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I'm 20, my boyfriend is 42, and now the bedroom department is starting to slow

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Question - (23 August 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 August 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

hi, im in a relationship with a 42 year old man (im 20yrs) ive been with him for 4yrs now and for about 3 months now the bedroom department has been slow and over in a couple of minuets, what can i do to spice it up i dont want to loose him.

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A female reader, seacutiepie Australia +, writes (25 August 2007):

Hi there. I am 24 and my partner is 38. I find that mine can be a little down in bed. It is usually becaue he is tired, or upset about someting. I like to plan a day away. Mayby a drive, then lunch and a movie. They need to be spoilt sometimes, feel special. I do agree with the toys, they like to have a play, get something new. Maybe buy something sexy, set up a night. Do lots of foreplay. So you enjoy it for longer.

But one other thing you should think about, is the fact that when he retired, you still have to work for a further 22 years before you catch up. If you have children, he will be a lot older, mayby unable to keep up with them...

Hope it all works out for you...

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A male reader, UnknownEntity United Kingdom +, writes (24 August 2007):

UnknownEntity agony auntso when you were 16 he was 38...22 year gap...

i think thats a bit sickening but now that ur 20(above 18)

i not dont care about that... hes getting old n his todger is weary... try viagra or "toys" to get him more exited...

n lasting longer in the "bed department"

-UnknownEntity

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A male reader, DJ8433 United States +, writes (24 August 2007):

DJ8433 agony auntHas he been able to help you reach orgasm and satisfy you in the past?

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