general? Like with the ex student's friends, the ex teacher's students and friends etc. How do people view the coupling in ...

I just found out he married me so he'd have a caregiver in his old age

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

9 June 2011 (F) - I just need some advice. I am married to my husband who is almost 28 years older than me. Dont think other things, i do love my husband very much. We dont have child, but i do 2 from the first relationship and he got one from his first marriage. We ...

How can I make this playboy fall for me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

8 June 2011 (F) - How to make playboy fall in love with you? I love my friend. I am 16 he is 23.He is a playboy, he sleep with any girl. He told me that. But I still love him. He said that he can just keep a sexual relation with me. He cares for me.He is not forcing ...

So Many Messed Up Things About this Relationship. Please can I have some ideas on how to get over this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

8 June 2011 (M) - Hello all, I just broke up with my 17 yr old girlfriend. thats right, 17. I know most of you probably think im a scumbag but please hear me out. I dropped out of college in my junior year and moved to the east coast from way out west, and lets jus...

He's 15 years older, went through this age gap thing before, what should I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4704 days ago

8 June 2011 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles ofcourse :) For 4 years I was with a man 17 years older than me, from the age of 16 until I was 20. I decided to end the relationship because it had ran it's course and i knew it would never be more than what it was.. I guess...

We're in a finite relationship due to our age gap, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

6 June 2011 (F) - hi, i'm 18 and live in the uk. I have been in a relationship with a man who is now 50 for two years. My question is regarding what to do because we're in a finite relationship due to our age differences yet i have really fallen for him and he has ...

Please give me some advice, help me understand why he broke it off!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4700 days ago

6 June 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a lebanese guy for over 2 yrs. we met on a dating site for age gap relationships. hes now 25 and im 43. after only a few weeks we knew it was going somewhere and we have been inseparable. hes christian lebanese and ...

I'm in love with a much younger woman......

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

6 June 2011 (M) - Let me start by saying that I'm not a native English speaker, so, I'm really sorry if you find some spelling/grammar mistakes. I hope you can at least understand me. I'm 30 and I'm in love with a 19 years old girl. She studies medicine and she is a...

If he was not interested...then why would he keep contacting me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4689 days ago

6 June 2011 (F) - 8 months ago I started chatting to a man on the internet. I am 23 he is 35. We have become good friends during that time and did admit our attraction to each other. At fisrt he would contact me almost every day, and then it slowly died down to a...

Should I explain the contents of my letter to my English teacher, or wait it out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

5 June 2011 (F) - Ok so I've really taken to my old English teacher. She's nice but nobody really understands that she cares. I'm a girl, but I really connect with her :D I went through a lot this year to say the least. My mom was really badly hurt and didn't act the ...

Much older boyfriend's family doesn't approve of me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

4 June 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is 20 years older than me. He is 45 and I am 25. His family has excluded me from family events. My boyfriend got upset because recently his family had a reunion but didn't invite me. Now.. he realized on his own that his family does not ...

I am 17, in love with a 47 year old married man, my parents don't like him, what should I do here??

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

3 June 2011 (F) - I am in love with a married man. He loves me back but we have never been physical and he has not cheated on his wife except for being in love with me. He has wanted a divorce with his wife for a long time, even before he met me and before we were ...

Trouble with my boyfriend and thinking about breaking up......

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

3 June 2011 (F) - Dearcupid, I am at the most confusing stage. I love my boyfriend a lot. We met online. He is 26 and I'm 16. I have asked this question before,please check. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-torn-between-my-ex-and-my-friend.html He disappeared...