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Archived questions from: November, 2012 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

Truly? Is this relationship going to work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3849 days ago

30 November 2012 (F) - I've recently started dating this guy who is 2 years younger than me. I'm 17, and he's 15. Now, I don't normally go for younger guys. In fact, for the past 4 years I have been in love with a man who is 9 years older than me. My current boyfrien...

Adult girl and 16-year-old guy.... Could it work? Is it going to get us in trouble?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4166 days ago

29 November 2012 (F) - Hello everyone. Thank you in advance for taking time out of your busy lifes to help with all of our problems and for reading my problem too. Well the main problem is that i am in love with a great guy (all these months he has helped me through ...

I'm 22, he's 53. How will it look?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4162 days ago

28 November 2012 (F) - i joined dating site to think i can find a real man.. cauce i wanna settle down.. i met a man who is older than me he is 53 we will be meeting soon 2013.. i just dont know how it will look like if i am with an old man. were open minded in all ...

Why did my teacher only invite me and none of the other students to his birthday party? He's 24 Does he love me?.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - I've have been in the big trouble! I have fallen in love with my teacher, and I wonder if he loves me too. The way he looks at me and he also looks at me a lot! My friends already thought I'm crazy. They said it's impossible to love the teacher ...

Is our relationship doomed? He, (45) verbally abused me (19) when I queried his actions.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

26 November 2012 (M) - I found out my partner has been lying to me. It's been going on for months until last week when I asked him why he has been lying to me (iv'e been honest, not cheated nor played around) Instead of him explaining he just verbally abused me a...

Is this just a sweet gesture or is he romantically interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - I've known this guy for over 2 years now, we're very good friends. I did fall for him sometime ago (and I did tell him, we just had a very down to earth conversation about it), but we can't be together for whatever reason, anyway my feelings...

Does this relationship have any kind of future?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

26 November 2012 (F) - I have been dating an older man exclusively for a little over 3 months now. We have been going slowly on the emotional aspect, which I understand b/c we were both still healing from previous relationships. But there are a few things that have...

The much younger man denied flirting with me but I cant seem to get over him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4159 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - I am 45 years of age divorced, I met this most wonderful young man but he is 22 years of age although he looks like about 30 he is very mature and intelligent much more than some men my age ,he started flirting with me at work which was very ...

Will my family and friends accept my potential lesbian partner with whom I have an age difference of 31 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4171 days ago

24 November 2012 (F) - Ok first to start off, I am 22, a senior in college and I am single. I have been single for awhile but even when I was with other females they didn't spark any interest in me besides sex. Recently a friend of mine told me to make a profile on Plenty ...

Is there something wrong with this man wanting to date me? I'm 25 years younger than him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4171 days ago

21 November 2012 (F) - i met this guy at work he is 25 years older than me. but we have so much in common, and i find him very intersting and i want to know more about him. i love him. we have been seeing each other for about 10 months now. he has told me he loves me to, ...

How do I let an older male co-worker know I am interested without stepping over the lines?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4174 days ago

21 November 2012 (F) - #1 What are the signs that an older male co-worker may be interested? I think he is but not for certain. ( i work in a factory not an office so it's not like i can tell because he's constantly dropping into my office) #2 as a 23 year old female, ...

Am I overreacting? How can I deal with this issue? He regards his family as a higher priority over our relationship.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4174 days ago

21 November 2012 (F) - I am in my late twenties and my boyfriend is in his mid thirties. We have been together for 4 years and discussed getting married. One of the issues I have, however, is his relationship with his family. Every Tuesday, he has dinner at his paren...

Whats on this older mans mind?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4175 days ago

19 November 2012 (F) - so quick summary : i'm 19 and go gym very often this guy lets call him 'S' is 30, yeah its abit of an age difference. ('S'works at the gym) we make alot of eyecontact and smile and flirt etc ...hes never too foward with the flirting, we have ...

In a complicated physical relationship with my Professor. I love him but he doesn't love me. Any solutions or advise?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4177 days ago

18 November 2012 (F) - I am 20 years old and recently I got a physical relationship with my professor who is about 16 years older than me. I can't prevent myself when he comes closer or touches or kisses me. He is very serious about study and concerned about the careers ...

I'm attracted to an older man I work with!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4176 days ago

17 November 2012 (F) - im a 23 year old female and now i look back , i realize i have always been attracted to an older man . i am currently attracted to an older man i work with whom i don't know very well yet. ( I'd say he's late thirties ) i have no idea if he's ...

Could a man who is 10 years older than me, fall in love with me? Or is this a major teen crush?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

17 November 2012 (F) - All right. So I am seventeen, and my supervisor where I volunteer is probably around 27. I don't know for certain but he's between 25 and 30. Before you go berserk, yes, I know there are many reasons a relationship between us would be inapprop...

I'm sixteen, she's thirteen. Is this too much age difference?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4178 days ago

16 November 2012 (M) - Hey I'm 16 years old. I just came back from hoilday with my mate and his family. Throughout the hoilday I started to get more attracted to his sister. Problem is she is 13 and I'm 16. Her personality is what I like in a girl everything she like I do ...

How does a much older man approach a young woman who hates men?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4168 days ago

15 November 2012 (M) - I too have a propensity for endearment for a woman 21 years younger than me. I have watched her evolve from a 23 year old girl to a 31 year woman and have gone from a crush to something else much stonger. Only problem is that she hates men due to...

How can I seduce the man at work?is he even interested in me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

14 November 2012 (F) - I am recently new in my team and this man has just caught my eye. he is atleast 20 years older i'm 22. He is single!! not no home wrecker. But we get along like house on fire. So far its just the glances, smiling, cheaky comments. Today h...

Teenager finds 50 year olds attractive?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4124 days ago

14 November 2012 (F) - I'm 16 and I find men in their 50's attractive. Is this normal?...

I left my wife for a woman half my age. Now I hear crap like she will leave me one day, how do I stop it and what do I do if she does leave?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

13 November 2012 (M) - let me start out by saying that i usually dont need advice but im truly upset. i am 49 cheated on my wife with a girl half my age, left my wife for her, got a divorce, got engaged, and now im going to be a father for the first time, to my own child. ...

I have to break up with him but I don't know how to!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

12 November 2012 (F) - Well, how to begin... I am 26. year old woman who is in love with man 25 years older than me. So we met in very strange way and we loved each other from the first moment we shook hands. He is from another country and we have seen each other not ...

My 54 year old boyfriend ejaculates prematurely

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4184 days ago

11 November 2012 (F) - I've met a lovely gentleman. He is 54 and we have been seeing each other for a few months. We are both ready to take the relationship to the next step but when we get down to it he seems to ejaculate within seconds of me touching him. We have tried ...

Is it illegal in California for an 18 year old to romantically kiss a 16 year old?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4184 days ago

11 November 2012 (F) - I'm over 18 years old and live in California. I'm dating a guy who's 16 years old and we've been dating for almost a year. I was wondering if kissing him in an obvious sexual way (meaning not like a mother would kiss a child, but more like lovers ...

Have you any old scars to heal from bad relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4184 days ago

10 November 2012 (F) - I was wondering, has anyone ever being in a relationship like this? I wonder because I was in a 2 year relationship, this was my first long term relationship, I was with an older men, I was 19 he was 35 and for the lack of understanding I didn’t k...

Crush on a guy at work who is wayy older

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4181 days ago

10 November 2012 (F) - Hey all. Its simple really but I don't know what way to go forward. Just started work and there is a man.. Now when i say man i mean a real man. That is what is so sexy but i am 22 he must be atleast 40. Single has children my age. And im work...

69 year old with a 23 year old, is this wrong?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4156 days ago

9 November 2012 (M) - I am 69. I love a girl who is just 23. I am madly in love with her and have a full grown sexual and complete relationship with her. Is it wrong or ok?...

Does he like me as a colleague, or something more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4185 days ago

7 November 2012 (F) - I wish to see other opinions on this who dont know us. I used to work with an older male. He is shy and difficult to read. When I left he hugged me (never really shows emotion). I now hav a new job but still need to speak with him. He calls me ...

Would like to hear from people in age gap relationships.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4189 days ago

6 November 2012 (F) - Would like some input, especially from those who are in large age gap relationships, whether as the older or the younger partner. I care very much for a widower who is 19 years older than I am (he's 56, I'm 37). In terms of interests, livin...

We're 9 years apart in age. Is that too much?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4191 days ago

3 November 2012 (F) - Hi, Hi recently met a guy a chatting app. Because the app tells you how near the person you're chatting to are, I know that the guy doesn't live too far away from me. The guy is 27 and I'm currently 18 going on 19 in March. I wasn't original...

My b/f left his wife to be with me, I'm pregnant and worried that he's not in for the long haul!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4171 days ago

3 November 2012 (F) - hey all im just a little worried here. my boyfriend who is 48 and i got together about a year ago. we were working together and i just fell head over heels in love with him i met him in august and we moved in together after his wife threw him out ...

My much older ex says that our past is left best at memories and not to try again. I disagree!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4193 days ago

3 November 2012 (F) - I am 22. Broken up with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. Our relationship was 4 and a half years long. Anyway, long story short, some communication between us recently led to him sending an email that basically states problems with ou...

Is there potential for a relationship between this 27 year old Veteran and me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4192 days ago

2 November 2012 (F) - Do you think a 27 year old guy would ever take a 19 year old seriously? He works, goes to school, has his own place and is a veteran. On the other hand I am still in school and I have a child (9 months) I really don't have much to offer a gro...

Do you think I should ask this guy out? He's older to me and a co-worker

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4192 days ago

2 November 2012 (F) - Hi so I was just wondering what I should do. I am 20 and I am head over heels for a guy that I have known for about 8 months. We met when I started working for the same company as him- he is a coworker not my boss- and I have developed feelings for ...

We broke up and I didn't say what I wanted to say. Should I go tell her now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4182 days ago

1 November 2012 (M) - Me and my gf split up this January after 5 years together. Her reason was; it wasnt working out. Well that was not surprising as she kept me a secret all that time from her family and friends because i am 17 years older than her. Id had enough of ...