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*evenstar
writes:I was a girl fallen in love with a married man.I was 20 that time and he was 43 when we had an affair.i love him so much i even sacrifice all for him but nothing i can do.He loves his family thats why now i broke up with him.For 3 years of relationship do you think he loved me? do you think it is right to broke up with him? Im missing him so much. what can i do?
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reader, saziz  +, writes (26 August 2007):
Hi there...I really do understand your dilemma and what it is like to miss a man, especially one who is so mature and probably very understanding and you felt secure and comfortable with him. It is very hard for you...I understand. But you must try to forget him now. Go out with other men and do things to keep yourself busy. Sometimes it takes a long time to get over all this, but you have to be strong. Remember, dear, he is a married man and he wants to be loyal to his family. Just be reassured that there is someone out there for you who will love you and will want to marry you. You just have to wait and let time heal everything. If he misses you (really really misses you) then he will come back to you but I doubt that he will want to leave his wife.
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reader, DJ8433  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 You will get over it. Very few people do not feel the hurt of a breakup, you are not alone. Time will heal this pain. To help speed it along, go out with other guys. Know this too, he told you everything you wanted to hear to keep you on a string. Maybe he really wants to be with you and escape his other life, but the reality is that he cheats. Do you want a man that cheated with you on his wife? There's no value or future in that man. You gave him an escape, and that's it. Enjoy the passion you had, because that was all you had. Now, find a man that can love you, who's not with another woman, and can give you the passion that you want. They are out there, but as the cliche says, you'll have to kiss a few frogs to find a prince.
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reader, daglish  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 The first mistake you made was letting your feelings crowd the fact that you were dating a family man. However there is always a way out of everything. It's a tough one to call but i think u just need to get hold of your heart, put your morals and brains first and say quits to this dangerous fairy tale before his wife finds out. He is married and not ready to leave his family for you. Honey can't you see that? Please give a chance to those boys of your generation to fall in love with you instead of sticking to a man old enough to be your dad.
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