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writes: I met a guy of the internet impulsively after just talking twice.Got on really well, met at my house the second time and he knew I had my son with me.. My son was asleep and we ended up sleeping together, only for my boy to walk in (sleep walking, doesn't remember) a couple of other funny embarassing disaters happened as well but this guy left quite quickly.. He is bad at communicating..mobile never on, never calls only emails if I do first.. Really like this guy but not heard anything from him since, has read my emails but not replied yet away on business for a couple of days.. What do I do..forget him or carrying on trying..don't know what he wants from me how do I ask him? I am now 36yrs and too old for games am I right to want to know this so soon.
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reader, Cupid243 +, writes (17 November 2006):
You need to move on. He only wanted you for sex and you conveniently and happily gave it to him. With your son in the next room no doubt. He's probably married anyway which is why he doesn't call you or talk to you. Clearly, he doesn't want you. You were used and it's your fault. Move on and next time, don't sleep with a guy that you don't know. If he truly wants to be with you, he will wait. And he will DATE you. You had a brief sexship not a relationship. That's two different things.
Good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2006): Move on.
This fella seems like he wasn't after much but sex and if this is the case then he is a waste of your time and you and your son deserve better.
If you really want to you can send him another email or try getting in contact with him again and tell him that you're too old for games, find out where he stands if you really like and then make peace with it.
But it really does sound like, from what you've said, that he's just interested in scoring, you are worth better, much better.
Do the right thing for yourself and your son.
GOOD LUCK*
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