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writes:Mod note: OP's own titleI've been dating a girl for about five months now and about a month ago we decided to stop having sex until we are married, she couldn't handle lying to her parents about it and this made us both feel guilty so we've been going without sex.I'd just like to know if this can eventually cause me to lose my physical attraction towards her,and if so explain why if at all possible. Thanks!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Wiseguy555 +, writes (26 June 2010):
Wiseguy555 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShe never told me that she wasn't comfortable with sex in the beginning of the relationship, she lied by saying it was okay and she loved it...it turns out we were both doing it to keep the other person "satisfied" or "pleased" ya know? If she had told me from the beginning that she would rather wait then I wouldve had no problem accepting it. If she was the mature one then she wouldve stopped it from hapening in the first place.We are both 18 so its legal, as for her parents she doesn't fight, they have no clue about our past sex life. About her now...I love her because she's smarter than most girls.She has great values when it comes to relationships like faithfulness, honesty, and trust. She's pretty and funny, she isn't afraid to be herself around me. We're madly in love I just wish that we waited from the beginning. :/ its a confusing problem but its getting better each day.
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reader, Wiseguy555 +, writes (26 June 2010):
Wiseguy555 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionIts not that I can't find a reason to not date her, I never said that I've lost any feelings towards her. I merely wanted to know if it was a possibility I had consider. I love my girlfriend to death, and she was scared that I'd leave as soon as she asked that we stop having sex. But she knew deep down that I'd stay right where I am. She trusts me.
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reader, ManAfterChrist +, writes (26 June 2010):
 No absolutely not. I think you both made the right decision, and you will be able to grow closer to her through this and see her in a completely different light. Good luck to both of you.
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