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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why even after masterbating do I still get hard during the night??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6418 days ago

12 October 2006 (M) - Sexual Question. Is it common that if a man masturbates and goes straight to bed that he'll get hard again during the night without wanting to, nor thinking of it? It's happened to me, i'm 22 where i've masturbated, then go to bed and during the night it's hard and i... (63 words)

We are both 15 - how do I quickly strike up a conversation with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6416 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - Hi I have a mate thats a boy and sometimes when i see him on the school field i wanna go up to him and talk to him. but i dont know what to say. all i can think of is - whats your next lesson? im 15 and so is he... how can i think up a conversation quickly when i see him??... (71 words)

My married man has not called me yet?? I'm so confused!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - well i started talking to a work man, he asked for my email i gave it him ,then couple days later asked for my phone number, then i didnt see him for 4 days wen i did he said ill be getting phone weekend ill phone u,but still nothing after,5 days he is also married with a son ... (81 words)

Do u think this is true love? Or am I just way too hooked on his beautiful face??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - Well Im 16 but i've never really been in a serious relationship unless you count the really weird ones as a kid where we randomly played kiss - chase haha!! anywy i met a guy 3 yrs ago and was completely infatuated by him and of course as we all do - i thought it was l... (192 words)

Do I tell my friend her bf has cheated on her, in the past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - My friendship with a friend is not good anymore and she broke up with her boyfriend a few months ago due to he couldn't commit. However I have found out that a good friend of hers knows he actually cheated. They are now getting back together but I have heard the good friend ... (80 words)

Any ideas what I can give my fiance as a reminder of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - Me and my fiance are in a long distance relationship. I find it very hard, I miss him like crazy and love him so much but the distance drives me mad. I have got a couple things that remind me of him, this gets me through. I do still miss him though but it does help. Somet... (182 words)

Our relationship is a roller coaster but can we still make this work??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

12 October 2006 (M) - here is the deal. my ex g/f and I have not been a couple for a good while now; however, we still keep in contact with each other. four months after going together an std popped up. i never cheated on her and i'm not saying she did, but i got blamed for it. after the fact, a ... (155 words)

The guy she liked before we got together is still in contact with her and there seems to be more going on...what do I do??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6418 days ago

12 October 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been dating for over a year and a half and we both love each other and things are going great. Before we started going out, there was this guy (X) who she really liked, but things didn't work out and soon after we started dating. They would talk ... (639 words)

I really like this guy but he flirts with other girls aswell as me!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6418 days ago

12 October 2006 (F)

- dear cupids, there is this lad i like he likes me i think we have kissed a lil bit but not fully snogged i posted sumthin a while ago bout him and the fact tht he flirts wiv other girls and wiv me but i reali like him and i dnt no how to tell him and if i do go out wiv him i ... (88 words)

I feel like I can't do anything right at the moment!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - I feel quite insecure recently i feel like i cant do anything right and i cant get what i want. For example ive failed my driving test 4 times and im due to go in for it again soon but i want it so badly and i wonder if thats why i keep failing maybe i try to hard. I know I can ... (94 words)

Heartbroken over my husband's use of pornography! I don't want to live like this forever! What can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6382 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - hello i am heartbroken with a spouse who i love dearly and don't want to leave! we have 2 kids. My realationship is tainted with his use of porno videos and using the internet, i have explained to him how i feel also telling him i don't want to live like this for the rest of my ... (71 words)

I have braces, spots and glasses! Is this why I can't find a bf? Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

12 October 2006 (F)

- Feeling abit upset recently about my looks. I was told i would get my braces off and guess what i still have them. I also have glasses and spots. I get really annoyed and think things like hey why not go the whole way and get fat too! I burst into tears today because i still ... (97 words)

How do i convince my bf to get a herpes test? When I bring up the subjest he goes all quiet...why??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - Hi--how do i convince my bf to get a herpes test?i brought up the subject calmly last night to him and said since his schedule at work changed he could finally get a test (we have been trying to get an appointment for a long time but his work always conflicted) and he got all ... (173 words)

I love this guy, but the death of a gf he loved, haunts him! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - My on/off boyfriend fell in love when he was 13 and was in a relationship for two years with this girl. While they were still going out he had to watch her die as she was hit by a bus. This has seriously screwed with his head as you can imagine. I met him a couple of years ... (188 words)

How do I get my wife to trust me again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

12 October 2006 (M) - My wife thinks i have had an affair, but i havnt. I work from 8.oo to 6.00 and spend weekends together with her and my daughters, nightimes we are also all together, so how can she think this. She says she doesnt trust me anymore ever since i told a lie about not being at my ... (109 words)

He cheated with his ex, but I gave him a 2nd chance. But now he's left me! What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6411 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - ok. So I was going out w/ my boyfriend for almost 5 months. And everything was going GREAT up until like 2 months ago when he cheated on me w/ his ex that he went out w/ for 6 1/2 years. He came to me about it right away and was crying on the phone when he told me. And ... (356 words)

My coworker is moving to another section..should I tell him how I truely feel before he goes?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - I have wrote to this site before for advice, and all the help received was really appreciated. However due to my nerves of the fear of rejection I have not acted on any of the advice given. My problem is I have fallen for one of my co -workers, keeping this feelings in is now ... (141 words)

We've been dating for 3 months but I want to end it. What's the best way to do this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6416 days ago

12 October 2006 (M) - hey people, i have been going out with this girl for about 3 months, we were very good mates before the relationship, but its just not working out. she is very sensitive, and im worried im going to ruin my friendship with her if i break up with her. i just really want her ... (99 words)

When someone does something nasty to me I end up thinking it's my fault!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

12 October 2006 (F)

- I have a problem I never seem to be completely happy and whem somebody does something nasty to me, specially men I try to justify it and end up thinking it's my fault I feel nervous many times and I don't feel confortable with some of my friends as they were nasty to me in the ... (115 words)

I neglected her while I was working alot so I cut down and now she is neglecting me....what can I do???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6358 days ago

12 October 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend have been together for 8 and a bit years of which we have been engaged for 7 and 10 months. We have always loved each other so very much. We still laugh at each others jokes and have fun. Even say the same things at the same time, we think that alike. We ... (1560 words)

It was his idea to stay friends so why isn't he being a friend???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - After i had been going out with this guy called (P), mind you i was 19 an he was 29 yrs, he broke up with me but suggested about being friends. I said yes to that. Now after about 2 months, the past month or more he has been ignoring my txt messeages mostly and also my calls ... (104 words)

I'm wet so why don't I actually feel that horny???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5064 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - Sometimes when im having sex with my bf, although im wet down stairs, i dont really feel that horny. Why would i sometimes feel that way? ... (26 words)

We are growing apart but I don't want to let go...can this relationship actually work??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6418 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - i'm met my boyfriend 3 years ago when i was 17. Recently we have started to grow apart. Things have changed as we have got older and it has effected us more than we ever thought it would. We've both admittd that we have felt unhappy within the last few weeks but we don't want ... (85 words)

He Doesn't have time for me since he started new job and now all we seem to do is have sex!!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6418 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - Since my boyfriend has got his new job, plus on top of that working on some of the weekend to, he doesn't come around nowhere near as much as he use to which was just about every day til he got this new job.But the thing is now to me, that he can barely find the time to come ... (144 words)

Do men actually end a relationship now or do they just let it fizzle out until we get the message??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

12 October 2006 (F)

- Hi. I'm just interested to find out if my experiences are typical of relationships nowadays or if i've just been unlucky. I was married at 20 and had only ever had one boyfriend before so I've never done the dating thing. I am recently divorced and a few months ago start... (246 words)

How do I know if a guy isn't going to use me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - How do I know if a guy isn't going to use me? I'm a virgin (18) and I'll save you the whole male/daddy issues I've got, but practially I've been in several relationships where the guy has had to break up or I've broken up becuase I just can't trust them and the men can't seem ... (171 words)

Family divided, please help me. I feel like it is all my fault.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

12 October 2006 (M)

- My family has been torn apart and things get worse every day. I married a beautiful girl in 1998 and we had a daughter in 1999. We now have 3 children. Around this time, my sister (K) met her boyfriend (M). When they would argue, he would say things to her, eg, he fancies my ... (1307 words)

Not heard from my online guy in a few days. Do I forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6382 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - I met a guy of the internet impulsively after just talking twice.Got on really well, met at my house the second time and he knew I had my son with me.. My son was asleep and we ended up sleeping together, only for my boy to walk in (sleep walking, doesn't remember) a couple of ... (149 words)

My husband has told me that he no longer finds my body attractive since having our babies. Help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - My husband has told me that he no longer finds my body attractive since having our babies. Its not a weight issue or anything but about scars and sagging that the dr said cant be changed except with cosmetic surgery. I try everything I can to look nice , dressing it pretty ... (81 words)

Why does my man lose his erection? How can I help him keep up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6414 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, My new man seems to lose his hard-on before sex or during. Is there something I am doing wrong - perhaps I am not turning him on enough? I have never experienced this with a guy before. he is only in his 20's also so not affected by age. What do you think I c... (92 words)

I lost my virginity to a prostitute. Is this common?

This question has 125 answers - newest was posted 4638 days ago

12 October 2006 (M)

- I lost my virginity to a prostitute. Is this common?... (10 words)

I climax, but do not ejaculate sometimes. What is the problem?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

12 October 2006 (M) - I am 45 years old and have sex 4 - 5 times per week. My problem is that i do reach climax, but I do not ejaculate a few times.... (30 words)

Does my casual guy want more from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - hi. im 22 years old, and have a guy i've been seeing casually for sex for about 3 months now. hes begun to tell me he's told his best friend about me, and says its hard not to talk about me. he's constantly sending me mixed signals--he'll act jealous, and question whether i've ... (118 words)

The sex with us is all wrong!! Its affecting out relationship what can we do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

12 October 2006 (M) - Hi,im with my fiancee 14 months, we are both in our 30's and lately she does not want to get close and have sex as she cant feel me inside her. I have been suffering from impotency,but at times im ok. Went to my Doc and he prescribed me to use viagra and it has worked well for ... (463 words)

Dont know why im going limp right before sex, but Im only 17 what can I do!?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6419 days ago

12 October 2006 (M) - Ok... My situation is.. I've been with a couple women in the past couple weeks. I have had opportunities to have sex w/ both of them. The problem is .. While we are kissing n fooling around I become erect.. But after clothes start to shed, I stop becoming erect.. And when Im ... (136 words)

I feel like he doesn't love me for the person I am and just wants the concept of a girlfriend and a family.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6415 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - Ive been dating my boyfriend for just over 9 months. He was forced to move from New Zealand to Australia just over a year ago. He treats me so well, he cleans the house and tries to make an effort when i say im not happy with things. He is a mans man yet will melt for me. He ... (512 words)

How can I get the condfidence to find a nice girl, do they exist ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6419 days ago

12 October 2006 (M) - Now that I'm single again, I want to go out and meet new women, my problem is I get real nervous when trying to talk to them and sound like a complete idiot. I don't talk loud enough, stumble over words, etc. I always fear them saying NO or that they have a BF. I've always ... (189 words)

My fiancee doesnt care if we have sex or not! I do! What can I do about it before we marry ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6418 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - hi my fiance and i have a great relantionship but when it comes to sex he doesn't care if it happens or not. i've tried new things but nothing gets him going. i've told him how i feel and he just laughs it off and calls me a horn dog. what can i do before we get married?... (58 words)

Is he just playing me or is he genuinely confused!?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6417 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - Is he just playing games to intentionally hurt me? I Was in a relationship for 6 months with the love of my life, but we split up out of the blue because he was scared of falling in love with me and wanted to be single (even though it was him who persued me for the first 4 ... (266 words)

Why doesn't my bf feel anything during sex with me? What can I do to help him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - WHY DOESNT MY BOYFRIEND FEEL ANYTHING DURING SEX? I have had sex with my boyfriend and my bf is above average in length and girth...I finish at the least 15-20 times before he even gets done. He has to masturbate to finish and i asked him why he takes so long.... He says... (73 words)

What are her intentions for a relationship with me? Is she on the up and up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6419 days ago

12 October 2006 (M) - i'm confused by my friends intentions. coming up here soon in december, this girl and i are graduating from college. we have every opportunity to go anywhere we want, and she's got it set that she wants me to go with her wherever we decide. We've discussed it, looked at ... (233 words)

My bf works soo hard at his father's business and it's affecting our relationship! Can we save our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6418 days ago

12 October 2006 (F) - Me and boyfriend who are a young couple are coming up to our 2year anniversary. We live together and have done so for the last year although when I first met him he was a full time cricketer which I really liked as he was very carefree, had alot of time on his hands which ... (427 words)

I love her, even though she doesnt treat me right anymore, but she does say she loves me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4239 days ago

12 October 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been together for about 10 months now. We obviously started out great and this lasted for a few months, but over the last few months she has become more and more distant. We have a long-distance relationship (1 hr. drive) so we see each other on the ... (1002 words)