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Archived questions from: February, 2008 (see latest in Age differences category)

Age differences: Help and advice

How should my friend handle her teacher's remarks, perhaps improper?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 126 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - my bestmate has been feeling really uncomfortable in one of her lessons lately. the teacher said she was really pretty and if he were the same age he would have probably asked her out. just yesterday he said that he had a girlfriend when ...

Do younger women really ever go for older guys say 15 to 20 years older?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 45 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - Do younger women really ever go for older guys say 15 to 20 years older? I am interested in some real life occurances that worked out. Thanks for inputs....

Should I tell my college professor I love him??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I'm in love with my college professor, I'm 28 and he has to be like close to 50. I don't know what to do, and sometimes I think he likes me too. Should I tell him?...

The age differecen would be huge...but would it be right??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - The problem is that I am 28 years old, a mature student at University, and the female students are younger than me, aged 19-23. Am I too old to date a younger female student aged 20-23? Is it morally wrong? The age gap (say I found a girlfriend aged ...

As long as she wasnt married yet, she was free game. Right?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 128 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - I was at my brothers house and met his wife's neice. She is 10 years younger than I am and was engaged to be married in 3 months. She has a daughter with her fiancee and they live together and have been together for about 7 years. The thing is, I ...

How do I get through to my older lover?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 129 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I am dating an older man. HI am 30 he is 43 he has not had a relationship for 12 years and is frightened of getting hurt. I have now told him i love him and his response was well love is not a word to use lightly and he doesn't beleive me...i would ...

How to show my teacher that I'm available without settling our friendly relationship? How to tell if he has (supressed, due to regulations) sexual feelings towards me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I'm 17 (skipped 2 years of school, now a freshman in college), my teacher is 32. We're intellectual equals and he thinks i'm very smart and funny, and in class he singles me out and playfully banters with me in front of the others.. basically,i get ...

He has a child and doesn't want anymore...but what if I want children??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - I am in an age gap relationship, I am 36 he is 56, we have been together for 7 years and we love each other to bits there is one sticking point that keeps cropping up in my head and this is the issue of children. He has an 8 year old child fr...

I thought he'd back off after rejecting my proposal but he continues to be flirty and teasing, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - So there's this guy i go to college with. He's 25, I'm 18. There's something about him that just makes me insane! He's really flirty towards me (even though he is not like that with other girls, at least when i'm around) and will tease me about r...

I LOVE my teacher too much she's female and so am I.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 32 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - hey everyone i love my teacher i go to a girls grammer school and this certain teacher is female and she is everything to me i hug her when she's upset, she does the same to me i love her so so so so much i really want some advice as i cant take i...

If he likes me then why wouldn't he go out with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - I like a guy and i think he likes me. He always says how pretty i am and he's very flirty on msn. We don't talk at school but at my army cadets we do. He stands up for me and is quite sweet though sometimes a bit insensitive. Only thing is when i ...

I am in relationship with an older girl and feel pressurised to have sex. I also need to increase my confidence, how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (M) - i am in a relationship with an older girl and i am a virgin but she isn't. i feel pressured but don't want to have sex out of embarrasment. because of lack of exsperience and how would i know if its big or small compared to others'?...

Could you give me advice on how to broach the subject to him without embarrassing him or making him feel worse?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - I started dating my 34-year old boyfriend (he's a friend of my brother's) when I was 15, and we've been seeing each other for about a year now. I've been really happy with him so far, and I feel like he's not only my boyfriend but a casual friend as ...

How do you know a married man is sincerely in love and not pursuing an affair?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 48 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - My question is how do you know if a married man has fallen for you and whether his love is honest and not just looking for an affair? with an age gap Good advice needed and alot of advice needed...

Is she interested? Just friendly? Should I give her a subtle hint?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

23 February 2008 (M) - Hi, Please be kind to help me..... (me 44, she 33) At my local evening class, a lady recently joined. (around 6 months ago.) In the past 2 months, she has become more friendly with me. She has given me good eye contact at close quarters, intere...

Dating a guy who is a father of a 1 month old. Should I break up with him?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - im in 13 and in high school and im dating this guy hes 18,but he has a 1 month old baby.people tell me to break up with him....i dont know what to do...

Does age really matter?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 47 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - I am 16 and for the last few months have been spending a lot of time with a neighbour and family friend. He's an amazing mentor and we read philosophy and poetry together. I've never been as close to anyone and he's my best friend. I know he feels ...

His age is holding him back on the sex front and it's frustrating me! Help!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 132 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - I've been with this man 18 years older than me. We get on well and sex with him is fantastic. It's amazing he can have sex with me 2 or 3 times a week. A year on he is not as good as he used to be in bed. I know it's his age. But I am always ...

Why is it impossible for me to pick up a guy my own age??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

22 February 2008 (M) - I'm 25 year old gay student I have black hair, grey eyes, a slammin body. If I look like this why do I keep getting picked up and hit on guys that are old enough to be my dad? I mean with all my assets and charms why is it impossible to attract a ...

I miss him but don't know if I should call...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

21 February 2008 (F) - Having a massive problem.. Im 18, but have always gone for older men. Been sleeping with a 29 year for a couple of weeks after chasing after him for 2 months, he'd take me out with his friends and we'd have a laugh together. I'm not naive enough to ...

Three times my age. Taboo or Not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

20 February 2008 (M) - I currently live with an woman who is three times my age, I am 19, she is 58. I rent a room from her while I go to a university nearby. I have lived there for a year and a half and we have been lovers since the summer of 2007. It's just too amazing. ...

How do I show him that he isn't "sick" for dating me, despite of our considerable age difference?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 135 days ago

20 February 2008 (F) - Alright, So I have been in and out of a relationship with this man who is 33 years older than me. I'm 21, 22 next month. I have a great time with him and he is one of my best friends. I'm very attracted to him and we have alot of things in common. ...

I really fancy my ex girlfriend's mother...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

20 February 2008 (M) - I am 18. My relationship with my girlfriend ended with her leaving me. She said that we could remain friends. This happened over a month ago. My ex-girlfriend and I have remained friends. She has a new boyfriend and she seems happy. I am happy for ...

We had an affair since I was 13, I want knew things now but am worried about losing this man

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - Hi there, I am a 21 year old woman and when i was 13 years old i started working at my local restaurant where i met my boss. Work was a much more stress free environment compared with home life and when my boss came onto my i just went with t...

My teacher is a lesbian, should I ask her how she feels about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - i love my science lessons because the teacher is stunning. am bi and have a stunning girlfriend but my science teacher gives me the same looks as my girlf does. she never shouts at me she jst says dont do that please. i know she is a lesbi...

He said we can advance by the time I reach 18 if I still like him. Why shouldn't we date now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

19 February 2008 (F) - I am 15 and i like someone who is 20. We both have feelings for each other but because of the age difference we have to wait until i am 18. he said that when i am 18 if i still have feelings for him than we should make the relationship serious. but ...

Am I obsessed with my university lecturer?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 56 days ago

18 February 2008 (F) - I'm worried that I may be obsessed with one of my lecturers at uni. He's incredibly interesting and despite the fact that he's extremely terrifying, he's so passionate and intelligent. I find myself looking him up in my free time and with desire to ...

How can I make this long distance romance work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 139 days ago

16 February 2008 (F) - I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 23. We have a long distance realationship and its been so hard on me! i really love him and i really need him in my life! He loves me too he tells me he loves me that he would never leave me and that he has already decided ...

Falling in love with a much younger woman...what to do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 136 days ago

16 February 2008 (M) - Hello all. I'm seeking advice on a very heart wrenching problem I'm trying to sort out. I'm a 36 year old man who works with a 23 year old woman. Both her and I are in exclusive dating relationships but not married. I think it's safe to say that ...

I feel like I have made a fool of myself...and there is an age gap too...what should I do??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

12 February 2008 (F) - Im 16 i have been talkin to this guy online; i added him on facebook. Anyway, his profile said 20 but i thought i'd add him anyway. Somehow theres been an error in my account and its been displaying me as 19. We got talking and really clicked....

Worried that I'm going to become obsessed by this new girl. Is this a mid-life crisis?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

12 February 2008 (M) - I'm 37 and I have just 'noticed' a much younger girl. During my life I have really fallen hard for two women. Once was when I was 18 - which was unrequited, and the second time was a couple of years ago when I was abroad for a week on business (this ...

What do people think of this age gap??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

12 February 2008 (M) - ... Hi. I am a forty (40) year old male and I am seeing a 52 year old woman for companionship. I am a partially sighted male and she has cp. "Cerabal Palsy".... We met for a meeting on Friday. What I would like to know is, what do you thin...

I don't want to be harressed because of the age difference. What do you think??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

10 February 2008 (M) - I've fallen in love with a girl who is 20 and i am 17 and she loves me too. I dont think there is anything wrong with this even tho she is older then me but other people do think there is somthing wrong with it somtimes. Do you thnik this is a goo...

Is he leading me on here?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

9 February 2008 (F) - Hello, I'm 15 years old and I've met this guy in my Italian class, I really love him, I've never felt this way for anyone. So when I finally decided to talk to him, to my surprise he talked to me first. The next day he talked to me again, something ...

I've fallen head over heels for a boy, but he doesn't know who I am. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

8 February 2008 (F) - i met this boy 2day and i have totally fallen head over heels for him he is gorgeous but hes in the year above and he hardly knows me.:'( i want 2 stop feelin like this. My heart is acheing :'(...

Is there a chance my teacher might like me as well?...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

8 February 2008 (F) - Hey my name's Lana and I am in love with my highschool teacher. Now please don't say it's infatuation, a stage, a crush or any of that. You can't really tell me what I feel i'm sorry but I've heard that to many times before and I just don't like it ...

Ok to date older women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 130 days ago

7 February 2008 (M) - Im 20 and i have a 2 year old but when she was born i started getting into older women (peoples moms) i've been dating and sleeping with them. Women in there thirties and fourties they're all hot and beautiful i dont know why i find older women ...

What is my friend doing wrong??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - My friend wants to know what she is doing wrong. She likes older boys (1-5 years older) and most of them like her too. The problem is they always let her down and she doesn't know what she is doing wrong. They say they don't have a problem with the ...

Only had one sex partner in my life, I can't get past the idea of having a second sex partner! I need advice from the more "experienced" please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 148 days ago

7 February 2008 (F) - Im 22 and he's 32, we been seeing each another for awhile We have known each and other for 2yrs or so we use to work togather but i quit my job back in may so him and i started seeing one and other after that cuz he was a manager in a diff ...

I'd like to ask her out but the age difference makes me hesitate. How should I handle this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

7 February 2008 (M) - I'm 35 yrs old and I am intersted in an 18 yr old. We've talked a few times and I enjoy talking with her. I'd like to ask her out but the age differnce is making me think about it. How should I handle this?...

What am I thinkin by liking my teacher's accidentally touching me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

6 February 2008 (F) - My teacher act really weird around me. We have had bad times in the past where we were once really close and then after been told we were too close she got told to back away from me. So we never talked after that as i was accused of stalkin :S when ...

Age difference question.....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

6 February 2008 (F) - ok am 20 and he is my teacher he is 42 so what do you think this will end up ...

I lied to her about my age, please help

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

6 February 2008 (M) - Hi guys, I'm 15 but I am very mature for my age, and I look the part. I have been talking to this girl, shes 17, but the problem is that I told her I was 18. She believes me, but it's come back to haunt me. I'm madly and utterly in love with this...

I feel unwanted and low because he tells me all the time what I should do to become a better person and reminds me of my bad points! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

6 February 2008 (F) - hi everyone, i am 20 years old girl in a relationship with a boy of 26. We love each other very much but the problem is here is that I am not a good thinker or a good communicator. My boyfriend expects me to talk to him but how to do that when he ...

I love him but I really miss sex. He refuses to discuss the sex issue with me and apologizes for not being more amorous. Any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 150 days ago

5 February 2008 (F) - I live with my boyfriend and have been in a committed realtionship with him for 7 years. I do not doubt at all that he loves me and would do anything for me...almost anything except have sex with me. He has every excuse known to man, and some are ...

I have fallen for my form tutor

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

5 February 2008 (F) - I am in a horrible mess. iv already fallen for one teacher and now im falling for my form tutor. hes like 41 ands im 15. BIG diffrence. he is married with 3 kids. The thing i dont get thou is, he flirts with me and like always seems to touch me...

Met him on the net and there is a 14 year age differance. Should I meet him in real life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

5 February 2008 (F) - Right i been talkin to this guy for a while now. We met over the internet n originally age wasnt mentioned i thought he was roughly in his 20's and he thought i was about 19. We both later found out eachothers real ages, he's 31 this year, im 17 ...

How do I handle an Old Man being after me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

5 February 2008 (F) - My Friend's Grandad Likes Me I Found Out Because He Text Me Telling Me . I Dont No What To Do ?? I've Avoided Him Ever Since He Stopped Me On The Road Too. Please Help Me ...

I am fighting feelings for her, what can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 142 days ago

5 February 2008 (F) - OK, so 1 of my best friends have really liked me for a long time now. When I'm around her, I sometimes get feelings for her too. When she told me thet she had a crush on me, I thought nothing of it, until last week when she said it had progressed in ...

I'm 17 & he's 43, is that legal?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

5 February 2008 (F) - im nearly 17 and he is 43 weve been together nearly a year at first i lied about my age but now he knows the truth he still loves me , but is what were doing legal?...