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writes: Dear Cupid, My new man seems to lose his hard-on before sex or during. Is there something I am doing wrong - perhaps I am not turning him on enough? I have never experienced this with a guy before. he is only in his 20's also so not affected by age.What do you think I could do to hwlp keep him up??I don't want to say anything just yet, as I feel this may make it worse.x
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reader, TheActor +, writes (16 October 2006):
I've had this with an ex of mine, personally I think I just wasn't ready to have sex with her, so wasn't fully commited. Like they say the most important sex organ is the brain. Have a chat with him and make sure you're both fully ready for it and he doesn't have any doubts.
If this's not it, try finding a different position/style that will turn him on more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2006): Talk to him about it. It's most likely stress, or other things he's thinking about that are taking his mind away from what's going on. I think that Viagra should be a final solution. If it continues he should talk to a doctor, but don't jump to medicate the problem right away. That could freak him out too.
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (13 October 2006):
 well maybe he stresed from something maybe work?! what you can do to help! umm maybe if you know his fantasy's then performing it 4 him, or maybe asking him what hell like you to do sexually, thats not mentioning anything about the situation really. then if its not to weird do it for him, but i have been told that men get really turned on when sex toys are involved or kinky under wear, for exampel instaed of jumping straight to it turning him on by doing different things, walking half naked round the house, and bit odd touching your self in front of him,or wearing a sexy out fit e.g nurses outfit or maids,also try bondage you know tieing him to the bed,blind folding him and takeing controll,try watching a porn movie to pick up clues on what turns men on! its rather any of them or as nasty as it sounds slip a viagra in his water or sopmething
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reader, Katylouise +, writes (12 October 2006):
I dont think its you, he could be nervous which sometimes interferes, i know you said you dont think there could be anything wrong due to his age but maybe the doctor could prescribe viagra which could make his erection last longer.
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