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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I'm afraid to get married again, I've been there twice. What do you think?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6404 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - I am 48 years old, divorced twice, single since 1990. I have been dating a man for 13 years now, I fell deeply in love with this man from early in the relationship. He is divorced after a 28 year marriage. He and I get along great together and talk and work things out together. ... (182 words)

Boyfriend really upsets me with his teasing. Am I taking this too seriously?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5492 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - I’ve always been led to believe that teasing is one of the ways a guy will show you he likes you, but tonight my boyfriend was teasing me so much I almost ended up in tears. I would have called it borderline bullying. I have been feeling a little under the weather so I may be ... (557 words)

How can you get over somebody who you still want so badly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - How can I get over a guy that I love? We started dating, then we broke up as he began to ignore me. He then got back in contact, i did as much as i knew to see if he was serious about trying again and so we started seeing each other again. He says he wants me, but his acti... (239 words)

Does a tongue stud give more pleasure whilst performing fellatio?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4750 days ago

10 October 2006 (M) - Dear all It is a simple question but causing my girlfriend and I some heated discussion.It is the query on whether a tongue stud gives more pleasure when doing fellatio.My girlfriend don't have one and I am not particular keen on her having it because I feel what she is doin... (90 words)

He seems to try to make me jealous. Is he gay? Why is he like this and what can I do about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - I have known this 22 yr old guy on and off all his life, but we became close 10 months ago whilst he was going through a really painful break up with his ex of 5 years (she lied and cheated on him) and we became bf and gf 4 weeks ago after he had been pursuing me for 2 months. ... (1008 words)

How can I make losing my virginity less painful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5940 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - I am 15 and I am still a virgin I no it is against the law to have sex before you are 16 but my 2 best mates are having sex and have been since I have known them I think I am ready to have sex but I carnt help but keep thinking it is going to really hurt! What can I do to make ... (89 words)

What shall I do? Is it possible to love two people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - I am married and have been for nearly 5 years. I am 24 and my husband is 28. I met a 20 year old man a year and a half ago who i have fallen head over heels with. The problem is I dont have to guts to leave my husband for him. I want to but I love them both. From one day to the ... (138 words)

My guy has started to act really odd and unfriendly, but he says I am just being paranoid!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6406 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - im seeing this lad eveything was great then he suddenly just went cold on me! just started been odd and unfriendly! and i kept asking him and he said he was been fine it was me just been paranoid but i havnt changed, any advice would help... (47 words)

Do we stay together for the kids or should I just pack this in?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - I am 39, have 3 children under 10, one from a previous marriage. I live with my partner and he is the most ignorant person I have ever met. I got pregnant 10 months afte meeting him and I didn't think it was fair to freeze him out of our lives, so I stayed. We had another ... (297 words)

I'm confused... he swears he isnt gay or bi, do you think he is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - hi, ok so iv been with my bf for nearly 5months, nearly 3months in to our relationship, his best mate told me tht my bf had asked him out the day i asked him out and when i asked him out he told his mate it wouldnt work between them and then said yes 2me, my bf convinced me it ... (195 words)

I dont want to constantly nag, but I am afraid of being hurt. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - i recently had loads of problems with a guy that i was seeing due to him being jealous constantly and calling me - we argued everyday and he kept saying its not working but we still worked on it - now i realise that i love him and we decided to get together after 13 years but ... (141 words)

15 year old guy, but I want to be a girl. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (M) - I am a 15 year old teen that wants to be a girl but im not gay. What should i do?... (21 words)

Any experiences with Viagra, Cialis or Levitra?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4169 days ago

10 October 2006 (M)

- Just curious if anyone has experience of using drugs such as viagra, cialis or levitra to improve their erections or length of time they last in the sack? How did it work? What side effects? Was it worth it? Did your partner notice? Would you do it again?... (51 words)

What does anal sex feel like?

This question has 57 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - Is anal sex sore? What does it feel like? Any tips... (11 words)

After losing my virginity, I am still sore. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F)

- I lost my virginity to my boyfriend 2 days ago, but it still hurts down there is this normal and next time we have sex is there a way we can make it hurt less? help please!... (37 words)

How can you accept another mans child without feeling jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

10 October 2006 (F)

- Does anyone find it hard to accept another mans child? How do you accept them without feeling jealousy?... (18 words)

Is it okay to date a someone 8 years older than you?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6395 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - is it okay to date a someone 8 years older than you?... (12 words)

I like him more than a good friend...do I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - I have a friend that ive known for about 5 years. Ever since Ive met him Ive felt something for him however within the last 6 months these feelings have recently started getting stronger. However he isnt a very close friend - but I value his friendship soo much - (Im prett... (123 words)

I can't understand why he is mad at me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - i went out with the guy for two weeks that i met in the night bar.we went out to the night club in a week and then movies the next day.then we went out two more times and the last time we were out he got jelous as i just talked to a guy so he went and talked to some girls.we ... (181 words)

My bf said he is not going to pay for our wedding, although he paid for his previous one.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

10 October 2006 (F)

- My boyfrend of 8 years said he aint going to pay for another wedding when he paid for his last one how would that make you feel as a have a child with him he did give mr flowers to say sorry but its upset me ... (46 words)

The masturbation equation

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6404 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - Ladies. do all women masturbate and do you like it when men masturbate?... (13 words)

I am currently in a great relationship, but she found out I recently sent emails to my ex because I harbour feelings of guilt.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, I was in a relationship for 7 years and it bacame abusive and destructive during the last few years of that relationship. I became very guilty about how I let down her young children by not staying.But i couldnt stay..It was no good no more..I am currentl... (192 words)

Does this girl fancy me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

10 October 2006 (M) - This girl likes me and she keeps trying to phone me. She keeps saying to everyone how sexy I am! Does she fancy me?... (30 words)

How can I give him a hand job? His foreskin does't retract.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - i want to give my boyfriend a handjob but the only thing is that he cannot retract his foreskin. he says he can still feel sensations and ejaculate. how should i give him the handjob? he has seeked medical advice and been told that he should be fine with this problem.... (51 words)

Why do I find it so difficult to approach girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6403 days ago

10 October 2006 (M)

- Im 28, and only ever had 1 girlfriend in my life and that was 5 years ago! I'm really starting to get depressed and embarrassed about the situation and feel under pressure to get a girlfriend because I find it so difficult to aproach girls as it has been so long. Can anyone ... (59 words)

Can anyone tell me how to gain muscle mass without taking protein supplements?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

10 October 2006 (M) - Hi! i'm 16 and work out 3 times per week can anyone tell me how to gain muscle mass without taking protein supplements? i take high protein foods and have no results in my 12 inch arms.... (41 words)

Where is my long distance relationship heading?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6406 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid I have been contact with a guy going on for almost a year now. We started off writting on the internet and finally met about 7 month ago. we instantly like each other and have kept in touch for most of this time. dates, birthdays, activies. He works out of... (231 words)

His ex gf says she wants him back! He doesn't know what to do. Should I leave or hang in there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - My bf is in a dilemma he went to meet his ex to clear the misunderstandings now she says she will die if he leaves her.he dont know what to do.as far as iam concerned i dont think i cant think of anyone other than him should i leave him to decide alone?... (53 words)

Why are the only blokes I like either older or married?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - Ok my problem is that every bloke i like or even get on with is married. For the past two years up until june i was seeing a married guy who was 12 years older than me (i'm 22), we got on so well, we also fell in love but i ended because it definatly wasnt right.Then I then met ... (143 words)

I like this guy...shall I go for it and ask him out or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - My friend recently told this guy I like, that I liked him...and first of all I think he was ignoring me. But then he said hi to me and asked my other friend if it was true and then went all quiet...but I slept with a mirror under my pillow (apparently it makes you dream of your ... (79 words)

I have fallen for my boyfriends uncle. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for about 10 months and when i first met his uncle i liked him but have recently jus bin on holiday with them and his uncle came on to me i really really like his uncle but hes married, 30 and has 3 kids i dont know what to do all i think about his ... (61 words)

I think she likes me. Are there any obvious signs I should look for?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - I think female friend has a thing for me but how I can tell? I'm a chic and fancy women so would be able to tell when she is flirting and when she isn't but I can't be sure. I don't want to ask her and sound a complete idiot, so how can I tell? Is there any obvious signs to ... (66 words)

I have feelings for my cousins girlfriend. Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5982 days ago

10 October 2006 (M) - Here's one for you... 6 months ago i was introduced to my cousin's girlfriend, no big deal. coincidentally, i started work at the same place as her, we quickly became friends, sharing all the same geeky interests like computer games. My cousin joined the army, and only... (186 words)

What is True Love

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - My question is short but complex...What is True Love? How do you know you've found it? ... (20 words)

Is it possible for opposites to attract?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - hello all i want your ideas, me and my boyfriend have too many differences, different religons, different likes,different ideas on life, we hardly spend time together although were in the same house living together, my question is isn it possible for a relationship like ours to ... (70 words)

What attracts guys to girls?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - I know this sounds really random and all but what to males find attractive in females? I consider myslef to have a reasonable figure ( I have an average BMI for my height)I'm hygeinic, Intelligent and think myslef to have a pretty good personality (Oh yeah and i'm tall with ... (155 words)

I am 17 and in love with a boy who is almost 14. Is this wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6404 days ago

10 October 2006 (F)

- I'm 17 years old and im totally in love with a 13-soon-to-be 14 yr old boy, who says he loves me back too. At first, we knew that we wouldn't be able to go out cos of my age, but a couple days ago, we decided to try going out, but keepin it all low-key. my mum knows about us ... (101 words)

Got turned on watching two dogs making out. Am I zoophile?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - Felt kinda horny when i saw two dogs making out in a local park. Does this make me a zoophile? :S... (21 words)

I cheated on her several times but now, she's done it to me..with my best friend!! What should I do??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6405 days ago

10 October 2006 (M) - I am having a problem right now with my wife. I have cheated on her several times before but now that she has done it to me, I don't know how to deal with it. She had an affair with my best friend. Please advice on what to do? Thanks ... (59 words)

Our babyis to be born in March and he left me with no explanantion! What do I do now??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - my partner has just left me with no explanation we had a fall out but usually make up but this time he would not speak to me and avoided coming home when i was in. we are exprcting a baby in march and he wont speak to me or contact me not even about our baby i have moved back ... (148 words)

Does anybody know about being a military wife??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6405 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - Does anybody know about being a military wife??... (8 words)

When is the best time to get pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - is there a certain time of the month you can pregnant?or things you can do to help?... (17 words)

Have I made the right decision in staying with my husband and remaining loyal? I cannot get my true love out of my head.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6401 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - I have been married for 11 years to my husband N and have two kids aged 6 and 10. My husband and I had a communication breakdown some time ago and I felt very alone and isolated by him and our sex life was for some years practically non existant. Then a friend bumped into an ex ... (475 words)

What should I do about Kate? Me and her ex both want her.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (M) - Hi, i have a slight problem well there's a girl i like called Kate she's reeli nice and pleasent to talk to and i got her number the other day and we've text each other a couple of times and she's like the ebst friend of my ex gf's cousin but my ex is fine about it all. ho... (228 words)

Why can't I find a boyfriend? Maybe I should try girls instead.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6404 days ago

10 October 2006 (F)

- Hi eveyone. I've got a bit of a problem. Well I'm 18 and I've NEVER had a boyfriend. However, I am not a virgin. I have only been with 4 guys since losing my virginity last year. The guys I have been with have not been my boyfriends. As I said before I have never had one. I ... (377 words)

How can I learn to relax with my new man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5350 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - I am finding it very hard to relax in the new relationship I am having. About 3 months ago I split with my long term boyfriend of 3 1/2 years for good as we definitely were not right and it had been this way for some time. I am 25. I met someone new and have been seeing... (198 words)

How do I secure my finances prior to divirce?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6406 days ago

10 October 2006 (F)

- My question is about what happens in a situation where a couple are not yet divorced, but have come to a decision re the finances. My husband gave me a deposit for a house 2 years ago as our marriage broke down. I left him and needed somewhere else to live. He owns the fami... (406 words)

How do I regain the spark in my relationship with my partner?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6402 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - How do i regain the spark in my relationship with my partner? I love him heaps, We are getting married soon! I never want to have sex with him i always put it of.... (34 words)

Should I act on my husband's fantasy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (M) - My 62 year old husband has had more and more problems lately getting and maintaining an erection, and now has to resort to looking at dirty magazines and films whilst we make love. He says it's the only way he can stay erect, but the books and films always involve teenage ... (106 words)

Girlfriend is on the pill and wants me to stop using condoms. I am worried that she might get pregnant.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6391 days ago

10 October 2006 (M) - Myself and my girlfriend have been having sex for the past 4 months or so. However recently my girlfriend has suggested that we don't use condoms and we just rely on the pill which she has always taken and has taken for the past 5 months. While not using extra protection is ... (134 words)

Can somebody give me some 'turn on tips' for my new man?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - Would like some input here please. What can a woman do to turn on and impress a man in the bedroom? I am with a new guy and would like some tips please, perhaps from the guys out there - what is it you like? Thanks x... (52 words)

My boyfriend is best friends with his ex. I can't handle it. I want to be with him, but I just don't trust him with her.

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - I am a 25 year old female and currently dating a 26 year old man. I care about him very much and we get along very well. The main problem is that he is best-friends with his ex-girlfriend. Although they broke up a year ago, they were intimate right before he and I got tog... (250 words)

In love with a woman, but we both have partners and a child each. Please help me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (M) - I have fell for a women who I met a few months ago but there is a huge problem, We both have partners and one child each. Recently we started to get together secretly and have had a kiss and cuddle but I know it may soon lead to more. I almost pine for her every minute that im ... (165 words)

I want to be able to enjoy being in love, in a healthy realtionship. Yet I carry a very heavy burden. HELP!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - Novella: I am in QUITE a pickle. I never thought I'd be in such a horrible mess, ever. I really need help but my situation is a long term mess that's diffcult and long winded to explain. I had dated a boy for 8 years in my 20's. We lived together, fighting often in a ve... (1053 words)

I am getting confusing signals. Is he serious about me or is he playing head games?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5828 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - i am getting confusing signals from i guy i like.he knows i like him but he hasent told me if he likes me.here are some of the things he said and done.1.he is always touching my bottom.2.he makes a lot of eye contact.3.i have caught him staring at me.4.he asked if we whrn out ... (220 words)

Do I just let him go or do I remain his friend and try to be there for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost three years. I met him when I was in Boone where I went to college and I got a good job so I decided to move there after I graduated in May. Things were amazing between us, except he complained about his job a lot. He is still ... (408 words)

I am sleeping with my exes best friend, she has a boyfriend but we are really into each other.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6408 days ago

10 October 2006 (M) - I have a child with my ex girl friend.. but I slept with her best friend who is like a sister to her, shes also in a relationship with her bf but she says she gonna end it soon. we've slept together more than once, we're really into each other and some time I even leave my apt ... (70 words)

I really like this guy, but he smokes. It's like kissing an ashtray. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - well hi can someone help me!well i like my best friend,laci's,cousin and he is my friend to.but he asked me if i wanted a cigerette and i said no cuz i know thats wrong(hes only 11 and i'm 12)but i really do like him and i want him to stop but i want to keep him as a friend cuz ... (91 words)

BF has received oral from other girls. Should I give him a second chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6386 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - I need some serious advice--I apologize if this is long. Background info: I have been in a relationship for 6 years. We met as undergraduates and spent a little over a year together before I was accepted to graduate school across the country. I suggested we break up and see ... (419 words)

Is it safe to keep secrets in a long term relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - is it safe to keep secrets in a long term relationship? is okay to spy on ur man to make sure he is up to no good? or will it make him try to hide secrets even more, or be more sneaky? or should i just trust him and let my feelings be?... (55 words)

How can I keep things exciting in the bedroom?

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10 October 2006 (F) - how does a women keep things exciting in the bedroom after being together for so long. sex is great and always has been, but i find that i want sex less often. im totally attracted him in everyway, so i dont know whats wrong with me. fyi we have done a lot in and out of the b... (84 words)

This man is a predator and I want to make him pay. Please advise!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6407 days ago

10 October 2006 (F) - I really need help. Recently my cousin told me that she thinks someone she works with is getting engaged to my ex. I felt really awful when she brought him up because I didn't care to know about him! I was 19 when I emt him and he was 26...he took advanatge of me and verbally ... (338 words)