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I love her too much to let her go!

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Question - (20 May 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 20 May 2010)
A male India age 30-35, *avibose writes:

As suggested by a previous reader, i told the girl i have a crush on about my feelings for her. But she said that she does not feel the same about me. Now i am in a real dilemma. I love her too much to let her go. Please tell me what i can do to win her heart?

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A female reader, mylassie10 United States +, writes (20 May 2010):

mylassie10 agony auntI know exactly what you are going through. It's hard to have to let the person you have a huge crush on, go. But at least you told her how you felt and you don't have to wonder what if. Unfortunately you do have to respect her answer. But she knows how you feel and if you are meant to be, it could happen in the future. Don't worry, in time you will meet someone new and won't be thinking about this girl. But I know it's hard to let it go. Just try to occupy yourself, go out with friends, meet other girls, go on dates and have fun!

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (20 May 2010):

chigirl agony auntRespect her "no". Let her go. You can, just give it time and do not obsess about her. You will only end up scaring her away if you push this matter. If its meant to be it will happen in time.

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A male reader, dirtball United States +, writes (20 May 2010):

dirtball agony auntUnfortunately you have to let her go. There is the tiny glimmer of hope that you've planted a seed that may get her thinking about you in a different light, but like the others said, you're going to have to let her go.

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A female reader, raiders United States +, writes (20 May 2010):

raiders agony auntIf she told you she does not feel the same way, there is not much you can do. Sorry you find yourself in this situation but you have to think would you rather have her in your life as a friend or not have her at all.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (20 May 2010):

Sorry, but you have to let her go, no matter how much you love her. She has made it clear that she doesn't feel the same way. You can't win her over. You have to let her go.

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