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writes: I have wrote to this site before for advice, and all the help received was really appreciated. However due to my nerves of the fear of rejection I have not acted on any of the advice given. My problem is I have fallen for one of my co -workers, keeping this feelings in is now making my stressed at work and a misery to be around. I am terrifed of telling him how I feel and being rejected, however I have just found out that I will be moving sections so we will not be working so closely together. Therefore should I confess all or should I keep my mouth shut. I know he will never make the first move and from his behaviour I am pretty sure he likes me well he is at least attracted to me. Please advise.
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reader, anon2907  +, writes (12 October 2006):
 hey,
I guess the question is 'what's the worst that will happen?' If he's moving to another section you won't see him that much anyway, even if he doesn't feel the same - right?
And if he does - well then you'll be happy as larry!
Maybe test the water a bit before confessing all. Or think about being subtle about things - tell him you'll miss him being around once he moves sections. Ask him why he's moving sections at all - that might give you a clue about things. Or ask him to go out for a 'leaving drink'. OK it's just the section he's leaving, but if he's interested in you he'll probably think it's a great idea!
Good luck!
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reader, DearCupid  +, writes (12 October 2006):
 Feel the fear... and do it anyway. You have nothing to loose and everything to gain.
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