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Am I actually 'coming' or...these odd feelings just leading up to one good orgasm? Help!

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Question - (7 January 2007) 3 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2007)
A female age 30-35, anonymous writes:

am i getting an orgasm or are these feelings just steps up to one?!

i dont think it could be a g-spot orgasm cause i dont go in "the hole"

but i mean it is like a build up,.... my muscles in my legs, arms, stomach, everywhere tenses up then i start to kinda writhe then almost a cold feeling runs up my legs and body then i get this feeling like i need to pee then WHAM! that feeling lets go i relax and everything is really sensitive and if i keep rubbing i will be writheing like crazy.

but then the sensitiveness mostly goes away. then if i keep rubbing that same build up and feeling comes again then dies again, but each time i do this it it gets more sensitive down there. i can do this many many times over and over again.

then eventiually my face will turn super duper flush, and will feel all hot, then like a river comes out of me! and my breathing is fairly heavy.

is this an orgasm or multiple ones? or are the parts just build up to one that has a river comming out of me?

im really confuzed about this pls help!

thanks!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2007):

okay, you can have an orgasm without penatration, for instance: if your rubbing your clit then it can happen that way too. There are lots of different ways of achieving an orgasm. But it sounds like you having an orgasm to me!.

so have fun and enjoy your body.

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A female reader, CarrieMagdelene United States +, writes (8 January 2007):

CarrieMagdelene agony auntHey, writer! Sounds like a series of climaxes leading up to either an orgasm or female ejaculation (which is associated with orgasm. A certain way to see if you have orgasmed is by placing a finger (pinky finger if you're a virgin and are afraid to stretch or break your hymen. Make sure the nail is short for extra comfort) into your vagina a little ways, and seeing if your muscles are contracting. This is nature's way of helping semen reach your cervix and helping your cervix take in the spermies. This usually comes with orgasm. :) Hope this helps! Also note that female ejaculation does not contain spermies like male ejaculation. This is merely a large or moderate gush of female lubricants excreted during the contractions. Ejoy life!

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A female reader, Lilly223 United States +, writes (8 January 2007):

Lilly223 agony auntWell I think your hung up a technicality.... what ever is happening, if it is as you described sure sounds like fun, and I wouldn't knock it. In my personal experience not all orgasms feel the same, some take you out of this world and you wish you'd never come back, others are just a warm lovely floaty feeling... etc. I'd stop stressing with the definition, relax and enjoy the pleasant feelings you can give yourself.

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