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writes: hi, a quick question to any boys reading - if you have a boyfriend and you meet a guy and become good friends with him but don't tell him about your boyfriend for a long time, it pretty much means you like your friend a bit too much, yes? and if you then find out that he has a girlfriend that he's obviously been seeing for a while cos he's going to her house for christmas, do you think that really means your both into each other and he likes you a bit too much too, as you were both playing the same little game? hmm... what to do?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2007): ah, im not playing games like horrible games on purpose, iv just got myself in a bit of a muddle. iv been going out with my boyf for nearly 3 years and have known my friend for abouot one and a half. mostly things are great with the boyfriend and i really dont want to lose him or hurt him, but finding out my friend has had a girlfriend that he didnt tell me about and the fact that i dodnt tell him i was seeing someone has just made me think a bit harder about how i feel about him, and if im honest with myself, if i wasnt in a relationship i would want to be with him. believe me, i feel pretty awful about it, all confuddled :(
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reader, DocSilverback  +, writes (7 January 2007):
 Games. Ah yes. If you choose the route of games, that is what you will be playing with in your relationships to come. If you ever want a serious relationship, put away the checkers and break out the deck of cards....then lay them out on the table. See which one works the best. Good luck.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (7 January 2007):
 Well it's quite simple. At your age you're entitled to make choices and review them. It's expected. The most important lesson to learn is this, there will always be others you become attracted to. This is natural. What you need to decide is whether or not you always want to be chasing rainbows. There is something to be said about a solid, mature relationship with a person you know and trust, some history. If you always run to the newest person you meet you'll never get to the feeling of comfortable love.
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