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*arbar329
writes:Ok well this might take a while....Me and this kid first started talking when I got his number from my friend because she told me that he liked me. So it turned out he didn't at that point. So we just started talking and stuff. And he was obsessed and in love with my good friend. Than one day he aske me out and I said no because I liked someone else and he still wasn't completely over my friend. But we still kept on touch and talked still.After a while we both started liking each other again and he asked me back out. This time I said yes because i didlike him. We went out for like two days and than we broke upcuz I found he was still in love with my friend and he couldn't move on. I was pretty depressed. Once again we were still friends. Finally he askede out one more time. I thought I would give Himanother chance. We went out for a week this time. He brokeup with me cu he didn't feel comfortable hugging and stuff but it was all cool. Than like yesterday we were talking about a Washington DC tripwe went on for school. And than he told me he loved me and he wanted a relationship that would last and with someone he would feel comfortable with. And he thought it would be me but we just weren't close enough yet. And I understood and all. But than like two minutes later he said they we aren't closer and that me have to much of a texting relationship which I know we do but he doesn't think we could get close but he still likes me. I just don't know what to do about it. Should I ask him if we should be better friends in school and hand out more? Or what? Thanks for listening me moan!!! I need your advice!
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reader, Carbar329 +, writes (20 May 2010):
Carbar329 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionSorry I have to add a little on..after we broke up he was asking me to do more stuf with outside of school. And than I asked him a question the other day and he told me to move cuz he felt bad making me wait and he didn't want to put me through all this. I know he is beong nice bit it's just not that easy. But he invited me over both mine and his friend to
hang out tomorrow. And I suggested skating and he wa like we can hold hands. But now he wants to go over this girls house which fine but won't that be a little ackward? HELP ME!!!!
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