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writes: My friendship with a friend is not good anymore and she broke up with her boyfriend a few months ago due to he couldn't commit. However I have found out that a good friend of hers knows he actually cheated. They are now getting back together but I have heard the good friend is never going to tell the secret of him cheating what do I do she is going into a relationship not knowing the full truth
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2006): I am the only one on here that is going to tell you to keep your mouth shut. It is none of your business. Be there for your friend if she needs a shoulder to cry on but stay out of her personal life. Besides you heard this from someone else, how do you know it is true? Oh I forgot it was another "good" friend. How stupid of me. That friend should have kept his/her mouth shut to.
People screw up, it is human nature to do so. Maybe this was a one time thing and he realized what a mistake it was not to have this girl in his life. You don't know what is going on in this relationship and she may have these suspicions already since this man has a problem committing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2006): yes, i agree with the answer above. You know he has cheated in the pat so she needs to be aware of this, but you need to tell her in a way that she does not feel that you are only telling her that because you are jealous.As long as you help her to see that you are only telling her for her own good, she will only have herself to blame if things go wrong.
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reader, Love Rockx my Sockx +, writes (12 October 2006):
Okay so maybe things are not as good between you and your mate but you have a decent heart otherwise you wouldn't be asking us for help!
Yes i think ure gut instinct is telling the truth: you MUST tell her but be as patient and as calm as possible. Do not patronise her in any way as she would probably run in the opposite direction and into his arms. Who knows if he has changed his own ways or not? But she should know what she may be getting into and then from there she should be intelligent enough to make the right decision.
The other friend who is choosing to keep it all a secret isnt wrong either as they're tring to stay out of it as it isn't their problem ( as they see it...)but follow your heart :)
Xx Good Luck xX p.s. any further problems : JUST ASK!
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