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writes:Me and my girlfriend just broke up two days ago she was at her cousins house for a week I ckecked he email and seen a uhaul conformation I went home and asked y and she said she was tired of all the fighting so it was best to do it this way she says she needs space and that right now she wants to b by herself wen I txt her I love u all she says is ok I really love her what should I do
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reader, harrison101 +, writes (18 January 2011):
harrison101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe abuse went both ways she would get mad cuz I came home and wanted to sleep after work let I remind u I get home at midnight she wasn't working just gettn unemployment so she said da highlight of her day was me coming home I'm not an abusive person and she knws that I think maybe it was just da wrong time to move in together cuz before then it was a ok and she says thas da way she wants it to go back to should I txt her or would that b invading her space
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (18 January 2011):
 An abusive relationship? That's a deal breaker for me. If you two loved each other then there wouldn't be any abuse present in this relationship. I would just accept mistakes have been made, mistakes beyond repair and this unhealthy relationship is better off over. Be done with it.
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reader, harrison101 +, writes (18 January 2011):
harrison101 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell we had an abusive relationship which obviously isn't good and she dnt trust me saying that she tired we was together for two years so I knw she love me
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reader, sam44  +, writes (18 January 2011):
If she's already hired U-Haul its tough because it means she's made up her mind a while ago.. probable with the help of her cousin. Now just let her go completely,.. that way she might realize your absence isnt that funny, fighting her to stay might make things even worse. I am sorry.. your situation is devastating but be calm.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (18 January 2011):
What did she break up with you for?
Sounds like she's very serious if she's renting a U-Haul. I doubt there's anything you can do to make it better. I know it's sounds odd, but she says she wants space, so you're going to have to respect that. I'd give it about a week with no contact, no texts, nothing then text her with an apology for whatever you have done. Then see if the damage is repairable.
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